FRANCISTOWN:
I agree.
Whao! Interesting.

Go chop your warmed eba quietly.

changing what i wrote is immature of you dumbhead

Mr. Francistown, I'm lucky to have you on NL.

FRANCISTOWN:


Wait bro! I can't remember mentioning you on my thread.

If my opinion didn't sit well with you. Do yourself the honour of seeing yourself out.

I don already dey vex. I no wan insult anybody today.

You quoted me first bruh, I never quoted you initially.

It's your thread bruh, yes, and you made no name mentioning. Buhh the moment you chose to make your opinions public, was the moment you threw your thread open either to approvals or criticisms from all viewers.

It's not a matter of being peeved or cantankerous. It's about being cool headed and open minded, with concomitant factualness in retaliation.

FRANCISTOWN

you are a mæd man masquerading as a real nigga

I read the first few paragraphs and was disgusted.

You said you don't follow the redpill or any other pill at all, yet your posts reek of bluepill psychology and that's even worse.

He who does not know and does know that he does not know, yet claiming to know that he does know, is a werey.

Luminouz2024

PinkNature:
Mr. Francistown, I'm lucky to have you on NL.

Begger don drop quote!!!

You are a thief, taking 6500 meant for widows...shame on your black ass

luminouz:

Begger don drop quote!!!

You are a thief, taking 6500 meant for widows...shame on your black ass

Lumi baba descending low.

Mr francistown you know sey you be one of my correct manchis on this forum.

What you wrote up there is nothing but the harsh reality. I won't advice my blood sister to choose an obviously poor man over a wealthy man.

I just beg to differ on one of your statement which goes like this;"That's why i don't follow redpilllers..."

Redpilllers are just folks trying to live through the harsh reality of life instead of wallowing in delusions.

Redpill means harsh truth. Your post contains lots of harsh truths which also makes you a "redpiller".

I noticed a bit of condescending tone when you mentioned redpilllers that was why i called your attention to it. I'm a redpiller as well.

Although some self-acclaimed "redpilllers" are still living in their delusions they believe is the "truth".

FRANCISTOWN:
https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

No. Men are not stupid. You are stupid. Very stupid. You reduce women to slavery. You say that women are actually just selling themselves for money. In other words, you are saying that all women are actually prostitutes. If that's already the case. If that's how you see yourself. Come and entertain me. I will do whatever I want with you.

They were all crying on that thread, but if a man did what he did, they would have said he went for ' who gave him peace'

The white man might not even be rich, but his skin color serves as his leverage.

Carcholce:



What if you tell your daughter the same thing, You should not be held responsible if anything bad happens to her when she’s hunting for the big pockets and sacrificing her sacred body that you spent years raising and nurturing?

There is nothing wrong in hunting for a big pocket. As long as having a big pocket isn't his only QUALIFIER. That's how women get burned.

Carcholce:
OP, I support you 100 percent.

If you are a lady and your boyfriend is broke and you meet “a man that offers you 1m for sex” and you reject it, you are senseless.

After 1m for sex, another man offers 1.1m for sex, another 1.2 m for sex another 1.3m for sex, another 1.5m for sex no be ashawo kobokobo she don turn to?

ReacherSaidNoth:
An excessive love of money makes people lose their morality and pushes them into low behavior, it is not a trait any right thinking person will champion.

Its not a love of money that this one is suffering from..this one is suffering from self hate...

I am a big advocate in the notion of selfishness and firmly believe most people are selfish albeit will deny if confronted with the fact. I am a man of this world who like to be pragmatic and enjoy the best the world has to offer.

Selfishness has been a thing before I was born and will continue even after I am gone. In this regard, I would say I may be partly in agreement with op.

I also believe life and relationships should be mostly transactional, not just for a romantic relationship.

In every engagement i find myself with people, I have learned to effectively negotiate for myself and to ask the crucial question, what's in it for me"?

I also like to hold the power dynamic in ever relationship and and be be at least two steps ahead all the time . It is my duty to watch out for my own interests and you for yours and, only relax this rule when dealing with immediate family members. For me, selfishness is a deliberate and learned behaviour.

Now, going further down op's rabbit hole of infantile ramblings, I can see lots of fallacies and would like to address one or two below:

1. The erroneous assumption women are only after money in a relationship, exclusively. While this may ring true for some ladies, nothing could be father from the truth for the most ladies and I have real life experience of this.

Most ladies want relative comfort absent of lack and not always hunting for the next rich guy. Some ladies value maturity, dependability and a host of other qualities coupled with a certain level of relative comfort. If you notice, I am very careful with my choice of words and have carefully chosen the words " relative comfort", meaning I want n talking of absolutes here. Ok, time to move on,

2. OP assumed a man should not marry but rather get a maid. How totally laughable this notion is. Why would I need a maid when I can clean my own house myself if I want to.

3. OP claimed men's romantic interests should on be restricted to ladies/women in the immediate family, is op advocating for incestous relationships? Is he in love with his sister or cousin?

I can go on but it is safe to say over 70% of the write up is the rambling of a writer with an emotional maturity of a 19 year old and, I would not have taken him seriously if he were only giving expressing personal opinion which everyone is entitled, but passing off his unfounded opinions as facts, I am an forced to respond.

I think somewhere in the past, our op has been burned by a lady in a romantic relationship and now, he is angry and lashing out. I also suspect he might not have been exposed to motherly love growing up or might have been raised in a single parent household hence the misunderstanding of the role and functions of marriage and romantic relationships.

Contrary to OP's belief, men and women still have happy romantic relationships and marriages. Romantic relationship is sweet, thrilling and satisfying. My parent had the most romantic relationships, I have had tons of thrilling romantic relationships with gorgeous ladies and still friends with lots of my ex's till date.

I can go on but I think I have to go take a hot shower and head for bed.

Badmashiii:
Mr francistown you know sey you be one of my correct manchis on this forum.

What you wrote up there is nothing but the harsh reality. I won't advice my blood sister to choose an obviously poor man over a wealthy man.

I just beg to differ on one of your statement which goes like this;"That's why i don't follow redpilllers..."

Redpilllers are just folks trying to live through the harsh reality of life instead of wallowing in delusions.

Redpill means harsh truth. Your post contains lots of harsh truths which also makes you a "redpiller".

I noticed a bit of condescending tone when you mentioned redpilllers that was why i called your attention to it. I'm a redpiller as well.

Although some self-acclaimed "redpilllers" are still living in their delusions they believe is the "truth".

To me, I think the redpill is still a lil weak.

No 1. Redpill focuses much more on getting sex from women thru game.
Now here is the trick.

If a man focused on getting sex. Whether he likes it or not, he must focus on women. Why? A man cannot give himself sex, he must still get it from a woman.
You can't get an egg without the hen. It's impossible.

In the process of trying to game women. Redpill places lots of attention on women. It is a reverse psychology thing. Like saying you hate someone and do not care about them, but you are constantly checking their snap, IG and whatsApp stories. It's called obsession.

The redpill is obsessed with women, and gives them unworthy attention.

2. Redpill doesn't tell men the whole truth. In this world we live in. Money makes the world go round. As a matter of fact, you need money to be friends with your own friends. You need money to be a member of your extended family.

Now what makes anyone think you won't ever need money to get the best girls?
You could be Beyonce's spec, so bad that she could be willing to give you her lover. But if you're not rich, your paths can't even cross for her to manifest her likeness on you. Now who is losing out?
So money places you at where better opportunities can find you. Not some hungry iPhone 13 girls who have not eaten for 5days.

I'm not saying you should give money to women, but I'm saying you need that money, to attain a level where a woman will sleep with you even without spending a dime. Some women will open their legs for you by seeing just the kind of ride you drive. And you don't even need to pay them.

Instead of the redpill to emphasize the importance of making money, for one'self and for one's relatives. Redpill makes men complacent and comfortable by telling them game is all they need to have sex with a woman. Whereas game will never get you some kinds of women in this life.

3. Redpill teaches game. Game is a waste of time.
Imagine a broke man who spends his energy studying how to get a girl to sleep with him?
Does that make sense? That's a misplaced priority. A broke man is not even supposed to think about game. He should think about how to defeat poverty. If sex came to him without stress, he should take it and bounce. But he shouldn't make it something worthy of study.

When I said I do not follow the redpill. I didn't mean all redpill nuggets.But think about it. Look at this forum, I mean NL. All the redpill movement only talks about how to get a woman, sex, cheating and fantasy. There is no single redpill thread about how to make money, how to encourage young ones who are confused and clueless about what to make out of their lives, how to rise after failing, life experiences.
It's always about women, and how to get cheap sex.


We need to understand the harsh reality of life that money answers to all things.

I already prepared a thread about this. I'll post it before the end of business today.

But think about it. Are women really worth the amount of time that the redpill allocates them?

luminouz:
FRANCISTOWN

you are a mæd man masquerading as a real nigga

I read the first few paragraphs and was disgusted.

You said you don't follow the redpill or any other pill at all, yet your posts reek of bluepill psychology and that's even worse.

He who does not know and does know that he does not know, yet claiming to know that he does know, is a werey.

Luminouz2024

Steeze bro.

goran3310:
No. Men are not stupid. My generations are stupid. Very stupid. You reduce women to slavery. You say that women are actually just selling themselves for money. In other words, you are saying that all women are actually prostitutes. If that's already the case. If that's how you see yourself. Come and entertain me. I will do whatever I want with you.

I see.

Sapasenator:


1. The erroneous assumption women are only after money in a relationship, exclusively. While this may ring true for some ladies, nothing could be father from the truth for the most ladies and I have real life experience of this.

You lack comprehensive skills. I never said women only go for money. I said women should only be after money in a relationship.

Sapasenator:

2. OP assumed a man should not marry but rather get a maid. How totally laughable this notion is. Why would I need a maid when I can clean my own house myself if I want to.

I wasn't referring to people who are living in a face me I slap you selfcon.

Sapasenator:

3. OP claimed men's romantic interests should on be restricted to ladies/women in the immediate family, is op advocating for incestous relationships? Is he in love with his sister or cousin?

The only love that exists in your life is always sexual. Your upbringing is not my fault.

Sapasenator:

I can go on but it is safe to say over 70% of the write up is the rambling of a writer with an emotional maturity of a 19 year old

Exactly! What stupid and weak people use to comfort themselves. They say they are mature😂😂

Sapasenator:

I think somewhere in the past, our op has been burned by a lady in a romantic relationship and now, he is angry and lashing out.

My reality is different from what you think. People are allowed to think useless things.

Sapasenator:

I also suspect he might not have been exposed to motherly love growing up or might have been raised in a single parent household hence the misunderstanding of the role and functions of marriage and romantic relationships.

I wonder how it's comfortable for some of you to just wake early in the morning and be stupid. So motherly love is tantamount to the love you get from some random woman. Ha! Nawa for you o. For comparing your mother's love with some love you get from hos.

Sapasenator:

Contrary to OP's belief, men and women still have happy romantic relationships and marriages. Romantic relationship is sweet, thrilling and satisfying.

I feel like throwing up. Ew! See the way a grown ass man is acting like a teenager.

Sapasenator:

My parent had the most romantic relationships, I have had tons of thrilling romantic relationships with gorgeous ladies and still friends with lots of my ex's till date.

I can go on but I think I have to go take a hot shower and head for bed.

No wonder. I'm sorry for engaging you.

Carcholce:
OP, I support you 100 percent.

If you are a lady and your boyfriend is broke and you meet “a man that offers you 1m for sex” and you reject it, you are senseless.

The only problem if she keeps it away from me. Just tell me and if you truly love me I you should be able to give me 60% and we cool. I mean if someone offer my fiancé money or opportunity for sex as your boyfriend tell me let's talk about it so it would not end up you got cheated on. Then when the benefit is worth the conditions then you go ahead and we will be cool. Because I can't be worth 10 million and allow you have sex for 500k or even 1 million. But if it's a CEO that wants to employ your boyfriend(me) for sex (let's know how many times of duration for offer consideration) with a pay of monthly income of 2-3 million and I'm jobless, my friend jump in bed unless you don't want to do it but don't tell me its because you love me you don't want to do it o

FRANCISTOWN:


I see.

Very low effort. You are only confirming the characteristics of a low-value person.

FRANCISTOWN:

My daughter can never have a survival problem. That's been well taken care of

Hahahahahaha..
Show us evidence of your successes.

I will show this topic to the new wife of my poor friend who just got married last month, so that she will divorce my friend and go for a very rich guy.




.
Nonsense Post

Uchesis:
I will show this topic to the new wife of my poor friend who just got married last month, so that she will divorce my friend and go for a very rich guy.

Nonsense Post

I know the kinds of women that can marry a poor man

FRANCISTOWN:
https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

u dont follow redpill but u explained like a redpiller

FRANCISTOWN:

My daughter can never have a survival problem. That's been well taken care of

prove this statement by sending me 2k 816362-3337 0pay.

abba190:
prove this statement by sending me 2k 816362-3337 0pay.

dude, have some self-dignity na.

abba190:
prove this statement by sending me 2k 816362-3337 0pay.

I owe you nothing to prove. Believe whatever your tiny head can comprehend.

Sapasenator:


dude, have some self-dignity na.

You are not a good person.

FRANCISTOWN:

You are not a good person.

What have I done bros. Everyone that has met me in person always have sweet things to say about me. I have changed the lives of lots of people. Even my girlfriends can attest that I am a very good person.

Sapasenator:


dude, have some self-dignity na.

sapa don wife my self-dignity

Sonnobax15:

Werey

Real werey

Some few sense dey the message...but na still werey

abba190:
sapa don wife my self-dignity

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Johnson225:
This is some blunt red pills tho. Funny enough. Most guys will find this post annoying when in reality if they were gal's themselves they won't settle for a broke guy.

Everyone is out for survival (especially if you from a struggling family).... It is what it is

Na wetin the op no know be this

Na still redpill ....but some blunt ones like U said