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Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by TheWinterBird(f): 10:25am On Jun 17 |
Hmmm, just driving by in my Cadillac... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Biglittlelois(f): 10:40am On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath: The bolded is the reason why Op created this thread, to start a gender war and insults on all Nigerian women while using his imaginary wife and family as a case study The usual stupidity of jobless guys on here. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Biglittlelois(f): 10:41am On Jun 17 |
Villa12: Waiting for Op's response to this!!! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Nelsondiego69: 10:45am On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:as a home worker, visit bet9ja shops from time to time and spend some little time there, and make sure to get some little things for the kids when you're coming and have money for it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Jozilinn: 11:22am On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:there's something you are not telling us, you sound too good said things like you're Christ,guy what are your bad flaws nobody is perfect,you think you too good for her, you feel like you are doing her a favour, do you allow communication in the marriage, your friends said you should take s dude chick imagine guy, do you feel your wife standard is beneath you like she wasn't your class,e get why ask your woman your fault nobody can hate anybody for a reason if she doesn't have a reason then you ask her to leave call your family,tell them you aren't interested but will be caring for your kids,then after an agreement... you maintain your self focus on your attitude,try to love yourself before anything another woman can come in a year because by then you probably would have figured out the issue exactly. Accept blames and learn to give room for communication, you no offend her but you hurriedly did the chores to please her so only you know wetin dey happen you understand . 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by ScotHarvath: 11:29am On Jun 17 |
Jozilinn: Tell me how I painted myself as Christ. Everything up there is the truth. How do you make someone your everything without express communication? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Villa12(m): 11:33am On Jun 17 |
Jozilinn:don't mind him. He came to seek advice from teenagers, single guys or from bitter men that their only joy is to see men divorcing their wives on a faceless forum. @scotHarvath I hope you get what you're looking for. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by gift2xl: 11:34am On Jun 17 |
Dude each time am opportune to give advice, i am careful not to break homes. First sir she is your wife.... have you sat her down or take her out and have a conversation with her. Most of our women don't know how to express themselves to their husbands, they assume that the husband mere looking at her should understand her body language and address it. Note... Not every woman's behavioury altitude is "she's receiving another dick outside her husband" you see how your little daughters behave when they need something or something is bothering them. Even when you asked them, what's the issue, are you ok... they mostly reply "NOTHING" but something is eating them up. Our wife's behaves same. Patience, tolerance, petting etc goes along way to settle issues. Be careful of the advice you get. Most men and women has lost their Good spouses because of wrong advice. Time reviews all dont be in a rush to decide, give it time and you will know if it's your errors that's fueling her anger or not. Peace!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Villa12(m): 11:34am On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:we don't judge without hearing from the other side. Even the dumbest person on planet earth don't judge without hearing from both parties. Invite your wife to this faceless forum to share her own views. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by ScotHarvath: 11:40am On Jun 17 |
Villa12: I don’t need your judgement, what you don’t understand is that is simple act of venting here has helped. I’d rather vent here faceless than talk to family and friends about my issues. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by 1Sharon(f): 11:44am On Jun 17 |
Propaganda topic! OP registered just today. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by BobbieZion(m): 11:44am On Jun 17 |
Accept your fault and move on.... You have your negative side too, so work on that. The worst thing a Man can be is to be nice...... Never ever do that. Don't ever go out of your way to please a coochie..... don't be naive. I have been there before, I learnt my bitter lesson. NB: Don't take advice from those b**ches. The only woman you should love is your Mom. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Justkatty(f): 11:51am On Jun 17 |
Pray for her Pamper her Increase upkeep money Spend more time with her Avoid using abusive words on her She'll definitely come back to you God see you through. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Solofresh2: 11:56am On Jun 17 |
cococandy:I already talked about what made him a woman I never said womanhood is attributed to loss of respect I never claimed to be a woman hater and I never said said being a woman means being a lesser human.Get your facts right. You are just making unverified assumptions |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Loisemm2(f): 11:59am On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:Let your current wife see that other version of you first. See, most women like good men but they only respect and truly love a man they perceive as strong and firm. Mature women who have seen and experienced life will know the worth of a good man but most ladies don't till they learn to. You need to become more firm with her. Don't tolerate nonsensical behaviour from her. Ignore her till thy kingdom come if she starts misbehaving. You can also choose not to mince words with her. Lay it all out with a very firm hard tone and face. Let her realise herself and choose a better path. Then let her know you won't continue to take mistreatment and foul words from her. Or there will be consequences. Not necessarily divorce. But don't tell her you can't do away with her if push comes to shove. If she really values you and her marriage, she will seek for ways to make amends. If she doesn't, its her loss. Even if she changes, love her very well but never become a door mat or an effeminate man again. Continue to be that strong firm disciplined man she knows she can't misbehave with. That man she knows loves her to the moon and back but won't take rubbish attitudes from her. This is the ideal man many women want and respect. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by ScotHarvath: 12:05pm On Jun 17 |
Loisemm2: Whoever you are, God bless you! Thank you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Diamond1605(f): 12:33pm On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:You know that not the truth, tell us the truth Mr good man Beating her gives you joy, TELL THEM THE TRUTH 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Diamond1605(f): 12:35pm On Jun 17 |
gift2xl: God bless you brother 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Diamond1605(f): 12:37pm On Jun 17 |
Villa12:He won’t be able to do that, so that he won’t get exposed. You sabi 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Knightred(m): 12:58pm On Jun 17 |
So you're cheating ??, why were you cheating?,now she hates u cause you're cheating,you now complain that she's cheating cause she caught you cheating IS CHEATING A MUST FOR YOU CHEATERS.SMH. ((CELEB HATE CHEATING)) »JH« 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Villa12(m): 1:04pm On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:you don't need my judgement but you brought your family matter to the public for bitter people to applaud you and teach you how to divorce or change towards your wife? Why then do you bring your wife matter to public forum if you don't want judgement? You sef reason am. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by RPG2020(m): 1:07pm On Jun 17 |
Same thing happening with me my woman said she hates me and the kids She is always bitter no laughing no playing with the kids always angry 😡 I'm down I'm feeling for the kids we both don't deserve them when their is problem first thing she does is to carry knife 🗡️ 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by LordIsaac(m): 1:11pm On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath:I have experienced this with a live-in girlfriend many years ago, so I understand you perfectly. Unfortunately, my brother, you have entered. Once a woman choose this path (from experience), only separation can give her a reset as she must be set free to go and check that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Regarding this issue, however, I read somewhere that prayer works! I doubt though that that prayer can be made under the same roof with her. I’m not advocating for divorce, just separation. The price to pay may be that her physical body may not remain the same by the time she will receive sense. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Kobojunkie: 1:14pm On Jun 17 |
Diamond1605:ScotHarvath, your attention is needed here! Abi na skit una dey act! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by LordIsaac(m): 1:16pm On Jun 17 |
advanceDNA:This saying in your concluding paragraph is heavy! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by bukatyne(f): 1:20pm On Jun 17 |
Diamond1605: Are you the wife 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by lailo: 1:21pm On Jun 17 |
Among all advice's, just know that: 1. People will always take you for granted either you are a male or female 2. You can never satisfy anybody either a male or female 3. You can never change anybody either a male or female 4. If u want to change any situation, change yourself I hope this my little advice meet you well brother. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by saddler: 1:23pm On Jun 17 |
Namaster: Haaa! You are putting nuclear bomb 💣 inside fire 🔥 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by SalamRushdie: 1:24pm On Jun 17 |
ScotHarvath: Send her away ..she is already cheating on you emotionally with another dude 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by NothingDoMe: 1:24pm On Jun 17 |
Diamond1605:Are you the wife? |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by NothingDoMe: 1:26pm On Jun 17 |
bukatyne:I think she is. She should create a thread so we can hear her side of the story since they've appointed us compulsory listeners. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by Jackipapa: 1:26pm On Jun 17 |
I blame Tinubu! |
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