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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Urgent1Million: 3:02pm On Jun 18

You pay a rent of 3m naira p.a., give your wife 8.4m p.a. for family upkeep, excluding school fees and you still use a legedes benz?
Let me look for my iphone 16 promax charger, I'll be back.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by descarado: 3:02pm On Jun 18

tosinhtml:

The lady in question is not an house wife, she has a thriving business.

And NO, house wives do not contribute more. I will retain this opinion until Jesus comes, I have done both more than 5 years each & I can tell say categorically that taking care of kids is easier than earning a liveable wage in this harsh economy.

Wives that contribute more, should they be above their husbands?

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Ekpekus(m): 3:03pm On Jun 18

shox:
Make una lie softly on this thread.

Leave the op make he continue grin

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by DrAda(f): 3:03pm On Jun 18

Yes

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by AbuAeesha: 3:04pm On Jun 18

Just add 450k on top,and let her know things are easy these days.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Evidenx(m): 3:04pm On Jun 18

Although things are very expensive but YOUR WIFE IS NOT A GOOD MANAGER.

Maybe she dey build house hide.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Brandosky: 3:05pm On Jun 18

Dogalmighty17:
You don't have a wife. What you have is someone using you to cash out. 700k is more than what some men give their wives for a whole year and yet you do that in just a month. Something isn't right.

Your wife may be building somewhere or saving up money to move without you soon. I don't blame her. You are comfortable that's why you can be so wasteful.

Going forward, do not give her anything monthly, rather, let her write down everything she thinks the expense of the month will be. Let her list them down together with thier prices before you give her any money.
Make a visual confirmation of any purchase once it is done.

You need to put your wife on a leash else she may be your ruin. That you can afford things easily now doesn't mean that will always be the case and then you will see the true color of this woman.

Na yahoo yahoo wife

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by IrepChrist: 3:06pm On Jun 18

IrepChrist:
You know the funny thing with this post, The people here may not understand because, how many Nigerian husband gives their wives 700k for upkeep per months You should know better than this.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by ibechris(m): 3:07pm On Jun 18

Nice2023:
Permit me to say ur wife is an APC member.

In fact,u married a destroyer because a good wife builds her home and not to defraud her home.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by achorladey: 3:07pm On Jun 18

ttobizz:
7milion or nothing my man

Looool

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Procashtips(m): 3:07pm On Jun 18

Mindlog:

Make it a round figure of one million naira monthly, so she would be happier.

By the way, should you become incapacitated (which is a possibility in life) and no longer able to earn.....reflect, on your wife's capacity to sustain the present lifestyle, when you can't earn.

See another wisdom.

Any woman complaining that ₦700k monthly is too small is something else.

You go on foot while she drives the family car.

To me, an understanding wife would have covered up the difference or manage whatever is given to her.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by tosinhtml: 3:07pm On Jun 18

descarado:

Wives that contribute more, should they be above their husbands?

Yvonne Jegede who contributed more in her one year of marriage said she was tired of doing that, and she was above her husband in that regard. So the answer is Yes.

I'm sure you saw the viral post on social media.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by ibechris(m): 3:08pm On Jun 18

Nice2023:
Permit me to say ur wife is an APC member.

In fact,u married a destroyer because a good wife builds her home and not to defraud her home.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by nanauju(f): 3:08pm On Jun 18

You need to let your wife know that she also has to start contributing to the house as well to makeup what you are bringing in.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Newyorkitis(m): 3:09pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

That is why a little drama is good for all relationships. Your wife wants drama and you just want smooth sailing. It won't work!
Second, fuel too no get subsidy.
E dey quickly evaporate as Tinubu remove subsidy. Lols

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Kruzxx: 3:09pm On Jun 18

Guys d suffer sha.. children wey belong to you both

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by tommy589(m): 3:10pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

You don dey build house? Continue if it this way you were brought up

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by TreasureJunky: 3:10pm On Jun 18

This your story na lîe , bIàtánt Iíe.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Fryx: 3:11pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

When you are serious, you will reduce the money to 100k and stop giving a fvck about how she picks offense.

The only problem is that you have already let her know you are understanding. Me, I know women offense picking is deceit, I no dey understand at all.

But try find a way to reverse the situation. Else, you just put yourself for life prison.

She is working, let her be responsible. Else, stay home as a full time house wife and receive proper control.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by achorladey: 3:12pm On Jun 18

Urgent1Million:
You pay a rent of 3m naira p.a., give your wife 8.4m p.a. for family upkeep, excluding school fees and you still use a legedes benz?
Let me look for my iphone 16 promax charger, I'll be back.

Looool

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by MrDoGood(m): 3:12pm On Jun 18

Una dey lie sha.........

No open mouth say na business because if such amount leaves business monthly, it will collapse.

So, Watin you dey do?

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by alizma: 3:13pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

Increase it to 1.5m since you don't know that the money you are giving her is far more than enough

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by CollectMoney: 3:14pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

I dey give my wife N2M every month.

In Jesus Name. Amen. grin

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Gerrard59(m): 3:15pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

Yet to see the benefits. Look at the expenses. What do you use your money for yourself?

P.S. That is the first mistake. Plenty children.

Good luck to those involved.

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Orlu13: 3:16pm On Jun 18

is this even real...op pls don't try to annoy me this afternoon... u better delete this rubbish u posted here

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by achorladey: 3:16pm On Jun 18

AishaDant:

Nobody forced you to comment. If you have nothing sensible to say, get lost already!

Na question the person still dey ask the OP oooo. Until Op respond he can choose to proceed. cheesy

The question asked is not a forced comment and the question raised is enough to equally allow the Op to reflect on his decision to bring the matter here.

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Fryx: 3:17pm On Jun 18

descarado:

In marriage, all partners are equal. Repeat, all partners are equal.
Also, it's "our" house not "my" house.
You will start enjoying your marriage the moment you start using this mindset. Your wife will literally do anything to make your life easier.

No be only all partners are equal. The very reason the west is in the edge of moral destruction.

Women that are confused and re-confused in all ramifications by default.

All partners are equal, and she has a business. Making money, yet can’t contribute to the household.

How is that even partnership?

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Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by jaybee3(m): 3:17pm On Jun 18

Has the 700k stayed constant pre/post devaluation?

If yes, her point is valid as prices have adjusted in line with devaluation hence the constant struggle to balance the budget

If No, be transparent with madam with respect to your income so as to enable her manage the budget accordingly

Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by pongwa(m): 3:17pm On Jun 18

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

ah! Ikunle abiya0mo o

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