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Why are men afraid of independent women? I know you're wondering why men feel so comfortable to settle for less, when they should go for the best, even when the best is easily accessible to them.

What do men want? Most ladies can't stop asking this question. The more they try to figure out, the more confused they get, We were meant to believe that men are more attracted to confident and independent ladies, that they would rather go for women who are known to be assets, than women who are liabilities, but it seems reverse is the case.

Men aren't scared of so-called independent women. The issue here is that most so-called independent women tend to come with nasty attitudes and have masculine traits that are unattractive to most men.

chicogentil:
Men aren't scared of so-called independent women. The issue here is that most so-called independent women tend to come with nasty attitudes and have masculine traits that are unattractive to most men.

Masculine traits like what and what?

I personally am not afraid of successful women. But I don't have any great experience with them either. Successful women still try to date on top. And that is stupid and of course unsuccessful.

I LOVE INDEPENDENT WOMEN.

Sapasenator:
I LOVE INDEPENDENT WOMEN.

Why?

goran3310:
Why?

I am an independent successful male who understands what relationship means in the context of the modern world. I am not your typical Nigerian/African man. An independent woman is someone who is successful in her own right and does not have to cling to me or drain my resources unnecessarily. I can give 20 more reasons.

Sapasenator:


I am an independent successful male who understands what relationship means in the context of the modern world. I am not your typical Nigerian/African man. An independent woman is someone who is successful in her own right and does not have to cling to me or drain my resources unnecessarily. I can give 20 more reasons.

A woman who works and can pay for her own food, clothes and shoes is not a successful woman. That is the basic.

I used to know an uncle of mine, he has 6 wives. He was very poor then, then the first wife left him because of poverty. Shortly after that he met a woman at the fuel station, she was a fuel attendant. My uncle was depressed and very sad because of the first wife leaving him. The woman he met at the fuel station became his second wife. As a fuel attendant she already had lots of money saved, gave it to my uncle and he became a man again.

After the whole buhaha my uncle now married additional 4 wives to the second wife. Now the bone of contention is that all the women he married were rich before he married them. He made a vow he will never marry a poor lady again cos the first wife was poor, he helped her but ruined and left him. He gave me the same advice never to marry a non-independent lady.

All my uncles 5 wives are rich. I met him at the recent Salah and come and see the way he was controlling all of them. He told me when you are rich as a man, marry a rich woman too so your life can blossom 🌸. Never marry a poor and broke girl.
The first wife came for the Salah but my rich uncle no send am. She now looks so worse and broke, she's the only one that looked odd out of all the wives. She remarried after my uncle became broke but left the new husband after my uncle became rich again. My uncle no send am again, now she only came for salah because of her kids. All the kids were present at Salah. It was a big party.

goran3310:

A woman who works and can pay for her own food, clothes and shoes is not a successful woman. That is the basic.

Your opinion and I have never argued against a personal opinion all of my life. I totally respect your personal opinion.