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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 6:37pm On Jun 29

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by raumdeuter: 6:43pm On Jun 29
GloriousGbola:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV2qiH2gxQs?si=qt8GzGvInV85ocGi

Bill Maher on game

I watched it yesterday but will that work in Nigeria? Just have move and your game is set
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Emaprince: 6:47pm On Jun 29
The gurl no even send. grin

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 6:50pm On Jun 29
I think Federal government needs to something about this loan apps ; if possible ban them self .

One of their staff called me this morning. She said she’s calling in respect of Mr. Xyz ( an old friend that I can’t even remember the last time I heard from him).

I asked the lady “ What about him ?” . She said he borrowed loan from their company and he has refused to pay back. I then asked her why was she calling me ? Am I his guarantor or what ? How is it my business ; how did I become a party to the contract between the company and the borrower ?

The lady said he has not been picking his calls and I am one of his emergency contact (whatever that means ) and so they want me to tell him to pay back. I told her to call his number and not bother me since she acknowledged I was never a party to their contract .

The lady just shouted in her igbotic voice “ Tah ! Come on get out ! “ 😂 and she ended the call .

For a second I was angry and shocked as to how unprofessional those people run their business . I mean who goes about disbursing funds to Nigerians without any collateral ? Now when the borrower defaults u start calling their contacts claiming they are emergency contacts? Even if the borrower gives someone as their emergency contact , are u not expected to reach to such person before disbursement to know if they are cool standing in the gap for the borrower if things go south ?

As for their staff , I wonder if they specifically recruit the dregs of the society ; very rude and uncultured set of people .

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 6:54pm On Jun 29
Emaprince:
The gurl no even send. grin

She will get tired sooner or later . Nigerians can troll u into depression if u are doing string head for them.

It is almost 10 months since Mohbad died , If SamLarry posts today u will still see over a thousand troll comments asking “ Omo te pa nko ?” ( What about the boy u killed ?) 😂

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 6:56pm On Jun 29
BlueRayDick:
I think Federal government needs to something about this loan apps ; if possible ban them self .

One of their staff called me this morning. She said she’s calling in respect of Mr. Xyz ( an old friend that I can’t even remember the last time I heard from him).

I asked the lady “ What about him ?” . She said he borrowed loan from their company and he has refused to pay back. I then asked her why was she calling me ? Am I his guarantor or what ? How is it my business ; how did I become a party to the contract between the company and the borrower ?

The lady said he has not been picking his calls and I am one of his emergency contact (whatever that means ) and so they want me to tell him to pay back. I told her to call his number and not bother me since she acknowledged I was never a party to their contract .

The lady just shouted in her igbotic voice “ Tah ! Come on get out ! “ 😂 and she ended the call .

For a second I was angry and shocked as to how unprofessional those people run their business . I mean who goes about disbursing funds to Nigerians without any collateral ? Now when the borrower defaults u start calling their contacts claiming they are emergency contacts? Even if the borrower gives someone as their emergency contact , are u not expected to reach to such person before disbursement to know if they are cool standing in the gap for the borrower if things go south ?

As for their staff , I wonder if they specifically recruit the dregs of the society ; very rude and uncultured set of people .

They called my guy the other day. Went as far as picking his linked in picture and tagging it family of a scammer. What you should do is add the number to truecaller as a spam number. That way it will be blocked for everyone.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 6:58pm On Jun 29
GloriousGbola:


They called my guy the other day. Went as far as picking his linked in picture and tagging it family of a scammer. What you should do is add the number to truecaller as a spam number. That way it will be blocked for everyone.

I think that’s what I will do.

But Government should give us a way we can report them for harassing us . They should be calling those that borrowed loan from them and not uninterested third party na
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Emaprince: 7:01pm On Jun 29
BlueRayDick:


She will get tired sooner or later . Nigerians can troll u into depression if u are doing string head for them.

It is almost 10 months since Mohbad died , If SamLarry posts today u will still see over a thousand troll comments asking “ Omo te pa nko ?” ( What about the boy u killed ?) 😂
grin grin...some of those comments dey funny me. See how that guy said she overtook hajia, shey na motor she no fit overtake.

But then...in this girls case, she has rhe backing of all the muslim borthers, especially northerners. Na wetin them want - a woman that supports polygamy.

Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:07pm On Jun 29
raumdeuter:


I watched it yesterday but will that work in Nigeria? Just have move and your game is set

That is why naija guys japa and can't get laid
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:09pm On Jun 29
Emaprince:
grin grin...some of those comments dey funny me. See how that guy said she overtook hajia, shey na motor she no fit overtake.

But then...in this girls case, she has rhe backing of all the muslim borthers, especially northerners. Na wetin them want - a woman that supports polygamy.
Marrying a second wife is a general understanding in Islam.

I am not a Muslim; in fact, I am more logical than religious, but a Muslim wife knows that her Muslim husband may marry a second wife if he so desires.

If a Muslim husband decides to take a second wife, the wife should not turn it to drama or chaos.

If the wife can't take it, she can divorce the man.

Note, I am not saying a woman should accept polygamy. I am only saying if the woman can't take polygamy, she should divorce the man instead of putting up drama or bringing forth chaos.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 7:09pm On Jun 29
Emaprince:
grin grin...some of those comments dey funny me. See how that guy said she overtook hajia, shey na motor she no fit overtake.

But then...in this girls case, she has rhe backing of all the muslim borthers, especially northerners. Na wetin them want - a woman that supports polygamy.

Even Samlarry has people defending him in all the comments on his posts . But the thing is some of those troll comments always hit home hard .

Good luck to her fighter the trolls fire for fire
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 7:30pm On Jun 29
GrammarNazi1:

Marrying a second wife is a general understanding in Islam.

I am not a Muslim; in fact, I am more logical than religious, but a Muslim wife knows that her Muslim husband may marry a second wife if he so desires.

If a Muslim husband decides to take a second wife, the wife should not turn it to drama or chaos.

If the wife can't take it, she can divorce the man.

Note, I am not saying a woman should accept polygamy. I am only saying if the woman can't take polygamy, she should divorce the man instead of putting up drama or bringing forth chaos.

grin

.....see every muslimat knows this, even Ulamahs do tell them at Engagement that their Groom can marry up to 4 wives if he desires and has the ability to do so.

Note; polygamy ain't a must ín Islam and it comes with strict obligations. Polygamy ain't for everyone rather for the riches or wealthy ones. You must be able to take care of your wives equally in polygamy.

If you buy range rover for A you must buy same brand for B. If C and D dey, you must do same for them. If you build a house for A, you must do for the rest as well. Whatever you get for one of them, must go round to the rest - same quality and quantity.

If you bed A for a week, you must bed the rest for same number of days as well, hence how many Nigerians/Muslims can meet up with the Obligations?!

........then marry of women as may be agreeable to you, two, or three, or four; and if you fear you will not deal justly, then marry only one or what your right hands possess. That is the nearest way for you to avoid injustice. [Qur'an 4:3]
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:40pm On Jun 29
OasisX:


grin

.....see every muslimat knows this, even Ulamahs do tell them at Engagement that their Groom can marry up to 4 wives if he desires and has the ability to do so.

Note; polygamy ain't a must ín Islam and it comes with strict obligations. Polygamy ain't for everyone rather for the riches or wealthy ones. You must be able to take care of your wives equally in polygamy.

If you buy range rover for A you must buy same brand for B. If C and D dey, you must do same for them. If you build a house for A, you must do for the rest as well. Whatever you get for one of them, must go round to the rest - same quality and quantity.

If you bed A for a week, you must bed the rest for same number of days as well, hence how many Nigerians/Muslims can meet up with the Obligations?!

The truth and we all know it is no one ever treats their wives equally. That is just a card people throw around.

The whole point of marrying a new wife is dude is looking for a fresher chick with tighter pussy and firmer breasts. So he will spend more time in bed with new wife. He will also spend more on new wife. There will be no equality whatsoever.

And of course it counters all the story about women's rights in Islam when women have no agency in their husbands decisions but are expected to swallow it.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:41pm On Jun 29
@oasisx

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.......then marry of women as may be agreeable to you, two, or three, or four; and if you fear you will not deal justly, then marry only one or what your right hands possess. That is the nearest way for you to avoid injustice.

What does the bolded mean pls?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by A40(m): 7:42pm On Jun 29
User09:


You have to understand there are other criteria being used here; one of which I imagine is being a devout muslim who's also gonna be ok with being the second.

That's a delimiter
I don't know man I guess I understand.

Don't get me wrong it's their beliefs but I don't know that a woman has to accept that if she doesn't want to.

Me I find it illogical in this world economy sha. But that's just me. A lot of so called 'devout muslim' na for this several wife them dey ginger. No other aspect of the religion. Even the ones that are struggling to take care of just one. Will be quoting their Quran.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by A40(m): 7:43pm On Jun 29
joseph1832:
Don't be shallow.
Wtf are you on about crodie?

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 7:47pm On Jun 29
GloriousGbola:
@oasisx

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What does the bolded mean pls?

grin

....nkan ti ọwọ rẹ bákà lobinrin. It might be a slave, ex-convict, divorcee, widow, osu, diabled and so on.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by raumdeuter: 7:53pm On Jun 29
Emaprince:
grin grin...some of those comments dey funny me. See how that guy said she overtook hajia, shey na motor she no fit overtake.

But then...in this girls case, she has rhe backing of all the muslim borthers, especially northerners. Na wetin them want - a woman that supports polygamy.

Alhaji Emaprince marry them. Yul Edochie na Nwafor and he dey di polygamy.

Don't be discouraged
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:54pm On Jun 29
OasisX:


grin

.....see every muslimat knows this, even Ulamahs do tell them at Engagement that their Groom can marry up to 4 wives if he desires and has the ability to do so.

Note; polygamy ain't a must ín Islam and it comes with strict obligations. Polygamy ain't for everyone rather for the riches or wealthy ones. You must be able to take care of your wives equally in polygamy.

If you buy range rover for A you must buy same brand for B. If C and D dey, you must do same for them. If you build a house for A, you must do for the rest as well. Whatever you get for one of them, must go round to the rest - same quality and quantity.

If you bed A for a week, you must bed the rest for same number of days as well, hence how many Nigerians/Muslims can meet up with the Obligations?!

Yes, I know the clause that the man must treat the wives justly or equally. If the man can't, he is not permitted to marry more than one.

Yet, it is not the woman who decides whether the man can treat them equally or not; the man decides that.

And again, a Muslim husband may decide to marry more than one wife if he desires, which means it is not a must.

If and when a man then decides to get a second wife, it is not in the wife's place to bring the man down into chaos and destruction.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 7:54pm On Jun 29
BlueRayDick:
I think Federal government needs to something about this loan apps ; if possible ban them self .

One of their staff called me this morning. She said she’s calling in respect of Mr. Xyz ( an old friend that I can’t even remember the last time I heard from him).

I asked the lady “ What about him ?” . She said he borrowed loan from their company and he has refused to pay back. I then asked her why was she calling me ? Am I his guarantor or what ? How is it my business ; how did I become a party to the contract between the company and the borrower ?

The lady said he has not been picking his calls and I am one of his emergency contact (whatever that means ) and so they want me to tell him to pay back. I told her to call his number and not bother me since she acknowledged I was never a party to their contract .

The lady just shouted in her igbotic voice “ Tah ! Come on get out ! “ 😂 and she ended the call .

For a second I was angry and shocked as to how unprofessional those people run their business . I mean who goes about disbursing funds to Nigerians without any collateral ? Now when the borrower defaults u start calling their contacts claiming they are emergency contacts? Even if the borrower gives someone as their emergency contact , are u not expected to reach to such person before disbursement to know if they are cool standing in the gap for the borrower if things go south ?

As for their staff , I wonder if they specifically recruit the dregs of the society ; very rude and uncultured set of people .
See my missed calls log you will think I borrowed millions from these assholes
Whereas shishi I no collect, I think someone want to use my line collect loan because I got an otp from a loan company
I still swear for one today because they call daily have blocked a lot of these numbers

Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:55pm On Jun 29
OasisX:


grin

....nkan ti ọwọ rẹ bákà lobinrin. It might be a slave, ex-convict, divorcee, widow, osu, diabled and so on.

I believe it means slave. In most surahs admonishing against illegal sexual intercourse your wives and those your right hands possess are legal. Another popular loophole used for sexual exploitation of female slaves.

That too is a 'right' in Islam.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by raumdeuter: 7:56pm On Jun 29
OasisX:


grin

.....see every muslimat knows this, even Ulamahs do tell them at Engagement that their Groom can marry up to 4 wives if he desires and has the ability to do so.

Note; polygamy ain't a must ín Islam and it comes with strict obligations. Polygamy ain't for everyone rather for the riches or wealthy ones. You must be able to take care of your wives equally in polygamy.

If you buy range rover for A you must buy same brand for B. If C and D dey, you must do same for them. If you build a house for A, you must do for the rest as well. Whatever you get for one of them, must go round to the rest - same quality and quantity.

If you bed A for a week, you must bed the rest for same number of days as well, hence how many Nigerians/Muslims can meet up with the Obligations?!


If you doggy 🐕 one you must doggy the other

If you lick one plate you must chop snail of the other
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:56pm On Jun 29
GrammarNazi1:

Yes, I know the clause that the man must treat the wives justly or equally. If the man can't, he is not permitted to marry more than one.

Yet, but it is not the woman who decides whether the man can treat them equally or not; the man's decides that.

And again, a Muslim husband may decide to marry more than one wife if he desires, which means it is not a must.

If and when a man then decides to get a second wife, it is not in the wife's place to bring the man down into chaos and destruction.

You should not expect loyalty from a woman or a person if you do not show them the same loyalty because 'it is your right' .
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:57pm On Jun 29
GloriousGbola:


You should not expect loyalty from a woman or a person if you do not show them the same loyalty because 'it is your right' .
Okay, boss.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Theflint1(m): 7:58pm On Jun 29
BlueRayDick:
I think Federal government needs to something about this loan apps ; if possible ban them self .

One of their staff called me this morning. She said she’s calling in respect of Mr. Xyz ( an old friend that I can’t even remember the last time I heard from him).

I asked the lady “ What about him ?” . She said he borrowed loan from their company and he has refused to pay back. I then asked her why was she calling me ? Am I his guarantor or what ? How is it my business ; how did I become a party to the contract between the company and the borrower ?

The lady said he has not been picking his calls and I am one of his emergency contact (whatever that means ) and so they want me to tell him to pay back. I told her to call his number and not bother me since she acknowledged I was never a party to their contract .

The lady just shouted in her igbotic voice “ Tah ! Come on get out ! “ 😂 and she ended the call .

For a second I was angry and shocked as to how unprofessional those people run their business . I mean who goes about disbursing funds to Nigerians without any collateral ? Now when the borrower defaults u start calling their contacts claiming they are emergency contacts? Even if the borrower gives someone as their emergency contact , are u not expected to reach to such person before disbursement to know if they are cool standing in the gap for the borrower if things go south ?

As for their staff , I wonder if they specifically recruit the dregs of the society ; very rude and uncultured set of people .
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 7:58pm On Jun 29
iamoyindamola:

See my missed calls log you will think I borrowed millions from these assholes
Whereas shishi I no collect, I think someone want to use my line collect loan because I got an otp from a loan company
I still swear for one today because they call daily have blocked a lot of these numbers

cheesy cheesy

Sodiq has been running codedruns paroles with loan app cheesy cheesy

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:58pm On Jun 29
raumdeuter:


If you doggy 🐕 one you must doggy the other

If you lick one plate you must chop snail of the other
Make them no dry the man blood sha.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 7:58pm On Jun 29
GloriousGbola:


I believe it means slave. In most surahs admonishing against illegal sexual intercourse your wives and those your right hands possess are legal. Another popular loophole used for sexual exploitation of female slaves.

That too is a 'right' in Islam.

.....yeah, it can be interpreted as slave but based on the verse [from 1], it refers more to an orphan. For instance, if there is an orphan in your care and due for marriage, you can marry her. In a nutshell, it refers to the less privileged.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 8:00pm On Jun 29
GrammarNazi1:

Yes, I know the clause that the man must treat the wives justly or equally. If the man can't, he is not permitted to marry more than one.

Yet, it is not the woman who decides whether the man can treat them equally or not; the man decides that.

And again, a Muslim husband may decide to marry more than one wife if he desires, which means it is not a must.

If and when a man then decides to get a second wife, it is not in the wife's place to bring the man down into chaos and destruction.

grin

Wrong......if he desires ain't the priority rather if he can be JUST. If a Muslim knows he can't be just, then its a sìn for him to marry more than a wife.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by User09: 8:01pm On Jun 29
A40:
I don't know man I guess I understand.

Don't get me wrong it's their beliefs but I don't know that a woman has to accept that if she doesn't want to.

Me I find it illogical in this world economy sha. But that's just me. A lot of so called 'devout muslim' na for this several wife them dey ginger. No other aspect of the religion. Even the ones that are struggling to take care of just one. Will be quoting their Quran.


Exactly my point.

The sample size with women meeting such criteria is narrow as it is; so your criticism about her looks wasn't accounting for the biased sample.

I really dont like to speak on religion and politics but one thing I'll say is if there's an agreement in place before hand and all parties did know what they were getting into, then there's no need for all the storm irrespective of how emotional we or the wife may feel about it.

Personally, its not my thing, even raumdeuter wouldn't do it if presented with the opportunity in this day and age grin - forget what he says

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 8:01pm On Jun 29
OasisX:


grin

Wrong......if he desires ain't the priority rather if he can be JUST. If a Muslim knows he can't be just, then its a sìn for him to marry more than a wife.
If he can be just and he decides to marry more than one wife, does his wife have a right to destroy him?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 8:05pm On Jun 29
GrammarNazi1:

If he can be just and he decides to marry more than one wife, does his wife have a right to destroy him?

..................absolutely NO!

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