He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.

Good lesson notes

Righteousness2:
Rebuke in a true Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

A true Believer, Whether pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will take the discipline, make amends and take the time to get restored to GOD.

Depends on the level of insults and embarrassment you label as "rebuke/discipline." The church elders have to be careful and apply wisdom in the way they discipline their pastors, especially when it is being done openly, because it can get to some extent that even the younger believers who look up to that pastor will not see any hope for themselves, or will likely not report themselves for "correction" when they themselves make mistakes.

How many people in the church cared about the personal challenges of brother K? How many people knew what led to the so called fornication of brother K? Finally, how many elderly people in the church didn't have girlfriends when they were at the same age of brother K?

Pastors-preneur

This your story gets k-leg true true.

Na the Pastor dey at fault.
instead of calling his attention, advice him, let him to know his going astray

Na public disgrace dey guy chop

Pastor work na dream job.

Free sex and free tithes. Then the husbands thank you for it.

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Person fvck clean mouth, una dey say he fall into fornication.


When will u Christians man-up and take responsibilities for your actions

How does someone mistakenly fall into fornication... Abeg eeee. Either you wan do or you no wan do. Untamed konji is a bastard
Another nonsense post this Sunday morning

Dedication and discipline is the key to being focus , as a youth pastor you need to be very disciplined to succeed in the age and time


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No be only Bro K. What of Bro L?

People who hold leadership positions in church must be made to understand the responsibility they carry. Your reckless lifestyle can make tens of thousands lose interest in Christianity. So, you must learn self-discipline and self-control.

Listen, sex is all about knowing how to control your mind and understanding that you have willpower. You don't need any holy spirit to guide you. If you know how to take control of your life and choices, even if Agbani Darego goes naked before you in a room, you will just tell her to put on her clothes. Will your third leg be aroused, definitely! Will you make move to sleep with her, this is where willpower comes in.

The problem of men of nowadays is that they have totally destroyed their psyche. A man would rather watch porn to learn how to sexually satisfy a woman than read a book about self-control and self-discipline.

To Bro K, the church took the right decision. Forgive him, but don't let him stand in the pulpit and share the Word of God. That message is too powerful and sensitive to be propagated by someone whom the congregation will look at and the only thing they can imagine is him going against the same thing he preaches. However, the pastor shouldn't have shamed him publicly. Just advise him and let him go in secret.

Lols, fleshly desires

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Hmm, I remember a church guy who was practising homo. He was publicly embarrassed in the church. The community also humiliated him. He left the church and community. After some years, he returned to the community and church. This time he has healed and became bold. Today, he is married with kids. Initially i thought the guy will never come back and possibly break down but I thank God for his life.

No one 'mistakenly' falls into fornication...

Before the act, you would have conceived it in your heart.

That's why it's advisable to Christian brothers not to be too close to Christian sisters or be alone with them especially when you find them attractive.

Nonsense..
Why did the pastor had to expose him?
It is God he offended not human being.
This alone is enough to know that Christianity is a scam.

GeneralOjukwu:


Pastor work na dream job.

Free sex and free tithes. Then the husbands thank you for it.

You must be a legend in the making.

Thank God the depression didn't lead him to suicide.
If he felt the shame was becoming too unbearable for him all he should have done was to change Church and continue his personal relationship with God instead of going back to worldly life.

Personal relationship with God should not be sacrificed because of scolding from your Pastor.

I have seen top Deacons change Church because of issues concerning marrying 2 wives. They still settle down in the new Church and enjoy their Christian lives and families till old age.

Brother k in the story is guilty but then the church entirely is at fault, there’s a way to chastise someone openly without going too far!. I guess they don’t practice forgiveness but only preach it in their church na why me no deh take church serious.

The senior pastor for that church sef fit dey sama choir mistress lowkey abhi wetin una deh call am ?

Meanwhile to err is human, to forgive is divine

Fornication/Adultery is not a mistake but a decision made.

Bro K was a green snake. I think you are trying to blame the church but there are many like Bro K around who have brought shame to the church and Christianity. The church did not send him away. He left on his own cause he was exposed. The devil he was , was exposed. Imagine the girls and women he would have destroyed their lives in the church.
The guy maybe never truly had an encounter with Jesus or backslided and continued to form Bro K with church activity. I hope the female children he teaches are safe.
Heaven and hell is about choice. If he feels he'll is what he wants because he was exposed who he truly is I pity him.

God give una preek and toto to use, una call am fornication.

Fornication or any other form of sexual pleasure is just inevitable. Every normal man with testosterone running in his blood stream will almost always express their sexual trait in one way or the other.
Even the fear of jesus christ is not enough not suppress that urge.
He was redicled just because he was caught.
Even the so called G.Os do worse in their closets.
What we have these days are hypocrits and con men in disguise of men of God.

Nae

He without sin....


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oluking:

na like this you wan take BLOW.

Bro.. No be say i wish to dey ask, but for like a week now things just too rough for me.

Bros i go appreciate anything you send

blackboy:
Bro K was a green snake. I think you are trying to blame the church but there are many like Bro K around who have brought shame to the church and Christianity. The church did not send him away. He left on his own cause he was exposed. The devil he was , was exposed. Imagine the girls and women he would have destroyed their lives in the church.
The guy maybe never truly had an encounter with Jesus or backslided and continued to form Bro K with church activity. I hope the female children he teaches are safe.
Heaven and hell is about choice. If he feels he'll is what he wants because he was exposed who he truly is I pity him.

what about retraining him in the gospel and correcting him and giving him tips to avoid such in the future? Even Jesus Christ forgave his crucifiers and Judas Iscariot. You are here already judging him like the Pharisees did to Mary Magdalene. I always said that I prefer to be friends with bandits than so called 'child if God' like you lots. Spits

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Many people will learn the hard way

The church don't give a Bleep about you just like they don't give a Bleep about Mr k

When all is going well with you, the money is coming in, the appearance is fine, all looking cosy they will be your friend

But the moment you have issues in your life, which can be anything from loss of job, depression, grieve and whatever ...you are simply on your own

They will all avoid you like a plague

Righteousness2:
Rebuke in the Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

Rebuke is For Correction and should be done in love.

No matter what you are in the church or what you are doing in the Church, a true Believer, who has A TRUE FEAR of GOD, Whether G.O, Pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will give in to the discipline, and take the time to make amends and get restored to GOD.

Your Soul in Eternity is much more than Whatever Title you hold in the church.
If you have know and Understand the Importance of your soul in Eternity, you will Personally give up whatever title or Position in the Church and give yourself to Reconcilation with GOD.

Title or Position CANNOT and will not take anyone to Heaven.
It is better to be an Ordinary Member going to Heaven, than to be a Go , choir, prayer or whatever Leader Heading to Hell Fire.

Where in the bible did Jesus rebuke someone cause of sin? Didn't the story of the harlot who was condemned to death teach you guys anything? You lot just read the bible in your own understanding. You had better cultivate a genuine relationship with the holy spirit, to understand the scriptures and drop religion aside. Should you or anybody need help on that, you can email me.

Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.

I know this may be for a lesson but it teaches a lot of things.

First, temptation will come to you from your position. Pray hard to stand firm when it comes for it will definitely come.

Secondly, when you fail, ask for forgiveness and get back up.

Thirdly, the church leader obviously acted out of mundane self-righteousness for calling him out. He was used by the devil to completely destroy that son of God that needed his help to recover spiritually. Calling him out is a no no. From the story, his sin was not a public sin. So why make it public? The church leader may even be worse sinner just that his sins have not been made known.

This is one of the reasons I don't like some of these pentecostal churches that spring up here and there and think they know it all.

Also this reminds me of a sinner that came to confession at hand of a priest. You know this Catholic kind of confession where it's one on one with the priest. The sinner said it had been years he came for confession. The priest started scolding him for waiting so long. He now told the priest that it's this similar action by the priest that he went to confession at his hand that made him stop coming to confession.

You don't go too hard on a sinner. A sinner is wounded spiritually. All he needs is your support to recover.