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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:59am On Jun 30
Asking people to avoid him is not the way to correct in love. At that time he needs all the support and assurance that he can get. Obviously he cannot continue leading or teaching in Church, but the Church should get her around him and support his restoration.

You only avoid someone who remains in sin or is a habitual sinner.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by kingthreat(m): 9:00am On Jun 30
That rebuke sounded more like a condemnation.
In christianity, everything must be done with love.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by ttmax09(m): 9:01am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
Do you know the brother? Is it possible I reach out to him?

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by folake4u(f): 9:03am On Jun 30
This is one of the reasons I stopped attending the church I grew up from.

A person commits the sin of fornication and the person feels guilty of falling into temptation and goes to meet the Pastor for prayers and forgiveness of sin. After that is done, the Pastor uses the person to preach on Sunday morning and announces to the congregation that the person is suspended from church activities and he should leave the church immediately to go home and "cry to God for mercy". Meanwhile, members look at such person with disdain, like he's the worst sinner on planet earth and condemned to eternal judgement, whereas they do worse in the secrecy of their corner.
Na who them catch be thief. kiss

Imagine my shock when one of the church strong disciples, one of his daughters have been sleeping around in town.

To be honest, it is better to build your own personal relationship with God.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Greattha: 9:04am On Jun 30
You wrote as though no other member of that church including the leaders had any skeletons in their closets.

Let he who has no sin be the first to cast the first stone.

The youth was being bullied and you say he shouldn't leave the church for his sanity

I'm not saying they should've pampered him but the whole church isolating him was extreme.

The church needs to stop being hypocritical and start holding close their erring young ones...not calling to the front of the church and ridiculing them.



Righteousness2:
Rebuke in the Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

Rebuke is For Correction and should be done in love.

No matter what you are in the church or what you are doing in the Church, a true Believer, who has A TRUE FEAR of GOD, Whether G.O, Pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will give in to the discipline, and take the time to make amends and get restored to GOD.

Your Soul in Eternity is much more than Whatever Title you hold in the church.
If you have know and Understand the Importance of your soul in Eternity, you will Personally give up whatever title or Position in the Church and give yourself to Reconcilation with GOD.

Title or Position CANNOT and will not take anyone to Heaven.
It is better to be an Ordinary Member going to Heaven, than to be a Go , choir, prayer or whatever Leader Heading to Hell Fire.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Gbengazzee(m): 9:04am On Jun 30
The church has the right to take the decision they took. There are certain things that shouldn't be condone in a place of worship such as in the case of brother K, albeit it should be done with love.

Every person you see in the church from the top to bottom is not a saint, everyone is striving unto perfection.

The only mistake brother K made was leaving the church while under a disciplinary action. Irrespective of public or private rebuke.

It is wrong to leave a church while under disciplinary action. It is wrong because such person may not be able to get back on his/her feet again as in the case of brother K. He was supposed to stay under the rebuking process until he is reinstated back to his former position.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:06am On Jun 30
ttmax09:
Where in the bible did Jesus rebuke someone cause of sin? Didn't the story of the harlot who was condemned to death teach you guys anything? You lot just read the bible in your own understanding. You had better cultivate a genuine relationship with the holy spirit, to understand the scriptures and drop religion aside. Should you or anybody need help on that, you can email me.

that man na resident pastor 4 here o


but na still human being sha
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Iamdboss: 9:07am On Jun 30
Every actions have consequences. Like the bro K's action has consequences so also is the church actions too.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Adewale1603(m): 9:07am On Jun 30
Mindlog:
Fornication/Adultery is not a mistake but a decision made.
pray not to enter into temptation. You will know that it's not a decision
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Straybullet: 9:08am On Jun 30
Righteousness2:
Rebuke in the Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

Rebuke is For Correction and should be done in love.

No matter what you are in the church or what you are doing in the Church, a true Believer, who has A TRUE FEAR of GOD, Whether G.O, Pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will give in to the discipline, and take the time to make amends and get restored to GOD.

Your Soul in Eternity is much more than Whatever Title you hold in the church.
If you have know and Understand the Importance of your soul in Eternity, you will Personally give up whatever title or Position in the Church and give yourself to Reconcilation with GOD.

Title or Position CANNOT and will not take anyone to Heaven.
It is better to be an Ordinary Member going to Heaven, than to be a Go , choir, prayer or whatever Leader Heading to Hell Fire.

Denominations are not the church of Jesus and have no such authority
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Mindlog: 9:09am On Jun 30
Adewale1603:
pray not to enter into temptation. You will know that it's not a decision

To "enter" na still decision.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by happney65: 9:11am On Jun 30
Normal thing for conservative churches like Assemblies of God church. You commit fornication,they suspend you from all church activities. You seat at the back of the church and nobody,I repeat nobody associates with you all because you go straff person or give person belle out of wedlock

Iwa werey,Iwa oshi
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by DavidEsq(m): 9:18am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
I like how u conveniently left out the part that the people whom u referred to as church elders would occasionally pay him visits, encouraging him to show repentance and continue in the path of repentance but he paid deaf ears to that advice
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by henrimoto(m): 9:18am On Jun 30
Templee333:
How many people in the church cared about the personal challenges of brother K? How many people knew what led to the so called fornication of brother K? Finally, how many elderly people in the church didn't have girlfriends when they were at the same age of brother K?
The way the church rebuked bro. K . is very discouraging and wrong. It shouldn't have been that way.

The pastor himself that publicly rebuked bro k . , will he say , he is not guilty of any sin / mistake in his life ?

If God had rebuked any Christian brethren the way the church rebuked bro k., who among the brethren will remain alive?
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by InvertedHammer: 9:21am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
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By recent events, there is nothing sad about it.

He did what most pastors are notorious for. The only innocent pastors are the ones that have not been caught.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by henrimoto(m): 9:24am On Jun 30
DavidEsq:

I like how u conveniently left out the part that the people whom u referred to as church elders would occasionally pay him visits, encouraging him to show repentance and continue in the path of repentance but he paid deaf ears to that advice
....which church elders pay him visits?...is it the ones the pastor told not to have any thing to do with bro. K..?

Who among the Christian brethren is righteous by self ? It's the mercies and Grace of God that sees us through.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Autodidact1: 9:28am On Jun 30
Nobody falls into fornication. The church is where the highest sexual immoralities take place and religious leaders and workers have a penchant for sleeping with peoples spouses, parents and children simultaneously.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by ogaemma: 9:36am On Jun 30
The purpose for church discipline is to correct the sinner and not to condemn the sinner.
We should know the difference between to correct a person and to condemn a person.
Wrong method of church discipline by the so called holier than thou Pastor's have made the body of Christ to lose more of it's members to the world.
You correct them because you want to win them back.

In the end, those who dedain him, end up commiting worst sin than him.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by StUriah(m): 9:39am On Jun 30
99.99% of Youth Pastors enjoy free sex na.

I was once a Youth Fellowship Pastor. I know what I'm talking about now. Girls go offer free sex to you on a platter like nothing dey there. They will even betray their friends & fight themselves to bed you once they know you're very secretive. Things dey happen o!

Everybody na thief; person weh dem catch na him be barawo.


Surprisingly, many congregants fornicated or indulged in adultery last night and within the week, yet they will look down on the accused Bro. K as an unredeemable sinner.

Na God fit judge all of us.
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Lezzlie(m): 9:51am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
2 Timothy 2:25 doesn't align with the story in your article.

Brother K (you) didn't fall into temptation. He nurtured temptation and took advantage of his position. It wasn't an accident but motion on set.

Youth and choir department in church are the most useless and corrupt.

Stop with your stupid excuses
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Bliztzer: 10:01am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.

The devil won a soul by the church lone goal. The method used by church sometimes can be counter productive most times. I think completely ostracising people sometimes is bringing terrible results.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Ningi2020(m): 10:18am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
Sorry for the guy
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by ezenna191(m): 10:19am On Jun 30
So sad
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Ningi2020(m): 10:20am On Jun 30
Daejumong:
He fell into fornication,got publicly rebuked, disgraced and demoted by the church and the rest is history ! The true life story of a Christian Youth leader in Nigeria.

Brother K was a devout, fervent Christian believer and worker in the church. He served in the Youth department where he helped groom adolescents and teenagers in the way of the Lord in church!

He was tall,strikingly handsome and a smart dresser! Even though he attended a church with strict laws on modest dressing , he made sure his modest outfits were well ironed and starched. He loved God! He was in church almost every evening after working as a teacher in the day! He was loved and admired by all! He was in his late twenties and single.

He was the only Born again Christian in his family. He however mistakenly fell into fornication! The news got to the church leadership and they took decisive actions.

The church pastor called him out during Sunday service and told the whole church how he fell into fornication, stripped him of his position, asked people to avoid him and that He prays God would restore him!

Bro K was shattered. He wished the ground could open and swallow him! The embarrassment was too much for him to bear! All the young guys and converts he taught in church looked at him with disdain and disappointment!

He continued coming to the church in the weeks that followed but you could see he was depressed. He avoided eye contact and became reclusive. Everyone avoided him - Nobody wanted to be seen with a publicly condemned sinner and backslider!

About three months after the public rebuke, he couldn’t take it any longer! The mental torture was too much and he decided that rather than commit suicide he would leave church and Christianity and go into the world and find solace !

Bro K transitioned into a playboy! He used women to cure his depression! They loved him and helped him heal when the church deserted him! He hasn’t returned to the church, the last I heard of him!

2 Timothy 2:25
25 Be gentle when you try to teach those who are against what you say. God may change their hearts so they will turn to the truth.
Sorry for the guy but the Pastor is at fault.. Instead of advising the guy he disgrace him,am sure the guy the Bleep pastor daughter that's why he disgrace him
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Gondonu: 10:22am On Jun 30
Correction ought to be done in love
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by OntheMoon(m): 10:23am On Jun 30
Ernesthugo:
EMI LO KAN
Bros this one no KAN mi
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by BABANGBALI: 10:27am On Jun 30
Rubbish! Another super story on nairaland
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by ejieddy: 10:30am On Jun 30
Righteousness2:
Rebuke in the Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

Rebuke is For Correction and should be done in love.

No matter what you are in the church or what you are doing in the Church, a true Believer, who has A TRUE FEAR of GOD, Whether G.O, Pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will give in to the discipline, and take the time to make amends and get restored to GOD.

Your Soul in Eternity is much more than Whatever Title you hold in the church.
If you have know and Understand the Importance of your soul in Eternity, you will Personally give up whatever title or Position in the Church and give yourself to Reconcilation with GOD.

Title or Position CANNOT and will not take anyone to Heaven.
It is better to be an Ordinary Member going to Heaven, than to be a Go , choir, prayer or whatever Leader Heading to Hell Fire.

There's only one place in scripture that open rebuke is mentioned and that was Paul. It can't be used a s a doctrine. There's a difference between rebuke and open rebuke. Your rebuke should be to save a soul and not destroy it. You didn't die for that soul, Christ did. So if your Open rebuke destroys the faith of a brother or sister, of what use is it?
Scripture says to correct in love. where's the love in open rebuke?

Call the brother to your office as a pastor, speak to him. Rebuke him and correct him. Ask him to stand down some of his responsibility and take some moments to pray. Don't give him back seat. I have never seen that in scripture. Let's not be too overzealous that we have zeal without knowledge. Visit him, pray along with him. Ensure he's restored.

Gal 6:1-2 BBE 1 Brothers, if a man is taken in any wrongdoing, you who are of the Spirit will put such a one right in a spirit of love; keeping watch on yourself, for fear that you yourself may be tested. 2 Take on yourselves one another's troubles, and so keep the law of Christ.

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Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by DavidEsq(m): 10:32am On Jun 30
henrimoto:
....which church elders pay him visits?...is it the ones the pastor told not to have any thing to do with bro. K..?

Who among the Christian brethren is righteous by self ? It's the mercies and Grace of God that sees us through.
This is why the disciplinary process didn't work. It was faulty from the beginning. Show me where in the Bible the leadership of a congregation (church) was headed by a pastor. The scriptures are very clear on this fact. It is elders. If u wish to see it, I'll gladly show u
Re: The Sad Story Of How A Youth Pastor Fell Into Fornication And How The Church … by Ayokequeen(m): 10:52am On Jun 30
Righteousness2:
Rebuke in the Church of GOD is very well in place and Biblical.

Rebuke is For Correction and should be done in love.

No matter what you are in the church or what you are doing in the Church, a true Believer, who has A TRUE FEAR of GOD, Whether G.O, Pastor, leader , etc who falls to the craftiness of the devil and is being disciplined will not leave the church in anger.
He/ She will give in to the discipline, and take the time to make amends and get restored to GOD.

Your Soul in Eternity is much more than Whatever Title you hold in the church.
If you have know and Understand the Importance of your soul in Eternity, you will Personally give up whatever title or Position in the Church and give yourself to Reconcilation with GOD.

Title or Position CANNOT and will not take anyone to Heaven.
It is better to be an Ordinary Member going to Heaven, than to be a Go , choir, prayer or whatever Leader Heading to Hell Fire.
Bro You're one of the few persons I like and respect on this platform but to be candid with you sir, I don't support and I vehemently dislike your opinion on this matter.

Many churches through the leadership these days have driven away from the tenets and the foundation of Christ. If you ask me a hundred time what would be the reaction of Christ on this matter I will say it's in the other way round.

In as much as backsliding is not condoned in the kingdom, there's every possibility of a righteous man falling (it's only the grace that keeps us all standing).

You see wickedness and hypocrisy are eating up the church and unfortunately many leaders think they're gathering for Christ but rather they're scattering from Him.

Don't you remember how many time bro Peter misbehaved and fell and Jesus was still lenient with him even after the death of Jesus he went back but Jesus in His mercy and love still brought him back.

Remember there is joy in heaven for a sinner that repent but what happens when we use our hands to put the sinner away to keep sinning?

Constructive discipline is what Jesus practiced, He never chased anyone to hell because of their misdid. He even gave Judas Iscariot a chance to repent but the dude was hardened, insensitive and hellbent.

The truth is every believer will keep growing until we meet with Christ. The grown ones have gone! God bless you.

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