BRATISLAVA:


He's already said enough.

Giving nairaland vibes on Twitter. Perhaps the other content of his posts will save him.

Lol there was me thinking he was no longer active on NL. Uncle is silently reading comments

TimesNewRomans:
are you game then we make it 8pm this evening, I create a thread and I post your details.
I don't need your money I'd have suggested we used an escrow.
Be like you wan be next victim after ah.nie.
See avoid me ooo if you don't want to spend the remaining half of the year in depression.
Tomorrow is a new month.. you wouldn't like your pictures and information revealed on this forum especially for a controversial fellow like you with haters

8pm far. Create it now. Please reveal them.

That's what I saw

The conversation between Pan and G.G though

pansophist:


Decency is a woke bullshit? are you okay?

Feel free to exercise your religious right to polygamy, my point is simply that the wives in it must consent to it. You can't rope a woman into a family structure she doesn't want to be in.

My advice is for your own good. The point for being decent is to safeguard yourself, simply because you do not have a monopoly of being indecent.

Take the OP's case as an example. His wife has begun a diabolical process because he unilaterally changed the family structure without her consent and approval.

If you justify indecency because it's your right to marry many wives, then you've inadvertently justified others to do the same, and their response might be disproportional. Some may go for your life, or do something even worse. Death is not the worst punishment.

And you are there comparing women to animals? shame on you. That's something a person unworthy of honor would say. If they are animals? then why do you want to marry more than one?

People can call her fetish and diabolical. But all I see is a desperate woman trying to save her home.

As someone here rightly said, if she took his details to a babalawo for success in his business or for long life, he would have been smug and wouldn't have raised an issue.

pocohantas:


Heya...
This one hard you o.



I will give 500k to any Nlder of your choice if you can post my full name here. Let's leave long talk and do it the high way.

Post that my personal/main email address that you used to have tete whatever with me too.

@ the bolded.

folake4u:


@ the bolded.

Make am N1m and tell am make e choose me, make I cash out.

Cc: TimesNewRomans

I will mention him by 8pm. He must post the tete-a-tete we had.

1Sharon:


People can call her fetish and diabolical. But all I see is a desperate woman trying to save her home.

As someone here rightly said, if she took his details to a babalawo for success in his business or for long life, he would have been smug and wouldn't have raised an issue.

The woman doesn't seem so enlightened. He is using education and exposure to box her into a corner. I read he wants full custody of the kids. That is how you know a wicked man. Now he has hammered and decided to marry an educated baddie. 1st Wife dey use android with greasy camera, 2nd wife dey use iPhone with 3 cameras.

pocohantas:


Cc: TimesNewRomans

I will mention him by 8pm. He must post the tete-a-tete we had.

I plaster for here.

tosinhtml:


Just for correctness of information.

Husband filed for divorce in 2019, married again 2022, the husband got divorced the 3rd time last year 2023 and then now another marriage 2024. Under 6months too, so it is less than 2 years.

Thanks for the correction.

pocohantas:


Heya...
This one hard you o.



I will give 500k to any Nlder of your choice if you can post my full name here. Let's leave long talk and do it the high way.

Post that my personal/main email address that you used to have tete whatever with me too.

I choose me!

Nwapoco Osinachi Adaeze Adibe

Where my money?

TimesNewRomans:
you posted your mail on one of the sections (can't say it) someone who deactivated (nobody) quoted it, so it couldn't be edited and removed. (That was around 2015).
I got it and mailed you with my email address and we had a tête-à-tête.
You're not a bad person so there's no point dropping the mail address here.
I'm not a troll but I swear I have your personal details.

Wait guy. I think she knows who you are already and I believe she once made a thread a about you...

She just wants you to post. Don't swallow the bait

seunmsg:


I am a man and not a woman so I may not know exactly how women feel. However, my advice was directed towards men and not women.

If married women decides to have side dicks (lots of them have though), no problem in as much as it’s discreet. The day I catch my wife with a side dick is the day she leaves my house. If she catch me with a side chick, she either leave with it or leave my house. It’s her decision to make.

Kadoso Mutairu aka seunmsg 😜🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪😜🤪😜🤪 Odaju ni e o. Meanwhile, warn that porn guy who is your friend.

shaybebaby:

I choose me!

Nwapoco Osinachi Adaeze Adibe

Where my money?

@ Osinachi.
May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Adibe is cute though. Only met one Adibe in my life. Adaeze is nice too. 😄😄

pocohantas:


@ Osinachi.
May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Adibe is cute though. Only met one Adibe in my life. Adaeze is nice too. 😄😄

I hear that people reference a lady by that name.

But I know the name and the meaning from the song with Davido in it. "From God". I think it has a lovely meaning.

seunmsg:


I admire the men that have the patience and capacity to marry two ladies. One wife is more than enough trouble to last a lifetime. Why marry two or more?

Marriage is gradually getting out of fashion. In the next 100 years, barely 10% of adult will be married. Why some people want more than one at a time is just amusing.

If you’re married and you have the means, keep as many side chicks as you can. Keeping a side chick is still better than marrying more than one wife. When you marry a second wife, you will eventually get tired of her and still want a third wife. If you’re tired of your side chick, you can easily move on to another without any complications.

you have spoken well. Jarus over to you

TimesNewRomans:
no dear. Let me give you time to go through your posts history and do some modifications
I can imagine over here how you're already digging your posts history lol
See the stress you're going through

Me dig my post history?
Over 30k comments? Dey play.

I dey wait you by 8pm.

pocohantas:


The woman doesn't seem so enlightened. He is using education and exposure to box her into a corner. I read he wants full custody of the kids. That is how you know a wicked man. Now he has hammered and decided to marry an educated baddie. 1st Wife dey use android with greasy camera, 2nd wife dey use iPhone with 3 cameras.

Lol Jarus doesn't seem so enlightened either. Any man that is pro-polygamy strikes me as low class. I feel for her, her home is about to become chaotic and she's desperate. I wonder why he wants custody of his kids, so his new wife can kill them with them wickedness?

He has hammered and thinks he can do better than his 1st Wife. Evidence that building up a man always backfires.

shaybebaby:

I hear that people reference a lady by that name.

But I know the name and the meaning from the song with Davido in it. "From God". I think it has a lovely meaning.

She was a gospel singer that died of DV. Some of her fellow ministers knew and only spoke out after her death. She is gone and we have moved on. Yes, that is the meaning.

shaybebaby:

I choose me!

Nwapoco Osinachi Adaeze Adibe

Where my money?

Shaybebaby, nor follow me drag this money oh.

pocohantas:


Heya...
This one hard you o.



I will give 500k to any Nlder of your choice if you can post my full name here. Let's leave long talk and do it the high way.

Post that my personal/main email address that you used to have tete whatever with me too.

leave all these silly agbeyin to

it is my RIGHT as man to that 500k. who are these small girls making noise

1Sharon:


Lol Ja.rus doesn't seem so enlightened either. Any man that is pro-polygamy strikes me as low class. I feel for her, her home is about to become chaotic and she's desperate. I wonder why he wants custody of his kids, so his new wife can kill them with them wickedness?

He has hammered and thinks he can do better than his 1st Wife. Evidence that building up a man always backfires.

Educationally and intellectually he is sound. Though he always struck me as someone to bully people with his position.

Men can be pro-anything when sex and their egos are involved. You would see the most educated having takes that will shock you. It is more of a conscience thing for me. Some are sensible to know (and reward) loyalty. Some are not. I have no hot take for him. He displayed his human nature. Women do not act theirs with such swiftness because we are the ones who bear the burden of reproduction. He as a man simply has to move on to the next and have 2 more kids. My concern is how women see a man treat the wife of their youth in one way and still chook head. It boils down to same belief of being the different or favoured one.

Tightpussy2024:

Nigerians may be poor but the poverty level is exaggerated. Go to clubs and see men splashing 12m in one night on drinks. If such a man have 6 women whose lifestyle he is sponsoring.very well then. Look at all the governors, politicians and their aides. If they have 5-6 women they are sponsoring. I am a personal friend to ned nwokos baby mama.
If women are wise enough to get the money of these women, start a business or travel abroad.Then a younger girl comes over. These unions rarely last years. In a rich man lifetime he will have at least 30 women he gave large sums to. The average woman should have a share of rich men if she is smart and half as beautiful. It makes sense.

Many women are doing this everywhere in the country. Especially my age group and upcoming Gen-Z. It was on Nairaland that I read that sex escorts drive G-Wagon, own houses in Lekki, travel abroad etc. Some of them have wealthy sugar daddies who sponsor their relocation. So, nothing really new. It is naive young men who don't know what's up.

But they will keep looking back like lots wife, hoping to settle down and secure the commitment of chibuike the civil servant, starting a monogamous relationship with him.

In my books, as long as the man provides for the family, does not transmit disease and does not bring forth another child (Muslims aside), if he wants to explore other women, it is fine by me. Even in the bible, monogamy was not rife nor was polygamy explicitly frowned upon. We have women saying broke/poor/unemployed men don't deserve sex. Fine. Their choices. But they don't have the right to suddenly restrict the same men from having as many women to themselves as they can afford. These women institute sex timetables for their husbands. Yes, we have married women using sex as a weapon. Tomorrow, innocent men will be criticized because they decided to explore while prostrate cancer dey finish men upandown (black men are the most affected group).

Additionally, a key issue here is modern women disregarding the basic biology behind men's quest for sex. The average man likes to have sex, that is just it. I live in a country where women are okay with men exploring as long as they provide for the family and do not bring a child from outside. I would be told, "oh, there are well-to-do men who don't explore". Obviously, in every rule, exceptions abound. But what are the odds in a poor country like Nigeria where sex is dirt cheap?

P.S. Nigeria is poor. The country does not begin in Lagos and ends in Abuja.

At the bolded, its high time you tell naija men, to stop a hysteria on women natural tendencies. We should stop making a national issue or state of moral decay or societal problem when women primal instincts come in. Not just in case of hypergamous but in procreation.

I have never criticised hypergamy and I have always stated everywhere that women are hypergamous. Men should not fight it. Just vet your woman. I have two topics which got to the FP with the blame on men for making Nigerian women who they are today.
https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria
https://www.nairaland.com/8064135/hook-up-girls-earnings-expenses-pictured

Here: I blamed Nigerian men (myself included) for not building a functioning society. https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women

I don't look at gender. I focus strictly on the root causes.

Women should be allow to procreate with whom they want. Talmabout paternity fraud. Sounds very harsh ba? This is what acting on primal instincts leads .We don't want to carry the babies of the man we marry. He was only convenient for us. All is fair in love and in war.

There is single parenting which is very popular. We have financially comfortable women having the freedom to get sperm from the banks to fertilise and have babies. Two, we have lesbians raising children. You see? Choices everywhere. Freedom yanfu-yanfu. However, when you bring another child into a man's house, anything you see, please take it like that. Also, when you marry a Muslim, know that his religion permits polygamy.

Again, choices and consequences (whether good or bad).

This is the anger of redpill, rejection of female nature and an outcry towards it, yet they want us accepting men nature!

May the best alfa meil and ndifeminismi win. Good luck to those involved.

folake4u:


Shaybebaby, nor follow me drag this money oh.

See this girl o. Na me pass exam win prize and you want to do ojoro?

You want us to enter the same trouser?

Be kiaful oooo!!!

TimesNewRomans:
boss please you're one of the few respected individuals and sane minds on this forum that we look up to.
For your dignity and integrity's sake, avoid that moniker GloriousGbola please.
That's a troll and a woman pleaser who goes around simping and following f .
Please don't drag with a pig to avoid going to the mud with him.
From henceforth desist from quoting that moniker, obviously he's frustrated and the economy isn't helping matters.

simple minded child.
you no dey shame

while you spent the last 10 years growing monikers, the people you have been stalking grew their careers

this is how you will be another 10 years from now, with your only achievment being that you increased nairalands user base by 100,000 ids.

if nothing else, you serve as n example t so many of us fathers out there that they are doing well in spite of it all.

ican only wonder what kind of traumatic neglected toxic and abusive childhood turned you into a malicious, poorly motivated and bitter sociopath.

you remind me of a time years ago when i was at marina with my dad and area boys started hailing us. they said may you never have children like us!

that is all i feel when i see you and your fellow scum. may no one be cursed with offspring like you. even area boys chasing trailers offer more value to society than you do.

you tried at yahoo and all you came out with was how to clone emails and talk to yourself

the failure is real

GloriousGbola:


leave all these silly agbeyin to

it is my RIGHT as man to that 500k. who are these small girls making noise

Ahn ahn!!! I will scatter this place oooo!

Poco warn them!