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Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 10:10pm On Jun 26
My Brother who is into interior decoration does Buy Curtain from a seller(let's call the seller A) at Oshodi (Arena) for his clients job, curtains worth millions of Naira.
One day the seller-A did not come to the market for reasons best known to her and he (brother) decided to buy from another seller (Seller B) nearby.

When A resumed market, he went back to buy from A. But sometimes he buys from B the other sellers too, because he doesn't want downtime for his clients.

One day seller A saw him buying at seller B shop and accused him of buying from another seller A, and keep malice with him for being loyal.

What will you advise him to do?
This is not about Curtain!!!

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:14pm On Jun 26
keep malice for being loyal?! your brother should simply reply:"at the end of the day, i have a business to run, and wont jeopardize my business because you decide to not show up to market... so as i dont want to be left out, i have decided to keep a close relationship with few sellers in the market to make sure that if one of you cannot provide me with what i need, i can quickly get the goods from the other"

buying goods from a seller is a PRIVILEGE to seller not a duty, and you can change sellers whenever you desire.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 2:29am On Jun 27
MrBrownJay1:
keep malice for being loyal?! your brother should simply reply:"at the end of the day, i have a business to run, and wont jeopardize my business because you decide to not show up to market... so as i dont want to be left out, i have decided to keep a close relationship with few sellers in the market to make sure that if one of you cannot provide me with what i need, i can quickly get the goods from the other"

buying goods from a seller is a PRIVILEGE to seller not a duty, and you can change sellers whenever you desire.
This isn't about Curtain, but about Polygamy.
How can I invite you to enjoy my resources and yet want to be dictating for me.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by tanigororo: 10:27am On Jun 29
[quote author=talk2hb1 post=130674712][/quote]
Change The Title To "Polygamy is Men's Right"
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 5:39pm On Jun 29
Title updated

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Sapasenator: 8:01pm On Jun 29
Not my rights. I hate polygamy. But I see nothing wrong with the idea.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 9:40pm On Jun 29
Sapasenator:
Not my rights. I hate polygamy. But I see nothing wrong with the idea.
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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by StillDtruth: 4:11am On Jun 30
See self hate!
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Goodlyhrt(m): 4:55am On Jun 30
If I have the right resources not just money, I mean military grade insight to checkmate all the ills that comes from it then I can consider polygamy.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Kobicove(m): 4:57am On Jun 30
Personally I see nothing wrong with a man having more than one wife if he is financially and emotionally capable of dealing with the challenges that come with it.

It makes me so mad that we allowed white people to come and brainwash us that polygamy is bad but homosexuality is good! angry

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 7:53am On Jun 30
Low Self Esteem will make you believe a woman is doing you the favor of your life by marrying you, or perhaps she is actually doing you the greatest favor of your life.

No Woman, I repeat No Woman will want to have anything to do with you as a man if she doesn't have anything to benefit from you, know this and know peace. except maybe your Mama or Your Siblings!!!

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:08am On Jun 30
Honestly true. Women are very brutal in their younger years. Riding the cock carousel, monkey branching and multiple dating. Why should a man remain single and faithful after he has made it and gotten married. These same wicked women won't even look at you twice when there was nothing. If not for Christianity, na 50 wives I for Marry.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by DevilsEqual(m): 8:17am On Jun 30
Sapasenator:
Not my rights. I hate polygamy. But I see nothing wrong with the idea.

Maybe a right u don't wanna exercise, like u have the right to marry but u wanna go do Baby Daddy root. So it's fine since you have nothing against it
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Karleb(m): 12:13pm On Jun 30
tensazangetsu20:
Honestly true. Women are very brutal in their younger years. Riding the cock carousel, monkey branching and multiple dating. Why should a man remain single and faithful after he has made it and gotten married. These same wicked women won't even look at you twice when there was nothing. If not for Christianity, na 50 wives I for Marry.

Brotherly, women should keep thanking their God for Christianity.

Before it, polygamy was the order of the day. Unquestionable!

Any man that wants it and is capable should go for it. Fuc.k what anyone says.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Pojomojo: 3:01pm On Jun 30
tensazangetsu20:
Honestly true. Women are very brutal in their younger years. Riding the cock carousel, monkey branching and multiple dating. Why should a man remain single and faithful after he has made it and gotten married. These same wicked women won't even look at you twice when there was nothing. If not for Christianity, na 50 wives I for Marry.
Thank God for Christianity but I have a gut feeling you are cheating or have the tendency to cheat.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Karleb(m): 3:09pm On Jun 30
Pojomojo:
Thank God for Christianity but I have a gut feeling you are cheating or have the tendency to cheat.

What does this mean?

Are you implying that a monoganic man can't cheat?

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:12pm On Jun 30
Pojomojo:
Thank God for Christianity but I have a gut feeling you are cheating or have the tendency to cheat.

It's also a sin in Christianity to cheat so unfortunately I won't be able to once I get married.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Pojomojo: 3:18pm On Jun 30
tensazangetsu20:


It's also a sin in Christianity to cheat so unfortunately I won't be able to once I get married.
You not even married undecided
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:19pm On Jun 30
Pojomojo:
You not even married undecided
And

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Proserpina: 3:29pm On Jun 30
talk2hb1:

This isn't about Curtain, but about Polygamy.
How can I invite you to enjoy my resources and yet want to be dictating for me.
Which resources you get?

grin grin
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Gerrard59(m): 3:33pm On Jun 30
tensazangetsu20:


It's also a sin in Christianity to cheat so unfortunately I won't be able to once I get married.

There is nowhere in the bible where polygamy is explicitly frowned upon.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Proserpina: 3:33pm On Jun 30
Some of you on this forum are just so funny grin grin grin

Marry as many wives as you want lol but please if you are a Nigerian living in Nigeria marry what you can cater for.

Crime rates no be here o

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by anonimi: 3:41pm On Jun 30
Gerrard59:
There is nowhere in the bible where polygamy is explicitly frowned upon.

1 Timothy 3

Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. 2 Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife,

His wife/singular.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Gerrard59(m): 3:45pm On Jun 30
anonimi:


His wife/singular.

That is not an explicit frown. The same way we have verses mentioning words like adultery, stealing, fornication etc., I want to see where polygamy was frowned upon as an act that detests God.

Anyway, better to marry another woman than have a harem of concubines which MANY Christian men, including pastors, do these days.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by chidiakwari: 3:46pm On Jun 30
I think it is somewhat delusional for a Muslim bride to find an issue with his husband wanting to pick another wife.

This is enshrined in your belief system, so why do you want to cherry pick?

I hate the idea of polygamy as it makes no sense to me. But it baffles me when Muslim bride cry about their husband wanting to marry a second wife.

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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by lastkingsman: 4:22pm On Jun 30
[quote author=Gerrard59 post=130729932]

There is nowhere in the bible where polygamy is explicitly frowned upon. [/quote

My issue with polygamy is not even religious, it's social and financial.

It's not cheap to raise kids in a quality way in these financial times (Some couples are now DINK - Dual Income, No Kids) coupled with women unlimited wahala.

Abeg one woman is ok, if I want to misbehave, let side chick suffer that one grin
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Lordbinsmar: 4:31pm On Jun 30
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Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Gerrard59(m): 4:53pm On Jun 30
lastkingsman:
My issue with polygamy is not even religious, it's social and financial.

It's not cheap to raise kids in a quality way in these financial times (Some couples are now DINK - Dual Income, No Kids) coupled with women unlimited wahala.

Abeg one woman is ok, if I want to misbehave, let side chick suffer that one

Sure. The reason polygamy should be for well-to-do men. But the animosity most women, and surprisingly Muslim women as well, who are side chics have towards polygamy is nauseating and shows chronic selfishness.

Well, the best response is for young bachelors to vet their would-be wives.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by Feldie: 5:17pm On Jun 30
Enlightened men are trying to not get married at all these morons are talking about marrying multiple women. Why do you even want to get married? It's the biggest simps that think you need marry a lady to be having intimacy with her.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by tanigororo: 7:23pm On Jun 30
Feldie:
Enlightened men are trying to not get married at all these morons are talking about marrying multiple women. Why do you even want to get married? It's the biggest simps that think you need marry a lady to be having intimacy with her.
Marrying, not Marrying is a choice.
The bone of contention here is that, never believe those fallacy of One Man One Wife.
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 7:25pm On Jun 30
Proserpina:
Which resources you get?

grin grin
Ẹnipe?
Re: Polygamy is Every Man's Right by talk2hb1(m): 7:27pm On Jun 30
Proserpina:
Some of you on this forum are just so funny grin grin grin

Marry as many wives as you want lol but please if you are a Nigerian living in Nigeria marry what you can cater for.

Crime rates no be here o
If Finance is the basic criteria for child bearing, nobody should have a child because most of our income is not enough to cater for ourselves alone. Additional consumer should not be welcome, yet we marry and bear children

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