Seun no get level i swear!

Paraman:
Someone called you out for assaulting your wife, instead of you to take correction, you're claiming he's jealous of you

Exactly.

alezzy13:
Not that it really matters, but Jarus claiming to be more popular than Seun is wildly hilarious.

Like someone said, that points to some insecurities on his part.

Right from when he was active here, he had serious insecurities or some sort of complex. Almost 20 years after graduation, all he talks about on twitter is his first class degree in economics from OAU.

absoluteSuccess:
Jarus is behaving like the average Yoruba man. I think Seun is the mature person in this case. In my home, I am always wrong by default, so peace could reign. If everyone is always wrong without evidence, you are fighting an emotional battle and you may not be a very good person.

All that we have not known you in this dimension, we've only known you in the dimension we used to from time.

The claim on Seun help us to see behind the screen the "herbalist Pastor" claim. Its a cheap blackmail and whoever is involved in the opposite direction will be blackmailed. Thats why I said he is behaving like an average Yoruba person. You can be wrong from other peoples' perspective, but never blackmail anyone without strong evidence, especially people who have been useful to you in the past.

My rule in this life is, I will never make you my enemy, but I will not be your victim, and I will never blackmail you when you are trying to protect me.

Just say the Yoruba people in your own family. There are about 50 million Yorubas in the world. You don't speak for all of them

Don't marry many women like Abiola did and lost the opportunity to become the richest black man, which Dangote eventually achieved, probably learning from his "mistakes".

Don't bring into the world children you may not be able to nurture properly to leadership position due to age disparity that will eventually affect the legacy you might be trying to build due to sibling infighting that may erupt in your "empire" and bring it down.

Don't blackmail others with silly "juju scare" that average Yoruba always like to blackmail one another in their community to bring each other down, if you always know some people are voodooically involved on your issue, you are just like them.

Use your sex drive to build industries to solve social and economic problems. Whenever you have couple of millions or you can afford an extra apartment, you start staring at the ceiling on your bed thinking of the next sexcapade and how to package it.

Use your time properly, there are many bigger problems to solve, don't create a stupid one that will waste everyone's time dwelling on your problem when your news break, be a role model and live by the best, appreciable principle.

We do fall sometimes, don't make yourself infallible, say sorry and move ahead.

Salam Alaikum, wa ramotulah, wa barakatu.

I remember those days of Jarus.. when the guy was still coming up, giving coaching lessons and all that for job seekers.
Why is he allowing pride take over him like this?. Seun na your helper o, without NL, you wouldn't have gotten to the stage you are now.

That aside, if he is muslim, he can marry up to 4 wives as far as he is buoyant enough to take care of them.. that is what their quran teaches.
If the guyman wan add wife join the existing one, make una allow am.

flokii:
I remember those days of Jarus.. when the guy was still coming up, giving coaching lessons and all that for job seekers.
Why is he allowing pride take over him like this?. Seun na your helper o, without NL, you wouldn't have gotten to the stage you are now.

That aside, if he is muslim, he can marry up to 4 wives as far as he is buoyant enough to take care of them.. that is what their quran teaches.
If the guyman wan add wife join the existing one, make una allow am.

Islam allows 4 wives but also says only if you can love them equally. That aside, he is within his right to marry 4 wives, however, when you start beating anyone of them for whatsoever reason, then it becomes a crime. If the news get enough media publication, Jarus can say bye bye to obtaining visas to visit developed countries or work in same as an expatriate.

EreluRoz:
Overgrown babies.

Seun behaves like last Borns, I know kos I'm one.

Jarus is obviously a disorganized man with inflated ego.

I like seeing men banters but hates their physical fight.

Seun, jarus you can continue your fight here, let nlfpmod be the refree

na wetin I talk to be that .. na inside nairaland Dem suppose dey drag all these things all these casting on Twitter no palash at all ..

Let keep it within the family ..

Cc: seun
Jarus

Goodvibes007:

Islam allows 4 wives but also says only if you can love them equally. That aside, he is within his right to marry 4 wives, however, when you start beating anyone of them for whatsoever reason, then it becomes a crime. If the news get enough media publication, Jarus can say bye bye to obtaining visas to visit developed countries or work in same as an expatriate.

You are funny, no successful business man without international certification dare leave Nigeria to go wash plate abroad, you just don't jump like that or you blame yourself for it

EreluRoz:
You are right sha. Most men think polygamy is just about having different women to be intimate with but it's far more than that and it's very dangerous. For someone like me if any man brings polygamy before me having warned him before marriage will see the other side of me that he doesn't know exist. Men do not really care how hurtful it is.
I also learned Jarus married her when he had nothing only to build with him and he wants to bring in another woman and he had the guts to go physical on her because she reacted smh

i believe if a man has respect for his partner he would listen to his partner . Now that if you're an actual partner not the basic Nigerian partner ..

If you're the basic Nigerian partner forget it, he won't listen to shiit no matter what you tell him .. he'd do what he wants to do and tell you to fvck off because he's got no respect for you ..

So all that talk Abt seeing the other side of you na wash, aunty ..

Besides, if you don't want polygamy steer clear away from Muslims ...

@seun did you see what I told you last week on twitter about buckling up? You dey fall hand walahi

Hmm

helinues:


The ladies who now see relationship as a job opportunity?

Same ladies who are becoming a maid/slave all in the name of marriage

Abi the same ladies who are abandoning their future dreams or career for ordinary marriage.

Our ladies have lost their values, not all but majority of them. The good ones are very rare same as the good guys.

Cheating to start with is something I am just disgusted with, if you are not a notorious liar, you can't cheat. Secondly, you put yourself on unnecessary pressure as demands for things and time consumption wouldn't even worth it eventually. Polygamous, Na na

Gbam .


Just what I was hammering on ..

All these gimme money girls cannot garner respect from their husband/partner .. so when she's having pre marriage do's and don't's with him . .. she's just talking to the breeze ..

Baba go still do wetin him wan do ..

Which leaves the said wife with two options..

First, Accept the situation..

Secondly, fvck off and go back to Daddy's house ..

absoluteSuccess:
Jarus is behaving like the average Yoruba man. I think Seun is the mature person in this case. In my home, I am always wrong by default, so peace could reign. If everyone is always wrong without evidence, you are fighting an emotional battle and you may not be a very good person.

All that we have not known you in this dimension, we've only known you in the dimension we used to from time.

The claim on Seun help us to see behind the screen the "herbalist Pastor" claim. Its a cheap blackmail and whoever is involved in the opposite direction will be blackmailed. Thats why I said he is behaving like an average Yoruba person. You can be wrong from other peoples' perspective, but never blackmail anyone without strong evidence, especially people who have been useful to you in the past.

My rule in this life is, I will never make you my enemy, but I will not be your victim, and I will never blackmail you when you are trying to protect me.

Man, you're weak ..

No sugarcoating ..

If you're always wrong by default for peace to reign, you're putting on partner on a pedestal which is so wrong ..

Would she ever take to corrections when it's needed?? .. well, na you sabi..

PrinceofAgoAre:
na wetin I talk to be that .. na inside nairaland Dem suppose dey drag all these things all these casting on Twitter no palash at all ..

Let keep it within the family ..

Cc: seun
Jarus

Seun is addicted to Twitter and not his own forum

flokii:
I remember those days of Jarus.. when the guy was still coming up, giving coaching lessons and all that for job seekers.
Why is he allowing pride take over him like this?. Seun na your helper o, without NL, you wouldn't have gotten to the stage you are now.

That aside, if he is muslim, he can marry up to 4 wives as far as he is buoyant enough to take care of them.. that is what their quran teaches.
If the guyman wan add wife join the existing one, make una allow am.

Probably his ego is going ruffled by the fact that he knows everyone knows nairaland was the major source of his breakthrough in life.

Everyone doesn't and shouldn't agree with your opinion or mindset.

Only you polygamist ,only you wife beater .
Swear dey follow you and your coat abi suit.

PrinceofAgoAre:


Man, you're weak ..

No sugarcoating ..

If you're always wrong by default for peace to reign, you're putting on partner on a pedestal which is so wrong ..

Would she ever take to corrections when it's needed?? .. well, na you sabi..

Grammar problem there. What I'm saying or trying to say is, for peace to reign, I do concede to some of the things that bring about heated argument most times. For instance, it is my fault if I have to borrow money from her and she is saying it so that everybody will hear about it in the compound. Stop talking about it, I will give you, PLEASE!!!!! I would have to say that on top of my voice and eventually, everybody heard, now I think she made me raise my voice. She said she never raised her voice, I'm the one raising my voice-arguments.

I can start brooding from here and continue to escalate issues and come back here to speak ill of my wife. In a week, I might have spent 20k before she loan me 1000n (just for illustration), yet its like she has spent 100k while I have not dropped chichi. How do I just make her see the comparison? Very very impossible. So, I assumed I'm wrong to ever say "use your money I will give you later". But is this how bad she is?

Never, but this is how every argument always look like from my own perspective when she equally have her own perspective that's true to her too.

Backtracking, how relieved was I when she borrowed me the money for our use? Why didn't I borrow the money from someone else when I already know she is so attached to her money? Yes I'm ready to spend my last kobo for the family. Yet if I create issue out of this, how about the time she was always there, cooking and doing all sort and I felt good Keeping my money in my pocket "after all months of endless spending?" how about her taking care of some of the needs that I really don't care about that she cares so much about?

I will like you to listen to R.Kelly and sparkle trading blames. Now she is spending her own money on an incremental level in a direction that she believe is for the good of the family, but which does not seems to exist to me. Yet it truly matters, she is trying to fix the family in her own preconceived "status" that doesn't matter right away in my own perspective, but which does for her. At long run it pays off for me but stretch my imaginations and had me investing greatly in myself before I could meet up.

She pushed me out of my comfort zone and I was really mad.

As for me, if you are competing with your wife in some argument, you have to check yourself as the man, as long as its something that will favour both parties at long run. Let me say i prefer a neighbourhood that is cheaper and she want a cozy neighbourhood that will affect or stretch my finances, I will be mad and struggle with this, what if she eventually secure the cozy neighbourhood, it was tough but I have adjusted to it. if you are not bringing a second wife home, I don't really think there is a problem conceding to your wife sometimes.

absoluteSuccess:


Grammar problem there. What I'm saying or trying to say is, for peace to reign, I do concede to some of the things that bring about heated argument most times. For instance, it is my fault if I have to borrow money from her and she is saying it so that everybody will hear about it in the compound. Stop talking about it, I will give you, PLEASE!!!!! I would have to say that on top of my voice and eventually, everybody heard, now I think she made me raise my voice. She said she never raised her voice, I'm the one raising my voice-arguments.

I can start brooding from here and continue to escalate issues and come back here to speak ill of my wife. In a week, I might have spent 20k before she loan me 1000n (just for illustration), yet its like she has spent 100k while I have not dropped chichi. How do I just make her see the comparison? Very very impossible. So, I assumed I'm wrong to ever say "use your money I will give you later". But is this how bad she is?

Never, but this is how every argument always look like from my own perspective when she equally have her own perspective that's true to her too.

Backtracking, how relieved was I when she borrowed me the money for our use? Why didn't I borrow the money from someone else when I already know she is so attached to her money? Yes I'm ready to spend my last kobo for the family. Yet if I create issue out of this, how about the time she was always there, cooking and doing all sort and I felt good Keeping my money in my pocket "after all months of endless spending?" how about her taking care of some of the needs that I really don't care about that she cares so much about?

I will like you to listen to R.Kelly and sparkle trading blames. Now she is spending her own money on an incremental level in a direction that she believe is for the good of the family, but which does not seems to exist to me. Yet it truly matters, she is trying to fix the family in her own preconceived "status" that doesn't matter right away in my own perspective, but which does for her. At long run it pays off for me but stretch my imaginations and had me investing greatly in myself before I could meet up.

She pushed me out of my comfort zone and I was really mad.

As for me, if you are competing with your wife in some argument, you have to check yourself as the man, as long as its something that will favour both parties at long run. Let me say i prefer a neighbourhood that is cheaper and she want a cozy neighbourhood that will affect or stretch my finances, I will be mad and struggle with this, what if she eventually secure the cozy neighbourhood, it was tough but I have adjusted to it. if you are not bringing a second wife home, I don't really think there is a problem as long as you don't have argument with your wife.

Alright .. I get it nw..

The polygamy thing really pain Seun. I see his tweets and I must say I agree with him. J.arus really fuccked up. You met a 21yrs old Gen Z baddie on Twitter advertising herself that she doesn't mind becoming a second wife and boom, you got interested.

I feel for his first wife sha.

NLCreator:
Jarus made the claim after Seun Osewa criticized him for "disciplining" his wife. Mr. Osewa used the euphemism "discipline" to chastise his best friend and real estate developer for beating his wife.

Anyway, this is for people saying what has nairaland done for them, Jarus just admitted he rose through his platform

poshestmina:
Everyone doesn't and shouldn't agree with your opinion or mindset.

Only you polygamist ,only you wife beater .
Swear dey follow you and your coat abi suit.

swear no dey follow am. . na mumu woman no get sense..

You go marry Muslim wetin she dey expect ..

He help you open business, give you car and other luxurious, still promise you more make you take that one do no vex even when he has every right to bring a second wife without even trying to appease her .. abi you think say another go give am those things because say him wan Carry Another woman enter house.. e fit be say na the new wife wey him wan marry e fit dey do all those things for ..

But jarus here still acted gentlemanly, told her about it, seeing the she'll be possible against it , he appeased her with the luxuries he gave to her which he's not obligated too .

Instead of her to live with it and adapt .. she went to herbalist trying to harm the same husband that still has a lot to give you .. The father of her child .. if she harm an nw, who go dey take care of pikin ..

She only got beaten be cause she attempted and intending to harm him .To me she deserves a brain resetting beating ..

Typical Naija pesin. Always blaming others for his own fnck ups. Did Seun help you to b.eat your wife?

I never liked the Seun whatever for ones. He seems to be a green snake in a green green!

NLCreator:
Seun reacts...

Why can't seun respect the guys religion?? He is Muslim, Ned Nwoko married 5 wives including a well known actress, according to his tradition.... when marrying a man, a woman should know what his religion, tradition and what he stands for , b4 accepting him... if his religion approves marrying more than one wife , and u can't take it, don't marry him and convert to another religion... its not by force .... u can't force him to go against his will and religion just because it doesn't favour u personally ...that's y u should not marry into that in the first place....

flokii:
I remember those days of Jarus.. when the guy was still coming up, giving coaching lessons and all that for job seekers.
Why is he allowing pride take over him like this?. Seun na your helper o, without NL, you wouldn't have gotten to the stage you are now.

That aside, if he is muslim, he can marry up to 4 wives as far as he is buoyant enough to take care of them.. that is what their quran teaches.
If the guyman wan add wife join the existing one, make una allow am.

How did seun make him?? Did seun provide for his lifestyle?? Abi , how is being popular on a forum a big deal??

PrinceofAgoAre:
swear no dey follow am. . na mumu woman no get sense..

You go marry Muslim wetin she dey expect ..

He help you open business, give you car and other luxurious, still promise you more make you take that one do no vex even when he has every right to bring a second wife without even trying to appease her .. abi you think say another go give am those things because say him wan Carry Another woman enter house.. e fit be say na the new wife wey him wan marry e fit dey do all those things for ..

But jarus here still acted gentlemanly, told her about it, seeing the she'll be possible against it , he appeased her with the luxuries he gave to her which he's not obligated too .

Instead of her to live with it and adapt .. she went to herbalist trying to harm the same husband that still has a lot to give you .. The father of her child .. if she harm an nw, who go dey take care of pikin ..

She only got beaten be cause she attempted and intending to harm him .To me she deserves a brain resetting beating ..

so if Jarus's wife were to be your mother, would you advise her to stick to polygamy or you'll fight Jarus who if he was your father?

Open your eyes, nearly everybody want your marriage to fail, so their marriage can be the best. Yet they will still mock you in the future, so why make yourself and instrument in self-destruction to satisfy their wishes?

Always make peace and feel complete with your soul mate, marry a woman that you truly love and you are sure to live with all your life.

EreluRoz:
Overgrown babies.

Seun behaves like last Borns, I know kos I'm one.

Jarus is obviously a disorganized man with inflated ego.

I like seeing men banters but hates their physical fight.

Seun, jarus you can continue your fight here, let nlfpmod be the refree

Shut up

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
But why will seun be against polygamy?

Polygamy is a popular concept in the African culture... If you have the resources to care of them, marry as many as you want.

Without caring about the woman's feeling? Very unfair! Hardly any woman wants a co-wife, even Muslim women, this is why they pretend to accept each other outside but kill and maim their children or themselves outside public view

EreluRoz:
Overgrown babies.

Seun behaves like last Borns, I know kos I'm one.

Jarus is obviously a disorganized man with inflated ego.

I like seeing men banters but hates their physical fight.

Seun, jarus you can continue your fight here, let nlfpmod be the refree

the day dem go gather beat on these platform e go hurt like general market, pick two,pick 3, last card , check-up

you're troublesome

kayperry:




the day dem go gather beat on these platform e go hurt like general market, pick two,pick 3, last card , check-up

you're troublesome

don't you like fight, be pretending there.