pocohantas:


Who dash me 500k?
Folake sef know say na cruise. If he has my name or we had anything offline, e for done post am. 😄

@bolden yinmu🙄. I’m just saying they can’t win anything cos that boy is just capping 😂

Ahnie saying wonders about Islam
And even tried to take a swipe at the Yoruba people

Annie2gud:
And some one wil come and say....islam is a religion of PEACE. Enuf reason to see why the capital of pakistan is ISLAM(A)BAD. This world wud have bn a better place without this mohammadan Bigots.salamalaikun islam salam. Mtcheeeew*spits*** on the deluded Sons of Allah.i beg to ask...is it not the same Allah that the,yorubas and the edo muslims serve?or is there a different version or remix of Allah?

https://www.nairaland.com/1534926/whats-native-name-meaning#19851745

cococandy:
@bold, But not every Muslim man married more than one wife. If he didn’t tell her before they signed the marriage contract that he will definitely be marrying again in the future, then he’s 100% at fault. IDC what their religion says. As long as there’s a possibility he made her believe she was going to be the only one and then switched decades later is so foul I can’t quantify it.

Yes to the rest

Ah, no be so o..Every Muslim women knows that her man can marry again and again up to 4...That is what you sign up for when you admit yourself to that religion...You see it might not make sense to you if you're a Christian and that is ok.
Faith is based on conviction and doesn't need to rely on scientific proof. So, there is no need to prove to anybody why your faith make sense..As a Christian, sometimes i stylishly look at my Muslim friends and wonder how on earth would someone be a Muslim? Most especially when I look at their teachings and all of that!! To be honest, am sure they feel the same way about mine, and that is okay .It is called Faith!
If there is anything I have learnt from all this episode is for us parent, most especially those of us with girl-child, we must do everything within our power to empower them with the best of education, skills and whatever they need to STAND on their own, if need be..My friend Jarus says he gave his woman 5 million, promise to build a hse, drives around with two SUV, all because men believe that your gender only needs some coins to SURRENDER!
We need to change that trajectory.
Can a man earning 200k tell his woman earning 1 million naira that he wants to take a second wife? We need to now shift attention/focus on our girl child.
#MyOpinion

simplepee:
This gehh. . Money wey the probability of getting is 0 naim una dey fight for. Dude is just clowning. People that believed her first name is Ada😂😂.

Lmao. I dey catch cruise jare.😂😂😂

pocohantas:


Who dash me 500k?
Folake sef know say na cruise. If he has my name or we had anything offline, e for done post am. 😄

Abi oh. Today na Sunday, make we sef catch cruise.

8pm go soon reach, make I keep Caprisun for fridge so e go dey chilled.

folake4u:


Lmao. I dey catch cruise jare.😂😂😂

I know😂

This one wey ahnie never show face . Wetin dey sup nw ..



Ahnie, come out, come out, let's play ..

No fear

folake4u:


Abi oh. Today na Sunday, make we sef catch cruise.

8pm go soon reach, make I keep Caprisun for fridge so e go dey chilled.

I almost forgot.

Cc:

TimesNewRomans:
8pm

No vex. I am a bit late, Sir.

Marking attendance register.

Present.

Gerrard59:


Many women are doing this everywhere in the country. Especially my age group and upcoming Gen-Z. It was on Nairaland that I read that sex escorts drive G-Wagon, own houses in Lekki, travel abroad etc. Some of them have wealthy sugar daddies who sponsor their relocation. So, nothing really new. It is naive young men who don't know what's up.



In my books, as long as the man provides for the family, does not transmit disease and does not bring forth another child (Muslims aside), if he wants to explore other women, it is fine by me. Even in the bible, monogamy was not rife nor was polygamy explicitly frowned upon.

I don't understand you. Are you talking of polygamy or adultery? ? If its the later, then it will be strange as the 7th commandment condemns it. So you always encouraging men to be adulterous using the bible to back it up is dead on arrival.
Staring at women lustfully is adultery. Do you know more than God ? If it were impossible to be faithful will it be included in the 10 commandments? . Would admonitions by Jesus and all his disciples in their epistles have stressed upon the need of having an undefiled marital bed?

The average man is strictly undisciplined
Even if you were referring to polygamy, do you understand the process and requirements? Everybody will just point few biblical figures like David and Solomon and a riff raff will start feeling its their right . is it not on this forum one man compared himself to a lion.LOL

The only women the hate polygamy are the ones that built. We love polygamy more than men( as long we were not the first wife that drank garri with him when he was a nobody). Yul edochie and sir jarus wife built with them and obviously were assured they will be the only wives. Will Ned nwoko wives bother ? You cant deceive a woman into polygamy and impose it on her. Its even men that should be wary of polygamy. Because I assure you they will cry. When you return home to find out your wife has been added to the harem of a rich man, lol. Left alone most of you will not even procreate. As men commitment is costly, carrying a man baby to a woman is a costly choice . see the way women are aborting poor men babies without the men knowing . how are you sure you will be guaranteed a wife? If all the rich men pick four wives, plus concubines and mistress, and all the alpha males have three to four baby mamas , who will you find to marry?

We have women saying broke/poor/unemployed men don't deserve sex. Fine. Their choices. But they don't have the right to suddenly restrict the same men from having as many women to themselves as they can afford. These women institute sex timetables for their husbands. Yes, we have married women using sex as a weapon.

If your wife uses sex manipulate you, then by all means divorce. By the way society don't judge men for divorce . most women are unsatisfied sexually too. Israel dmv, churghchill, fani kayode wives all complained of their men being 1 minute men . did they go outside ?

This isn't even just about women but desecrating the marital institution. Day after day we accuse feminism and wokeness of destroying family unit but philandering men are excused. If you are a woman, and you see a clip of your husband kneeling and crying just to put the tip as davido did, will you be happy ?

Tomorrow, innocent men will be criticized because they decided to explore while prostrate cancer dey finish men upandown (black men are the most affected group).

The solution is simple, if you cant stick to a woman in a monogamous marriage and you are not in a polygamous married, remain single. Have all the sex you want with anything in skirt. Is your preek. By the way society doesn't judge men for promuiscuity.if I were a man I will take this path.

Additionally, a key issue here is modern women disregarding the basic biology behind men's quest for sex. The average man likes to have sex, that is just it. I live in a country where women are okay with men exploring as long as they provide for the family and do not bring a child from outside.

if women are okay with it, we will not have women crying and having sleepless night?
Women are not okay with it. A male's ego that involves getting whatever they want, regardless of who is hurt is at play here . adultery takes place as a norm in naija because nothing can be done. If there was a price to pay for it, the uncontrollable urge by them will be in check.
Andrew Tate " rape is bad... I just love having the power to do what I want" comes in mind. A man's desire to do what he wants.

There is single parenting which is very popular. We have financially comfortable women having the freedom to get sperm from the banks to fertilise and have babies. Two, we have lesbians raising children. You see? Choices everywhere. Freedom yanfu-yanfu. However, when you bring another child into a man's house, anything you see, please take it like that.

when did single parenting become acceptable in naija? If I surf the forum I can point out posts of you bashing single
moms and single parenting.

May the best alfa meil and ndifeminismi win. Good luck to those involved.

it is not a power tussle issue between alpha males and feminism, (You can't even put a brotherhood of broken and unattractive men together in the same sentence with a movement of equity),but basic decency. You cant expect men to live out their biological tendencies disregarding the feelings and interests of the wives .


Day after day we keep hearing, "if you are not ready to be submissive, remain single" yet telling men that if they are not ready to be faithful they should remain single is like restriction to them. You think submission is easier than faithfulness in men. You think its easy to quit working because your man said so?

Your defence is always , "women don't like broke guys".
Is the best punishment for hypergamous women not " not wifing them but rather looking for a virtuous woman?" That is the best revenge a man can have.because you are sore over girls that rejected you, you then punish a decent woman you meet by polygamy? Making someone innocent suffer? Isn't it the same thing men avoid- cleaning up the mess of another man, raising another man seed, dealing with women damaged by another man etc..
Worse off the people you guys cheat on with your wives are the same girls that will have rejected you when you were broke ( you see how foolish you men can be). Women that will not have looked at your face if you had nothing is who you are sending money bouquet for and buying a car just to put the tip. Paying the school fees of a single mother children.lol

Continue na, you will learn the hard way that men are wicked but women are evil.with the way its going, men will purposely stop performing DNA test, just to save them the heartache. And before you think of killing her, you will be dead first. Men that "just died after a brief illness" comes to mind .Decent women will become more scarce than gold and you will manage the ones available or remain single.

folake4u:
Marking attendance register.

Present !

pocohantas:


Educationally and intellectually he is sound. Though he always struck me as someone to bully people with his position.

Men can be pro-anything when sex and their egos are involved. You would see the most educated having takes that will shock you. It is more of a conscience thing for me. Some are sensible to know (and reward) loyalty. Some are not. I have no hot take for him. He displayed his human nature. Women do not act theirs with such swiftness because we are the ones who bear the burden of reproduction. He as a man simply has to move on to the next and have 2 more kids. My concern is how women see a man treat the wife of their youth in one way and still chook head. It boils down to same belief of being the different or favoured one.

💯
Someone said Jarus is book smart but not street smart, that's why he thought he could pacify his wife with gifts and money.

Yeah you're right. 2nd wife will learn too. They all love to think they're special

Proserpina:
Present !

Biko wey the guy wey wan reveal identity abeg?

That person that wrote that very long epistle up there, you dey mad? Which jobless person do you expect to read that thing

folake4u:


Biko wey the guy wey wan reveal identity abeg?

Wind carry him evidence go on his way here.

Let's wait a little

Proserpina:
Wind carry him evidence go on his way here.

Let's wait a little

Oya na.

folake4u:


Oya na.

Well information reaching me now is, his bicycle brakes just cut.

We may have to wait a little longer. In the main time, let's start with praise worship.

Sing along...

"We are handing over...."

Proserpina:
Well information reaching me now is, his bicycle brakes just cut.

We may have to wait a little longer. In the main time, let's start with praise worship.

Sing along...

"We are handing over...."

We are handing over
(Handing over)
Handing over...
Handing over... To Master Jesus.

seunmsg:


I am a man and not a woman so I may not know exactly how women feel. However, my advice was directed towards men and not women.

If married women decides to have side dicks (lots of them have though), no problem in as much as it’s discreet. The day I catch my wife with a side dick is the day she leaves my house. If she catch me with a side chick, she either leave with it or leave my house. It’s her decision to make.

And yet people wonder why women “open” eye when they go abroad. This one is in one local village in Nigeria and making mouth. Go to a sane environment and try cheating on your wife. You will be the one to leave the house and still pay child support from your shared apartment.

But of course I’m sure men like you will marry the kind of women they deserve.

The financial implication of divorce is wat makes us so uncomfortable with it and of course the social stigma....

cococandy:
What if she divorces him first?

One can only stipulate though. We don’t really know what any of them are going to do

I wish my Nigerian sisters would get more comfortable with divorce. They would be spared A lot of the BS they tolerate

U can't make up stuff like this. A wife of 14 years is too greedy because she doesn't want her husband to marry a new wife

TheSuperX:
Let him marry another wife if he can cater for her, the woman is just being too greedy, she just want all the attention and money for herself.

Lucky!!!

TheSuperX:
Okay let's say he flirted, but I doubt if he'd slept with her. JARUS is a Muslim and he knows what is good and bad in Islam.

My problem is with the wife not agreeing to his wants/demands, she's so greedy that she wants everything for herself. she's lucky some Muslim men won't even inform their wife before they marry second wife.

Some men can be so naive. Pretty sure she was the greedy one, not the first wife.

Would have loved to see her pic

Ensa777:


Polygamous ke? The woman has left and Twitter descended on the lady he was to marry.She was always advertising herself on twitter and saying how she can even be a 2nd wife on every rich man's post.well her net caught Jarus .

I for bring her pic but she deactivated quickly.

Yen yen yen. Most likely the incoming wife was fetish too or u think it's normal to marry a woman advertising herself on Twitter instead of just having a fling with her. The wife was desperate and desperate times call for desperate measures. Her desperation in itself was fueled by her husband's insensitivity.

I definitely will have dumped his sorry ass but every Mallam to his own kettle.

PrinceofAgoAre:
what exactly is your problem with all this ..


She went fetish.. why Should she do that ..

She already knew she married a Muslim and with time he'd be bringing in a second wife ..
.he compensated her with all that gift in which she accepted why does she still wants to ruin his life by going fetish .. if she wasn't comfortable with the whole setup she could have asked for a divorce ..

She definitely deserves that beating for going fetish which is even suppose to be against her religion ..

He brought it online

leisuretym:
You have already ruin his image online, it's a big scandal, all his online competitors have employed hatchet men to finish him, the man you depend to give you everything and you want to bring him down, by the time you do, be happy, be very very happy

Gloriagee:
He brought it online

some of them don’t think before they post

Gloriagee:
Yen yen yen. Most likely the incoming wife was fetish too or u think it's normal to marry a woman advertising herself on Twitter instead of just having a fling with her. The wife was desperate and desperate times call for desperate measures. Her desperation in itself was fueled by her husband's insensitivity.

I definitely will have dumped his sorry ass but every Mallam to his own kettle.

insensitive ..


😂😂

Did he not mention he informed her before the whole bruhaha ..

How was he insensitive again !!

Was the other Lady trying to use voodoo-ism to harm him like she was going to ..

She didn't target the new lady but her husband ...

That's a clear stupidity..

Mogadishuu:
Ahnie saying wonders about Islam
And even tried to take a swipe at the Yoruba people





https://www.nairaland.com/1534926/whats-native-name-meaning#19851745

Is that really ahnie??

This is ridiculous and for me it's the height of entitlement. I feel so sorry for the wife with the way he's publishing the compensation he thinks are good enough for her. N5m etc. Has he saved enough for his children's school fees?

cococandy:
some of them don’t think before they post

Gloriagee:
Some men can be so naive. Pretty sure she was the greedy one, not the first wife.

Would have loved to see her pic

This is her.

Gloriagee:
This is ridiculous and for me it's the height of entitlement. I feel so sorry for the wife with the way he's publishing the compensation he thinks are good enough for her. N5m etc. Has he saved enough for his children's school fees?

Entitlement doesn’t even begin to cover it.
I’m mentally so far removed from the average Nigerian man’s mindset I can’t even begin to comprehend how they think this means anything.

He compensated her with money. Which money? The money that he earned while married to her? Which means it’s her money too? I’m trying to imagine how someone can compensate me with my own money in order to get my permission to disrespect me in my own home. That’s just hilarious. She should have already had access to that money to begin with. But hey. Different worlds.