pocohantas:


Na her Twitter acct be that o.
Na she use her hand post am. 😂

How old is she even

cococandy:


How old is she even

I don't know. But I put her at 27 to 31.
Asides being educated and obviously more bougee, I see no core physical upgrade he couldn't have implented in his wife.

Una still dey here what are you guys still doing in this particular thread ?

pocohantas:


I don't know. But I put her at 27 to 31.
Asides being educated and obviously more bougee, I see no core physical upgrade he couldn't have implented in his wife.

And how old is he? 50+?

Sometimes these men think they are sharp. She can’t possibly like anything about him except his subjective wealth.
And I’m sure OG wifey has more sense than her.

I wish them good luck. They’ll need it

I wonder how long ago he took these pictures but you can tell this was probably when OG wifey was pouring into him. Helping him build up himself and his estate.
Now according to his NL fanboys, he’s a wealthy man. Who says he has to stick to the one who’s been there from the beginning?
Like G.G. said, they are really teaching women that loyalty is so suckers


PS this is a public picture on his profile. No rules broken

UjuJoan2:


That’s why you need to ask yourself why her reaction is strange. And most importantly, why was he begging and bribing her? As a Muslim man, it’s his right to marry another wife and he can clearly afford, why beg his wife to carry out his god-given right?


Probably because they had an agreement that he would never take a second wife. Maybe that was why she even married him in the first place. Maybe she supported him against all odds. Maybe she is even responsible for his wealth, and now he’s using the money to go against their agreement.

If you were the wife, would you ever agree to such? Will an amount of “begging” make you change your mind?


Muslim or not, not all women want to share their husbands. Some Muslim women will rather stay single if their suitors agrees to having interest in possibly marrying a second wife. Let’s not deceive ourselves, what is wrong is wrong!


Our problem in Nigeria is that we use religion to justify everything, even stupid things!


I am sooooo disappointed in Jarus. I had so much respect for him. He used to talk about his wife with so much love and adoration. This is the height of irresponsibility. Men are just f00lish!!! And to think they think themselves superior. . . Chai!!!

Honestly, I am not a Muslim but a Christian. My grandfather on the maternal side who is not a Muslim married five wives and they all lived together even though he was not very rich. Polygamy used to be a normal part of our culture in Africa and that fact has never been in contention for hundreds of years.

The reason we are having this discussion is because of the encroachment of Christianity coupled with western cultures that have crept into our traditions and culture. I will never be polygamous as I love to have a baby mama and live separately without any woman encroaching into my life. I do not think I believe strongly in marriage at this point as there are no long-run benefits for the man in the institution.

I honestly do not know why he was trying to bribe his wife, that was a connotation that he was into something wrong. If I have polygamous tendencies, I will simply go ahead, marry, and impregnate the second wife while still taking very good care of the first wife. I will never beat or argue with my wife and if she wants, I will give her the option of a divorce with full benefits.

I do not argue or fight or raise my hands. never.

We can have our disagreements but the day you bring Otumokpor into our home. The marriage is officially over and I will move on without batting an eyelid regardless of your reasons. These are lines once crossed cannot be uncrossed.

It is interesting listening to so many guys defending this. These are the guys who yak about the loyalty of their mothers all the time. So basically they are saying that they would have been cool fine and dandy with it if at the age of 12 or so your dad traded your mother in for an newer wife, and kicked your mother out leaving the usurper as your step mother and you as a second class human being in your home?

There is a man on this Nairaland whose story was on fp. He divorced his wife, married a new one and kept custody of his daughter. And every day has been a fight with his daughter. He complains about how his daughter is disrespectful and wayward. But he cannot seem to put together the dots.

I also remember watching the isis documentary about shamima begum. Her mum died and her dad remarried in 6 months. The person also named shamima who initiated her into isis had the exact same family situation, if I recall well. This is how it begins.

I have a late uncle who did the same thing. ( in fact more than one) Though he was much older and his kids were all in university or graduated at the time.

At 50 plus he was starting a new family with all the attendant wahala. Forget money I am not sure I want the wahala of raising a child from diapers again.

My first two pikins are teens and giving me the shit you get from teens. The last born is 7 and is disturbing me every moment. But that is still better than the wahala you get from them from age 0 to three.

Then money too. My pikins school fees have doubled in the past year.

my uncle was also well to do. however his first brood were all public school educated and cost him next to nothing all things considered . the next brood were schooling in atlantic hall.

i am fairly certain there was no creche or particularly fancy schools for Jarus first three kids. let us see if the new wife will not expect born in US, creche, nanny, the whole nine yards.

cococandy:
I wonder how long ago he took these pictures but you can tell this was probably when OG wifey was pouring into him. Helping him build up himself and his estate.
Now according to his NL fanboys, he’s a wealthy man. Who says he has to stick to the one who’s been there from the beginning?
Like G.G. said, they are really teaching women that loyalty is so suckers


PS this is a public picture on his profile. No rules broken

The picture was taken sometime in 2006/7. And he was single then. This man had a first class in Economics from OAU and got his first job way before he met his first wife.

In all of this, you people are accusing a man who wants to fulfil a part of his religion. This is not Yul or someone from Akwa Ibom. This is a Yoruba Muslim man who has decided to marry another wife. He is no different from the average Kano indigene or Saudi Arabian. If you so much hate polygamy, please don't marry a Muslim.

How hard can this be?

GloriousGbola:
It is interesting listening to so many guys defending this. These are the guys who yak about the loyalty of their mothers all the time. So basically they are saying that they would have been cool fine and dandy with it if at the age of 12 or so your dad traded your mother in for an newer wife, and kicked your mother out leaving the usurper as your step mother and you as a second class human being in your home?

My stance is simple: Jarus is a Muslim and he has the right to marry up to four wives. Why deny or criticise him for doing so?

You are a Yoruba Muslim man as well. I am curious, is there anything culturally or religiously wrong that he did by wanting to marry another wife?

I was just guessing obviously.

He got a degree before he met his wife and so what? lol

He must be your family member this one you’re so adamant in supporting his misbehavior.

How hard can it be to accept injustice in the name of religion ?

And I thought you were one of the reasonable ones. Damn I got bamboozled. Shame on me

Gerrard59:


The picture was taken sometime in 2006/7. And he was single then. This man had a first class in Economics from OAU and got his first job way before he met his first wife.

In all of this, you people are accusing a man who wants to fulfil a part of his religion. This is not Yul or someone from Akwa Ibom. This is a Yoruba Muslim man who has decided to marry another wife. He is no different from the average Kano indigene or Saudi Arabian. If you so much hate polygamy, please don't marry a Muslim.

How hard can this be?

Gerrard59:


My stance is simple: Jarus is a Muslim and he has the right to marry up to four wives. Why deny or criticise him for doing so?

You are a Yoruba Muslim man as well. I am curious, is there anything culturally or religiously wrong that he did by wanting to marry another wife?

what kind of marriage do you want? one in which your wife is your equal, or one in which she has no agency? The wife is essentially told to take it or leave it

Using the cultural or religious defense is very funny. because that is just cherry picking what suits you from religion. Islam allows a man four wives if he can treat them equally. but you as a man know treating women equally is just BS. it is also funny because on a good day you will criticize a lot of things northerners do which are tied to their culture and their religion. this is our culture is an easy out for shitty and oppressive behavior.

i didnt know at first, but there is a very strong culture of divorce in the north. this is likely why. women have grown up seeing their mothers invest themselves in their husbands, only to be relegated when the husband hammers. so why take marriage as anything that requires commitment?

my wife is a lawyer and her thesis was on divorce in islam. i typed it myself. i remember very clearly the phrase of all things legal to Muslims, divorce is the most hated by Allah. Well i will also tell you, of all things Legal in Islam, polygamy is the most hated by women. do not be deceived, no woman wants to share their husband. these second wives simply think they are usurping - if the husband shows wandering eye you will see the exact same reaction

we actually did see something like this years ago. we were working on site in a nepa station in the north. normally nothing happens in these stations and these guys come in sit around and close at 4. once we come in there is work from 9 to 9. so the engineer, who had recently married a new wife, was stuck with us. and he was getting very edgy and insisting he had to go home because his wife was unhappy. she did not believe he was working - rather she thought he was scouting for a new wife. it was very very funny to us. we were working with optimo relay panels. and the guy told his wife, i am at the office working on optimo and she said that optimo na ashawo woman!

last year i was in a partnership with two other partners. i put in 101% to make projects move. then we had a small issue and one of us basically pulled out , cutting us off from a lot of business. i had neglected several other opportunities because of this. i am still angry to this moment. today he is pushing business back our way possibly because his other options did not work out. i am much cooler and indifferent and uncommitted and i am still angry. he too can throw all the legal grammar but the summary is he behaved like an entitled asshole. i say this because i was pissed after commuting myself for two years. now what do you expect the reaction of a woman who put in 14 years and who made sacrifices and was fully commited?

the fact that something is legal in culture or in a document does not make it right and you i am sure know that


incidentally, every other day you are going on about how we are a backward society and how oyibos and asians all have their shit together. so pray tell do the oyibos and asians whose culture you celebrate so much celebrate polygamy? is this how western society grew - where instead of consolidating and building on your successes, you chose to increase your expenses and potential liabilities? 90% of nigerian men, once they see money, instead of finding some asset to invest in they run out and marry another wife, increasing our already burgeoning population and putting more pressure on themselves

we are all reading about the mess abiola has left behind because he had so many children. so where was the forward thinking?

Gerrard59:


The picture was taken sometime in 2006/7. And he was single then. This man had a first class in Economics from OAU and got his first job way before he met his first wife.

In all of this, you people are accusing a man who wants to fulfil a part of his religion. This is not Yul or someone from Akwa Ibom. This is a Yoruba Muslim man who has decided to marry another wife. He is no different from the average Kano indigene or Saudi Arabian. If you so much hate polygamy, please don't marry a Muslim.

How hard can this be?

polygamy is not a compulsory part of islam
stop making it sound like some sort of must do.
there are five pillars of islam and marrying multiple wives is not one of them

there are 100s of muslims yoruba and others in nigeria more successful than Jarus who did not choose to marry a second wife.

yes Jarus got his first job way before he met his wife, so i wonder why he did not just go for a muslimah baddie from day one. there was no shortage of single and completely educated fly/bougie /phone speaking muslim chicks within the industry he worked, within VI or even in the office where he worked

Jarus life has been an open book so i am sure you have read how his wife was instrumental in helping him get the land for his first house. also in pushing him to get rid of his range rover and focus on building the house. i remember the range because he discussed it here. i thought he lost 800k - but it seems he lost up to 4m before his wife intervened. the truth is that for a lot of us, an invested wife will build us in one way or another within her ability. or to quote arnold schwarzennegger - there is no such thing as a self made man.

islam also has a lot to say about unjust behavior, but that is a story for another day i guess

most of the fellows celebrating polygamy are short sighted and are only thinking of the immediate benefits - which is access to nubile women.
they are not thinking of the fallout - more pressure on the man - wives who are not fully invested/commited, unhappy children, jostling for attention and resources. i am kind of suprised that you are all about the right to polygamy while not focused on the outcomes of polygamy which most of us have witnessed as nigerians.

the best i can say about polygamy is one year of pleasure for a lifetime of additional stress.

whatever issues you have with your wife, you will still have them with the new wife. she too will get pregnant, born pikin, get stretch marks, her firm boobs will sag, she may put on weight, she may start focusing on her babies more than you. so what happens next?

let me also drop this

maybe this will make you understand the wifes perspective


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xxk4e59M8og


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GdGFEh0HTs&t=32s

Couldn’t have said it better

GloriousGbola:


what kind of marriage do you want? one in which your wife is your equal, or one in which she has no agency? The wife is essentially told to take it or leave it

Using the cultural or religious defense is very funny. because that is just cherry picking what suits you from religion. Islam allows a man four wives if he can treat them equally. but you as a man know treating women equally is just BS. it is also funny because on a good day you will criticize a lot of things northerners do which are tied to their culture and their religion. this is our culture is an easy out for shitty and oppressive behavior.


the fact that something is legal in culture or in a document does not make it right and you i am sure know that


incidentally, every other day you are going on about how we are a backward society and how oyibos and asians all have their shit together. so pray tell do the oyibos and asians whose culture you celebrate so much celebrate polygamy? is this how western society grew - where instead of consolidating and building on your successes, you chose to increase your expenses and potential liabilities? 90% of nigerian men, once they see money, instead of finding some asset to invest in they run out and marry another wife, increasing our already burgeoning population and putting more pressure on themselves

we are all reading about the mess abiola has left behind because he had so many children. so where was the forward thinking?

cococandy:
Couldn’t have said it better

the only thing everyone supporting can come up with is it is his right as a muslim

GloriousGbola:


the only thing everyone supporting can come up with is it is his right as a muslim

Like if we all exercised our rights based on what our religions permit, the world won’t be a chaotic place

GloriousGbola:
It is interesting listening to so many guys defending this. These are the guys who yak about the loyalty of their mothers all the time. So basically they are saying that they would have been cool fine and dandy with it if at the age of 12 or so your dad traded your mother in for an newer wife, and kicked your mother out leaving the usurper as your step mother and you as a second class human being in your home?

There is a man on this Nairaland whose story was on fp. He divorced his wife, married a new one and kept custody of his daughter. And every day has been a fight with his daughter. He complains about how his daughter is disrespectful and wayward. But he cannot seem to put together the dots.

I also remember watching the isis documentary about shamima begum. Her mum died and her dad remarried in 6 months. The person also named shamima who initiated her into isis had the exact same family situation, if I recall well. This is how it begins.

I have a late uncle who did the same thing. ( in fact more than one) Though he was much older and his kids were all in university or graduated at the time.

At 50 plus he was starting a new family with all the attendant wahala. Forget money I am not sure I want the wahala of raising a child from diapers again.

My first two pikins are teens and giving me the shit you get from teens. The last born is 7 and is disturbing me every moment. But that is still better than the wahala you get from them from age 0 to three.

Then money too. My pikins school fees have doubled in the past year.

my uncle was also well to do. however his first brood were all public school educated and cost him next to nothing all things considered . the next brood were schooling in atlantic hall. i am fairly certain there was no creche or particularly fancy schools for the first three kids. let us see if the new wife will not expect born in us, creche, nanny, the whole nine yards.

you



Do you just do anything to asslick females??

Even twisting the story to your own narrative..


Where does it say anywhere in the write up that he was going to kick her out ..


If she hadn't gone fetish, they could've have lived happily ever after ..


I understand you're a man and the need to hunt for cunts ..

But licking the ass of these NL females wouldn't get you that ..

😒😒

Baba check yourself oo ..

You pass all these one nw

cococandy:
I was just guessing obviously.

He got a degree before he met his wife and so what? lol

He must be your family member this one you’re so adamant in supporting his misbehavior.

How hard can it be to accept injustice in the name of religion ?

And I thought you were one of the reasonable ones. Damn I got bamboozled. Shame on me

injustice

For wanting to take another wife .. 😁😁😁


These females though ..

Y'all should take the fight of this injustice to Allah 😋 ..

Ha approved of this injustice.


Kpele, you'll be alright .

According to Islamic laws, for premarital sex, the chastisement is 100 lashes, while for adultery the adulterers are punished by stoning to death which is also known as Rajm or severe flogging. However, stoning as punishment for extramarital sex is not stated in Quran but is prescribed in Hadith.

If you know you know.

Oh honey you’re right. I’ll definitely be alright:

The man who thinks he can simultaneously be married to me and someone else because he’s too much for one woman hasn’t been born yet. Na craze? 🫢

The women who might not be alright are those that yall have managed to convince that they need to be married at all cost.

PrinceofAgoAre:
injustice

For wanting to take another wife .. 😁😁😁


These females though ..

Y'all should take the fight of this injustice to Allah 😋 ..

Ha approved of this injustice.


Kpele, you'll be alright .

It’s obvious you’re one of those who don’t understand any concept outside of your small bubble of selfish interests

That’s why it’s strange to you, seeing a man who’s not standing with you in support of it.
So you think he must be doing it to gain something from the women.

Just the idea that someone can stand against something he thinks is unfair even if doing so doesn’t benefit him directly is so alien to you.

PrinceofAgoAre:
you



Do you just do anything to asslick females??

Even twisting the story to your own narrative..


Where does it say anywhere in the write up that he was going to kick her out ..


If she hadn't gone fetish, they could've have lived happily ever after ..


I understand you're a man and the need to hunt for cunts ..

But licking the ass of these NL females wouldn't get you that ..

😒😒

Baba check yourself oo ..

You pass all these one nw

cococandy:
It’s obvious you’re one of those who don’t understand any concept outside of your small bubble of selfish interests

That’s why it’s strange to you, seeing a man who’s not standing with you in support of it.
So you think he must be doing it to gain something from the women.

Just the idea that someone can stand against something he thinks is unfair even if doing so doesn’t benefit him directly is so alien to you.

By now you should know that that thing is an empty troll meant to be ignored.

The type of people who were dancing with glee on Jewess thread. Bitter hateful people who are only happy at the misery of others.

I sent it's post straight to the recycle bin.

Jarus is a Muslim. His wife is a Muslim. What is all the fuss about?

Gerrard59:


The picture was taken sometime in 2006/7. And he was single then. This man had a first class in Economics from OAU and got his first job way before he met his first wife.

In all of this, you people are accusing a man who wants to fulfil a part of his religion. This is not Yul or someone from Akwa Ibom. This is a Yoruba Muslim man who has decided to marry another wife. He is no different from the average Kano indigene or Saudi Arabian. If you so much hate polygamy, please don't marry a Muslim.

How hard can this be?

To be honest, I’m really disappointed in you for going back and forth with these EMOTIONAL BEINGS thinking you can win 🤦‍♂️

They’re using their emotional whims and caprices to box you into a corner, and you my friend is beginning to sound like a broken record and they’re enjoying every bit of it.

You can’t force them to see what’s very obvious to the blind.

You should know better, do well to give it a REST Sir!

Gloriagee:
U can't make up stuff like this. A wife of 14 years is too greedy because she doesn't want her husband to marry a new wife

That's just the obvious fact, she wants to enjoy JARUS money alone. 😂

MrPresident1:
Jarus is a Muslim. His wife is a Muslim. What is all the fuss about?

I wonder? the wife is just being so greedy and wants everything for herself, i can tolerate anything but for my wife to start frequently babalawo or whatever just because I want to add another wife, I won't take it lightly with her at all.

ahnie:
Let me burst your bubbles,Alot of popular nairalanders here are having shaky homes,if not broken homes.




Gaskiya magana Aure ba karama aiki ba,ya na da baban aikin da yawa.

Werey, o l'ori nla with hard ass and long nipplés

cococandy:
Oh honey you’re right. I’ll definitely be alright:

The man who thinks he can simultaneously be married to me and someone else because he’s too much for one woman hasn’t been born yet. Na craze? 🫢

The women who might not be alright are those that yall have managed to convince that they need to be married at all cost.

dey play 😁

You never jam ..

Gerrard59:


The picture was taken sometime in 2006/7. And he was single then. This man had a first class in Economics from OAU and got his first job way before he met his first wife.

In all of this, you people are accusing a man who wants to fulfil a part of his religion. This is not Yul or someone from Akwa Ibom. This is a Yoruba Muslim man who has decided to marry another wife. He is no different from the average Kano indigene or Saudi Arabian. If you so much hate polygamy, please don't marry a Muslim.

How hard can this be?

Simple as ABC.

Pesin say na Injustice . 😁😁

Make she go confront ALLAH wey put an Quran na ...

1Sharon:


This is her.

dem don marry her sef. See ring on her finger. First wife is prettier than second wife. O ga o!

GloriousGbola:


If you know you know.

This only sticks if jarus hasn't married the second wife but having sex with her - Adultery (extra- marital) . ..


And no where in the write up denotes them already having coitus ...


So it doesn't stick..

1Sharon:


🤣 You're right. I'm surprised Ja.rus met her on twitter sha. Who would have thought?

Notice the nose rings. I thought our pious jarus would have kicked against such kinds of women.

the babe na Twitter baddie according to people that dug her information out. She's been advertising herself for second wife position. Na so our Oga Jayrus pick interest asking her if she's single.

Gen Z Twitter baddie. Jayrus don enter one chance.

TheSuperX:
That's just the obvious fact, she wants to enjoy JARUS money alone. 😂

Very selfish creatures ..

One said the money the husband makes while being married to her doesn't belong to him .. like say na you dey waka Comot house dey hustle n bustle daily ..


These females are really funny ...