larride:


Well he had to get the story straight, that's why he called in. It's better he set the record straight about the "beating" than allowing it to just fester after he already used his hands to confirm he did beat her.

Woo. Make them rest.

Man strength and woman strength no be same, society generally doesn't take kindly to a man beating a woman, regardless of provocation (it's what it is). The part of the call to the radio that has been trending has been the parts that makes him look even worse, plus I really don't see why he feels the need to continue justifying what led to him beating his wife.

Theflint1:
Man strength and woman strength no be same, society generally doesn't take kindly to a man beating a woman, regardless of provocation (it's what it is). The part of the call to the radio that has been trending has been the parts that makes him look even worse, plus I really don't see why he feels the need to continue justifying what led to him beating his wife.

That's why they said its agenda when you take a part and discard the rest. Contest is important.

Anyways they will be fine.

afrodoc2:


You just described almost classical Autism Spectrum Disorder.

Aspergers more precisely

Android17:
I don't care about Jarus' personal issues but it seems you know him and Seu.n quite well and from some posts on NL from screenshots from X, I've seen people show that Jarus had been going around saying his old friend was mentally disordered for over a decade etc. Some have even said he now claims to be wealthier than S.eun who has resorted to making jealous remarks about him.

If this is true, why are people expecting Se.un to be neutral? I don't understand. That is the part that is fueling my curiosity.

Your chronology is off

Seun jumped on Jarus domestic drama in a spiteful way, so Jarus fired back saying he knows say Seun brain done knock for over a decade and Seun may be jealous of him "possibly" making it more than Seun.

I don't think he meant financially but business wise, respect wise and influence. Seun will never show his finances but believe me, Seun level financially done go far to dey compare. Seun said he admires Jarus business-wise but does not support his polygamy actions. . . that no mean say Seun dey respect him pocket. It's just that Jarus has the social skills to make many things happen that Seun doesn't have, but Seun has a cash cow that outweighs anything. Seun has tried a couple of businesses that didn't work because Seun doesn't put himself out there. He will not even do interview, radio, TV or attend any social event. He admires that in Jarus and wish he has that, but as for pocket, forget, Seun done go far.

GloriousGbola:
what jarus should have done is take a break from SM

already odanz mishap had taken the spotlight off of him

there is an outrage every other minute

all he has to do is keep quiet and people will move on to the next calamity

this is not something you can talk your way out of

How he went about the whole matter was so distasteful and it has rightfully triggered the feminists. They will want to use all their tools to get him.

From his lawyer’s tweet, it’s like the matter will not be straightforward for them and Jarus deleted some tweets he made after leaving custody.

izzou:
I have heard this KiKi Mordi's name somewhere

Can't remember what it was

Maybe na Drake song you dey recall

Android17:
I don't care about Jarus' personal issues but it seems you know him and Seu.n quite well and from some posts on NL from screenshots from X, I've seen people show that Jarus had been going around saying his old friend was mentally disordered for over a decade etc. Some have even said he now claims to be wealthier than S.eun who has resorted to making jealous remarks about him.

If this is true, why are people expecting Se.un to be neutral? I don't understand. That is the part that is fueling my curiosity.

See Seun’s thread on their beef. This was 2023.

https://x.com/seunosewa/status/1647326208328073224?s=46&t=ooeN_2hZIWWqjYuzvZxpkg

Ibime:


Your chronology is off

Seun jumped on Jarus domestic drama in a spiteful way, so Jarus fired back saying he knows say Seun brain done knock for over a decade and Seun may be jealous of him "possibly" making it more than Seun.

I don't think he meant financially but business wise, respect wise and influence. Seun will never show his finances but believe me, Seun level financially done go far to dey compare. Seun said he admires Jarus business-wise but does not support his polygamy actions. . . that no mean say Seun dey respect him pocket. It's just that Jarus has the social skills to make many things happen that Seun doesn't have, but Seun has a cash cow that outweighs anything. Seun has tried a couple of businesses that didn't work because Seun doesn't put himself out there. He will not even do interview, radio, TV or attend any social event. He admires that in Jarus and wish he has that, but as for pocket, forget, Seun done go far.

This part in bold is it. Seun is making lots of money, I no be their accountant but I doubt Jarus makes as much as Seun,
The street credibility and social capital Jarus has Seun does not because he cannot navigate human relationships without bruising them wrongly.Jarus before this scandal dey organize Jarus FC vs Twitter friends, Jarus FC vs KPMG, he dey give TV interviews regularly Seun knows himself and he doesn't put himself out.
I doubt he will have any long term friend unless someone who really understands him and dey very patient. Seun wey go dey chat with mods, next thing he will open thread to trash the mod. He is just a nerd who just say inappropriate things at wrong times. Guys with 10% of his money go don dey Island dey flex with 500 babes

Android17:
I don't care about Jarus' personal issues but it seems you know him and Seu.n quite well and from some posts on NL from screenshots from X, I've seen people show that Jarus had been going around saying his old friend was mentally disordered for over a decade etc. Some have even said he now claims to be wealthier than S.eun who has resorted to making jealous remarks about him.

If this is true, why are people expecting Se.un to be neutral? I don't understand. That is the part that is fueling my curiosity.

I know Seeun as he was a mate in University, Last time I saw him was possibly 2000. He is not a personal friend, he probably doesnt know me. But I knew him because he was the best student in my set and our faculty before he left.

Jarus I have never met him nor spoken to him outside this forum. Same with Seuun and most people on this forum whom I have a good relationship with. Jarus is more social more friendly easier to laugh with. Seeun you wont even know what makes him laugh

Seeun can come into a football stadium and complain about the amount of watts and energy people consume to play football instead of looking away and moving on
If you don't know Seeun well or not exposed to people like him and their thought process, you will be frustrated with him, truly he is hard to understand if you are using Neurotypical people as a standard

raumdeuter:


This part in bold is it. Seun is making lots of money, I no be their accountant but I doubt Jarus makes as much as Seun,
The street credibility and social capital Jarus has Seun does not because he cannot navigate human relationships without bruising them wrongly.Jarus before this scandal dey organize Jarus FC vs Twitter friends, Jarus FC vs KPMG, he dey give TV interviews regularly Seun knows himself and he doesn't put himself out.
I doubt he will have any long term friend unless someone who really understands him and dey very patient. Seun wey go dey chat with mods, next thing he will open thread to trash the mod. He is just a nerd who just say inappropriate things at wrong times. Guys with 10% of his money go don dey Island dey flex with 500 babes

In all these, if I'm Jarus, I will still weigh up Seuns actions and take the positives

Seun could have plastered the issue on NL front page and dragged his reputation through an even wider audience, but he held back

I would not be playing devil's advocate to suggest that Seun gave him a pass while feeling compelled to comment on the matter publicly since everyone knows their relationship. Maybe Seun didn't want to be seen as supporting DV or Polygamy through his silence. When we are under pressure, we don't always see all angles, and expect 100% backing from our friends but sometimes we need to consider all possibilities. Jay Z cannot always back Memphis Bleek in public, he also needs to consider his own social standing.

Ibime:


In all these, if I'm Jarus, I will still weigh up Seuns actions and take the positives

Seun could have plastered the issue on NL front page and dragged his reputation through an even wider audience, but he held back

I would not be playing devil's advocate to suggest that Seun gave him a pass while feeling compelled to comment on the matter publicly since everyone knows their relationship. Maybe Seun didn't want to be seen as supporting DV or Polygamy through his silence. When we are under pressure, we don't always see all angles, and expect 100% backing from our friends but sometimes we need to consider all possibilities. Jay Z cannot always back Memphis Bleek in public, he also needs to consider his social standing.

So there are two threads
the first thread did not make FP but the second thread - the arrest thread - did

GloriousGbola:


So there are two threads
the first thread did not make FP but the second thread - the arrest thread - did

That means the situation done escalate. I think Seun was trying to preserve his image at first with his initial comments (but not taking action on the Nairaland side despite lindaikeji and every blog in Nigeria taking action, so it would have been fair game for Nairaland to report on the trending topic), but now it seems water done pass Garri

Seun is a powerful enemy to have though, considering he controls a good portion of Nigeria's media space. Thats another thing that should come into SirJ calculations

raumdeuter:


This part in bold is it. Seun is making lots of money, I no be their accountant but I doubt Jarus makes as much as Seun,
The street credibility and social capital Jarus has Seun does not because he cannot navigate human relationships without bruising them wrongly.Jarus before this scandal dey organize Jarus FC vs Twitter friends, Jarus FC vs KPMG, he dey give TV interviews regularly Seun knows himself and he doesn't put himself out.
I doubt he will have any long term friend unless someone who really understands him and dey very patient. Seun wey go dey chat with mods, next thing he will open thread to trash the mod. He is just a nerd who just say inappropriate things at wrong times. Guys with 10% of his money go don dey Island dey flex with 500 babes

True this

I'm very saddened by what you people are saying about me.

^^ If you will hear this friendly advice, Don't join others to escalate the issue with your friend rather do your best to either ignore or advice him in private

Not on Twitter and not on NL

Seun:
I'm very saddened by what you people are saying about me.

My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

raumdeuter:
^^ If you will hear this friendly advice, Don't join others to escalate the issue with your friend rather do your best to either ignore or advice him in private

Not on Twitter and not on NL

What made you believe that we are friends?

Seun:
What made you believe that we are friends?

You have known each other for over a decade, you have had positive input in each others business for years
He credits your platform for being his launchpad, He credited you for being one of those who suggested the name of his first blog among other things. He was also a mod on your forum for many years

If he is not a friend to you in the strict sense of it, I believe he is someone you have related to cordially for several years and he deserves that courtesy from you

https://fij.ng/article/insider-not-forex-not-govt-policy-real-reason-gsk-left-nigeria-after-51-years/

E no go better for GSK Pharmaceuticals

Seun:
I'm very saddened by what you people are saying about me.

No vex boss.

Ibime:


My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

Oga don open thread to answer you

https://www.nairaland.com/8143951/ask-me-anything-jarus-me

Seun:
I'm very saddened by what you people are saying about me.

tf me eje,I know you have autism though.

I said this last week and I will repeat it, Jarus needs to slow down. For the life of me, this feels like someone on a spiral and sabotaging himself.

He is either oblivious of the consequences or is exaggerating his level of influence. Government getting involved is the last thing he needs because he can’t win, if e like make e post 50 loved up pictures of him and him wife.

Someone needs to get in his ears about changing his priorities. He has worked hard to get to where he is, he needs to be smart.

Roland17:
I said this last week and I will repeat it, Jarus needs to slow down. For the life of me, this feels like someone on a spiral and sabotaging himself.

He is either oblivious of the consequences or is exaggerating his level of influence. Government getting involved is the last thing he needs because he can’t win, if e like make e post 50 loved up pictures of him and him wife.

Someone needs to get in his ears about changing his priorities. He has worked hard to get to where he is, he needs to be smart.

His lawyer is also on Twitter and should be seeing his post.

Ibime:


My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

LMAO
This comment is killing me 🤣🤣
You no wan enter sanko

izzou:
So if Jarus slapped a female pickpocket that tried to gbe his iPhone, and she came forth because Kiki asked, it is justified abi?

That one na abuse, shey?

Wetin una dey side with sef?

What if Jarus has/had other girlfriends he has beaten in the past?

Is that abuse?

Ibime:


Aspergers more precisely

100%

Roland17:
I said this last week and I will repeat it, Jarus needs to slow down. For the life of me, this feels like someone on a spiral and sabotaging himself.

He is either oblivious of the consequences or is exaggerating his level of influence. Government getting involved is the last thing he needs because he can’t win, if e like make e post 50 loved up pictures of him and him wife.

Someone needs to get in his ears about changing his priorities. He has worked hard to get to where he is, he needs to be smart.

E be like say the guy don hammer some kind money wey dey cause confusion. That level of sudden money dey wey be say your thinking go just dey parabolic.

He should apply the self-control and discipline that made him so successful in his businesses, in this situation. Just give people the OK doke and stay off social media.

Ibime:


My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

Na you start am

afrodoc2:


E be like say the guy don hammer some kind money wey dey cause confusion. That level of sudden money dey wey be say your thinking go just dey parabolic.

He should apply the self-control and discipline that made him so successful in his businesses, in this situation. Just give people the OK doke and stay of social media.

The winner of an argument is not necessarily telling the truth. The compulsion to be right and win this issue on SM may ultimately come with a dire consequence.

That influence and bar he has hammered will disappear in a heartbeat if Lagos State seriously reason him matter.

Lagos no be like other states, they have the resources and institutions to pursue things like these and make examples of people.

Worsestill, Sanwolu na reactive Governor wen no dey waste time if pressure too much. Infact, Sanwolu no mind to intervene where 2 toddlers dey fight for their papa house because the noise don dey paint am and his govt black.

As long as feminist and other female gender pressure groups dey press neck on SM, Lagos fit take the matter personally. This is why Jarus needs to slow down and to your point keep it at ok or strictly business.

Off the top of my head, I can count celebrities who are chilling inside sanko because Lagos State reason their matter.

Like you said, he needs to start putting things in perspective instead of getting into measuring spats with Seun and everyone on SM. Seun na “Big Fish” incase anyone is wondering.

Ibime:


My oga at the top, I no follow for them oh. I remain loyal

😂😂😂😂