My boyfriend and my mother had argument, during the argument one of the things my mom told him was he wasn't going to marry her daughter. I haven't introduced him officially but she knows we are together. My boyfriend stopped greeting my mother.
I called him, he asked me to move on that my mom get be his mother in law , this and that.

I stopped calling, I stopped greeting him and my siblings as well. It's over 6 months, he still bends on keeping malice with my mother.
I meet him yesterday, the discussion ended in an argument because I just can't imagine discussing such with him.

We attend same ministry. my mom one time held his hand to pray for him, as soon as he knew it was her, he immediately removed his hand.

He expects me to talk to him while he doesn't greet my mom. I told him whatever my mom said to him he should greet her and until he start greeting her, I won't greet him.

This evening he told him he loves someone else as I was chatting him and apparently blocked all my numbers and Whatsapp except Facebook.

What should I do?

Leave the case as it is or trying talking to him?.. never talked to him, I just insult him constantly how he needs to grow up and learn how to handle Issues but I doubt he will let his pride down.

Is he still angry with my mom? He claims I support my mom

Does he still love me? We have exchange words time without number and he doesn't even reply me or Facebook anymore. He does thing that piss me off.

Carry your case go meet babalawo.

We've got enough on our plate as Nigerians already!

How many of your own you don give babalow?

Sommycherish:
My boyfriend and my mother had argument, during the argument one of the things my mom told him was he wasn't going to marry her daughter. I haven't introduced him officially but she knows we are together. My boyfriend stopped greeting my mother.
I called him, he asked me to move on that my mom get be his mother in law , this and that.

I stopped calling, I stopped greeting him and my siblings as well. It's over 6 months, he still bends on keeping malice with my mother.
I meet him yesterday, the discussion ended in an argument because I just can't imagine discussing such with him.

We attend same ministry. my mom one time held his hand to pray for him, as soon as he knew it was her, he immediately removed his hand.

He expects me to talk to him while he doesn't greet my mom. I told him whatever my mom said to him he should greet her and until he start greeting her, I won't greet him.

This evening he told him he loves someone else as I was chatting him and apparently blocked all my numbers and Whatsapp except Facebook.

What should I do?

Leave the case as it is or trying talking to him?.. never talked to him, I just insult him constantly how he needs to grow up and learn how to handle Issues but I doubt he will let his pride down.

Is he still angry with my mom? He claims I support my mom

Does he still love me? We have exchange words time without number and he doesn't even reply me or Facebook anymore. He does thing that piss me off.

Sommycherish:
My boyfriend and my mother had argument, during the argument one of the things my mom told him was he wasn't going to marry her daughter. I haven't introduced him officially but she knows we are together. My boyfriend stopped greeting my mother.
I called him, he asked me to move on that my mom get be his mother in law , this and that.

I stopped calling, I stopped greeting him and my siblings as well. It's over 6 months, he still bends on keeping malice with my mother.
I meet him yesterday, the discussion ended in an argument because I just can't imagine discussing such with him.

We attend same ministry. my mom one time held his hand to pray for him, as soon as he knew it was her, he immediately removed his hand.

He expects me to talk to him while he doesn't greet my mom. I told him whatever my mom said to him he should greet her and until he start greeting her, I won't greet him.

This evening he told him he loves someone else as I was chatting him and apparently blocked all my numbers and Whatsapp except Facebook.

What should I do?

Leave the case as it is or trying talking to him?.. never talked to him, I just insult him constantly how he needs to grow up and learn how to handle Issues but I doubt he will let his pride down.

Is he still angry with my mom? He claims I support my mom

Does he still love me? We have exchange words time without number and he doesn't even reply me or Facebook anymore. He does thing that piss me off.

WTF!!
BRO...u say Yor boyfriend is yor mother??....brother are u ok in the head sir??((((no ooofencse)))

what's is your take?

Girl, ignore that boy and move on...

You go suffer for him hand. He never marry, e don dey form boss. If he marry wetin him go do?

How old is he 20?

29

Sommycherish:
29

He's acting like a teenager.

Well I don't believe some brains are well developed till 35 , here in Africa.

Move on darling and forget that turbulent relationship. Focus on building your life and keep praying for a more healthy relationship

What sort of parent utters such to her prospective son in-law and u expect him to be happy with the situation. Until u ladies grow some brains and realise as men the utmost thing we require from y'all is peace of mind + respect y'all will continue to miss the mark. Ur family sounds very troublesome. Even u too and u don't seem to see anything wrong with ur moms utterances. It takes wisdom to talk despite one's age or position. If u don't speak with wisdom u always end up causing problems for u and those around u. He's probably moved on to someone better who can understand what it takes to be with him. U should do the same. There are lines u don't cross with some people. After ur mom made such statement does ur family expect the man to start begging for acceptance? Who Una be sef? Elon musk family? Abeg any wise man will smell trouble from such a family him never marry u Una done dey position am for cage if him come marry u I'm sure he will become a shadow of his old self. I'm 100% sure ur mom said a whole of other degrading shyyt to that young mind. Let the man live his life. Go and find someone less fortunate to frustrate. He's a wise guy

BEST REPLY EVER.

Darling, sorry ur mum no wise at all.

Let d man move on with his life jejely.

Ur mum will be a huge trouble to him.

Ontop sey hin go still spend money to marry u, lik where person dey use money buy wife; d billing all in d stupid name of bride price, una wan con dey yan with him anyhow? It no fit work nao.

dkidd:
What sort of parent utters such to her prospective son in-law and u expect him to be happy with the situation. Until u ladies grow some brains and realise as men the utmost thing we require from y'all is peace of mind y'all will continue to miss the mark. Ur family sounds very troublesome. Even u too and u don't seem to see anything wrong with ur moms utterances. It takes wisdom to talk despite one's age or position. If u don't speak with wisdom u always end up causing problems for u and those around u. He's probably moved on to someone better who can understand what it takes to be with him. U should do the same. There are lines u don't cross with some people. After ur mom made such statement does ur family expect the man to start begging for acceptance? Who Una be sef Elon musk family? Abeg any wise man will smell trouble from such a family him never marry u Una done dey position am for cage if him come marry u I'm sure he will become a shadow of his old self. I'm 100% sure ur mom said a whole of other degrading shyyt to that young mind. Let the man live his life. Go and find someone less fortunate to frustrate. He's a wise guy

Your mum officially rejected the union, ask your mum for her choice of husband

Both you, your mama and your boyfriend dey still be adolescent

You told him to grow up, he blocked you and moved on, so why are you lamenting

You and your mama should go and fix up, your mom is a red flag to him already

yomi007k:

He's acting like a teenager.

Well I don't believe some brains are well developed till 35 , here in Africa.

while the mom is acting like a witch 😂😂

She already threatening the boy he won't marry her daughter, that's a huge assss red flag

Gadafii:
while the mom is acting like a witch 😂😂

She already threatening the boy he won't marry her daughter, that's a huge assss red flag

Then let the guy walk away naa... will fighting the mother give the daughter's hand in marriage?

yomi007k:


Then let the guy walk away naa... will fighting the mother give the daughter's hand in marriage?

he did walk away by blocking the girl and avoiding the mama, why is the girl here asking silly questions

yomi007k:


Then let the guy walk away naa... will fighting the mother give the daughter's hand in marriage?

According to the OP he's already done that na Una her nairaland support never understand say him done disconnect since 😂

Walk away.

dkidd:
What sort of parent utters such to her prospective son in-law and u expect him to be happy with the situation. Until u ladies grow some brains and realise as men the utmost thing we require from y'all is peace of mind + respect y'all will continue to miss the mark. Ur family sounds very troublesome. Even u too and u don't seem to see anything wrong with ur moms utterances. It takes wisdom to talk despite one's age or position. If u don't speak with wisdom u always end up causing problems for u and those around u. He's probably moved on to someone better who can understand what it takes to be with him. U should do the same. There are lines u don't cross with some people. After ur mom made such statement does ur family expect the man to start begging for acceptance? Who Una be sef? Elon musk family? Abeg any wise man will smell trouble from such a family him never marry u Una done dey position am for cage if him come marry u I'm sure he will become a shadow of his old self. I'm 100% sure ur mom said a whole of other degrading shyyt to that young mind. Let the man live his life. Go and find someone less fortunate to frustrate. He's a wise guy

Gbamsolutely. Human beings view things emotionally and from their own selfish point of view. Bottom line,everyone should do whatever suit him.

The guy made the best decision for himself but you are still forcing yourself on him. Your mum doesn't want the guy, the guy loves somebody else and has blocked you on almost all social media platforms. What do you want to hear again? To think these are happening in a ministry is very shameful

Some mothers are so primitive and most of you ladies following the advise of your mothers would turn up fighting her in time to come.

dkidd:
What sort of parent utters such to her prospective son in-law and u expect him to be happy with the situation. Until u ladies grow some brains and realise as men the utmost thing we require from y'all is peace of mind + respect y'all will continue to miss the mark. Ur family sounds very troublesome. Even u too and u don't seem to see anything wrong with ur moms utterances. It takes wisdom to talk despite one's age or position. If u don't speak with wisdom u always end up causing problems for u and those around u. He's probably moved on to someone better who can understand what it takes to be with him. U should do the same. There are lines u don't cross with some people. After ur mom made such statement does ur family expect the man to start begging for acceptance? Who Una be sef? Elon musk family? Abeg any wise man will smell trouble from such a family him never marry u Una done dey position am for cage if him come marry u I'm sure he will become a shadow of his old self. I'm 100% sure ur mom said a whole of other degrading shyyt to that young mind. Let the man live his life. Go and find someone less fortunate to frustrate. He's a wise guy

The truth is bitter.

Sommycherish:
29

Ok if he is 29 how old are u ? 😁

move on, that relationship is bound to fail if you try to reconcile the damage has been done

Mjshexy:
Move on darling and forget that turbulent relationship. Focus on building your life and keep praying for a more healthy relationship

Healthy relationship with a female is just like an illusion

Sommycherish:
My boyfriend and my mother had argument, during the argument one of the things my mom told him was he wasn't going to marry her daughter. I haven't introduced him officially but she knows we are together. My boyfriend stopped greeting my mother.
I called him, he asked me to move on that my mom get be his mother in law , this and that.

I stopped calling, I stopped greeting him and my siblings as well. It's over 6 months, he still bends on keeping malice with my mother.
I meet him yesterday, the discussion ended in an argument because I just can't imagine discussing such with him.

We attend same ministry. my mom one time held his hand to pray for him, as soon as he knew it was her, he immediately removed his hand.

He expects me to talk to him while he doesn't greet my mom. I told him whatever my mom said to him he should greet her and until he start greeting her, I won't greet him.

This evening he told him he loves someone else as I was chatting him and apparently blocked all my numbers and Whatsapp except Facebook.

What should I do?

Leave the case as it is or trying talking to him?.. never talked to him, I just insult him constantly how he needs to grow up and learn how to handle Issues but I doubt he will let his pride down.

Is he still angry with my mom? He claims I support my mom

Does he still love me? We have exchange words time without number and he doesn't even reply me or Facebook anymore. He does thing that piss me off.

Madam your story no clear, what kind of argument were they having in the first place that leads to you will never marry my daughter?

Sommycherish:
My boyfriend and my mother had argument, during the argument one of the things my mom told him was he wasn't going to marry her daughter. I haven't introduced him officially but she knows we are together. My boyfriend stopped greeting my mother.
I called him, he asked me to move on that my mom get be his mother in law , this and that.

I stopped calling, I stopped greeting him and my siblings as well. It's over 6 months, he still bends on keeping malice with my mother.
I meet him yesterday, the discussion ended in an argument because I just can't imagine discussing such with him.

We attend same ministry. my mom one time held his hand to pray for him, as soon as he knew it was her, he immediately removed his hand.

He expects me to talk to him while he doesn't greet my mom. I told him whatever my mom said to him he should greet her and until he start greeting her, I won't greet him.

This evening he told him he loves someone else as I was chatting him and apparently blocked all my numbers and Whatsapp except Facebook.

What should I do?

Leave the case as it is or trying talking to him?.. never talked to him, I just insult him constantly how he needs to grow up and learn how to handle Issues but I doubt he will let his pride down.

Is he still angry with my mom? He claims I support my mom

Does he still love me? We have exchange words time without number and he doesn't even reply me or Facebook anymore. He does thing that piss me off.

But how can you not see that you’re the problem and that you’re also prideful?

It’s really amazing that we can see other people’s flaw but can’t see our own.

How many of your own you don give babalow?

I know this is a made up story but let me play along.

Does your boyfriend still know he's in a relationship with you ?

What bothers me here is how did it reach the level of your boyfriend and mum arguing, like seriously? How that one take enter? Or he's sponsoring and feeding your families kos I don't understand? Na wa ooo