KingTom:

Shey na nose piercers, male crop to wearers and pink hair spraying twerkers wan enlist into army to fight for their country? Except say na voluntary matter

Dey play !

If the government decides to promulgate an act that mandates adults above age 21 to be conscripted into the military in readiness for a major war; Omo they will just move from one city to town to village ferrying people down to training camp.

Make we no see war ni o. I read books about how some Africans were bundled from their villages to training camp then to India, Burma and other places where the war was ragging . The crazy thing is some of them didn’t even know who and who were fighting and what exactly they were fighting for .

A40:
I'm just saying all of this drama is self inflicted cos the dude couldn't even have sense God gave geese to keep his ego in check

Na only Africa e fit display like this. Elsewhere his social capital will take quite a dent

Read through Ibimes post

This is the sequence of events

Jarus starts firming things up with his wife to be

Senior wife starts to put up resistance. (standard drill old wife fades away, new wife is official wife. Old wife is to manage, new wife to enjoy the good life)

Jarus tries to placate her with money and gifts

There is dv on both sides (who started it is between the two of them)

Wife is desperate to hold on to her husband and so she gets jazz

Jarus finds this and capitalises on this as grounds for irrevocable divorce and custody of the children. His lawyers file the papers

This is the last straw because this is literally the wife being thrown out with her load.

At this point one or more of his soon to be ex wife's family come after him on sm

As an SM personality he tries to sieze control of the narrative by preempting them, tiwa savage style

Unfortunately twitter is western leaning so most of his takes come off as cringey, chauvinist and partially mysognyst

He is however committed so he keeps doubling down.

Twitter police and investigators and feminists now start researching and find out more of the story

At this point as a lagos matter it is a dvsa case and so strategy has to change. There is a potential risk of prison time

Wife 01 has been placated by lawyers, family and Jarus. They present a united front, deny all

What happens next is anyones guess. Because the proposed new wife is not going away.

BlueRayDick:


The British World War 1 era militray cannot defeat naija's 2024 Military. We will trash them. They have neither the men nor the hardware to defeat us. All the soldiers they conscripted from their colonies like Nigeria, Ghana, etc were part of their military strength na

They should sha, the technological difference should be deciding factor, though I'm trying to see how other factors that could influence the war would matter if the war becomes prolonged.

GloriousGbola:




What happens next is anyones guess. Because the proposed new wife is not going away.

Make she sef "Jazz-up"

May the best Jazz woman win

BlueRayDick:


We already saw the end of the case from the beginning.

Thefint1 this is what we were telling u that the case is dead on arrival with or without kiki's agenda driven campaign.

The fact that the husband and wife are both muslims who hail from a state like Kwara where they refrence Islamic clerics so much; It was obvious the case will be sorted in house.

In all of these sha, one thing is obvious : POLYGAMY IS A VERY EXPENSIVE VENTURE.

I read Jarus' sign-out post yesterday and I saw him thank his legal representatives. Apparently he had to employ the services of a law firm owned by a SAN which I believe their standing helped his case. Even though a SAN ordinarily would not appear in Magistrate court, but I'm sure the SAN will give him one of his best lawyers to plead his case. Only God knows how much that single legal appearance will cost him.

I put it to you that Raumdeuter's Polygamy 101 lecture's application to real life will always burn a hole in ur pocket

Yea, I bin know say case no really dey, even the Kiki chick know, na why she begin shop for other potential victims.

The case would have been dicey if Jarus didn't quickly jettison the plan to divorce his wife...make e go thank e wife, cause na she save e self-snitching ass

And true, Polygamy no cheap, if you neva chop belleful, no put body Certainly not with your modern chicks with teareye that would need you bringing more than just food and housing to the table...the demands on your polygamist from this era is very different from the demands on a polygamist from our parents era...I doubt Raumdeuter don consider dawan for e syllabus.

BlueRayDick:


Make she sef "Jazz-up"

May the best Jazz woman win

If jarus wife had been in ilorin all this time and never come to lagos she would have likely just accepted it like that.

Or found out about the wedding after the fact. One of my friends back in the day, that was how they found his dad had a second family in lagos. Though this was in the 90s way before social media.

GloriousGbola:


Read through Ibimes post

This is the sequence of events

Jarus starts firming things up with his wife to be

Senior wife starts to put up resistance. (standard drill old wife fades away, new wife is official wife. Old wife is to manage, new wife to enjoy the good life)

Jarus tries to placate her with money and gifts

There is dv on both sides (who started it is between the two of them)

Wife is desperate to hold on to her husband and so she gets jazz

Jarus finds this and capitalises on this as grounds for irrevocable divorce and custody of the children. His lawyers file the papers

This is the last straw because this is literally the wife being thrown out with her load.

At this point one or more of his soon to be ex wife's family come after him on sm

As an SM personality he tries to sieze control of the narrative by preempting them, tiwa savage style

Unfortunately twitter is western leaning so most of his takes come off as cringey, chauvinist and partially mysognyst

He is however committed so he keeps doubling down.

Twitter police and investigators and feminists now start researching and find out more of the story

At this point as a lagos matter it is a dvsa case and so strategy has to change. There is a potential risk of prison time

Wife 01 has been placated by lawyers, family and Jarus. They present a united front, deny all

What happens next is anyones guess. Because the proposed new wife is not going away.

For Jarus to have taken things to the point of divorcing the wife and suing for sole custody, not to mention the whole drama that resulted, it's likely he'd harbor some resentment for wife 1 even though he was responsible for everything that happened to him.

Like was said before, one can only hope the guy has people that can drill sense into his head sha, cause his start to his polygamy life has been very rocky, and it generally doesn't get any less rocky.

Theflint1:
Yea, I bin know say case no really dey, even the Kiki chick know, na why she begin shop for other potential victims.

The case would have been dicey if Jarus didn't quickly jettison the plan to divorce his wife...make e go thank e wife, cause na she save e self-snitching ass

And true, Polygamy no cheap, if you neva chop belleful, no put body Certainly not with your modern chicks with teareye that would need you bringing more than just food and housing to the table...the demands on your polygamist from this era is very different from the demands on a polygamist from our parents era...I doubt Raumdeuter don consider dawan for e syllabus.

100 times the lady will always side with the man. She probably would not want to deal with stigma that she sent the father of her children to prison. She will be ostracized if the man goes to prison and his family will throw her out. She will lose out on all fronts.

I think it is about self-preservation for her. It's not like it has gotten to a point that she hates the man so much she hopes something bad happens to him. She just wants the husband she married back. I guess she has that now. They will sort themselves out on the polygamy matter internally; we will most likely not hear anything about it again.

GloriousGbola:


If jarus wife had been in ilorin all this time and never come to lagos she would have likely just accepted it like that.

Or found out about the wedding after the fact. One of my friends back in the day, that was how they found his dad had a second family in lagos. Though this was in the 90s way before social media.

Even till now some people keep second family without the knowledge of the first wife; especially those whose job require constantly traveling or transfer to other states.

BlueRayDick:


100 times the lady will always side with the man. She probably would not want to deal with stigma that she sent the father of her children to prison. She will be ostracized if the man goes to prison and his family will throw her out. She will lose out on all fronts.

I think it is about self-preservation for her. It's not like it has gotten to a point that she hates the man so much she hopes something bad happens to him. She just wants the husband she married back. I guess she has that now. They will sort themselves out on the polygamy matter internally; we will most likely not hear anything about it again.

No reason am like that o, there's muslim women Jarus would try this drama with and it won't end just like this. Make e just thank e stars say money, influence and power tilt way much in e side compared to the woman, plus na traditional Muslimah chick e marry, if not e for dey tricky. There's also the fact that Jarus walked back on his plan to divorce her, that was a major major factor in the way things settled peaceably.

BlueRayDick:


Even till now some people keep second family without the knowledge of the first wife; especially those whose job require constantly traveling or transfer to other states.

If you dey sm you go find out. Because someone in hubby family will post the second marriage to fb or Instagram. Confam.

This actually happened to one of my madams friends.

She found her husband had married another wife via Facebook.

Theflint1:
No reason am like that o, there's muslim women Jarus would try this drama with and it won't end just like this. Make e just thank e stars say money, influence and power tilt way much in e side compared to the woman side, plus na traditional muslimah chick e marry, if not e for dey tricky. There's also the fact that Jarus walked back on his plan to divorce her, that was a major major factor in the way things settled peaceably.

Lolz.

A woman like man will always think of self preservation. The initial resistance the wife put up was because the believe she be abandoned by the husband a whole lot of decisions will not go her way going forward since a new woman will be coming to share her place with her.She most likely saw the man as someone who could reason with her and jettison the idea if she raised her objection well enough.

She later saw things were not as she imagined and resorted to "spiritual help". I believe the moment that has failed to the extent she and the husband had a physical altercation; she was ready to settle for the place of senior wife (even though she was still disgruntled), but the horse has already bolted.

The thing is whether u are a traditional woman or Gen Z baddy, once ur position is secured u will settle for what u would ordinarily refer to as "less" . Some of Ned Nwoko's senior wives are not even the traditional women like that but they settled for polygamy so far their place is fully secured. There are several examples of such.

Ibime:


Yes they used planes for surveillance but not for bombing

These were light planes which can be brought down by machine gun

They used Zeppelins (Hydrogen balloon) for bombing but wasn't very effective

This isn't accurate.

The Germans enjoyed some success with the aerial bombings of London and other European cities, not just with their Zepellins, but with the first plane in the world purpose built for Bombing - the Gotha G6.

Germany followed up on the G6 by producing the even Larger R-planes that were also used to bomb london. These weren't small planes either. The R planes were actually bigger than any German plane that flew 30 years later in WW2

Infact it was the German aerial strategic bombings of London that directly led Britain to create the Royal Airforce, to quote the prime minister at the time "pay Germany back in compound interest".

The Brits (and French) also carried out the some aerial bombings from sea planes sinking German warships

Double post

GloriousGbola:


If you dey sm you go find out. Because someone in hubby family will post the second marriage to fb or Instagram. Confam.

This actually happened to one of my madams friends.

She found her husband had married another wife via Facebook.

Dey play!

I hope u know camera and video recording by guests was barred when Lagbaja's daughter wedded

https://www.nairaland.com/1369112/pictures-barred-lagbajas-daughters-wedding

BlueRayDick:


Lolz.

A woman like man will always think of self preservation. The initial resistance the wife put up was because the believe she be abandoned by the husband a whole lot of decisions will not go her way going forward since a new woman will be coming to share her place with her.She most likely saw the man as someone who could reason with her and jettison the idea if she raised her objection well enough.

She later saw things were not as she imagined and resorted to "spiritual help". I believe the moment that has failed to the extent she and the husband had a physical altercation; she was ready to settle for the place of senior wife (even though she was still disgruntled), but the horse has already bolted.

The thing is whether u are a traditional woman or Gen Z baddy, once ur position is secured u will settle for what u would ordinarily refer to as "less" . Some of Ned Nwoko's senior wives are not even the traditional women like that but they settled for polygamy so far their place is fully secured. There are several examples of such.

No woman is going to be happy if her husband marries a second wife. Even the second wife won't be happy if the husband marries a third.

Singapore1:


No woman is going to be happy if her husband marries a second wife. Even the second wife won't be happy if the husband marries a third.

I don't recall saying otherwise.

BlueRayDick:


I don't recall saying otherwise.

yeah just supporting your point

BlueRayDick:


100 times the lady will always side with the man. She probably would not want to deal with stigma that she sent the father of her children to prison. She will be ostracized if the man goes to prison and his family will throw her out. She will lose out on all fronts.

I think it is about self-preservation for her. It's not like it has gotten to a point that she hates the man so much she hopes something bad happens to him. She just wants the husband she married back. I guess she has that now. They will sort themselves out on the polygamy matter internally; we will most likely not hear anything about it again.

People also underestimate the financial burden that comes with it. This is Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world. If they successfully send him to prison, who is going to be responsible for the upkeep of the children and the wife? Sadly, this is why many women stay in abusive relationships: they'd rather be crying inside a Benz.

BlueRayDick:


Lolz.

A woman like man will always think of self preservation. The initial resistance the wife put up was because the believe she be abandoned by the husband a whole lot of decisions will not go her way going forward since a new woman will be coming to share her place with her.She most likely saw the man as someone who could reason with her and jettison the idea if she raised her objection well enough.

She later saw things were not as she imagined and resorted to "spiritual help". I believe the moment that has failed to the extent she and the husband had a physical altercation; she was ready to settle for the place of senior wife (even though she was still disgruntled), but the horse has already bolted.

The thing is whether u are a traditional woman or Gen Z baddy, once ur position is secured u will settle for what u would ordinarily refer to as "less" . Some of Ned Nwoko's senior wives are not even the traditional women like that but they settled for polygamy so far their place is fully secured. There are several examples of such.

I think what we're saying is not too different sha, they both had to stoop for each other at different points for them to get where they are now.

Singapore1:

yeah just supporting your point

People also underestimate the financial burden that comes with it. This is Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world. If they successfully send him to prison, who is going to be responsible for the upkeep of the children and the wife? Sadly, this is why many women stay in abusive relationships: they'd rather be crying inside a Benz.

Yea, with the gulf between Jarus and e wife, even if e say e no wan do with her again, he'd still have been able to bend her to his will and she'd refuse to testify against him, it just wouldn't have been as easy.

Polygamy drama too much and the cost goes beyond just the monetary aspect.

Singapore1:

yeah just supporting your point

People also underestimate the financial burden that comes with it. This is Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world. If they successfully send him to prison, who is going to be responsible for the upkeep of the children and the wife? Sadly, this is why many women stay in abusive relationships: they'd rather be crying inside a Benz.

This is just the truth. It goes beyond just saying u want justice for the woman.

The woman will later see the justice as a cuss when people close to her ostracise her, the SUV she's using will be seized by the family members , etc

There is another lesson here which Jarus wife may or may not have clocked

It was not Islamic clerics who saved her marriage
It was not Cele preachers

It was not her family (at least not directly)

It was social media which led to the involvement of government agencies.

Otherwise right now she would be somewhere licking her wounds and gnashing her teeth.

It is possible her faith has been severely shaken by this saga.

Theflint1:
Lol, I get now, but what if we stretch it to WW2, will the difference in technology and industrial capacity not tilt the war the side of any of US, UK or Germany?

WW2 we don't stand a chance.

The technological advances between WW1 and WW2 was immense. Wars make countries develop quickly

BlueRayDick:


We already saw the end of the case from the beginning.

Thefint1 this is what we were telling u that the case is dead on arrival with or without kiki's agenda driven campaign.

The fact that the husband and wife are both muslims who hail from a state like Kwara where they refrence Islamic clerics so much; It was obvious the case will be sorted in house.

In all of these sha, one thing is obvious : POLYGAMY IS A VERY EXPENSIVE VENTURE.

I read Jarus' sign-out post yesterday and I saw him thank his legal representatives. Apparently he had to employ the services of a law firm owned by a SAN which I believe their standing helped his case. Even though a SAN ordinarily would not appear in Magistrate court, but I'm sure the SAN will give him one of his best lawyers to plead his case. Only God knows how much that single legal appearance will cost him.

I put it to you that Rumdeuter's Polygamy 101 lecture's application to real life will always burn a hole in ur pocket

Kiki knows you cant win any case without a willing accuser, that was why she was shopping for others

Polygamy101, Maybe na the alubarika from the polygamy go even expand your pocket. Try am first

BlueRayDick:


Dey play !

If the government decides to promulgate an act that mandates adults above age 21 to be conscripted into the military in readiness for a major war; Omo they will just move from one city to town to village ferrying people down to training camp.

Make we no see war ni o. I read books about how some Africans were bundled from their villages to training camp then to India, Burma and other places were the war was ragging . The crazy thing is some of them didn’t even know who and who were fighting and what exactly they were fighting for .

You dey talk too far. If war happens as in serious war, You cannot escape you are forced into it. In civil wars they even forcefully conscript 10yr olds then a grown man with beard will say wetin happen especially if your father is not rich or influential enough to runs exception for you

Theflint1:
Yea, I bin know say case no really dey, even the Kiki chick know, na why she begin shop for other potential victims.

The case would have been dicey if Jarus didn't quickly jettison the plan to divorce his wife...make e go thank e wife, cause na she save e self-snitching ass

And true, Polygamy no cheap, if you neva chop belleful, no put body Certainly not with your modern chicks with teareye that would need you bringing more than just food and housing to the table...the demands on your polygamist from this era is very different from the demands on a polygamist from our parents era...I doubt Rumdeuter don consider dawan for e syllabus.

Eneke the bird says that since men have learned to shoot without missing, he has learned to fly without perching.

To do polygamy you have to be very "strong willed" cos they will beg appeal and even manipulate. What are the demands of polygamy for this era wey pass the other.

First thing we can agree is that is that most women date/fvvck you because of a promise of a long term monogamous relationship or financial gain

Your financial differential is what attracts partners in Polygamy, you don't have to be rich, you just have to find one who finds your financial situation higher than what she can offer on her own or better than the options available

Even in situations like that of treblechamp and gloriosgbola where seemingly financially stable women have professed their desire to join their house as co-wives, you will still know that you cant remove the influence of their finances and stability to it

No woman will want to be your 2nd wife to be feeding you.

So polygamy like a Mercedes is not for everyone. Your mate dey offer landed property and SUV's as wetting ground you wan carry ordinary chest and bet9ja slip go there? comot for road jare

GloriousGbola:


If jarus wife had been in ilorin all this time and never come to lagos she would have likely just accepted it like that.

Or found out about the wedding after the fact. One of my friends back in the day, that was how they found his dad had a second family in lagos. Though this was in the 90s way before social media.

Plenty. There are guys who will find out in their teens that their dad was running a parallel family and his half siblings were even close to them in age. The woman will just suck it up and stay there abi where she wan carry 4 teenage kids go on her own

Theflint1:
For Jarus to have taken things to the point of divorcing the wife and suing for sole custody, not to mention the whole drama that resulted, it's likely he'd harbor some resentment for wife 1 even though he was responsible for everything that happened to him.

Like was said before, one can only hope the guy has people that can drill sense into his head sha, cause his start to his polygamy life has been very rocky, and it generally doesn't get any less rocky.

Men are easily forgiving, Unlike women, We no dey think deep like that and its one of our many failings. I think its even nature. Beat your small kids boy and girl. In 5mins tickle the boy and throw ball at him he don forget, the girl na wahala just dey start until you beg and beg .

But one thing is sure, The dynamics of his relationship with the first wife has changed forever, She cannot like you genuinely again after that and will just be putting up appearance and start her own long term planning

Its now a race of how much of Jarus time, wealth, devotion will come to me? Before it was 100% now she will have to hope for 50% and realistically get about 30%

Theflint1:
No reason am like that o, there's muslim women Jarus would try this drama with and it won't end just like this. Make e just thank e stars say money, influence and power tilt way much in e side compared to the woman, plus na traditional Muslimah chick e marry, if not e for dey tricky. There's also the fact that Jarus walked back on his plan to divorce her, that was a major major factor in the way things settled peaceably.

She also was caught with juju which will make her case untenable in the first place. In most houses, Punishment for juju is expulsion. So she also got cut some slack. They "forgave each other". forgive for juju, forgive for threatened divorce and bringing new wife

GloriousGbola:


If you dey sm you go find out. Because someone in hubby family will post the second marriage to fb or Instagram. Confam.

This actually happened to one of my madams friends.

She found her husband had married another wife via Facebook.

Especially all these obodo guys wey go dey married for America and sneak home to do trad with another lady until some old school mate tag you on facebook wishing you a blessed union..

raumdeuter:


Men are easily forgiving, Unlike women, We no dey think deep like that and its one of our many failings. I think its even nature. Beat your small kids boy and girl. In 5mins tickle the boy and throw ball at him he don forget, the girl na wahala just dey start until you beg and beg .

But one thing is sure, The dynamics of his relationship with the first wife has changed forever, She cannot like you genuinely again after that and will just be putting up appearance and start her own long term planning

Its now a race of how much of Jarus time, wealth, devotion will come to me? Before it was 100% now she will have to hope for 50% and realistically get about 30%

Most of them don't even love genuinely in the first place.

Money is their most important consideration.

raumdeuter:


Plenty. There are guys who will find out in their teens that their dad was running a parallel family and his half siblings were even close to them in age. The woman will just suck it up and stay there abi where she wan carry 4 teenage kids go on her own

That is why women need to be strategic. Iyawo ceo did not suck it up because she had choices available to her.

The underlying thinking is that the woman has no choice unless she is ready to accept a decrease in quality of life.