Ancestors don de bless those one already and em de complain ,destiny is out to locate you , when he become a senator or governor we shall see who come to spend a week with you

I guess you were just bored and came up with this useless story. Anyways, the story sweet small.

ebubenmuo:
Hit the nail on the head or hit the hammer on the nail whichever way you like it.

Just invite the wife and her kids over and surprise your cousin when he comes with his babe, his kids will embrace and call him daddy, he would be disappointed with you but you're only helping his WIFE reasons being that HIV no dey show for face and am pretty sure his girlfriend is also fucking another gbola and that gbola is digging another p***y and the circle goes on.

Help his wife NOW

scatter the family u mean?

Celestialsword:
This is not a blame game,he already knew that it was bad,so he needs advice on how to handle it

Hmmm, it's a tough one but there are better ways of handling issue like this, in my opinion he should involve family members.

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

Anything you and your so call cousin do E no kukuma konsign us NLs. As you big reach you no fit tell your cousin when ever he/she call you say you no dey house or you travel or no time for that rubbish E dey cum do for your house dey there... Na real yeye dey worry

Yeye Op...you can run to nairaland to lament but can tell off your married cousin straight up.

What a sese diswan.

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

I've learned to embrace the art of expressing my thoughts and mute my feelings, it is not easy but I still try to do so. I understand how hard it must be for you but the truth remains the truth and truly, it will set you free.

You can start by minimizing the amount of time he spends and try to squeeze in a moment mixed with seriousness and sincerity so you can tell him you feel guilty about allowing him to cheat on his wife in your house with his side chick.

Yes, he will 'despise' you afterwards .
Or pretend he understands your points and hold grudges... I get it, I've been there.
But remember the truth is the only thing that will set you free right now and it is like chewing bitter leaf.

No human, whether born of a woman or through CS will dare come have sex in my house.

I’ll drag both of them out naked and cut them off my life.

Rubbish. My house is a place of peace and I’m the only one allowed to do whatever I want in there.

I won't even allow a single cousin to sleep over talkless of bringing a girlfriend. My home is my sanctuary of peace. You dare not even discuss your side cheek with me as a cousin as a married man with kids.
Do your runs codedly.

Honestly, you are a grown fool and a mature stupidity. I respectful of your eyeye privacy. Cut that crap up immediately. The next thing I want to hear is you have chased them away.
Mind you, you said you can stay with someone longer, how will you cope when you marry. Guy expose your true self to your spouse.
Me, like pouring soaked gari inside porridge bean.
Sorry for the insults because your write up irritates me.
Please,man up

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

rockog:
Honestly, you are a grown fool and a mature stupidity. I respectful of your eyeye privacy. Cut that crap up immediately. The next thing I want to hear is you have chased them away.
Mind you, you said you can stay with someone longer, how will you cope when you marry. Guy expose your true self to your spouse.
Me, like pouring soaked gari inside porridge bean.
Sorry for the insults because your write up irritates me.
Please,man up

You are not making any sense and mind you, he is not responsible for his cousin's marriage.

Is it mandatory to comment with upside down reasonings?

Omuuvwie:


Hmmm, it's a tough one but there are better ways of handling issue like this, in my opinion he should involve family members.

are you an uvwie son, which quarter are you from

Celestialsword:
are you an uvwie son, which quarter are you from

Yes I am from uvwie, ekpan

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

U are nothing but a bad cousin! U should have confronted him to desist from such act rather than bringing it on social media for debate. Bro, clear road!

Omuuvwie:


Yes I am from uvwie, ekpan

ok,I m uvwie too from effurun,udumurugbo

Firstly, you are not helping matters infacts if you can't correct your cousin from his mistakes that makes you a bad person bro. A married man with kids forsaking his family and be nursing a side chick under your roof is too bad, if his wife finds out that your house is her husband's motel/ hotel she will never respect or value you ...
Bro. Aside from depriving you from freedom and running you down what your cousin is doing doesn't make sense..
My little advise for you is when next he calls asking for your favor of your house tell him that your girlfriend who to be your wife is around your house is almost occupied so no room for him...
And try to tell him the truth by advising him to focus on his family and stop doing all this side chick of a thing....

By allowing your married cousin commit adultery in your own apartment is evil. You must have the courage to stop this act.

Celestialsword:
ok,I m uvwie too from effurun,udumurugbo

Waoooo, that is good to know but I base in Lagos

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"If any of them dies here, police will arrest me."
😂😂 😂

People aired their views. Some poured their depression and frustrations they harbor against APC on me. I think I deserve it and even worse. I appreciate your input whether good or abusive.

Luckily, I'm not bothered and never will. I'll still accept him whenever he wants to come, but I won't allow more than 2 nights. Overstaying is my problem and nothing more.

Real men deserve more than one wife (as long as there is money). She's begging him to marry her as a second wife. Finding a husband is not easy nowadays and women don't mind sharing. What she cooked today was too delicious.

No matter how you think you can satisfy human so as not to be seen as bad person , you will still be seen one day as baddest person by them.

Secondly, you are doing more harm to his family for keeping such situation, the cat will one day out of the bag and if that happens without correcting that anomaly now, you will be blamed for that atrocities and that innocent woman with 4 kids will hate you for life.

Stop them now !

iLegendd:
People aired their views. Some poured their depression and frustrations they harbor against APC on me. I think I deserve it and even worse.

Luckily, I'm not bothered and never will. I'll still accept him whenever he wants to come, but I won't allow more than 2 nights. Overstaying is my problem and nothing more.

Men deserve more than one wife. She's begging him to marry her as a second wife. Finding a husband is not easy nowadays and women don't mind sharing. What she cooked today was too delicious.

Do u also mind his wife sleeping with another man, u still are a big suprise to me. This should also be against ur integrity!

mr ilegendd go and marry you are not getting any younger

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

Invite your own gill. If you do not have a girl, call a friend and explain to her. inform him your girl is coming from another state. He will leave the next day immediately she arrives cos they no go like sleep your sitting room
You no get money for hotel and you dey form sugar daddy

Arrange for 2 of ur friends or 2 street guys, whenever ur cousin plan to come over with his babe, tell him ur friends are staying with you for now, that they have accommodation issue. im sure this should help. You telling him ur gf is around wont really do much.

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

Think about what will happen is the said Side chic die in your house!

iLegendd:


So, what's the best way to handle it? I already have what to do, but I want to hear yours.

Think about what will happen if the Side chic die in your house!

What if the wife on Nairaland knows your moniker?

jamesversion:
I was surprised when a respected friend of mine with 3 kids called to ask if he can relax with his babe in my apartment.

I guess if you take away birthing kids, most men will be single and switching between women regularly.

Yet they expect women to be fall in love and be loyal to them like women were born yesterday

Una go complain about women knowing deep down most of you are far from loyal

I just wonder how most of you sleep at night

ourcrudeoil:
So many hypocrite are here for real.

IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE FREE FROM THIS POST CLICK LIKE BOTTON..... IF YOU ARE IN THE GAME CLICK THE SHARE BOTTON...

Not everyone is like you and your std ridden crew

Klinxmanz:
Do u also mind his wife sleeping with another man, u still are a big suprise to me. This should also be against ur integrity!

Dude is a not good, honest, genuine or trustworthy person

There are many like him

It’s goes deeper than their cheating, they have no empathy for others

Until a man gives his precious daughter an incurable stds, such men never see the errors of their ways

iLegendd:
People aired their views. Some poured their depression and frustrations they harbor against APC on me. I think I deserve it and even worse. I appreciate your input whether good or abusive.

Luckily, I'm not bothered and never will. I'll still accept him whenever he wants to come, but I won't allow more than 2 nights. Overstaying is my problem and nothing more.

Real men deserve more than one wife (as long as there is money). She's begging him to marry her as a second wife. Finding a husband is not easy nowadays and women don't mind sharing. What she cooked today was too delicious.

Real man and he’s hiding around in your house with a girl like a teenager, no one is pouring anything on you

We are simply calling a spade, a spade, no woman prays to meet a person like you except useless ones

Ned Nwoko and FFK are real men when it comes to women, never compare you that cannot open your mouth to stop things you don’t like in your own house and comes to the internet for advice where the most foolish opinions in Nigeria are shared

Or your foolish brother that couldn’t(He no fit sef) find a woman who will accept a second wife and has decided to subject an innocent woman/innocent kids to emotional torture and potential danger

Emotional torture that you yourself cannot stand

What if the girl is crazy? What if she goes spiritual on his wife and kids or even physical just to have your cousin? What if she tries to harm you also?

Seeing that you have huge influence on your brother and you welcome the rubbish what if the STRANGE WOMAN also tries ties you spiritually or gives your information to kidnappers or robbers that will rob your house?

Who needs enemies when you have a husband and brother in law like this?

Says a disgusting lot about your family and how you both were raised

Good people pray against people like you constantly, may their children never jam anything from your generation

Na tears and sadness be Una own contribution to give the world