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Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:02pm On Jul 13 |
I was very much in love with my husband when we got married. He is someone that doesn’t see any bad thing in sharing his face towel with a particular lady . He would say it means nothing. But then there is a particular incident that got me. I caught him still chatting with his ex'(s). Saying he’s still attracted to them. But the recent one is spending so much time on social media with a particular lady and using romantic words and discussing what should be discussed with his wife with her. After I caught them I chatted the lady and warned her but rather he decided to text the lady and told her to ignore my thre*t telling me that he finds joy chatting her because once he discuss with me he won’t achieve his plan. He said I have always been bad luck to him that no achievement since he married me but yet he owns a land of his own. We have 2 kids. And he made it clear he isn’t in love with me anymore but sees me as his children’s mother. Since then I felt disappointed because I love him so much. I can’t stop loving him but he told me the love died before the second child. This things has gotten a lot on me because he went to the extent of locking his phone so I don’t see the sh*t he’s doing anymore. Now I feel loving someone who doesn’t love me is out of it. I want to get a divorce and move on with my life. I want to ask if I’m making the right decision SOMEONE POSTED THIS ON: https://eucarl.com/thinking-about-divorcing-my-husband/ CLICK ON THE LINK TO PLEASE ADVISE THE POSTER, YOUR ADVICE MIGHT SAVE THIS FAMILY. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by DMerciful01(m): 3:07pm On Jul 13 |
Hey madam! are ya truly a badluck?..or is there something ya aint gettin right?..cuss i didnt see any reason why a man that loved and married you, will just change over night unless he can't see what made him to marry you in you any longer...cuss ya women can pretend for africa...or you're no longer neat unlike b4...dirtness is my no1 turn off point...again be PRAYERFUL. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by EreluRoz: 3:08pm On Jul 13 |
Wahala for modern marriages. Hope you didn't force yourself on him to marry you that's the mistake most ladies make. Or maybe you guys are not sexually compatible, a lot of marriages have gone due to sexual incompatibility. Find out why he stopped loving you and try to readjust, sometimes temporary seperation reset the brain and it's what is needed to bring back the fire, this actually worked for some people I know and they came back stronger. Most times divorce isn't what you need to make your marriage work 2 Likes |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:21pm On Jul 13 |
Click on the link and share this so she can see it. EreluRoz: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:21pm On Jul 13 |
Click on the link and advise. DMerciful01: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by EreluRoz: 3:22pm On Jul 13 |
Eucarl:I don't click on links anymore that's how I watched sex video for the first time against my wish 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by budaatum: 3:22pm On Jul 13 |
Do you want to divorce yourself from the asset that feeds its children and puts a roof over your head for love elsewhere, or is it for fuq? If you were frank with yourself, you'd know by now that neither of you knew what love was when you entered this relationship. I mean, just hear yourself, "he doesn’t see any bad thing in sharing his face towel with a particular lady", but now you see "bad thing in sharing his face towel with a particular lady" and want to divorce him. Nigeria is hard these days, so I wouldn't advice going solo with 2 kids who deserve love. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:24pm On Jul 13 |
EreluRoz: Eucarl.com is a free supportive platform, where people share their challenges, secrets and regrets anonymously. It's safe I assure you. The poster won't see this your advice here, but would on the platform. Your advice might be all she needs. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:26pm On Jul 13 |
Wonderful advice. But please click on the link to post the advice, that's the only way the poster can see this wisdom filled advice. Thanks budaatum: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 3:27pm On Jul 13 |
Please click on the link and drop the this wonderful advice so the poster can see it. Eucarl.com is a free supportive platform, where people share their challenges, secrets and regrets anonymously. It's safe I assure you. The poster won't see this your advice here, but would on the platform. Your advice might be all she needs. DMerciful01: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Klass99(f): 5:43pm On Jul 13 |
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Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 6:36pm On Jul 13 |
Thank you for your feedback. I understand and respect the community's preference for keeping discussions within the forum. My intention was not to generate traffic to eucarl.com, but rather to seek genuine advice and support for the poster. The goal is to create a space where people can share and receive guidance anonymously. https://eucarl.com offers the advantage of anonymity, allowing users to share their thoughts, challenges, secrets, and regrets without any fear of judgment. This can lead to more honest and open discussions, which can be incredibly helpful for those seeking advice. I appreciate your suggestion and will ensure to include the comments and advice here on the post itself for the poster to see them. Thank you Klass99: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by NewLeaf001(m): 7:43pm On Jul 13 |
EreluRoz:Fine girl, are you single? |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by DrAkpa(m): 8:20pm On Jul 13 |
Eucarl: Mugu blogger, you go explain tire |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by BeyondCertainty: 8:22pm On Jul 13 |
Patience! You need to excercise PATIENCE. Marriage can be boring, ignore your husband and focus on yourself. He will eventually come around. The street will teach him lessons he won't forget and will come back to his wife sooner or later. Start doing things that makes you happy and don't ever think of paying back by cheating on him. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 10:22pm On Jul 13 |
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. That's a really insightful perspective. One of the unique aspects of https://eucarl.com is the ability to share your thoughts and experiences anonymously, which can be very liberating and helpful for many people. If you ever feel like sharing more or reading similar stories, you might find https://eucarl.com to be a welcoming space. Your insights would be greatly valued there. BeyondCertainty: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Sapasenator: 11:41pm On Jul 13 |
I will never click a link on NL even at gun point. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 1:54am On Jul 14 |
I completely understand and respect your stance on not clicking links. My intention isn't to redirect anyone away from Nairaland but to foster a supportive community where people can share and receive advice anonymously. If you have any advice or insights on the topic, I'd love to hear them here. Your input is valuable, and I'm here to learn from this community. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Sapasenator: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Blitzking: 9:22am On Jul 14 |
Eucarl:Talk true..you trouble this guy and now he is showing you. |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by VTJN(m): 11:00am On Jul 14 |
Blitzking:I hope you'd say this if the table turns tomorrow? |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by budaatum: 11:37pm On Jul 14 |
Eucarl: Also know that the community doesn't appreciate the title or op of threads being deleted. 1 Like
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Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by kkins25(m): 12:38am On Jul 15 |
budaatum:She's deleting her husband and deleting threads. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 2:15am On Jul 15 |
I dont understand what you meant, nothing on this post have been modified nor deleted after publishing. Double check. budaatum: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 2:16am On Jul 15 |
You need https://eucarl.com the most, apparently you have a lot to offer. kkins25: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by kkins25(m): 3:23am On Jul 15 |
Eucarl:So you're a bro posing as an F creating fake stories abi? 🤣 |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 9:12am On Jul 15 |
I don't know how you guys don't understand " Eucarl.com is an anonymous platform where people (men and women) post their challenges, fears, secrets, regrets or confession anonymously and get advice. What I did was to share one of the numerous post on the platform https://eucarl.com here to get more insights/advise. The key words are eucarl.com, platform and anonymous put them together. I recommend you visit https://eucarl.com and get clarification. kkins25: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by budaatum: 4:11pm On Jul 15 |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Dogalmighty17: 7:49am On Jul 16 |
What bloody hell? You are trying to generate traffic for you blog by posting made up stories. Does anyone here look like a fool to you? |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Decotecho: 9:50am On Jul 16 |
Eucarl: Your responses sound like AI generated responses 1 Like |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 11:10am On Jul 16 |
We no get that kind mind to even post made up story knowing genius like you are on here. For clarification, eucarl.com is a supportive community not a blog, people sign up and post what ever is bothering then and get support and nothing there is made up. You should check it out and maybe ANONYMOUSLY tell us what's bothering you causing you to reduce your genius status with this dumb assumption. Dogalmighty17: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by Eucarl: 11:14am On Jul 16 |
Nawa oo. These days, any small thing AI. Decotecho: |
Re: Thinking About Divorcing My Husband by specialbobby(m): 4:10am On Jul 19 |
We understand already na other married men prick dey hungry you you wan get access to free movement Mama wan use her money go fvck for Delta from Lagos for free |
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