advanceDNA:
Sometimes..it's sweeter to be the side chic that goes on regula trip to Bahamas





.....than the to be wife at home being disrespected at doing all the work of mummy, wife, daughter inlaw....

Side chic don dey collect house for lekki oooo..

I disagree. Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls.

Divorced women are usually ravaged in hotels and paid off. Married men hardly keep any relationship with them aside calling them to satisfy their sexual desires.

Nazgul:

I disagree. Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls.

Divorced women are usually ravaged in hotels and paid off. Married men hardly keep any relationship with them aside calling them to satisfy their sexual desires.

Lol! Just dey play. Naso una go just dey type.
Young fresh girls indeed. If you see the aunties controlling your politicians, you will retract this fallacy. Ravaged in hotels indeed.

Y'all think everything is about youth in cheating. Forgetting there is someting called discretion too. And at some point in man's life and level, he wants a woman who has seen it all and can protect his privacy/home. Not a younger one that would post selfie in his car and feed him to bloggers.

pocohantas:
Lol! Just dey play. Naso una go just dey type.
Young fresh girls indeed. If you see the aunties controlling your politicians, you will retract this fallacy. Ravaged in hotels indeed.

Y'all think everything is about youth in cheating. Forgetting there is someting called discretion too. And at some point in man's life and level, he wants a woman who has seen it all and can protect his privacy/home. Not a younger one that would post selfie in his car and feed him to bloggers.

What's the percentage of divorced women dating politicians to the percentage of the ones hustling around to find someone who can take care of them?

I can assure you that for every 100 divorced woman you count, less than 5 have access to politicians.

So would you build an argument based on that when the majority are out there struggling to find any irresponsible married man who can foot some of her bills?

Nazgul:

What's the percentage of divorced woman dating politicians to the percentage of the ones hustling around to find someone who can take care of them?

I can assure you that for every 100 divorced woman you count, less than 5 have access to politicians.

So would you build an argument based on that when the majority are out there struggling to find any irresponsible married man who can foot some of her bills?

Same way only 5 out of 100 young girls have access to politicians. It is a circle thing, has nothing to do with youth and freshness like you implied. There are many young girls that would never smell these catergory of men. Same as grown women.

Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls

The argument isn't the percentage. But you wrongly implied that divorced women are ravaged in hotels and never taken on trips or serious. Which remains a fallacy. Wealthy men have done more for different categories of women. Including the ones that are still married. Let alone divorced.

Anyone can be ravaged in a hotel. It depends on your level, circle and what is available to you.

pocohantas:
Same way only 5 out of 100 young girls have access to politicians. It is a circle thing, has nothing to with youth and freshness like you implied. There are many young girls that would never smell these catergory of men. Same as grown women.

The argument isn't the percentage. But you wrongly implied that divorced women are ravaged in hotels and never taken on trips. Which remains a fallacy. Wealthy men have done more for different categories of women. Including the ones that are still married. Let alone divorced.

Anyone can be ravaged in a hotel. It depends on your level, circle and what is available to you.

Are you a divorced woman...why are you taking this so personal?

advanceDNA:

Wait!!!!!!Who forced monogamy on you?.... Is polygamy not legal in Nigeria?? Or what are u driving it......the way pple arrive at conclusions without premise is weird...


.there is nothing humble about ur opinion
..both single and women in marriage sleep around in this modern times....there is a general drop in morality across the world......it has nothing to do with monogamy..u are just spitting fallacy

another reaah fallacy...
look around u....paternity fraud is every where..yet u said marry women are not free like single.... There is no more morality from the young age... Is it not the single morally bankrupt that becomes married.....?? Garbage in garbage out is what we have today

the way u pple insult ur own race is weird .....even in America, polygamy is there....nobody force certificate marriage on any body in the world

Don't mind that bastardzzz

Nazgul:

Are you a divorced woman...why are you taking this so personal?

I haven't left my him yet. Neither has he done same. Stick to the context of the argument next time. Thank you.

pocohantas:
Same way only 5 out of 100 young girls have access to politicians. It is a circle thing, has nothing to do with youth and freshness like you implied. There are many young girls that would never smell these catergory of men. Same as grown women.

The younger a girl is the easier it is for her to get men flocking around her. It's an open secrete. You can't compare a girl of 22 to a divorcee of 40 with kids. Any man who wants fun would obviously opt for the girl of 22.

pocohantas:
The argument isn't the percentage. But you wrongly implied that divorced women are ravaged in hotels and never taken on trips or serious. Which remains a fallacy. Wealthy men have done more for different categories of women. Including the ones that are still married. Let alone divorced.

Only a wealthy divorced woman can attract a wealthy married man. A broke divorcee would definitely be ravaged in a hotel by a broke irresponsible married man. That's they way of life. 95% of the time, you attract what you are.

pocohantas:
Anyone can be ravaged in a hotel. It depends on your level, circle and what is available to you.

Exactly. This means that if her circle is with the average people, then average men would be the ones coming for her.

Nazgul:

The younger a girl is the easier it is for her to get men flocking around her. It's an open secrete. You can't compare a girl of 22 to a divorcee of 40 with kids. Any man who wants fun would obviously opt for the girl of 22.


Only a wealthy divorced woman can attract a wealthy married man. A broke divorcee would definitely be ravaged in a hotel by a broke irresponsible married man. That's they way of life. 95% of the time, you attract what you are.


Exactly. This means that if her circle is with the average people, then average men would be the ones coming for her.

Once again, the argument wasn't that men do not like youthfulness or fun.

I take you back to your post.

Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls

SAMBARRY:
make una dey recycle una genitals dey go dey deceive yourself make pharmacies dey cash out for hiv and std drugs.we need more senseless men like you make our hotel businesses dey sell

You made me laugh.

Stevenbright:

You are also having sex before marriage in the case you cited and the way you classified her also suit you too.

What kind of savagery is this? The guy and his girlfriend may be practicing a no sex relationship until marriage. But, your response to him suggests that is not something majority of men do, want, like or are good at.

onumadu:
This is why I keep harping against enforced monogamy.
In my humble opinion, enforced monogamy is an indirect causer of this type of societal problem.
A married woman , even if she were the tenth wife, cannot be as free as a divorced wife to be a sidechick.
Black Africans find it hard to mentally decipher these things, and would rather attack you for pointing it out.

Spot on

pocohantas:
Once again, the argument wasn't that men do not like youthfulness or fun.

I take you back to your post.

Lol...I said that because majority of married men (wealthy or struggling) would prefer younger girls. And of course there are always exceptions as nothing is 100% accurate which I pointed out by categorizing the ones who have access to wealthy married men (politicians) into 5%

Let's look at real life examples. If you would agree with me, most nollywood actresses that flunt expensive cars and houses on social media are within the age bracket of 20-30.

Even Genevieve which you and I know, was attracted to atiku in her prime. Do you think someone like Atiku would waste his money on a 40 year old divorcee with kids? Haba!

Nazgul:

Lol...I said that because majority of married men (wealthy or struggling) would prefer younger girls. And of course there are always exceptions as nothing is 100% accurate which I pointed out by categorizing the ones who have access to wealthy married men (politicians) into 5%

Let's look at real life examples. If you would agree with me, most nollywood actresses that flunt expensive cars and houses on social media are within the age bracket of 20-30.

Even Genevieve which you and I know, was attracted to atiku in her prime. Do you think someone like Atiku would waste his money on a 40 year old divorcee with kids? Haba!

No, they are not.

pocohantas:
No, they are not.

Can you point out any divorced nollywood actresses outside that age bracket that's dating a politician?

Nazgul:

Can you point out any divorced nollywood actresses outside that age bracket that's dating a politician?

Atiku didn't waste his money on a 40yrs old divorcee, but Sanwo Olu was rumoured to be dating Mo in her 50s.

Mc Oluomo dated Ehi a divorcee with 4 kids.

MC Oluomo dated the ex-wife of the late Alaafin. A mother of 2.

Yoruba actresses way into their 40s fight over their elites.

Yul left the wife of his youth to marry a mother of 2. Like she was still married when Yul snatched her.

Daddy Freeze is set to pay 5m for adultery. The woman is in her 40s. Divorced with 2 or 3 kids.

AY's ex-wife is rumoured to be dating a politician.

Damilola Adegbite was just exposed as the side chick of a married man. She is a SM of 1.

Ini Edo and Akwa Ibom state Gov.

Chika Ike and Abia state gov.

Ighodalo or what is that footballer's name, was dating the ex-wife of Ubi Franklin. Taking her to the same Bahamas you said they don't take them to.

The list goes on...

Nazgul:

I disagree. Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls.

Divorced women are usually ravaged in hotels and paid off. Married men hardly keep any relationship with them aside calling them to satisfy their sexual desires.

Just Say u cannot do it..... All those nolly wood single mothers buying house up and down in lekki who do u think is paying...

Sometimes to be side chic pay pass wifey at home... Go and ask well...sanwoolu side chic na confirmed single mother of 3kids

2Radii:


Mama rest..

If e sure for u, divorce ur man with ur three kids

I'm not married so you sef rest

pocohantas:


Atiku didn't waste his money on a 40yrs old divorcee, but Sanwo Olu was rumoured to be dating Mo in her 50s.

Mc Oluomo dated Ehi a divorcee with 4 kids.

MC Oluomo dated the ex-wife of the late Alaafin. A mother of 2.

Yoruba actresses way into their 40s fight over their elites.

Yul left the wife of his youth to marry a mother of 2. Like she was still married when Yul snatched her.

Daddy Freeze is set to pay 5m for adultery. The woman is in her 40s. Divorced with 2 or 3 kids.

AY's ex-wife is rumoured to be dating a politician.

Damilola Adegbite was just exposed as the side chick of a married man. She is a SM of 1.

Ini Edo and Akwa Ibom state Gov.

Chika Ike and Abia state gov.

The list goes on...

Equally important, who wants to date an unstable genz chick who can set you up for clout?

Is that not the story of Davido and all the chicks he keeps messing with?

Imagine... From the top striker position to a substitute with only friendly matches appearances.

pocohantas:
Atiku didn't waste his money on a 40yrs old divorcee, but Sanwo Olu was rumoured to be dating Mo in her 50s.

Rumored. Not confirmed. I'm sure he'll obviously deny the rumors.

pocohantas:
Mc Oluomo dated Ehi a divorcee with 4 kids.

Is it Ehi the gospel artist?

pocohantas:
MC Oluomo dated the ex-wife of the late Alaafin. A mother of 2.

I said there are exceptions. Nothing is 100% accurate. I pointed that out.

pocohantas:
Yoruba actresses way into their 40s fight over their elites.

I no wan talk wetin de my mind before someone quotes me and call me a tribalistic person.

pocohantas:
Yul left wife of his youth to marry a mother of 2. Like she was still married when Yul snatched her.

We're talking about dating and fun remember, not marriage. Cos I'm fully aware of the fact the widows and divorcees do get married.

pocohantas:
Daddy Freeze is set to pay 5m for adultery. The woman is in her 40s. Divorced with 2 or 3 kids.

Daddy freeze is mentally unstable. I believe you would agree with me on that. Dude hasn't had a stable marriage in his entire life.

pocohantas:
AY's ex-wife is rumoured to be dating a politician.

Rumored meaning it's not confirmed.

pocohantas:
Damilola Adegbite was just exposed as the side chick of a married man. She is a SM of 1.

I don't know her. But I'd say she belongs to the 5%

pocohantas:
Ini Edo and Akwa Ibom state Gov.

Belongs to the 5%

pocohantas:
Chika Ike and Abia state gov.

Wait...which of the Abia Governors, Alex Otti?

GloriousGbola:


Equally important, who wants to date an unstable genz chick who can set you up for clout?

Is that not the story of Davido and all the chicks he keeps messing with?

This is what they miss. You forgot one posted Dangote's nyash for us? Some of these men intentionally go for women that have something to lose. Not a lady that will post screenshots of their chat on IG. When Gistlover leaked Desmond Elliot's side chick, did that lady say pim till today? 😂😂

These kinda women would also not get belle. They can date the married man for years! Young ladies of marriageable age would be looking for how to enter. But these old ones just wanna chop life and be free. Na the family oriented ones dey stay one place and try marry again. Ladies sleeping around for 20k are simply lazy and immoral. The thing dey their eyes since.

buJu234:
she is not wrong

just staying the truth that we all know.

i know one that left her marriage over 2years ago with 3 kids in the East, all in the excuse that her husband was cheating.

today she is lagos, fucking any guy fuckable as far they can give 15k and above.

Did she take the kids with her when she left?

Some weeks ago a divorced lady shared her story with a radio station about how she left her marriage taking along their 4 kids, only to end up as a side chic to a married man because there wasn't enough income or cash flow to take care of herself and 4 kids.

She left because her husband was cheating and her advice to married women was just stay in your marriage even if hubby is cheating so you don't end up in a situation like mine. At least even with his side chics you remain the main madam he goes home to.

I had issues with her story because;

1. I will never understand why women feel the need to leave and take the children along, particularly when they lack the financial capacity to take care of them. Did you climb on top of yourself to have those children by yourself? Why are we always trying to be super-women and acting like, na we love pikin pass, more than the fathers?

The kind of woman I am though, I will not play myself that way. I didn't go to your house with children, I will not leave with children, I will leave as I came. And we will find a way to co-parent!

We let men get away with far too much in Naija, let them start feeling the consequences of separation and divorce too, by leaving him with his children and awakening him to the realities of a wife and mother' absence, after all is it not his name they bear? And NL men in particular claim we bring nothing to the table, so leave the table with nothing too when going.

2. Cheating husbands can infect you with an STD, curable and incurable ones. I am personally aware of three women and one of those women married as a virgin, she never cheated on her husband in marriage.

One clown on page two is boasting of picking escorts and fcking around, he is the kind to infect a virgin wife with disease. Chances are, that when wifey is heavily pregnant, and can't satisfy his urge he will still call one of those escorts and take home a disease at some point.

My own is that the day I have to treat myself for an STI and I know I didn't cheat, you better be sleeping with one eye open and that will signal the beginning of the end.

Nazgul:

Rumored. Not confirmed. I'm sure he'll obviously deny the rumors.


Is it Ehi the gospel artist?


I said there are exceptions. Nothing is 100% accurate. I pointed that out.


I no wan talk wetin de my mind before someone quotes me and call me a tribalistic person.


We're talking about dating and fun remember, not marriage. Cos I'm fully aware of the fact the widows and divorcees do get married.


Daddy freeze is mentally unstable. I believe you would agree with me on that. Dude hasn't had a stable marriage in his entire life.


Rumored meaning it's not confirmed.


I don't know her. But I'd say she belongs to the 5%


Belongs to the 5%


Wait...which of the Abia Governors, Alex Otti?

Deflections...

pocohantas:
Deflections...

Why do you think so?

Basically ,

There is someone for everyone . Na you dey deceive yourself say women get expiry date

Klass99:


You made me laugh.



What kind of savagery is this? The guy and his girlfriend may be practicing a no sex relationship until marriage. But, your response to him suggests that is not something majority of men do, want, like or are good at.

My point is if he truly so hate what those set of girls are doing, he should also discipline himself. But he has a point too from his response to me, in that he is only paying for the product the seller is hawking!

Klass99:


Did she take the kids with her when she left?

Some weeks ago a divorced lady shared her story with a radio station about how she left her marriage taking along their 4 kids, only to end up as a side chic to a married man because there wasn't enough income or cash flow to take care of herself and 4 kids.

She left because her husband was cheating and her advice to married women was just stay in your marriage even if hubby is cheating so you don't end up in a situation like mine. At least even with his side chics you remain the main madam he goes home to.

I had issues with her story because;

1. I will never understand why women feel the need to leave and take the children along, particularly when they lack the financial capacity to take care of them. Did you climb on top of yourself to have those children by yourself? Why are we always trying to be super-women and acting like na we love pikin pass, more than the fathers?

The kind of woman I am though, I will not play myself that way. I didn't go to your house with children, I will not leave with children, I will leave as I came. And we will find a way to co-parent!

We let men get away with far too much in Naija, let them start feeling the consequences of separation and divorce too, by leaving him with his children and awakening him to the realities of a wife and mother' absence, after all is it not his name they bear? And NL men in particular are claim we bring nothing to the table, so leave the table with nothing too when going.

2. Cheating husbands can infect you an STD, curable and incurable ones. I personally know of three cases and one of those women married as a virgin and never cheated on her husband in marriage.

One clown on page 2 is boasting of picking escorts and fcking around, he is the kind to infect a virgin wife with disease. Chances are, that when wifey is heavily pregnant, and can't satisfy his urge he will still call one of those escorts and take home a disease at some point.

My own is that the day I have to treat myself for an STI and I know I didn't cheat, you better be sleeping with one eye open and that will signal the beginning of the end.

Exactly. They refuse to face the main issue here and resort to the usual subtle gaslighting of women to stay in unhealthy marriages.

The main issues are women taking on the responsibility of the kids alone after divorce.

Lack of financial capability.

Lack of moral willpower.

However, some go into a wild stage of their lives. So contrary to posts that they are helpless sidechiks, they know what they are doing. They don't want marriage again. They only want a partner. What better man for that than an adulterous (polygamous) man. It is a win win for both parties.

Any grown woman who would resort to sleeping around for 20k to feed herself was never supposed to be a wife in the first place.

Stevenbright:


My point is if he truly so hate what those set of girls are doing, he should also discipline himself. But he has a point too from his response to me, in that he is only paying for the product the seller is hawking!

He is a hypocrite if you ask me.

You can't be condemning people for a certain kind of lifestyle and actively participating in the same sort of lifestyle yourself.

Biko, what is the difference between him and his escorts? Abeg, the guy is a brolosho. That was my first thought and initial impression of him after reading that post.

Klass99:


Did she take the kids with her when she left?

Some weeks ago a divorced lady shared her story with a radio station about how she left her marriage taking along their 4 kids, only to end up as a side chic to a married man because there wasn't enough income or cash flow to take care of herself and 4 kids.

She left because her husband was cheating and her advice to married women was just stay in your marriage even if hubby is cheating so you don't end up in a situation like mine. At least even with his side chics you remain the main madam he goes home to.

I had issues with her story because;

1. I will never understand why women feel the need to leave and take the children along, particularly when they lack the financial capacity to take care of them. Did you climb on top of yourself to have those children by yourself? Why are we always trying to be super-women and acting like, na we love pikin pass, more than the fathers?

The kind of woman I am though, I will not play myself that way. I didn't go to your house with children, I will not leave with children, I will leave as I came. And we will find a way to co-parent!

We let men get away with far too much in Naija, let them start feeling the consequences of separation and divorce too, by leaving him with his children and awakening him to the realities of a wife and mother' absence, after all is it not his name they bear? And NL men in particular claim we bring nothing to the table, so leave the table with nothing too when going.

2. Cheating husbands can infect you with an STD, curable and incurable ones. I am personally aware of three women and one of those women married as a virgin, she never cheated on her husband in marriage.

One clown on page two is boasting of picking escorts and fcking around, he is the kind to infect a virgin wife with disease. Chances are, that when wifey is heavily pregnant, and can't satisfy his urge he will still call one of those escorts and take home a disease at some point.

My own is that the day I have to treat myself for an STI and I know I didn't cheat, you better be sleeping with one eye open and that will signal the beginning of the end.

Seven kisses to you, my Madam.

Nazgul:

Lol...I said that because majority of married men (wealthy or struggling) would prefer younger girls. And of course there are always exceptions as nothing is 100% accurate which I pointed out by categorizing the ones who have access to wealthy married men (politicians) into 5%

Let's look at real life examples. If you would agree with me, most nollywood actresses that flunt expensive cars and houses on social media are within the age bracket of 20-30.

Even Genevieve which you and I know, was attracted to atiku in her prime. Do you think someone like Atiku would waste his money on a 40 year old divorcee with kids? Haba!

What are you saying?

Was it a Gen Z that exposed Dangote's bare aśś on social media? Or was it a Gen Z baddie that exposed Otedola as well?

Abeg allow Gen Z breef in peace.

Isn't Sanwo-Olu rumoured to be dating a woman in her prime?

2Radii:
Abi

Let it be that way so that we guys can have plenty redundant pvssies to choose from

They claim their husbands are cheating, but ask them what they are doing at the back door u will be marvelled. Some had 15 men pounding her before she eventually carry Mrcock pregnancy go give yarimo ooh but to them they are saints..

Some claim they are not maid so they can do house chores, they find it hard to respect their men but any small thing they claim their men doesn't respect women....

Abeg make una leave them, we re here to service their puna on a first come first serve levels

I'm sure your mother's pussy will be part of it