Afunkkyshow:
really?

Yeah. Hope you are not one of them

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Your actions and mentality will decide it is not a matter of prayer or curses.

psalmylee:
once u give her the first time like this..
She go dey come back bill u steadily

THEY BRING THEIR BODY TO THE TABLE

psalmylee:
Them come get entitlement mentality join...
Always feeling they deserve every bit of your penny

Nigerian lady's on nairaland suddenly disappeared

Billing. Urgent 2k

Hello dude,
Funny things is that many of you will end up with lady that exhibit these characters or attitudes you complained about now.

Cos, that gender pretend alot !

Mark my words. Or ask married folks.

Jeon:


See mumu contrarian oooooh, nonsense idiot the girls wer dy fuvk u dy try.

men no longer need liability in name of relationship, black African girls have this entitlement mentality

3kay945:
Hello dude,
Funny things is that many of you will end up with lady that exhibit these characters or attitudes you complained about now.

Cos, that gender pretend alot !

Mark my words. Or ask married folks.

don't look girls who look direct into your 👀, you will gain more respect, they might force their self on you for free fk

Chetas81:
don't look girls who look direct into your 👀, you will gain more respect, they might force their self on you for free fk

I don't get you.

Ojagun:
She gained weight
I am only interested in slim ladies
Thick/curvy/slim-thick/full-bodied women (or any other term that denotes added weight) are a no-no for me
Maintain/control your weight or get out of my life

😂

Called her one day and she picked up, kept mute and I kept saying,"Hello,Hello".
The silly thing turned on music in the background.

Emmanuel900:
I met this girl somewhere and collected her number, i prefer to talk to a lady face to face instead of chatting so i asked her out on a date after having one or two jokes with her on WhatsApp but she just won't stop asking for something like she is an ebinna. I was really hoping she would have some sense but she was just a begger like every girls out there.

I have no problem sending her the data she requested for but what is the point ? someone that is only interested in what she can get from you. I just deleted her number and move

Lol. The ones wey no dey ask una for shishi, una no value dem😁

3kay945:
Hello dude,
Funny things is that many of you will end up with lady that exhibit these characters or attitudes you complained about now.

Cos, that gender pretend alot !

Mark my words. Or ask married folks.

Your not far from the truth bro. Most guys don't like girls that are real. It's quite sad alot of them will end up with who they have been avoiding

Wahala walaha everywhere 😂

Lucifyre:


They can't communicate properly period, online or physically. They always expect you to do the heavy lifting. There's one ive been speaking to, she's so into me, always calling and texting. U'ld call and text someone but u can't move the convo forward or contribute meaningfully, i always have to do the heavy lifting, so why texting and calling if u got nothing to say?! Recently ive purposefully started mirroring her.

The last time we spoke after she called i didn't to the heavy lifitng as usual, see how dry the convo was, u could hear crickets, i wanted to literally lol. Simply told her this is boring, i have a lot of work to catch up on. I know she might have felt bad but hopefully it would make her improve. Luckily for me though, most of the females around me are not like that but when u meet these dry types it can be annoying and draining.

They feel it's a man's job and they are always on the receiving end. Most women are just dumb and it's not really a problem provided you don't have to marry them.

Matabue1985:
she shit in my toilet and forgot to flush, as i wanted to ease myself, i saw the 4 massive shit inside the toilet and smelling like a dead rat, i could not eat for a whole day, and that was why i broke up with her. Very dirty girl

😂😂😂 Kuku kill person with laff.

Nkl4u:


Lol. The ones wey no dey ask una for shishi, una no value dem😁

So you have no problem asking someone you know nothing about and just meet for things because he shows some interest in you?

If you don't see how senseless that's then you must really lack sense.

It is not you girls fault the excessive attention you get from guys is the thing getting to your head. When you get something in excess you take it for granted.

minasu190:
What her parents cannot give her, she wants that from me, e.g bag, phone, allowance, etc.

I wonder if those girls would survive without relationship

Nkl4u:


Lol. The ones wey no dey ask una for shishi, una no value dem😁

Keep deceiving yourself. Even if she is not asking from the main bolifriend. She will be billing others on radar. You think say na all nigerian men mumu as una always think abi?

Billing format too with this generation ladies.

psalmylee:
once u give her the first time like this..
She go dey come back bill u steadily

lacasera14:
They feel it's a man's job and they are always on the receiving end. Most women are just dumb and it's not really a problem provided you don't have to marry them.

See you can say they are dumb in one form and on the hand i can tell you they are not dumb as you potray them. They are the good definition of good pretenders. You know why? Men made them to act that way and they themselves have mastered the act and taken it to a whole new level.

No woman or lady in this world can pretend to me or form what she is or not. Immediately i see them i already know at least 70% of things about them.

You can say they are dumb when it comes to critical decision making like being selfless, logical, good all round and sound decision that almost everyone will benefit from.

But brethren i will tell you for free that they are not dumb when it comes to selfishness, selfcare, and securing the future for themselves first. They are very chaotic and talk a lot and their mothers have trained them to pretend to be what their mumu men want to see in them.

Holluwhakemmy:
Use that energy in you and work harder so you can fulfil your responsibilities as a man. If you can perform simple task don't go into relationship nobody will suffer with you

So relationship is now a job oppurtunity
I wonder if you can survive without relationship

Marc3500:
Una dey fall in love for this tinubu regime haa

Nawa oo

Well me ive gone passed that phase of falling in love

We are in it together

Smelly toto and when it's obvious she's trying to exploit me financially.

imagrg:
Smelly toto and when it's obvious she's trying to exploit me financially.

Emmanuel900:

So you have no problem asking someone you know nothing about and just meet for things because he shows some interest in you?

If you don't see how senseless that's then you must really lack sense.

It is not you girls fault the excessive attention you get from guys is the thing getting to your head. When you get something in excess you take it for granted.

Exactly. A lot of men don't know who women are. If you know how they gather and make mockery of you guys behind you lol. You may develop a strong hatred for them if you are not equipped with knowledge.

If you want them to start respecting you guys willingly. You guys have to man up and start doing these below.

1.Stop approaching them like your life depends on them. Greet them and act normally when you see them like when you see your fellow men.

2.Create boundaries and be master of your emotions. Your word is your word no privileges.

3.Stop asking them for sex. Let it be consensual by both parties. Nobody is doing anybody favour. You are both bowing to nature call.

4.Stop being over admiring them and Face front and concentrate on whatever it is you are doing. But unfortunately I have seen enough and countless stupid men turning their heads when a lady passes by on several occasions.

They know most nigerian men and guys are not self-disciplined. Until guys and men start putting these things into practice. Those people will always see you as a fooolish goat who is after what is inside their pants. They know the kind and huge amount of power they weild over the stupid men and guys.

Emmanuel900:


So you have no problem asking someone you know nothing about and just meet for things because he shows some interest in you?

If you don't see how senseless that's then you must really lack sense.

It is not you girls fault the excessive attention you get from guys is the thing getting to your head. When you get something in excess you take it for granted.

Exactly boss i once told my guy that guys are the main cause of it cause if you don't give them what they want those girls knew there are many guys that will get what they want for them

Tempulated:


Exactly. A lot of men don't know who women are. If you know how they gather and make mockery of you guys behind you lol. You may develop a strong hatred for them if you are not equipped with knowledge.

It is Nigerian guys that causes most of it

Most Nigerian guys are too desperate when chasing women and don't know how to walk away no matter how disrespectful or shitty the women treat them so Nigerian women develop the habit that every man that show some interest in them will take some shit from them, because they don't believe they will give up that easily.

They think every man that show some interest is already seriously smitten by them and in love.

internationalman:
Any girl that uses abbreviation a lot to chat with me or easily switches to voice notes can make me lose interest.

...

Wow! I thought it was only me that hates such.

Emmanuel900:


It is Nigerian guys that causes most of it

Most Nigerian guys are too desperate when chasing women and don't know how to walk away no matter how disrespectful or shitty the women treat them so Nigerian women develop the habit that every man that show some interest in them will take some shit from them, because they don't believe they will give up that easily.

They think every man that show some interest is already seriously smitten by them and in love.

That is it. I have some stupid men and guys who even brag about their women and compete among themselves like it world cup tournament. Most men are just footmat of the earth but most of them don't know it.

The illusion of been in control which is their ego is what is blocking their sense of reasoning from seeing the true picture of things.

psalmylee:
95% of Nigerian girls cannot chat properly on the phone..
They are so boring and predictable

Dem go won use " have u eaten" take kill u

BABANGBALI:
Sickness. She too dey sick. Almost every day she dey sick. I no get time for nonsense

you have no symphaty