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I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 12:11pm On Jul 24 |
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core? Can I spit at people who judge me? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by J0HNNY(m): 12:15pm On Jul 24 |
So who will look after you, when you're of age? You'll not remain young forever. Infact old age is not child's play. Maybe you might adopt. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 12:20pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314: Its perfectly normal but nature will correct that as you grow older. You'll later have a strong desire to have your own children. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 12:25pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings: Not unless I don't have to look after their needy asses. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by dkidd: 12:28pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314:Spit on ur useless kuntus... Almost same time last year U wanted children but not a husband. Now about a year later having children disgusts U. You're just an attention seeking 304. Take that rotten fish and go to hell. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 12:35pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314: I take it you are still young. There are actually 2 factors that promopt us to desiree procreation which is Society and Nature. Society prompts us to have kids that will care for us and keep our company as we go through life in both comfort or struggles. Society also influences us to have kids since other people are having cute little babies which is also a result of sex. Sex is important, forget people trying to shy away from it. Secondly, NATURE will compel you to follow through certain changes both in physical looks and mental wise (thought process). As a lady once you get to 22, you start to feel like you are pretty. Everything about you is special and beautiful. Men too will come in droves and your sexual urge might be over bearing for you at that point. That's nature playing with you. Then your thought process will start changing and you'll want a lover to care for you and belong to. Mind you, you might not even think about having a baby at this point. But nature is driving you towards sex... And sex leads to motherhood. So it's time, as you grow your thought process will change from a non-conformist to a Comformist 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by danzaki63: 1:29pm On Jul 24 |
Your Father wasted his sperms. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by femi4: 1:46pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314:Human is dynamic in nature As we grow, we started doing stuff we swore never to do and vice versa 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 2:28pm On Jul 24 |
danzaki63: Your mom should have aborted you 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 2:29pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings: I don't give a shit what society expects. You should live life your way and not give a damn what anyone thinks, as long as you don't hurt anyone. It's good to be a non conformist. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by MrCork: 3:05pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314: Sweet hat...if i yansh u ones..truss me...u will hav 3 childrens tonight. U want?? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Mobahd: 3:12pm On Jul 24 |
I am happy to hear this ...now I can be fuckin you raw with no anxiety over unwanted pregnancy |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Everyday247: 3:40pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:24pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314: some of you women are the reason why many men are not taking what you are saying seriously... women like you are just highly confused or going through your period madness and it must be playing tricks on your brain. aint you the same person that wrote the below: aisha1314: NL IS JUST FULL OF COMEDIANS... I SWEAR !!! 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 5:44pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings:Stop lying to her! Nature does no such thing! Rather, it is the society that tries to bully people into accepting ideas that they are not themselves comfortable with. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 5:46pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314:If you really truly don't give a shit what society wants or asks of you then why bother asking anyone these things. You were not born pregnant from your mother's womb; no one was. Childbearing is a choice to be made by those who are comfortable with the idea and able to bear the responsibility that goes along with it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Children by okoroemeka(m): 5:54pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314:it is ok,that's your choice but trust me you will regret the decision when it maybe too late 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by greenermodels: 5:56pm On Jul 24 |
okoroemeka:baba, how many times can you plant tomatoes in a year on the same plot of land if fertigation is used with drip irrigation. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:01pm On Jul 24 |
okoroemeka:Stop lying to her! There are so many around the world who never had children. Many of them you all know! 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:32pm On Jul 24 |
Kobojunkiee: No ma. If you read my post well you will see I noted two factors which are Nature and Society..those two influence humans |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:38pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings:Nature does nothing of the sort you claimed. Nature only makes available a possibility for women to choose whether or not to have kids. Nature cannot force a woman to bear a child; it equally does not punish her for not having a child. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:41pm On Jul 24 |
Kobojunkiee: Does nature influence sex urges or desires? If it does, then to what end? |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:45pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings:No, it isn't nature but your mind. Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:50pm On Jul 24 |
Kobojunkiee: Do you know the meaning of nature? Kobojunkie will disagree with anything even though she knows she's totally wrong Don't try to wiggle your way out 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:53pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings:Again, Your mind is not nature! Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:57pm On Jul 24 |
Kobojunkiee: The mind is a branch of Human Nature. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 7:04pm On Jul 24 |
RealityKings:The term nature is typically used to refer to that which is beyond human control. If your mind as a human being is beyond your control, you might as well consider yourself an eejit! na·ture |
Re: I Don't Want Children by kenn4rill(m): 7:22pm On Jul 24 |
There is this Celine Dion song that says, " When I was young, I never needed anyone, and making love was just for fun, does days are gone. I don't wanna be Al by my self, I don't want to be anymore". And Shagy song that says" life is one big party when you are still young, but wo is gonna have your back when it's all gone" This particular tracks says a lot about life. If you like desire children or not, life always have a way of having regrets. |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Anny69(f): 10:44pm On Jul 24 |
Kobojunkiee:I love you. 🥺 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Anny69(f): 10:48pm On Jul 24 |
aisha1314:It's okay. My first reaction to a pregnant woman is disgust because I think about why a woman would do that to herself. Later I calm down because it's her choice. It's just a big no for me. Pregnancy, motherhood. ❌ 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Children by Leemzyy(f): 4:16am On Jul 25 |
MrCork:Hmmm go marry and stop spoiling people's daughter |
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