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I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 12:11pm On Jul 24
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

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Re: I Don't Want Children by J0HNNY(m): 12:15pm On Jul 24
So who will look after you, when you're of age? You'll not remain young forever. Infact old age is not child's play.

Maybe you might adopt.

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Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 12:20pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

Its perfectly normal but nature will correct that as you grow older. You'll later have a strong desire to have your own children.

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Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 12:25pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:


Its perfectly normal but nature will correct that as you grow older. You'll later have a strong desire to have your own children.

Not unless I don't have to look after their needy asses.

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Re: I Don't Want Children by dkidd: 12:28pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
Spit on ur useless kuntus... Almost same time last year U wanted children but not a husband. Now about a year later having children disgusts U. You're just an attention seeking 304. Take that rotten fish and go to hell.

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Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 12:35pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:


Not unless I don't have to look after their needy asses.

I take it you are still young. There are actually 2 factors that promopt us to desiree procreation which is Society and Nature.
Society prompts us to have kids that will care for us and keep our company as we go through life in both comfort or struggles.

Society also influences us to have kids since other people are having cute little babies which is also a result of sex. Sex is important, forget people trying to shy away from it.

Secondly, NATURE will compel you to follow through certain changes both in physical looks and mental wise (thought process). As a lady once you get to 22, you start to feel like you are pretty. Everything about you is special and beautiful. Men too will come in droves grin and your sexual urge might be over bearing for you at that point. That's nature playing with you.

Then your thought process will start changing and you'll want a lover to care for you and belong to. Mind you, you might not even think about having a baby at this point. But nature is driving you towards sex... And sex leads to motherhood.

So it's time, as you grow your thought process will change from a non-conformist to a Comformist

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Re: I Don't Want Children by danzaki63: 1:29pm On Jul 24
Your Father wasted his sperms.
Re: I Don't Want Children by femi4: 1:46pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
Human is dynamic in nature

As we grow, we started doing stuff we swore never to do and vice versa

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Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 2:28pm On Jul 24
danzaki63:
Your Father wasted his sperms.

Your mom should have aborted you

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Re: I Don't Want Children by aisha1314(f): 2:29pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:


I take it you are still young. There are actually 2 factors that promopt us to desiree procreation which is Society and Nature.
Society prompts us to have kids that will care for us and keep our company as we go through life in both comfort or struggles.

Society also influences us to have kids since other people are having cute little babies which is also a result of sex. Sex is important, forget people trying to shy away from it.

Secondly, NATURE will compel you to follow through certain changes both in physical looks and mental wise (thought process). As a lady once you get to 22, you start to feel like you are pretty. Everything about you is special and beautiful. Men too will come in droves grin and your sexual urge might be over bearing for you at that point. That's nature playing with you.

Then your thought process will start changing and you'll want a lover to care for you and belong to. Mind you, you might not even think about having a baby at this point. But nature is driving you towards sex... And sex leads to motherhood.

So it's time, as you grow your thought process will change from a non-conformist to a Comformist

I don't give a shit what society expects. You should live life your way and not give a damn what anyone thinks, as long as you don't hurt anyone.
It's good to be a non conformist.

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Re: I Don't Want Children by MrCork: 3:05pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?


Sweet hat...if i yansh u ones..truss me...u will hav 3 childrens tonight. U want?? cheesy

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Re: I Don't Want Children by Mobahd: 3:12pm On Jul 24
I am happy to hear this ...now I can be fuckin you raw with no anxiety over unwanted pregnancy
Re: I Don't Want Children by Everyday247: 3:40pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
smiley

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Re: I Don't Want Children by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:24pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

some of you women are the reason why many men are not taking what you are saying seriously... women like you are just highly confused or going through your period madness and it must be playing tricks on your brain. aint you the same person that wrote the below:

aisha1314:
Is it bad that I want to have children without getting married? I really do not want a husband, I just want a partner, that is, a long term boyfriend I will live with. Since I was small I have always preferred long term relationships to actual marriage, because I feel marriage is pointless, overrated and outdated. But, I still want children though only 2 because I don't believe you have to be married to have children.

NL IS JUST FULL OF COMEDIANS... I SWEAR !!!

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Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 5:44pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:
■ Its perfectly normal but nature will correct that as you grow older. You'll later have a strong desire to have your own children.
Stop lying to her! Nature does no such thing! Rather, it is the society that tries to bully people into accepting ideas that they are not themselves comfortable with. undecided
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 5:46pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
If you really truly don't give a shit what society wants or asks of you then why bother asking anyone these things. You were not born pregnant from your mother's womb; no one was. Childbearing is a choice to be made by those who are comfortable with the idea and able to bear the responsibility that goes along with it. undecided

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Re: I Don't Want Children by okoroemeka(m): 5:54pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
it is ok,that's your choice but trust me you will regret the decision when it maybe too late
Re: I Don't Want Children by greenermodels: 5:56pm On Jul 24
okoroemeka:
it is ok,that's your choice but trust me you will regret the decision when it maybe too late
baba, how many times can you plant tomatoes in a year on the same plot of land if fertigation is used with drip irrigation.
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:01pm On Jul 24
okoroemeka:
it is ok,that's your choice but trust me you will regret the decision when it maybe too late
Stop lying to her! There are so many around the world who never had children. Many of them you all know! undecided

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Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:32pm On Jul 24
Kobojunkiee:
Stop lying to her! Nature does no such thing! Rather, it is the society that tries to bully people into accepting ideas that they are not themselves comfortable with. undecided

No ma. If you read my post well you will see I noted two factors which are Nature and Society..those two influence humans
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:38pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:
■ No ma. If you read my post well you will see I noted two factors which are Nature and Society..those two influence humans
Nature does nothing of the sort you claimed. Nature only makes available a possibility for women to choose whether or not to have kids. Nature cannot force a woman to bear a child; it equally does not punish her for not having a child. undecided
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:41pm On Jul 24
Kobojunkiee:
Nature does nothing of the sort you claimed. Nature only makes available a possibility for women to choose whether or not to have kids. Nature cannot force a woman to bear a child; it equally does not punish her for not having a child. undecided

Does nature influence sex urges or desires?
If it does, then to what end?
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:45pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:
■ Does nature influence sex urges or desires? If it does, then to what end?
No, it isn't nature but your mind. Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. undecided

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Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:50pm On Jul 24
Kobojunkiee:
No, it isn't nature but your mind. Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. undecided

Do you know the meaning of nature?
Kobojunkie will disagree with anything even though she knows she's totally wrong grin

Don't try to wiggle your way out
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 6:53pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:
■ Do you know the meaning of nature? ... will disagree with anything even though she knows she's totally wrong grin Don't try to wiggle your way out
Again, Your mind is not nature! Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. undecided
Re: I Don't Want Children by RealityKings: 6:57pm On Jul 24
Kobojunkiee:
Again, Your mind is not nature! Not every mind is susceptible to such things. Yes, there are people out there who lack those desires and urges that you probably struggle with; there are equally those out there who have learned to bring under control their urges and desires that they no longer battle with them as they used to. undecided

The mind is a branch of Human Nature.
Re: I Don't Want Children by Kobojunkiee: 7:04pm On Jul 24
RealityKings:
■ The mind is a branch of Human Nature.
The term nature is typically used to refer to that which is beyond human control. If your mind as a human being is beyond your control, you might as well consider yourself an eejit! undecided
na·ture

1. the phenomena of the physical world collectively, including plants, animals, the landscape, and other features and products of the earth, as opposed to humans or human creations.

2. the basic or inherent features of something, especially when seen as characteristic of it.
Re: I Don't Want Children by kenn4rill(m): 7:22pm On Jul 24
There is this Celine Dion song that says, " When I was young, I never needed anyone, and making love was just for fun, does days are gone. I don't wanna be Al by my self, I don't want to be anymore". And Shagy song that says" life is one big party when you are still young, but wo is gonna have your back when it's all gone"

This particular tracks says a lot about life. If you like desire children or not, life always have a way of having regrets.
Re: I Don't Want Children by Anny69(f): 10:44pm On Jul 24
Kobojunkiee:
If you really truly don't give a shit what society wants or asks of you then why bother asking anyone these things. You were not born pregnant from your mother's womb; no one was. Childbearing is a choice to be made by those who are comfortable with the idea and able to bear the responsibility that goes along with it. undecided
I love you. 🥺
Re: I Don't Want Children by Anny69(f): 10:48pm On Jul 24
aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?
It's okay. My first reaction to a pregnant woman is disgust because I think about why a woman would do that to herself. Later I calm down because it's her choice. It's just a big no for me. Pregnancy, motherhood. ❌
Re: I Don't Want Children by Leemzyy(f): 4:16am On Jul 25
MrCork:



Sweet hat...if i yansh u ones..truss me...u will hav 3 childrens tonight. U want?? cheesy
Hmmm go marry and stop spoiling people's daughter

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