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Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by VinnyBaba: 9:16am On Jul 25 |
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them. ![]() They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid. But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures. ![]() ![]() PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? π€π because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work as their Wives always claim they are Tired. π 72 Likes 12 Shares
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Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Zonefree(m): 9:54am On Jul 25 |
Men should try and learn how to cook. Don't allow any woman hold you hostage because of food. If she refuse cooking, enter kitchen, make your meal, eat and bounce. Then, deprive her of things she normally gets from you. I hate to see men complain about food every time. Cooking is a basic survival instinct not gender based. 461 Likes 44 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by VinnyBaba: 9:59am On Jul 25 |
Zonefree: Agreed, But in Marriage Setting, a Husband should NOT be cooking when the Wife is in that Living space with him. ![]() Most of our Girls who Date YAHOO boys, they cook at the Guy's Beck and call. ![]() But when they get into Marriage, Most claim Tiredness. ![]() ![]() 82 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Zonefree(m): 10:10am On Jul 25 |
VinnyBaba:This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail. My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room. Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man. 234 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Obierika(m): 10:56am On Jul 25 |
VinnyBaba: Do you still do campaign after election victory? ![]() 56 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by PerfectStranger(m): 12:08pm On Jul 25 |
Obierika:I know this your comment isnt about election ![]() 23 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Proserpina: 12:19pm On Jul 25 |
What's the evidence to back up your claim? How many Nigerian homes employ the service of house helps in this present economy? Is life the same in university and after? Do all those who cohabit get married and expand their union? Do these "pablets" who cook for "pablos" work? Your problem is you fail to realize that marriage is not the same as dating. Lol 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by gbaskiboy: 3:01pm On Jul 25 |
Cooking is not bad, it is not what I like doing but if I have opportunity to cook I cook well.. |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by MaziObinnaokija: 3:02pm On Jul 25 |
Wen you marry MBEKE with LONG NAIL,JEZEBELS eyelashes, behave like somebody wey nor dey drink GARRI plus EPA.U take her to those sophisticated eatery, instead of buka ,.U MARRIED A LIABILITY, USELESS THING. and the RESULT u get is I YAM TIRE ![]() ![]() Enter village/Town go find wife material nor these nowadays things that tied βοΈ π βοΈ π on their legs, wear short/jumpers around. Some of them are EMPTY UPSTAIRS 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by silibaba: 3:02pm On Jul 25 |
VinnyBaba:people still dey marry? 5 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by datola: 3:02pm On Jul 25 |
They are also getting older na with more responsibilities 8 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by sylve11: 3:02pm On Jul 25 |
Zonefree: As I dey here, no woman go make shakara with food for me. I like cooking my own food. ![]() 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by 1Sharon(f): 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
If your wife refuses to cook for you, you'll sit there and starve? 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Seefinish: 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
Because yahoo yahoo boys wants to use them do ritual. 1 Like |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by showby: 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
Hehehe! 6 Likes
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Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by mytime24(f): 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
Naija wives over to U 1 Like |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by callmevirus(m): 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
Nothing concern me but E dey mind 1 Like |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by GRACEGLORY: 3:03pm On Jul 25 |
As simple as cooking sounds, it could be difficult when either of the party is tired. Many women burn water on fire let alone foods. And some house getting burnt could have been saved if a tired person had not forgotten food on fire as a result of being tired. It is the job of the husband and wife to manage the house, which includes cooking and providing revenue for the household. If both husband and wife work, they should share cooking responsibilities. If only the husband works, the wife is responsible for cooking; however, the husband should assist her in cooking. Here in lies wisdom. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by jchioma: 3:04pm On Jul 25 |
How old are you? |There's what's known as the place of rest. A married Nigerian woman has assumed a madam status and is therefore, entitled to benefits not seen in spinsterhood. A special status is stringed to a woman's honour. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Sapasenator: 3:04pm On Jul 25 |
Zonefree: I cook and bake more than most ladies and never have to depend on anyone. It is a very important skill to learn by everyone. Do not consider yourself literate if you are not able to follow a cooking recipe successfully. 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by bigdammyj: 3:05pm On Jul 25 |
Reading⦠1 Like |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by TheWinterBird(f): 3:05pm On Jul 25 |
Me that loves to cook. I feel bad for my future husband. Na to drag me away from the kitchen everyday. 22 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by ednut1(m): 3:05pm On Jul 25 |
No campaign after elections 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Kennbliss: 3:05pm On Jul 25 |
[quote author=Obierika post=131135427] Do you still do campaign after election victory? ![]() Nice statement 6 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by nairalanda1(m): 3:06pm On Jul 25 |
VinnyBaba: 1. Before marriage, you will cook for the boyfriend, but for most girls it is not everytime/ALL THE TIME. One of my classmates for university, his babe did cook for him occasionally (one time she cooked one sensible veg soup...na so I come land the house when chopping go start...enjoyed proper soup for the first time in months plus swallow....student life sha)...but not ALL the time, because she too was schooling, and school no easy (They are married now). 2.After marriage, you have to cook for your husband...breakfast, lunch and dinner....and then children come...breakfast, lunch dinner. You know in this tinubu times, there is nothing like stay at home wife....so woman has to work, and still dash home to cook breakfast lunch dinner, plus snack for children Two different scenairos really. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by givedemwotowoto: 3:06pm On Jul 25 |
No more campaign after winning election ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 3:07pm On Jul 25 |
Cooking shouldn't be gender based things all hands must be on desk 8 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by IrepChrist: 3:08pm On Jul 25 |
Youthful life is an hasty one. You want to engage in premarital sex. You want to co-habit, and you want to start washing his cloths and cooking for him. Once they get married it becomes uncomfortable because they have all they wanted. Wedding ring. Hyprocracy unto God. Say no to premarital sex, say no to cohabitation, say no to ungodly relationships. 9 Likes |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by RebirthPhoenix(m): 3:08pm On Jul 25 |
VinnyBaba: So yahoo boys no be man them be,,,, lol 1 Like |
Re: Cooking: Why Do Some Nigerian Wives Do This? by Kukutenla: 3:08pm On Jul 25 |
The reality of married life is hitting our dear brother Vinny ![]() ![]() ![]() Now cast your mind back to the day you were being congratulated for a successful marriage. Did you even think for a moment that you'll go to work without eating one of these days as a married man? The reality is that it swings both way though. There are many things you used to do for the missus before getting married like helping her take off her clothes in search of some loving which you hardly do since you got married. You just have to enjoy the good and endure the bad whole ignoring the ugly. Marriage like life itself is not a bed of roses. 18 Likes 1 Share |
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