I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying.

After our wedding, all the cash that friends and well wishers sprayed us was counted and handed of to me by my sister. I asked her how much it was and she said it was nine hundred and thirty two thousand naira (930,000).

I gave the money to my wife to keep and we drove down to our hotel suite. We planned to stay a while at the hotel for the weekend and then travel for our honey moon afterwards.

At our hotel, we had some drinks and laughed over some funny incidents at that occurred doing the weeding then we both slept off.

I woke up this morning and I asked my wife how much was the money, she said it was four hundred and thirty thousand (430,000).

I asked her if she was sure, she said yes. I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my ears. I went to the bathroom and called my sister to confirm If I heard wrong yesterday but no, she confirmed that the money she counted and gave to me was 930,000.

My people, what do I call this one. Na so we go do the marriage ? I had no plans for the money, but why lie?

What would you advise I do, should I let it slide or confront her? If I do, it might spoil our honeymoon, if I don’t, it will spoil mine. God.

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YOU WILL DO NOTHING.

MARRIAGE NA BLACK MARKET.

BRACE YOURSELF FOR MORE.

The foundation is faulty already.
A problem left unaddressed will not fizzle out but will continue until it is resolved!
This is not the kind of issue you let slide.

She is in for the money, survival series episode 1 scene 3. It's obvious you need to brace yourself for more.

Both of you are still together so she couldn't have taken the money to the bank. Search her bag

Take her outside, tell her you want to switch rooms. Saying you already told the porter that she doesn’t need to worry about carrying anything. Watch her reaction..

Meanwhile, excuse yourself and search her bags. If you find the money, tell her that she can keep it. At least you’d confirm what you married! A thief

To be honest why Nigerians always Dey feel say Na them wise pass 😂😂

She steal more than half of the money mehh you are in a big mess, you had to sit her down and ask her why she do what she did.

Op before the marriage there are some red flag you ignored because you are in love, thinking it will change after getting married to her. It's her habit Nothing can be done you have to keep with it forever.

yarimo:
Op before the marriage there are some red flag you ignored because you are in love, thinking it will change after getting married to her. It's her habit Nothing can be done you have to keep with it forever.

God bless u .

Love don cover him eye so he is not paying attention to what he ought to have to 😊

Now he is in the institution called marriage 😂😆

Eucarl:
I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying.

After our wedding, all the cash that friends and well wishers sprayed us was counted and handed of to me by my sister. I asked her how much it was and she said it was nine hundred and thirty two thousand naira (930,000).

I gave the money to my wife to keep and we drove down to our hotel suite. We planned to stay a while at the hotel for the weekend and then travel for our honey moon afterwards.

At our hotel, we had some drinks and laughed over some funny incidents at that occurred doing the weeding then we both slept off.

I woke up this morning and I asked my wife how much was the money, she said it was four hundred and thirty thousand (430,000).

I asked her if she was sure, she said yes. I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my ears. I went to the bathroom and called my sister to confirm If I heard wrong yesterday but no, she confirmed that the money she counted and gave to me was 930,000.

My people, what do I call this one. Na so we go do the marriage ? I had no plans for the money, but why lie?

What would you advise I do, should I let it slide or confront her? If I do, it might spoil our honeymoon, if I don’t, it will spoil mine. God.

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My brother u got married to an hallot that she is only in or married u all because she can see ur financial status ur car and the likes .
So she is not there for love but rather for the money 🤑
Now that u have seen d red flag already threaten that if she didn't provide it then u will end the marriage.
Becos this is just the beginning else the next one na ur contracts book or withdrawal booklet of millions she go steal .

I hope you know the entire money sprayed on you both at the wedding doesn't belong to you but your wife?

That aside she knows you can't challenge her. Don't challenge her and don't accuse her.
let her be.

You said "I do" to the stealing on the altar. Receive grace to bear the Oyenusi nature.

Which one be 'I had no plans for the money You dey whyne.

Ask your sister how much she stole before handing over the balance. On a more serious note, that woman is money conscious, and her type will do anything for money. Be warned.

What if your sister stole the money, did you count the money to confirm that it was the amount she told you before handing over to your wife ?
Guy be wise.

Divorce that bastard

How long are going to enter toilet to call people when you just need to face your challenges, calling your sister in her presence would have be hit collect your money

Rajahbite:
What if your sister stole the money, did you count the money to confirm that it was the amount she told you before handing over to your wife ?
Guy be wise.

Her sister might have taken her own not from the amount declared so the should come out clean

This marriage go last so. Barely 24hrs, u don de complain.

Before you start casting aspersions, be sure it's not your sister who is lying.
Handle this situation with wisdom.

RealityKings:
I hope you know the entire money sprayed on you both at the wedding doesn't belong to you but your wife?

That aside she knows you can't challenge her. Don't challenge her and don't accuse her.
let her be.

Women supporting women

You will see that she sent money to her family

marsup:
Before you start casting aspersions, be sure it's not your sister who is lying.
Handle this situation with wisdom.

Because he didn't count it

[quote author=Anguldi post=131227958]
Because he didn't count it [/quote didn’t you read the part where he said he called his sister to reconfirm the amount? Did you read any part where he said he counted it himself?
Pls be guided, don’t just respond without reasoning.

[quote author=marsup post=131228536][/quote]

Use your head

ezugegere:
Both of you are still together so she couldn't have taken the money to the bank. Search her bag

good idea

Lance008:
To be honest why Nigerians always Dey feel say Na them wise pass 😂😂

for sure 😂

Eucarl:
I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying.

After our wedding, all the cash that friends and well wishers sprayed us was counted and handed of to me by my sister. I asked her how much it was and she said it was nine hundred and thirty two thousand naira (930,000).

I gave the money to my wife to keep and we drove down to our hotel suite. We planned to stay a while at the hotel for the weekend and then travel for our honey moon afterwards.

At our hotel, we had some drinks and laughed over some funny incidents at that occurred doing the weeding then we both slept off.

I woke up this morning and I asked my wife how much was the money, she said it was four hundred and thirty thousand (430,000).

I asked her if she was sure, she said yes. I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my ears. I went to the bathroom and called my sister to confirm If I heard wrong yesterday but no, she confirmed that the money she counted and gave to me was 930,000.

My people, what do I call this one. Na so we go do the marriage ? I had no plans for the money, but why lie?

What would you advise I do, should I let it slide or confront her? If I do, it might spoil our honeymoon, if I don’t, it will spoil mine. God.

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Bro ,you had to sit her down and ask her why she do what she did, you have to hear from her first .

Seek first to understand and then you can seek to be understood

RealityKings:
I hope you know the entire money sprayed on you both at the wedding doesn't belong to you but your wife?

That aside she knows you can't challenge her. Don't challenge her and don't accuse her.
let her be.

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Eucarl:
I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying.

After our wedding, all the cash that friends and well wishers sprayed us was counted and handed of to me by my sister. I asked her how much it was and she said it was nine hundred and thirty two thousand naira (930,000).

I gave the money to my wife to keep and we drove down to our hotel suite. We planned to stay a while at the hotel for the weekend and then travel for our honey moon afterwards.

At our hotel, we had some drinks and laughed over some funny incidents at that occurred doing the weeding then we both slept off.

I woke up this morning and I asked my wife how much was the money, she said it was four hundred and thirty thousand (430,000).

I asked her if she was sure, she said yes. I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my ears. I went to the bathroom and called my sister to confirm If I heard wrong yesterday but no, she confirmed that the money she counted and gave to me was 930,000.

My people, what do I call this one. Na so we go do the marriage ? I had no plans for the money, but why lie?

What would you advise I do, should I let it slide or confront her? If I do, it might spoil our honeymoon, if I don’t, it will spoil mine. God.

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let's just assume that you are still single. You better run for your life