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| I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Diamond1605(f): 5:09am On Jul 30 |
My husband is a good man, he cares for me and the kids. I know he loves us but I’m tired of his cheating ways. 18 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Double0h7(f): 5:17am On Jul 30 |
Be very clean, stay quiet, wear red pant and bra to bed and satisfy him very well! You have a good man and good men are scarce nowadays so hold on tight to your good man. Continue to endure and one day you will be rewarded with a long marriage, your own family and the glorious title of Mrs so and so! Just hold on! 34 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by DiamondJLove: 5:45am On Jul 30 |
u are a good wife,keep making excuses for him.beating is a sign of love,enjoy it dear. 67 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Kobojunkiee: 5:59am On Jul 30 |
Diamond1605:Are you some sort of zombie?  36 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Sonnobax15(m): 6:08am On Jul 30 |
 Na wa.. I'm speechless indeed... But then again, what's yours will always be yours, meaning he'll definitely come back to your arms someday no matter how long it may take . ......A time will come when your husband will realize it's cold outside and that it's only his wife and kids at home that can save him from the harshness of life,and not the ones he's been frolicking with outside..... Las las,My dear fellow men, nothing good comes out of cheating....You may think you're enjoying yourself right now by flirting with different women,but lemme tell you this for free --'That there's no benefit in it,apart from unnecessary spendings and regrets at last.......Peace be unto us all🙏 62 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by thesicilian: 6:09am On Jul 30 |
Everyone is a hero in their own story 24 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Diamond1605(f): 6:12am On Jul 30 |
thesicilian: Maybe you should come and stay with him and see what I’m talking about 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Diamond1605(f): 6:15am On Jul 30 |
Kobojunkiee:No I’m not, I just don’t how to cheat And besides how can you allow two men to sleep with you at the same time That is totally irritating and unacceptable. There are women who doesn’t cheat on your husband. 25 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Sonnobax15(m): 6:16am On Jul 30 |
Diamond1605:. For you to have this kinda mindset,it means you must be a good woman.. 43 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Kobojunkiee: 6:19am On Jul 30 |
Diamond1605:You think cheating on him is the only solution in this situation that is why I asked if you are even a human being at all. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by RoyalBlu(f): 6:20am On Jul 30 |
OP sit down and tell yourself the truth. He's having a 'field day' at your own detriment cos you're shielding him. 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Diamond1605(f): 6:30am On Jul 30 |
Kobojunkiee: I never for once thought of cheating on my husband. Something I did not do when I was single, why will I want to do it now? 11 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Tokskob2008: 6:43am On Jul 30 |
Double0h7:I want to believe you are just being sarcastic with this advise  8 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Augustine2244(m): 6:56am On Jul 30 |
Diamond1605:Why not divorce him? Since you know he's chronically womanising. Or are you waiting till the day he infects you with HPV a virus that causes cervical cancer in women and penis cancer in men; or HIV or any of these other terribly nasty STDS? Madam,you have tried your best and since he refused to change, divorce him. You should have noticed negative traits in him before you married him. This is exactly why courtship is very important for intending couples, because it gives ample opportunity to study your partner well and know the type of person he or she is. No matter how long the mask is worn,it must drop to reveal the real person. Moreover no man who genuinely loves his wife will cheat on her, not with one woman but multiple women. And you say he loves you? Lol! Madam, stop making EXCUSES for your husband and take your life back. This habit of making excuses in women is exactly why many of them are often beaten to death or seriously maimed in abusive marriages and relationships. It's only a tree that is informed of its imminent death and it still remains standing. Madam, you are not a tree. Good luck. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Michelle55: 7:01am On Jul 30 |
Which good man beats his wife at every slight provocation or have we suddenly lost the meaning of a good man? Why are you covering his ass when he doesn't value you? Are you fully dependent on him? All I see is a dependent woman making excuses for an abusive adult. No one asked you to cheat on him so you don't have to bring that into the topic, real men don't beat their women or cheat in their faces so please stop misusing the term "a good man" it's a slap to those real and good men out there. Is it until he beats you to death that you would find your square root? Besides, all I see here is a woman trying to be heroic. What happens to his side of the story? Everyone is a Saint in their story until we hear the full gist. He beats you, calls you names yet you are still there. Omo the story no clear because in this time and age that domestic is frowned on you are still there making excuses. The Lord is your strength 💪!!! 40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Mynd44: 7:02am On Jul 30 |
I keep saying it, as a woman, if your partner takes drugs and/or is involved in sports betting, you are not yet serious about your life.. No, I won't insult your husband because he has showed his hands as to what he wants to be. It is you OP that should protect your life and children. You want to raise your kids in a home where the head is a chronic drugs user and physically and orally violent. What this will do is to shape your son to think it is normal, it will make your daughter that us how men show love and she will seek a man like him in a partner. May Obatala be with you 25 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by OPICANTO2223: 7:04am On Jul 30 |
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| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Kukutente23: 7:05am On Jul 30 |
How is he a good man? After a little investigation, it seems ScotHavarth and Diamond1605 are estranged couple who come to NL to vent their disgust with each other. I advise both of you to take your issues off SM. There's no solution here, just people making comments to complicate your issues further. Both of you have wronged each other. You need to be honest with your feelings and actions towards each other. Get family, friends and leaders to intervene and accept whatever genuine attempts they recommend. Think of your kids. I hope God will save your marriage 5 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Tjra: 7:05am On Jul 30 |
You can't change an adult. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by money121(m): 7:07am On Jul 30 |
Dey play 1 Like |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Osaremwantaelvi(m): 7:07am On Jul 30 |
Don't give up |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by ecolime(m): 7:07am On Jul 30 |
He flogs you at every opportunity yet he is a good man. It's the contradiction for me. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Lalami3232(m): 7:07am On Jul 30 |
If you no want "hot advice", why you bring your matter to social media? As you no want strong advice, make I give your husband the advice wey go help am. Oga did you meet your wife as a virgin? If NO, then the below advise is for you sir Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes a.k.a non-virgins can't be trusted 1 Like |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Mitsurugi(m): 7:07am On Jul 30 |
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| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by mrblessed(m): 7:09am On Jul 30 |
Just like some Nigerians think Tinubu will change Nigeria. Actually, he changed Nigeria for... 1 Like |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by deltateam: 7:09am On Jul 30 |
Kobojunkiee: If you know the solution please help her. Insulting someone that is down is uncalled for. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Klington: 7:10am On Jul 30 |
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| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by AntiChristian: 7:10am On Jul 30 |
Better leave with your kids before he kills you all after taking Colo! Some women love bad guys! I mean guys on Colo that has no regard for them and beats them. To them "he's a good man"! No go report to the authorities before he kills you! I don't have a RIP to offer when you die! 4 Likes |
| Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Magicalsineros(f): 7:10am On Jul 30 |
I'm trying to understand what you meant by ''He is a good man'' When you hear a woman defending his cheating, drug addicted, gambling, arm roobery husband even in bad behavior that are harmful to herself and children like this, just know is a man who provides everything for her, like came to rescue her and her family members from poverty. otherwise, no serious minded woman will. @op, from your writeup, you don't need any advice but I'm only worried for your children. I pray God protect them from the toxic lifestyle happening there. As for you, when you're ready, we will know 9 Likes |
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