poshestmina:
Loud conversation.
Noisy chewing

MrLibrarian:
how about pressing and being too focused on your smartphone while he/she is talking to you?
I hope you don't do that?
It's a big turn off

Reggaero:
This is a thread for women and men to know their problems on a date and educate on what turns themselves off from a date

So lets educate ourselves

pansophist:
How about turn off before the date?

If you like, fine pass mami water, and speak English like queen Elizabeth, with body like Nancy Isime, just don't ask me for transport.

Don't try it.

Reggaero:
This is a thread for women and men to know their problems on a date and educate on what turns themselves off from a date

So lets educate ourselves

Sapasenator:


Not going home with me after the first date is a big turn off. Life is to short for games.

MrBrownJay1:
- anyone who is rude to everyone around her
- anyone who is loud and obnoxious
- anyone who spends the majority of the date watching her phone
- anyone who tries to order food to take away (and expect me to pay for it)
- anyone who expects me to pay for babysitter for HER own kids, so that she can come to the date

but the BIGGEST TURN OFF by far is the ones that take picture of everything at that restaurant/eatery (aka the food, the venue, even the bill etc)... but dont take one single picture of YOU (especially if you are paying), let alone a picture of you and her together.

1Sharon:
Lack of table manners

Reggaero:
our nigerian ladies sha...,.so we are just going to shut up and not get to know ourselves

By the way.....taking a girl to a eatery or a resturant is not the only way to go for a date....there a many ways

Fiscus105:



Feeling like emperor, in as much I hate sense of entitlement from woman, you cannot tell her not to ask for transportation fare, someone daughter sit down for her house jejely, you ask her to come and meet you far away, without even having a second taught,that she might not have penny, yet dnt want her to ask for ordinary TF wen leaving the meeting place,, I guess you want her to be stranded because she came to meet slave master.

1Sharon:


Who says you should shut up? What are you on about?

Reggaero:
u said u hate table manners and the last time i checked the meaning of table manners it means:dont talk while eating ,abi shey i lie

1Sharon:


That's one meaning. You can talk while your mouth isn't full

labake1:
The way he eats will determine if I should walk away or stay because some men eat like pig

pansophist:


Rubbish.

If a woman doesn't have mere transport money within a reasonable distance (not including interstate visit), then she shouldn't date. Sort your life before roping someone else in.