I took this female out to eat about 2 weeks ago and I tested her! We ordered our food and had a nice time just talking over food and getting to know each other! I'm not going to front I was feeling shorty and not just because she was beautiful her mindset is what got me! But when we was done eating and I asked for the bill the lady came back with it! I said dam I left my wallet at home you think you can pay for the food and I will give you the money back when I get home? She just got up and left, all I can do was laugh and smh! But I goes in my pocket pays for the bill and leave a 10$ tip! The lady said thank you and you are a very smart man! Sometimes you have to test them to see if they are the one or not! I never spoke to her after that.

What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

Cho cho cho

I don't think this is a true test or right test.It could also look like the guy could be trying to '419' her into paying for the food.
What if after the date he never called her again?I can't blame the lady totally.

not a smart move on first date. you can try this on her after dating for awhile .

mmadu4:
not a smart move on first date. you can try this on her after dating for awhile .

That was a smart move, it was not only a test on her financial levels but also on her mental level (patience) and even maturity level too. She could have atleast told the guy that she wasn't with any cash either instead of just standing up and walking away..

Meaning she only came for the food and company which she has already gotten.

Tokskob2008:

That was a smart move, it was not only a test on her financial levels but also on her mental level (patience) and even maturity level too. She could have atleast told the guy that she wasn't with any cash either instead of just standing up and walking away..

Meaning she only came for the food and company which she has already gotten.

what if the guy was trying to play a fast one on her. then what? what if the guy is used to doing that to women on the first date? then what? the girl was right to walk out... dont tell me you will pay the bills if you were a woman. sometimes use your brain first analyze things before quoting people

Instead of trying to weed out those kinds of women, he needs to choose better.

And the fact that he referred to her as "this female"...

I will say that is not a very smart move Brother, all along while charting over the food & drink, you should have given her hints and pretend that you forgot your wallet at home and see her reactions, not when you guys where done & suddenly came out with that idea.
Even the Babe was too hostile,she just left like that, maybe She's is a no nonsense Babe, even at that.

In the end, there's a loser in this case

The whole move sounds childish to me. It was actually a useless test and her passing it wouldn't have been a proof of whatever trait he was actually looking for in her


But the lady, why walk away like that

This is my philosophy.
Whoever is the hunter should pay for the date of the bushmeat.

happy Sunday

This test no make...

There is nothing wrong in testing someone patience. Anyone not patient enough isnt worth a relationship. Angrily walking out is a big red flag. So how do you survive the storms of relationships and marriage?

The man is way better than the ediot in the other thread whose motivation was to show her pepper and form alpha male and not a test

BTW, why don't women ever pull all these pranks on men? Be it proposal,first date and the rest prank? Seems we are aware alot of you will fail woefully.

ValCon888:
This is my philosophy.
Whoever is the hunter should pay for the date of the bushmeat.

For a test,he didn't do bad( as long he knew within himself he will still pay).
A person easily offended and walking out of a date is a red flag . Says the virtue of patience is lacking

You test someone and you expect them to react in a way that suits your linear thinking mind.

See how he's gloating. Immature sturvs.

siofra:


What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

You are classless and broke... simple

Guys, stop taking women to food dates. There are other places dates can occur, parks, museums, beach, coffee shops and the likes.

Y'all guys are creating avenue for leeches when you take them to food dates. With the above mentioned, you will detect your answers quickly with them.

RoyalBlu:

You test someone and you expect them to react in a way that suits your linear thinking mind.

See how's gloating. Immature sturvs.

Sis,but come to think of it,anyone that can react that way just because of FOOD...like,not car or house,or job,but mere food, it's a red flag

I , myself,will smile,pay the bill . Wait for him to send the money. If he doesn't,I block his ancestor. It's ways better than causing a scene and disgracing oneself. Las las,it will not pass $100

mmadu4:


what if the guy was trying to play a fast one on her. then what? what if the guy is used to doing that to women on the first date? then what? the girl was right to walk out... dont tell me you will pay the bills if you were a woman. sometimes use your brain first analyze things before quoting people

I'm more interested in the scene created. It's not worth, angrily walking out because of food.

Needless to say,both of them should have known the type of person they are dealing with before meeting. I can't even honour the invitation for a date by a loser.

Both my have had their experience with the other gender.

Meanwhile these senseless tests should not be normalized as many innocent women will fall prey to it and believe that all men that pull these stunt will eventually pay.

Hustle sha,let it not be food that will ruin your son/daughter love life....omo!

Tightpussy2024:
I'm more interested in the scene created. It's not worth, angrily walking out because of food.

Needless to say,both of them should have known the type of person they are dealing with before meeting. I can't even honour the invitation for a date by a loser.

Both my have had their experience with the other gender.

Meanwhile these senseless tests should not be normalized as many innocent women will fall prey to it and believe that all men that pull these stunt will eventually pay.

Hustle sha,let it not be food that will ruin your son/daughter love life....omo!

i feel attacked. Maam,, why are you attacking me instead of the poster

RoyalBlu:

You test someone and you expect them to react in a way that suits your linear thinking mind.

See how's gloating. Immature sturvs.

except you didn’t read the post. Speak all the trash you want. That she moved and left because the said guy forgot this wallet is a huge red flag.

mmadu4:


i feel attacked. Maam,, why are you attacking me instead of the poster

Oh my gosh,no ooo..

Haba,I am not attacking you.

We are actually on the same line.

siofra:


What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

Typical mindset and garbage behavior of a classless lady, you should always have money on you while going on a date, it's supposed to be a date not a picnic.

There was this lady back in Nigeria I got entangled with online. How we met, she saw my posts on a face group of a university in Nigeria. She messaged me privately that she was following me a while based on my matured comments in the group. According to her she applied the university and she needed inputs from students of the university but most guys end swaying into scamming her. Well she thought I was a staff from the picture of the packet shirt I used as my profile picture.

Over time we communicated frequently on phone calls and it was seeming we were too good friends already (we never met physically). One day she asked me for airtime. I told her I don't have enough and I had already wanted to send to my female cousin same airtime who called about it (not true, just testing her temperature).

So, now I got to send to either of them, who should that be?. The lady said since my cousin asked first, I should send to her. I revealed to her at the instant that it was just to test her thought level, and she passed for the airtime. Whip! It was sent immediately.

Tightpussy2024:

For a test,he didn't do bad( as long he knew within himself he will still pay).
A person easily offended and walking out of a date is a red flag . Says the virtue of patience is lacking

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The test is not about her financial capability but her maturity level and she failed woefully.

Y'all should stop all these senselessness.
You destroy the dating scene,yet you will blame feminism or wokeness and complain about this time difficult compared to our parents time .
Your petty tests and aggressive reactions to them is what make people endure five failed talking stages .

First date is the pivot of any potential relationship and instead of putting your best you put petty stunts. And you as a lady act as if there is no food in your house.

Stop disgracing your lineage. So nothing else wonderful happened during the date aside eating? No emotional connection? Nothing just superficial food.

?

Mtcheww

siofra:


What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

Gutter behavior, tueh. Poverty stricken siofra, hustle oOoOO

She did bad for walking away.

She couldn't at least pay for her own meal?

Lol.. see talk o...
When u left home u didn't bother to check for your wallet...
Lol
I'll pay for my own meal, get up and go...
Anyhow you sort yourself out I don't care, and you will still pay me back for what I spent on my meal...

Irresponsible men out there!!!

Most guys are just seeing it as fun ,but guys who don't regard their relationship will definately adopt the format of "i'm not with money could you mine pay for me"? Or "i'm having network issue" .