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Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by mrkings84(m): 11:30am On Aug 14 |
Such question is no longer necessary in this Timubulous times, every hand needs to be on deck if the family must survive. 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Tightpussy2024(f): 11:34am On Aug 14 |
guobe:Stop blaming women for not asking. Even the ones that made agreements with men,how many honor it? |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Pharaoh4rin(m): 11:34am On Aug 14 |
Zonefree: ![]() ![]() If I say what I know about Nigerians girls, helinus or is it hel anus would consider it hate speech and block me. So lemme comment my reserve |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by joseph1832(m): 11:43am On Aug 14 |
guobe:this isn't even a question. Any lady who wants to get married to me, will already have something doing, period. 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Candreva: 11:43am On Aug 14 |
Why would a lady need to ask her boy friend if they would allow them to work after marriage? This absurd. I'm not sure I'm the one living under the rock but why in the first place will a man think he's in the position to decide if their partner need to make money for them or not? Change the Circle of the people you meet. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Trustedpronet: 11:46am On Aug 14 |
Holluwhakemmy: So everyone must be phd holder before you can level up. If the wife is busy it's better the husband get a cook or maid to balance the gap. The question I will ask, is the husband working? |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Krismas(m): 11:46am On Aug 14 |
guobe: ![]() That marriage is for better for worse. Nothing is more further from the truth. If your relationship becomes a burden, get out of it in a jiffy. U can experiment as much as u like until you find your most compatible partner. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Holluwhakemmy(f): 11:47am On Aug 14 |
Trustedpronet:Yes he's working but inferiority complex is affecting him |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by AmalaAtiEwedu: 11:48am On Aug 14 |
Holluwhakemmy:I hv the belief u need the kind of gbola i have in ur life. ![]() |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Holluwhakemmy(f): 11:49am On Aug 14 |
AmalaAtiEwedu:That your needle šŖ” like one, No not at all |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by ogbonti: 11:55am On Aug 14 |
Holluwhakemmy: 80% of communication is non- verbal have you asked yourself how the wife is treating the husband at home because she is a PhD holder? and talk about upgrade? who will pay the bills when that āupgradeā is going on? the wife? if you think she will do that, then you seriously need a crash course of āunderstanding women 101ā that wont happen! 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by ednut1(m): 11:56am On Aug 14 |
Desperation for marriage no dey allow many ask questions 3 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Gotocourt: 11:57am On Aug 14 |
Holluwhakemmy: O wrong now. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by samuelson06(m): 12:00pm On Aug 14 |
I can bear with a Northern woman working as a housewife because they are naturally humble. But Southern women may frustrate your life because they've seen money. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by seunayeni(m): 12:01pm On Aug 14 |
ensure she is earning a living and able to support you in the home, the home is for the 2 of you not 1 person emphasis on Support you.....ire ooo 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Graficient: 12:04pm On Aug 14 |
Why should a man marry a lady that can't provide for herself in the first place |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by gabbytabby: 12:20pm On Aug 14 |
When most men have decided that they want to marry they say yes knowing fully well that they donāt intend to keep their word. Especially when the woman has something they want be it papers or a good job, a good career or from a well to do family. Some will even tell the woman it is her fault for thinking she has a yes man. Dishonesty amongst our men e get as he be. Mine wanted me to work but wanted to be in charge of all of my money not a joint account but I make a monthly transfer to his bank account. This is a man who has a child whom he told me is his brother and has a baby mama lurking in the wings. NigĆ©rian men most of them are Narcissistic looking for who to devour and destroy. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by TheWinterBird(f): 12:32pm On Aug 14 |
In this day and age, why should that be a question? After all my degrees, on top of passing another huge certification exam last week after studying my behind off (because who doesn't want to make $300,000 yearly) and then paying $400 for membership, somebody will now tell me to not work? Even if he's Dangote's son, I won't accept such. Besides, I'm in an exciting, niche field that I quite enjoy and giving it up would not be an option. 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Jayhome24: 12:34pm On Aug 14 |
Feminist bitch at it again.... One of them just tore her husband passport few days ago. Next topic pls ... |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by jericco1(m): 12:38pm On Aug 14 |
The average Nigerian lady want a babygirl lifestyle Most no wan do anything just wake up cook, knack and spend. |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Divoc19(f): 12:43pm On Aug 14 |
Most women do this except when she is truly in love with her man. Let's not forget those spouse that will lie to you during courtship just to get lockdown in marriage with you before their real character start to come out. guobe: 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Bahamas95(m): 12:50pm On Aug 14 |
My wife told me from day1 that she can't be a full-time house wife, she got this hustling spirit...... She's a teacher and also into pastries. Initially I didn't want her to work but I changed my mind after we discussed. (My plan was that our child(ren) must be at least 4years old before she steps outta the house to work) I just had this feeling she won't have that time to nurture our child(ren) as I want. I stopped her from teaching because of the stress but I opened a business for her, she's doing very well. We just had our first baby and she isn't finding it difficult because it's her personal business..... Assuming na person she dey work for challenges must dey. 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Interesting2023: 12:53pm On Aug 14 |
Holluwhakemmy:Most women does disrespect bcoz they now earn more...pride has set in and submissiveness is now a big deal and you still can't see it as a yardstick. There can't be peace in such a home and it won't be long before things fall apart. For it not to be a yardstick, the woman has to fully understand her role for the relationship/marriage to last by practicing humility regardless of how much she's earning.... 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by extremelygolden: 12:54pm On Aug 14 |
From day one, I have said it that I won't ever marry a man that wouldn't want me to work. Thank God for online gigs now. Cos that shit nearly collapsed my parents marriage until my mother gathered both families to intervene. Moreover, the degrees and certificates I'm acquiring here and there, what are they for? For decoration? So that tomorrow he'll call me a lazy wife! And how can I even be dependent on someone else at this age? God forbids. I'll make my own money, enjoy my labour, and save some for the rainy days. If you're as rich as Dangote or Otedola, good for you, but just open me a world class business empire where I can go in and close anytime I like, if your fear is that I will be closing late and abandon the home front. |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by Alphamentips: 1:04pm On Aug 14 |
kingthreat: Imagine how Nigeria has been treating her graduates by not providing jobs. We should NOT tolerate that |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by IamHonourable1: 1:13pm On Aug 14 |
Even without discussing about it,so you expect me as a man to marry you and you just sit at home without contributing financially. |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by IamMobisola(f): 1:21pm On Aug 14 |
DevilsEqual:So after spending years in the university reading and studying to pass exams and get a good job, it is the husband that would decide what type of job or business the wife would do? Lmao |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by PDJT: 1:22pm On Aug 14 |
TheWinterBird: - You just confirmed what one of the commenters said about women. - Women? ![]() - OP, I have two at home only working "part-time" - work today, have excuses tomorrow. Please come and carry them to work ooo! ![]() |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by PDJT: 1:27pm On Aug 14 |
IamMobisola: - Before nko? You better know your levels in a relationship before you say; I do! Else, see you, see single mama lifestyle. |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by IamMobisola(f): 1:33pm On Aug 14 |
PDJT:Only a desperate woman would accept such conditions, not me. A lot of men lie and say sweet things just to get a woman to marry them, then after marriage they change. If my man tries such with me, na divorce straight. No time for time wasters in my life. I would rather be a divorcee or single mother than to be in a marriage with such persons. There is more to life than marriage 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Most Vital Questions Ladies Don't Ask Their Spouses Before marriage by PDJT: 1:34pm On Aug 14 |
- At OP, most Nigerian women appear to be contented with the stay-at-home life, perhaps until their youngest kid start school. It's ofcos, hard for some, but okay for others. Even those career chasing ones end up staying at home for a very long time, if not forever, due to some unforeseen circumstances such as childbearing and childraising issues including physio-chemical and psychological issues related to pregnancy and childbirth. 1 Like |
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