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My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Ayomide11111: 7:07pm On Aug 14

She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF cry

. Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by 2special(m): 7:10pm On Aug 14

You like her but you don't like yourself.....if you love her, you can't understand her, if you understand her, you can't Love her.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by davis51(m): 7:11pm On Aug 14

Ur own better i dey hungry like dis u dey reason girl matter just cut her off

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by olaxm: 7:13pm On Aug 14

When a woman doesn't listen or adhered to correction is a big problem. It best to avoid such woman.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by idahme(m): 7:17pm On Aug 14

"Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money"

The only problem you have is the ability to differentiate a girlfriend from a potential fiancee grin

. In your mind you are taking her as a potential fiancee that's why you are troubled by her chaotic lifestyle grin

Men should know that there is little they can do as a result of changing an adult, try as much as possible to flow with someone that has almost same personality with what you envision else you will have constant headaches. Don't allow nacking be cloud your sense of judgement as to making the right decision.

I have experienced such a selfish lady before @bolded but ur own come join with disorder ones and poor hygiene, me just convert her from potential to nacking tool after first quarter of dating I no get strength to surfer another person sins.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Bolt458: 7:26pm On Aug 14

Ayomide11111:
She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF . Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

person wey u suppose don discard. If you think she would change after marriage, it’s a lie. It will only get worst.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by louken(m): 7:40pm On Aug 14

davis51:
Ur own better i dey hungry like dis u dey reason girl matter just cut her off

I support this comment with one bag of palliative rice

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by LIVINGICONREBOR: 7:40pm On Aug 14

Guy, it seems you don't like yourself. How can you condone dirtiness if you are not dirty yourself? She can never change and will only get worse. Las las she go poison your food with her dirtiness. Damn!!🥱

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Ayomide11111: 7:44pm On Aug 14

Bolt458:
person wey u suppose don discard. If you think she would change after marriage, it’s a lie. It will only get worst.

THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE BOSS. MAY GOD HELP ME

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Ayomide11111: 7:46pm On Aug 14

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Guy, it seems you don't like yourself. How can you condone dirtiness if you are not dirty yourself? She can never change and will only get worse. Las las she go poison your food with her dirtiness. Damn!!🥱

I'M NOT A DIRTY GUY, I ALWAYS MAINTAIN MY PERSONAL HYGIENE. BUT I'M CONFUSED OF HER

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by davis51(m): 7:48pm On Aug 14

louken:
I support this comment with one bag of palliative rice

i wish

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Leemzyy(f): 7:48pm On Aug 14

23yrs?...and she is still as dirty as that?ewwww!

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by nairalander095(f): 8:01pm On Aug 14

Dear Poster,

what EXACTLY do you want us to do about this situation??
I mean, what do you want strangers to do for you?
what are you confused about? You're a supposed adult.
Are we supposed to teach her how to dispose of her used pads properly at her age or how to tidy up?

People are loaded with more pressing challenges
we dont have time for you and your dirty girlfriend!

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:06pm On Aug 14

nairalander095:
Dear Poster,

what EXACTLY do you want us to do about this situation??
I mean, what do you want strangers to do for you?
what are you confused about? You're a supposed adult.
Are we supposed to teach her how to dispose of her used pads properly at her age or how to tidy up?

People are loaded with more pressing challenges
we dont have time for you and your dirty girlfriend!

God Bless You

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:08pm On Aug 14

That's Your Headache and Her Problem nothing concern me

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by extol1(m): 8:09pm On Aug 14

Ayomide11111:
She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF . Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

Just say the only reason you like her is because she is giving you sex always

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by nairalander095(f): 8:24pm On Aug 14

Holluwhakemmy:
God Bless You

Bless you too

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:29pm On Aug 14

nairalander095:

Bless you too

Amen 🙏

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Baronthecelebri: 8:59pm On Aug 14

My leave her, and stop making noise

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Iamcute(m): 9:13pm On Aug 14

Una dey date sha

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by ObalendeCMS: 9:22pm On Aug 14

You are still stuck because you got the girl "CHEAPLY"!

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by OlaOfLagos: 9:23pm On Aug 14

I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections

This thing wey you write just dey vex me 😡

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Acidosis(m): 9:41pm On Aug 14

It's almost too late to change her. Hygiene issues typically start from childhood/home.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Dollarmind001(m): 10:01pm On Aug 14

Tiv girls love for preek is second to none,
They can ride you all day without getting tired.
I miss Juliet....just the glance of her give me erection...she is a good rider.

OP can relate grin

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Gotocourt: 10:39pm On Aug 14

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by galantjoe(m): 3:59am On Aug 15

You will be more miserable if you go ahead to marry. Sorry for you and your posterity

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by otemeh01(m): 8:26am On Aug 15

nairalander095:
Dear Poster,

what EXACTLY do you want us to do about this situation??
I mean, what do you want strangers to do for you?
what are you confused about? You're a supposed adult.
Are we supposed to teach her how to dispose of her used pads properly at her age or how to tidy up?

People are loaded with more pressing challenges
we dont have time for you and your dirty girlfriend!

Oh, but here u are on nairaland, opening the thread, reading it, enjoying the gossip and even commenting. Yet u have pressing challenges. You should never had read through

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Harddiskng(m): 10:12am On Aug 15

Ayomide11111:
She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF . Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

No dey do work nobody send you. Correcting her nkwa undecided

Her parents could not train her, na you go com accomplish the task they failed at lol. Oga stop playing.

Leave that babe asap and look for one with home training but the way i am reading your write-up. You stubborn, you will continue in your cap’tain save a hoe endeavors and las las come here to come and read from the book of lamentations in the future

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by AKWATGOLD1(m): 12:03pm On Aug 15

Did you see the bold words in you story will not make you to cry in the relationship

Ayomide11111:
She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. [s]I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off.[/s] And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF . Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by nairalander095(f): 2:27pm On Aug 15

otemeh01:

Oh, but here u are on nairaland, opening the thread, reading it, enjoying the gossip and even commenting. Yet u have pressing challenges. You should never had read through

If you think people don't get value on the forum, then you are wrong. And who said I'm enjoying the gossip? say only what you are certain about. besides, how would I know how dumb the narrative was if I didn't open and read it?

Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by Jersuiyjoe(m): 2:59pm On Aug 15

Ayomide11111:
She is currently 23 yrs old, from Benue, Tiv by tribe
She is very careless and nonchalant about her personal hygiene, only to just look beautiful outside. And I've been working over this attitude of hers. How could you disposed your menstrual pad in the kitchen besides our pot of soup? Disgusting!!
I've also been correcting her to stop abandoning used towels in the bedroom, instead take it outside and spread it on the line to dry off.
Correcting her to stop abandoning dirty clothes, dirty plates, dirty floors for days or weeks before tidying them up.
Entitlement, this one is getting me turned off. How could you be telling me that the clothes and shoes you bought for yourself from your salary that they are suppose to be my duty that I should give you back the money, haa!!
Are these ladies mad or something? They never care about the happiness of we guys except their own alone. I like the girl anyways, but I'm thinking of cutting the relationship off. And if not because I like her I wouldn't have been doing some corrections over her and enduring some nonsense sh!ts she has been displaying in couples of month we've known each other.
I'M SCARED OF MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF ALL THESE UGLY ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER FROM OUR NIGERIA GIRLS IS PISSING ME OFF . Does this mean that there is no any responsible Nigerian girls out there anymore

Three things you need to do in order to decide if you can still continue with her.

1. Ask her, what is her future plans?
2. Ask her if she's okay keeping her surroundings.
untidy.
3. Now if number one and two questions above didn't meet your requirements then set a boundary for yourself. Care less about her, let her experience the other side about you. Don't listen or do anything for her if she ask you for money or materialistic things. Don't bother yourself about where she went to, or where she's or what she's doing, just feel less concerned about what's she's doing as long as she's also less concerned about taking responsibility for herself and her personal life.
And, always leave the house early before she does. Always try to wake up early and prepare yourself for your day.
Try to find a place you can always go even if you don't have any where to go now, make new friends you can hangout with all the time.
Still, make sure you try to always come late at home after she's back.
Don't say anything to her if you meet the house untidy, just do what you can do. After all you don't pay her bills anymore, and all you care about is your self.

Try as much as possible to look out for yourself, take yourself to shopping, get new clothes. She will start to see what she's missing out, and maybe she might change.
But if she refused to changed or stop seeing you because you've changed and careless about her. Then it's time for you to call the relationship a quit.
You deserve a better woman.

That's the only advise I can give you bro, because I know that you love her so much.

Just use your number 6. All humans have a soft spot, find that soft spot that will make her realise
what she have caused you.

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Re: My Current Challenges With My Girlfriend by GoodJohn: 6:23pm On Aug 15

Offers a clear explanation.

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