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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Ebenmosi2020: 10:30am On Aug 19, 2024
I go give am. Then end it

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by SuperOnyi: 10:31am On Aug 19, 2024
shocked
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by klbakare(m): 10:31am On Aug 19, 2024
na her palaver. hungerbad.
anyway I sell data check my signature
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by CyrusVI(m): 10:32am On Aug 19, 2024
Bankowner:

I will give her the money and even more.
It's a fresh breathe of realism.
What's the point in pretending to be who you are not?

According to Friedrich Nietzsche "You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist."

in Summary, both of you are correct and thats fine

MrBrownJay1:
I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family, then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Chiderao1(m): 10:32am On Aug 19, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family, then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!

You wan dey talk about love when she no get food for house

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Jayrow08: 10:32am On Aug 19, 2024
Baba no give her shishi oo na money wey e and her guy one flex for house b dat oo

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Akpacha(m): 10:35am On Aug 19, 2024
I will give her the money and still buy her food and still give her money when going.
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by AZControversial(m): 10:38am On Aug 19, 2024
smiley

Lol...Fairy tale......
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by MrBONE2(m): 10:38am On Aug 19, 2024
Tolu2024:
Hookup girl wey no see client . Just tell her straight up make we just knack make I pay you so you go see money buy food chop.

grin

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Majesty7: 10:41am On Aug 19, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family, then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!

wink You would have preferred she lied, took a sip and act as if everything was normal with her? I won't hire you as a staff or do any business with you as a partner. You obviously can't reason beyond your present situation and would likely be someone who is not flexible. Be honest with yourself. Have you been a good worker or a manager? Just be honest cool

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Crafteck1: 10:42am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?

I left and blocked her... Problem with naija men is we see no crime dealing with ladies below our tax bracket, its stupid, no be you god send to upgrade her and her family, the relationship would be based on what you can give her and trust me, once you upgrade her life and take her to places, there are people ready to give her what you gave her in 6 months for a weekend sex... Try find ladies in your tax bracket wey una compensate and compliment each other. If not, carry ashewo, the mentality that you have to settle for less never tire una nii, u go con dey carry family problem wey u no start.

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by inforesource: 10:43am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?
Red flag. It means they don't know how to make money, waiting for someone to give her money before they can eat instead of looking for any credible thing to do, at least to feed. Every poor man is humble until they have money.

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by DeeScan: 10:43am On Aug 19, 2024
Mom007:
Smart girl. Wife material but u guys will not see it like that. You want the ones that will front and order rubbish. Sigh*


wife material??

what's the different between the two??

I'd even spend more getting her foodstuffs .



but anyways, na we two go chop the foodstuff ...


But I'd still need to know if that's the sole reason she agreed to this ...
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Adakintroy: 10:44am On Aug 19, 2024
Honesty.

It takes honesty be that honest
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Confirm4real(m): 10:44am On Aug 19, 2024
Hunger na your mate





Na for Emilokan regime we dey hear dis kind tin nowadays tongue
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Oghene86: 10:46am On Aug 19, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family, then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!

To look for hook up or ashawo 😂
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by brolinderick: 10:48am On Aug 19, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family,
then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!

I bro I think you're getting it all wrong. You just said the reason for the date is to know each other. You offering her drinks and what have you is to make her to be comfortable. She can't be comfortable with an empty stomach. The drinks you offered may cause her stomach upset because it's on an empty stomach and you wouldn't want her to embarrass you. She did the right thing bro. Just convert the money for the drinks to buy her the food

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by KonTagiousBull: 10:51am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?

This is virtuous woman... I will propose to her instead. Some idiots will order heaven and still beg you money...
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by SWriter(f): 10:51am On Aug 19, 2024
Hmm I will not oo, because given money have made men mad now I go buy the good stuffs myself
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Lekan239(m): 10:51am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?
surprisingly a lady I took out told me this yesterday
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by victorazy(m): 10:53am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?

Wife material
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Akuruoulo(m): 10:57am On Aug 19, 2024
uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?
Nwanne m Kee ka orodo di?
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by 6ixT8: 11:00am On Aug 19, 2024
See new format.

Some say na wifey material grin

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Mom007(f): 11:00am On Aug 19, 2024
DeeScan:


wife material??

what's the different between the two??

I'd even spend more getting her foodstuffs .



but anyways, na we two go chop the foodstuff ...


But I'd still need to know if that's the sole reason she agreed to this ...

Na una two na. That girl probably wants to cook you a full pot of food that will feed you for 2 days with money you wanted to blow on a meal. Isn't that commendable?
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by osculatedon(m): 11:01am On Aug 19, 2024
All I see here is maturity, empathy and true sense of humor. Keep it up, it will surely come back to you, when you truly need it.
Tallesty1:
I’m going to spend much more than I initially planned.

I had a similar experience during COVID. I asked a friend to help me cook a particular soup that I didn’t know how to make. When she finished, I suggested we eat together, but she declined. Instead, she asked if she could take some soup home so she could buy fufu and feed her family because there was no food at home.

I gave her enough to cook a full meal for her family. I don’t joke around when it comes to my family, so when I see someone who cares deeply about theirs, it makes me happy.

But I couldn't give her just soup because I didn’t know how her father would feel if she returned home with soup from my place. It seemed better for her to cook something herself so everyone would think it came from her.

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Taiwo20(m): 11:01am On Aug 19, 2024
She’s in her late 30s and has started using her head

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by kayyyy44: 11:02am On Aug 19, 2024
The way naija men are so eager to date poor women needs to be studied. Who did this to us

Tufiakwa!

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by DeeScan: 11:03am On Aug 19, 2024
Mom007:


Na una two na. That girl probably wants to cook you a full pot of food that will feed you for 2 days with money you wanted to blow on a meal. Isn't that commendable?
we don't live in the same house..

what if she has a roommate?? .. na them two go chop all the foodstuff finish before I even get to Taste one .
Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by BigYash: 11:06am On Aug 19, 2024
Why asking for the money? She for just reject and wait for the guy to do the right thing.. cux personally if na me be the guy, I will not let her go without blessing her,for acting responsible,even if it was pretense .

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by DrAda(f): 11:06am On Aug 19, 2024
Red flag

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by DeeScan: 11:08am On Aug 19, 2024
Taiwo20:
She’s in her late 30s and has started using her head
she would do whatever to pin a nigga down.. I wished they could still be a virgin around this stage/age .. I'd probably wife one..

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Re: Guys, You Took Her Out On The First Date And She Did This. by Mom007(f): 11:12am On Aug 19, 2024
DeeScan:
we don't live in the same house..

what if she has a roommate?? .. na them two go chop all the foodstuff finish before I even get to Taste one .

Lol.
Oya no vex. Its well within your rights to say no. Besides these are interesting conversations you should be having with the girl not us. Ask her why she choose that route. That may be the start if a beautiful friendship. Oh, I forgot. Your generation doesn't do interesting conversations and beautiful friendships. You just want to 'smash'.

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