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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by jorion(m): 8:46pm On Aug 20
LeopardX:
80% of the time, it's because there's no money.
But it's hard for guys to admit to that fact so they'll say it's because women are this and that.

But when money show, they risk it all: get married, have kids and hope for the best.


The probability of a poor man marrying is higher than that of a rich man.

The moment a guy starts making money, his standards for women further improves rendering most women useless in his eyes. Except he wants to marry a woman for other reasons best known to him.

Na broke and unambitious men wey no get choice but to manage the scraps wey dey street. They are the one's wey go say "make I just manage her because of children".

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 9:00pm On Aug 20
Ladies are becoming more aggressive and selfish due to negative social media influence ,from feminist uploads on YouTube to tiktok you see d frustrating ladies causing and stressing their finance and bf for trivial issues,is all not getting money they aimed for. angry

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 9:03pm On Aug 20
PARADIZEPRIEST:
Ladies are becoming more aggressive and selfish due to negative social media influence ,from feminist uploads on YouTube to tiktok you see d frustrating ladies causing and stressing their finance and bf for trivial issues,is all not getting money they aimed for. angry
IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A HAPPY MARRIAGE,MARRY A WOMAN YOU SHARE SAME 10THINGS IN COMMON, YOU LIKE SAME MOVIES,SAME MUSIC,SAME CAREER,SAME FOOD,SAME DRINK,SAME FRUIT,SAME FRIENDS, SAME EVENTS, SAME NEWS,AND SAME FAITH QED. smiley

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Ojagun(m): 9:21pm On Aug 20
My Ambitionz As A Rider cool

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Olatara(f): 9:48pm On Aug 20
id4sho:


Can we take a walk down the road smiley
Which road?
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by krushdripper(m): 10:00pm On Aug 20
Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.
This is the first male moniker that I'm very certain it's a female behind it.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by id4sho(m): 10:02pm On Aug 20
Olatara:
Which road?
Love road
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Ibkay32(m): 10:21pm On Aug 20
id4sho:

Love road

Bad guy 😂

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 3:00am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
This is the first male moniker that I'm very certain it's a female behind it.
Lol! Goodness! How could a " human" possess an extremely low level of intelligence and cognitive reasoning?
Even a goat reasons better than this one?
How do you conclude I am a woman?
You just proved how mentally retarded you are and always have been.
" You are sure" but you haven't seen me physically.
Oga, please tell the witches to return your senses from the coven where they kept them.
You just sound like a móron!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Tunagee(m): 3:27am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
When did women ever have interest in settling down?? And where is the law that says I must let myself be belittled, mocked or given hateful gestures by a woman because I think i should settle down? Call it forming, not wanting to seem easy, playing hard to get or whatever, it is a clear signal that they don't want to settle down, they just need a man to fund thier existence cos they're letting you stick your dick in them, which is why they switch up on you when you have issues with your financial stability so it's only normal that more men would continue to loose interest in settling down owing to the decietful, self serving nature of women.

Very True.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Badmashiii: 3:56am On Aug 21
CyrusVI:
Are they?

I'm not really a social media person yet my status every weekend is filled with pictures of those that attended other peoples wedding ceremony and its being like this for 5 consecutive weeks

I dont think this things really apply offline

This might just a topic to give hope to single guys, if so, I'm happy to rejoice with them cheesy

Face the reality bro,the percentage of men getting married is nowhere near the percentage of men not interested in marriage.

Besides,a single man and a single woman are never the same. Just like a virgin man and woman,or a young man and a young woman.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Badmashiii: 4:05am On Aug 21
id4sho:


I told my last two ex about polygamy. See anger shocked

Christian ladies don't entertain that talk oOoOO

It gets on their nerves angry sad

The reason for most ladies objections to polygamy is not entirely religious,rather it's mostly about power and control.

If she's the only wife and you happened to be a bloody billionaire,she can control you and your billions. using what you may ask? with her pussy of course.

Also,she and her children get to inherit all what you had without having to share with another wife and her children.

If you know how calculative ladies naturally are,you'll be very cautious and clever in your dealings with them.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by krushdripper(m): 4:32am On Aug 21
Augustine2244:

Lol! Goodness! How could a " human" possess an extremely low level of intelligence and cognitive reasoning?
Even a goat reasons better than this one?
How do you conclude I am a woman?
You just proved how mentally retarded you are and always have been.
" You are sure" but you haven't seen me physically.
Oga, please tell the witches to return your senses from the coven where they kept them.
You just sound like a móron!
You just proved me right with this flimsy, empty headed response of yours. Why not find out what makes me certain first before allowing your warped brain delve into insults? I know, getting busted hit you hard right? Foolish woman, go & pretend somewhere else.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 6:40am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
You just proved me right with this flimsy, empty headed response of yours. Why not find out what makes me certain first before allowing your warped brain delve into insults? I know, getting busted hit you hard right? Foolish woman, go & pretend somewhere else.
You just proved me right with this empty brained móronic response of yours.
Why not find out like any sane and sensible human what warranted my comment on marriage before ranting like a frustrated rabid Rottweiler.
Stupid and senseless woman with the senses of a goat,go and take your drugs regularly before you go totally overboard.
Lol! "Getting busted hit you hard right?"
See how you sound like a pathetic fool!
A fool thinks he's wise in his own eyes but wise people look, examine and watch carefully before assuming.
Compound fool, have brain.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by krushdripper(m): 7:34am On Aug 21
Augustine2244:

You just proved me right with this empty brained móronic response of yours.
Why not find out like any sane and sensible human what warranted my comment on marriage before ranting like a frustrated rabid Rottweiler.
Stupid and senseless woman with the senses of a goat,go and take your drugs regularly before you go totally overboard.
Lol! "Getting busted hit you hard right?"
See how you sound like a pathetic fool!
A fool thinks he's wise in his own eyes but wise people look, examine and watch carefully before assuming.
Compound fool, have brain.
Female with brain disease pretending to be male thoroughly busted.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 7:57am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
Female with brain disease pretending to be male thoroughly busted.
Lol! Shameless female with brain disease exchanging words like a market woman thoroughly busted.
Please,mad dog,if you are through, there's good food in your plate.
Go and eat.
Shooo! Shooo! Shooo!
Female pig.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by krushdripper(m): 8:11am On Aug 21
Augustine2244:

Lol! Shameless female with brain disease exchanging words like a market woman thoroughly busted.
Please,mad dog,if you are through, there's good food in your plate.
Go and eat.
Shooo! Shooo! Shooo!
Female pig.
Since you must show me how messed up & miserable you are, go ahead, entertain me but atleast try to be original & not always starting your comments with my words like a typical brain dead female.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by JohnOkolo: 8:23am On Aug 21
Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.


Story story story.

You will grow old alone my brother do not be fooled.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 8:25am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
Since you must show me how messed up & miserable you are, go ahead, entertain me.
Lol! Like you are showing me how messed up, Miserable and pathetic you are!
Lol! Oga, the balls between your legs are completely useless to you.Why not get castrated and then you become a full fledged transgendered.
Give me your useless balls so I can feed my dog with them.
Miserable excuse of a human trash.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by JohnOkolo: 8:30am On Aug 21
EreluRoz:
It's sapa and nothing more but be ready to read epistles

Just so funny and sounding like a clown.

Do you think so many well to do Men are not afraid of settling down?

I belief as Men we are faced with the consequences of our decisions daily and picking a life partner is the decision that should have the utmost scrutiny.

For the person saying he won’t give up even after meeting so many unworthy ladies, I will tell you giving up is better than losing your mind or been mentality unstable.

So we should not create a society where the failures of our fathers will continue with us. Marry who is right for you, not just now but in the future. Love who will shower you with love and empathy and it will not be related to your pocket size. Lastly never allow anyone to gaslight you or make you settle down with them no matter the circumstances - unwanted pregnancy, unhappy family, age not on your side, and peer pressure, cause in the long run the consequences is only yours to face.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 8:32am On Aug 21
JohnOkolo:



Story story story.

You will grow old alone my brother do not be fooled.

Ok.
You will grow old alone.
I release your evil prayers back to you multiple times.
May you never find a life partner and may you grow old alone and die lonely and miserable.
No hard feelings, brother.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Augustine2244(m): 8:39am On Aug 21
krushdripper:
Since you must show me how messed up & miserable you are, go ahead, entertain me but atleast try to be original & not always starting your comments with my words like a typical brain dead female.
Lol! Like you are entertaining me.
Brain dead female Animal.
Oga, remove your useless balls and dick so I can feed my dog with them.
Female in a man's body.
Miserable dog.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Shomek(m): 8:56am On Aug 21
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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by EreluRoz: 9:02am On Aug 21
JohnOkolo:


Just so funny and sounding like a clown.

Do you think so many well to do Men are not afraid of settling down?

I belief as Men we are faced with the consequences of our decisions daily and picking a life partner is the decision that should have the utmost scrutiny.

For the person saying he won’t give up even after meeting so many unworthy ladies, I will tell you giving up is better than losing your mind or been mentality unstable.

So we should not create a society where the failures of our fathers will continue with us. Marry who is right for you, not just now but in the future. Love who will shower you with love and empathy and it will not be related to your pocket size. Lastly never allow anyone to gaslight you or make you settle down with them no matter the circumstances - unwanted pregnancy, unhappy family, age not on your side, and peer pressure, cause in the long run the consequences is only yours to face.
Women are afraid of settling down with the wrong person too. Do you know how many men a beautiful lady has to deal with everyday? Do you know how hard it is to select the right one especially now that men of this generation are not for keeps? For men it's sapa mainly and not anything, we have more promiscuous men than women. Good women are everywhere na you Dy go club go find am.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by dkidd: 9:03am On Aug 21
Some of the reasons are:
Financial instability
Toxic feminity and toxic masculinity
Weak men and stronger women
Too much 304's in society mixing with and colonizing normal girls that U can no longer tell the difference
New world order...

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by farouk2much(m): 10:43am On Aug 21
Yes.... Coz. Food stuff price is very high

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by iCauseTrouble: 10:43am On Aug 21
Sincerely, yes!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IyaTola: 10:45am On Aug 21
Economic factor: we have young men who are ready to settle down, but the economic downturn of Nigeria is taking away their dreams. Who do you feed and raise kids with no job? How do you take responsibility with meagre pay cheque? How can a jobless man raise bride price?

Emotional fraud: most people have neglected fidelity in a relationship/marriage. Men having extra marital affairs and women having babies for their ex in marriage.

Scary event: Most girls are into hookup and do irredeemable stuffs for money?
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Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?
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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Nonexisting1: 10:45am On Aug 21
Well it depends on what you mean by settling down. I'm well settled down where I am now. If your settling down means marriage, God forbid bad thing.

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