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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Veste: 10:45am On Aug 21
I am even planning on getting out of the marriage I am into. So tired of this lady with her entitlement & victimization mentality. I need my peace of mind, I don't want to die early.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by poweredcom(m): 10:46am On Aug 21
Nigerian girls are not good creatures to called wifey

Again many life circumstances have made love non existing , its all monetized now and its clean clear ..staring at every young men face daily koro koro ...na who gurk todays woman go use do daily meal and many of women today are not submissive like our mothers

Economic issues poverty endemic hardship and laziness have made girls become whhores

Abeg anybody wey marry dis time and see better woman make he go do testimoney

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by seanwilliam(m): 10:46am On Aug 21
LeopardX:
80% of the time, it's because there's no money.
But it's hard for guys to admit to that fact so they'll say it's because women are this and that.

But when money show, they risk it all: get married, have kids and hope for the best.

lol, not about money most time though. I have the money now but I still one take my time.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by OZIOGU1: 10:47am On Aug 21
The truth is if you are not married in the last 10yrs, i am sorry what awaits you as a young man is dustbin with wide borehole,, you will not understand until you know the kinds of job i do that exposed me a lots of ladies with different stories of body counts.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by spiSeyi: 10:47am On Aug 21
The problem is Men are avoiding entitled and broke b!tch, Men only want to settle down with money & peace grin if a woman is rich with humility men will rush her. grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Expanse2020(m): 10:49am On Aug 21
Olatara:
Which road?
Did you mean this Nigerian road 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by seanwilliam(m): 10:49am On Aug 21
Veste:
I am even planning on getting out of the marriage I am into. So tired of this lady with her entitlement & victimization mentality. I need my peace of mind, I don't want to die early.
At times, for your peace of mind of mind c you need to be selfish .. get out on time if you know it can’t work ..

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by diamond68: 10:51am On Aug 21
Lol married ? The global heddick is enough as it is heheh.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by AmalaAtiEwedu: 10:51am On Aug 21
Magnoliaa:


Times I used to pray for grin grin.
When you can’t have it, you wish for others not to.

We know. sorry for your predicament oh!

Your Kukunase don wide lose elastic limit and the labia minora and majora don sag the drip grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by AmalaAtiEwedu: 10:52am On Aug 21
EreluRoz:
It's sapa and nothing more but be ready to read epistles

Is that your excuse? cool

Better carry belle for one man keep am oh!

Before you no go get hope at all again to own pikin. grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Paramount01(m): 10:52am On Aug 21
Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.
Wow!pls how old are you?
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by callmevirus(m): 10:53am On Aug 21
Nothing concern me but E dey

Yes, the way I am now loosing interest in lioness that south African nyaope girl
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by BigYash: 10:54am On Aug 21
EreluRoz:
It's sapa and nothing more but be ready to read epistles
You think say na everybody sapa hold? Even as Tinubu govt bad so en,na great opportunity for some to making so much money..Guys that are doing well no see better wife.. Na girlfrds and fucknates full everywhere. Wives hard to get..You go fit advise your brother to marry 10k two rounds and bj girl? One was saying yesterday, say na her Toto she go use build hux.. And she go still wan settle down o.. The fact is GUYS ARE WISER NOW. KIDS NO HARD TO GET. And na only kids be men gain for the marriage. Your gender must get sense.. You can't eat your cake and still have it... When them say women go beg to be called by a mans name en.. I was like how will it happen.. Lol..
That part of the bible is clearer to me now..
Soon en,their mind go dey..

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Backlinker01: 10:55am On Aug 21
Economy is hard grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by obinnazy(m): 10:55am On Aug 21
Marriage only favour ladies, I stand to be corrected tho.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by bal4real: 10:55am On Aug 21
LeopardX:
80% of the time, it's because there's no money.
But it's hard for guys to admit to that fact so they'll say it's because women are this and that.

But when money show, they risk it all: get married, have kids and hope for the best.


You've said it all.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by tchelete(m): 10:55am On Aug 21
Advancements in technology and innovation is creating new jobs and making old jobs obsolete, sadly the school system has not adjusted, the truth is that the economy is in a mess and no man would eventually think of settling down.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by obinnazy(m): 10:56am On Aug 21
bukitt:
After dating ladies from other race, I discovered those from this part of the world are not romantic and lack empathy.

I just dey my dey pending when I find someone interesting.

Same here
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by rayopt(m): 10:56am On Aug 21
CyrusVI:
Are they?

I'm not really a social media person yet my status every weekend is filled with pictures of those that attended other peoples wedding ceremony and its being like this for 5 consecutive weeks

I dont think this things really apply offline

This might just a topic to give hope to single guys, if so, I'm happy to rejoice with them cheesy

There is real decline bro. It is not just a topic to give single guys hope. Your circle may be different. But if you have a wide network of people you will find out that there is a real decline. The major reason is finance tho. Its not like men are not interested in women (some are not sha). But the main reason is money and current economy.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by dkidd: 10:57am On Aug 21
Nonexisting1:
Well it depends in what you mean by settling down. I'm well settled down where I am now. If your settling down means marriage, God forbid bad thing.
grin
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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Shomek(m): 10:58am On Aug 21
IyaTola:
Economic factor: we have young men who are ready to settle down, but the economic downturn of Nigeria is taking away their dreams. Who do you feed and raise kids with no job? How do you take responsibility with meagre pay cheque? How can a jobless man raise bride price?

Emotional fraud: most people have neglected fidelity in a relationship/marriage. Men having extra marital affairs and women having babies for their ex in marriage.

Scary event: Most girls are into hookup and do irredeemable stuffs for money?
.
You are geek bro

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by UpTown001(m): 10:59am On Aug 21
Nigeria would get worse and harder than this if we don't stop using tribalism and religion to divide ourselves.

The politicians are eating large, buying trillion dollars worth of airplanes and jet, their kids are all abroad, but when its time to vote they use tribal sentiments to divide us and we fight amongst ourselves.And some people even collect peanuts to go vote.

Yesterday I saw people on a queue buying fuel for 1,000 per liter. And then I cried knowing fully well that only God can help this country.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by dkidd: 11:00am On Aug 21
jorion:


The probability of a poor man marrying is higher than that of a rich man .

The moment a guy starts making money, his standards for women further improves rendering most women useless in his eyes. Except he wants to marry a woman for other reasons best known to him.

Na broke and unambitious men wey no get choice but to manage the scraps wey dey street. They are the one's wey go say "make I just manage her because of children".
Come to think of it ur right. Especially the very poor and uneducated they settle down very fast and before U know them done born finish.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Greystone: 11:01am On Aug 21
I got married early this year.
Trust me when I say that marriage is not easy at all.
A man's patience and finances are stretched to near-breaking point

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by DoctorAyukebot(m): 11:01am On Aug 21
Olatara:
Which road?

Upper Iweka round about
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Manculated: 11:02am On Aug 21
Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

No they are developing very strong interest and commitment as the day passes by.

Great appreciation goes the country's useless men at the corridors of power impoverishing their fellow average men daily and have also made their women become the combination of feminazi and oloshoism.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Proserpina: 11:03am On Aug 21
As a lady I'm scared too

One bad move you are gone.

Humans are desperately wicked these days. It's like make person dey carry binoculars wey fit see the heart of MEN (and women) grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by moh1(m): 11:03am On Aug 21
marriage is a beautiful thing when you have an understanding partner and have the wealth that will take care of the union and the kids till God recall you from the earth. but were u not bless with two things pls dont go into marriage.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Jeje247: 11:06am On Aug 21
I'll wed today if I see #20 million
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by OZIOGU1: 11:07am On Aug 21
Greystone:
I got married early this year.
Trust me when I say that marriage is not easy at all.
A man's patience and finances are stretched to near-breaking point

Valid point

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