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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by winterfell007(m): 11:07am On Aug 21

CyrusVI:
Are they?

I'm not really a social media person yet my status every weekend is filled with pictures of those that attended other peoples wedding ceremony and its being like this for 5 consecutive weeks

I dont think this things really apply offline

This might just a topic to give hope to single guys, if so, I'm happy to rejoice with them

If you compare the statistics of those who are married to those who are unmarried but have approached marriageable ages is mind-gobbling

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Originalsly: 11:07am On Aug 21

Namaster:

Settle down with what?

A 28-year old single mother who has bleeped enough people to populate a medium-sized village, smokes like a chimney but still wants a "rich and responsible man" who'd give her the baby girl lifestyle.

There is NOTHING to settle down with.

Is that the only type of women available to you? Guys with this choice need to venture out of their olosho village or community or stop hoping to find wife material in brothels or strip joints. Get out of the gutter ...up your levels ... up your game... guys are getting married every day.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Shomek(m): 11:08am On Aug 21

Manculated:

No they are developing very strong interest and commitment as the day passes by.

Great appreciation should go the country's useless men at the corridors of power impoverishing men and have made their women become the combination of feminazi and olosoism.

what do you mean

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by PDJT: 11:09am On Aug 21

- Due to lack of availability of virgins. A woman without an intact hymen (god of marriage) is not worth marrying.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Oshin56(m): 11:09am On Aug 21

Olatara:
Which road?

CMS road

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Bush2013: 11:12am On Aug 21

I am ready for marriage but I haven't seen someone I like.
If you consider yourself a wife material send a pm

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Crafteck1: 11:13am On Aug 21

Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.

Pele, your case must be better than bill gates and Einstein cos you are richer and smarter, and also pastor chris cos you have bigger god..

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IdeasYapayaski: 11:14am On Aug 21

Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

Why won't men loose interest in marriage?🙄🙄🙄

Na women be most ladies we have today?🙄🙄

Nope.. They're mostly feminists! Yes, because they too work and make money, they can say whatever they like (to a broke guy), go wherever they like (in the house of a broke guy), come back home whenever they like (knowing fully well you're stranded), travel whenever they like ( telling you to go to hell now that you're broke), bolt out of marriage whenever they like and call you dead beat dad, abandon or split the kids, Bleep whoever they like (they turn their private part to a public part).. Till they catch diseases.

A wise man will be very cautious in getting into marriage in the world were in today, because even a dog that is an animal is loyal and has genuine love for it's owner than most of today's women (beasts).

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:17am On Aug 21

Exceed15:
Because marriage only favors women while the men look miserable afterward.

Actually.

Marriage favors men more than women.

Men are just sulky because they are losing the advantage they had that made their mothers, grandmothers and great grandmother to settle for their father's, grandfathers and great-grandfathers which was MONEY.

Now that women can also earn a living and take care of themselves financially without a man, their needs have changed and evolved. However men have failed to update to the latest software. They don't want to make the needed change to make them good choices of partner for women today so they are throwing tantrums online and losing incentive to be productive members of society. They want to be free to practice infidelity without consequences. They want really young girls(most likely virgins) to date them and destroy their destines, abandon them pregnant with those curses they call joysticks and make the poor innocent girl a bitter baby mama. They want outside affairs. They don't want to be parents and raise their legitimate or illegitimate children. The only thing they are good at which is a provider, many don't want to do anymore.

It's not only men that don't want to marry. It's women too, women don't want to marry immature boys in adult bodies calling themselves men who didn't complete home trainingin their parent' houses. Women don't want to marry deadbeats and energy vampires. Women don't want husbands with fragile egos who are their enemies of progress. No one wants to buy bad market.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by XploraBen(m): 11:20am On Aug 21

I'm very much interested in settling down. But two things are still holding me back:

➡️ I'm not at the level I want financially. Though, to a certain extent, I'm doing okay as a single guy.

➡️ I'm yet to find a decent, sensible, and working class lady.

Hopefully, I get a headway in both of these areas and settle down in about a year time.

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Shomek(m): 11:21am On Aug 21

[quote author=IdeasYapayaski post=131620099]
Why won't men loose interest in marriage?

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IyaTola: 11:23am On Aug 21

Shomek:
You are geek bro

I am lady.

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by OZIOGU1: 11:25am On Aug 21

XploraBen:
I'm very much interested in settling down. But two things are still holding me back:

➡️ I'm not at the level I want financially. Though, to a certain extent, I'm doing okay as a single guy.

➡️ I'm yet to find a decent, sensible, and working class lady.

Hopefully, I get a headway in both of these areas and settle down in about a year time.

EleruRoz

JennyClay

and

Kobojunkie

pick one of these beautiful decent souls

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by nigmarelli(m): 11:28am On Aug 21

For the umpteenth time call marriage what it is marriage not settling down. So a single person is unsettled if her/she isn't married yet? Una know wetin make person dey settled mean in its really sense?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Shomek(m): 11:29am On Aug 21

IyaTola:
I am lady.

Okay sis you nailed it all

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Fryx: 11:32am On Aug 21

Alphamentips:
To find virgin babe for this Lagos be like say you dey find straightforward politician for this current Tinubu government. It's just impossicant. If to say na for East, babes just yapa. Young virgins..

My first babe na divorcee... So didn't make the cut. 2nd babe, single mom.. had to let her go. 3rd babe dey 1st year for school... She wan use billing strangle me

I just tire my g.

Not true bro…

Although, it surprises me too.

My girl is a virgin (which I confirmed myself)

She always insist getting disvirgined will destroy her life and I am free to find another woman if I need sex. She does not even mind if a girl comes to visit me, she only care about me loving her.

I met another girl recently, we were chatting and I was getting naughty. But her responses gave her out as a virgin.

So, I asked if she is a virgin, to which she affirmed.

My babe own is understandable, she just recently become an adult.

But, this other girl is in her mid twenties. Already working and goddamn beautiful.

I don’t believe her though, but she had no reason to lie to me.

She doesn’t have the habits of habitual liars either.

What surprises me most, they are both born and bred in Lagos. But, at the same time, they are both introverts.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by COOL10(m): 11:32am On Aug 21

Marriage is for weak and foolish men. Smart men don't get married.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by dododawa1: 11:34am On Aug 21

inside life

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by tommy589(m): 11:37am On Aug 21

Augustine2244:

Honestly I have met bad partners but I won't give up.
And not when I always see a woman beside me in the dream, working with me.

You are a good person with a loving heart. I pray God gives you a good wife

I am in my last marriage and settling down with women has benefited me most. It has put an end to wastage,reduced those that take advantage of my giving nature and helps to be very focus in achieving my plans

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by jeromestarks: 11:40am On Aug 21

Namaster:
Settle down with what?

A 28-year old single mother who has bleeped enough people to populate a medium-sized village, smokes like a chimney but still wants a "rich and responsible man" who'd give her the baby girl lifestyle.

There is NOTHING to settle down with.

You're the true son of your father.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by RichIgboBoy: 11:42am On Aug 21

Seeing the right woman is quite difficult now. Any decent and ambitious lady ready to settle down should send a message.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by komzy589(m): 11:43am On Aug 21

CyrusVI:
Are they?

I'm not really a social media person yet my status every weekend is filled with pictures of those that attended other peoples wedding ceremony and its being like this for 5 consecutive weeks

I dont think this things really apply offline

This might just a topic to give hope to single guys, if so, I'm happy to rejoice with them

Give hope?
You make it sound like getting married is an achievement.
One of the reasons why most single guys are still single in a marriageable age is the fear of missing the days of being single.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Blackman101: 11:45am On Aug 21

Answer, capital yes

Men are losing their life cos of family pressure (young men in the 30's with white hair, stress up with anger and BP problems) is becoming a popular sight in the country.

Having a wife that depend on you sometime not a problem, but when the whole family (father, mother and grown children) starts depending on as a son-in-law, then we have problem.

An average man working (how much is the salary worth) in Nigeria now have his father, mother, sibling, father and mother in-law and their children to handle

Baby mama's has become the order of the day, very sad.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by OgiidiiHerbals(m): 11:46am On Aug 21

jorion:
Marriage is a scam that only benefits women. Except you know for sure that she is different and you can both tolerate each other, don't do it.

Honestly you're right,we wey don enter already later discovered naija girls no worth am most especially if she now get bad mother chai 😂

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IyaTola: 11:46am On Aug 21

Shomek:
Okay sis you nailed it all

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IyaTola: 11:47am On Aug 21

RichIgboBoy:
Seeing the right man is quite difficult now. Any decent and ambitious lady ready to settle down should send a message.

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by LeopardX: 11:49am On Aug 21

seanwilliam:
lol, not about money most time though. I have the money now but I still one take my time.

You have to my bro. I understand.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by IyaTola: 11:50am On Aug 21

seanwilliam:
lol, not about money most time though. I have the money now but I still one take my time.

Which mumu time you wan take? You getting older oga

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by ogbonti: 11:54am On Aug 21

Alphamentips:
To find virgin babe for this Lagos be like say you dey find straightforward politician for this current Tinubu government. It's just impossicant. If to say na for East, babes just yapa. Young virgins..

My first babe na divorcee... So didn't make the cut. 2nd babe, single mom.. had to let her go. 3rd babe dey 1st year for school... She wan use billing strangle me

I just tire my g.

go virage

dem virgin full dia

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by XploraBen(m): 11:54am On Aug 21

OZIOGU1:

and pick one of these beautiful decent souls

Can you choose any of them? undecided

Give me your honest answer.

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Honestey: 11:57am On Aug 21

Only Tinubu can explain

Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Zooposki(f): 11:57am On Aug 21

Georgekyrian:

Yes is scam especially monogamy, many are not ready for this my teaching, it comes like bombshell

Marriage is a scam yet you want to marry multiple women. Yet you guys are the ones always rushing to remarry after a divorce or death.

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