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What Is Wrong With This Girl? by IFuckWell: 12:13am On Aug 21
This is weird I met this babe two days ago. I could've sworn the girl was into me

Anty keeps leaving me on read. I no sabi why. Na like this I found myself talking to myself in her dm

Considered blocking the line buh Omo I don't want to be too hasty. Lols if you had any experience with this kind girls. What on is wrong here?

PS: Seems y'all missed the part where I asked only niggaz with specific experience should comment

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Coldplay007(f): 4:18am On Aug 21
Have you called her on phone since after you met? Or you just jumped straight to WhatsApp like a randy teenager

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by FRANCISTOWN: 5:47am On Aug 21
IFuckWell:
This is weird I met this babe two days ago. I could've sworn the girl was into me

Anty keeps leaving me on read. I no sabi why. Na like this I found myself talking to myself in her dm

Considered blocking the line buh Omo I don't want to be too hasty. Lols if you had any experience with this kind girls. What on is wrong here?

You see, low self esteem and lack of self respect are attributes of a weak man.

I will die first before I double text anybody in this life. Once I text you once and you see and refuse to respond. I'd just assume you don't wanna talk to me and I'll never bother you again. And even if you texted me later on, I must definitely return the favours by leaving on read too.

@OP, there is nothing special about anybody in this life to have you double texting them especially useless girls.
Stay where you are valued.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by ObalendeCMS: 7:13am On Aug 21
Quickly dump her & sharply move on!

Nigerian girls are brainless, unattractive & pretentious.

Very useless & despicable set of being.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Peakdesign23(m): 7:24am On Aug 21
SIMP

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by PissInside: 7:37am On Aug 21
A certain nigerian woman told me that the reason Nigerian women are always proud is that Nigerian men have low self esteem even the rich ones.

How can you enter a girl's DM and tell her - Can I send you money for no reason? How do you want such a girl to feel?

The most painful thing is that even prostitutes have as much as 50 guys disturbing them everyday with the same old basic lines - Hi,Hey ,Hello,You're so beautiful,Can I get to know you better etc not of talk of normal girls who got as much as thousand of numbers of guys on her contacts...Only a fool and jobless man keeps chatting a girl that's not your wife or serious girlfriend.

As a man,be unique and disciplined when it comes to women issue and your life will never be the same.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Yadid(m): 8:46am On Aug 21
Most likely you are the one thinking she's into you, she's not. Even if a lady is into you, shouldn't you as a man have some boundaries that must not be crossed? Whether a lady is into me or not, there's no way I'm tolerating something like this. The contact will be in the bin already.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Oluromantic: 10:55am On Aug 21
You dey craze o. So a girl kept you like this for days now and you're wasting your value where it is not needed. You're really a worthless person. Get another girl and ignore this one. Don't block her cuz she could be hit with insult from d dick she's been fucking then suddenly remembers you.. If I were you I will Bleep the living daylights from her life when she returns. But for now, get someone else.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Therock5555(m): 12:28pm On Aug 21
IFuckWell:
This is weird I met this babe two days ago. I could've sworn the girl was into me

Anty keeps leaving me on read. I no sabi why. Na like this I found myself talking to myself in her dm

Considered blocking the line buh Omo I don't want to be too hasty. Lols if you had any experience with this kind girls. What on is wrong here?


The fact that you carried this rubbish online shows how SIMPcious you are.

I have only one advice for you, ignore that girl and move on with your life, if she still find a way to enter your space, nack her and still move on with your life.

Even if she buys you a car to appease you, still collect the car, and move on with your life.

Except you're the king of Simps, just keep trying hard to gain her attention, she'll surely remember to reply you when her cream finish

Of all the problems in this country, na make woman answer your DM be your wahala...m

Spits on his bald head...n

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by lilvicky68(m): 1:17pm On Aug 21
For you to be monitoring if she has read your message or not shows you need to get busy.

just go straight to the point with your messages
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Usmanovic95(m): 2:12pm On Aug 21
Bro see as you dey bombard girl with messages?What economic value will you get from that girl.Girl wey go still bill you. Bro you can do better.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by 1Sharon(f): 2:15pm On Aug 21
Omg. You're one of those double texters. It's making you look desperate. She's clearly ignoring you, so just move on. She probably did like you, but your desperate typing put her off. How annoying you are.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Smitaro100(m): 2:26pm On Aug 21
No worry continue to dey jonze na billing go follow her next reply since you don already dey chat her like werey wey dey on premium konji.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by CyrusVI(m): 2:52pm On Aug 21
U even get mind carry this chat come online. You no try at all

Na why E better make person dey into the woman wella before u collect their contact

And as u dey collect am sef, u go tell them your rules. if she use style talk say your own too much, Delete the contact for her front

It makes things easy for u

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by T3ndrils: 3:39pm On Aug 21
Stv.PID use..less BAs.TARD

Put.tried I’d..iot vagabond

Therock5555:



The fact that you carried this rubbish online shows how SIMPcious you are.

I have only one advice for you, ignore that girl and move on with your life, if she still find a way to enter your space, nack her and still move on with your life.

Even if she buys you a car to appease you, still collect the car, and move on with your life.

Except you're the king of Simps, just keep trying hard to gain her attention, she'll surely remember to reply you when her cream finish

Of all the problems in this country, na make woman answer your DM be your wahala...m

Spits on his bald head...n
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Verbtips(m): 3:48pm On Aug 21
FRANCISTOWN:


You see, low self esteem and lack of self respect are attributes of a weak man.

I will die first before I double text anybody in this life. Once I text you once and you see and refuse to respond. I'd just assume you don't wanna talk to me and I'll never bother you again. And even if you texted me later on, I must definitely return the favours by leaving on read too.

@OP, there is nothing special about anybody in this life to have you double texting them especially useless girls.
Stay where you are valued.
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by pansophist(m): 3:49pm On Aug 21
Once in a while I'll come across post online that says men don't chase women anymore, then I'll come to Nairaland and see post written by men who can be comparable to a goat. Lol

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by richiemcgold: 3:49pm On Aug 21
The more you keep posting those messages, the more you keep irritating her. Are you too blind to see!

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by pansophist(m): 3:53pm On Aug 21
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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Duchexx: 4:00pm On Aug 21
IFuckWell:
This is weird I met this babe two days ago. I could've sworn the girl was into me

Anty keeps leaving me on read. I no sabi why. Na like this I found myself talking to myself in her dm

Considered blocking the line buh Omo I don't want to be too hasty. Lols if you had any experience with this kind girls. What on is wrong here?

So you brought our chats here..you this foolish boy. Simp😡

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:01pm On Aug 21
Op didn't grow up with love at home grin grin grin. At your big age you don't even know when a girl likes you then wahala dey. Stop wasting your time and resources on women that don't have any genuine desire for you. Instead focus that time on being the absolute best version of yourself.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by SmellingAnus(m): 4:11pm On Aug 21
You appear too desperate... Sometimes be man enough to accept your L and wish her well and move on.... She might even come back to you then... You actually gave her more than the attention she deserves so it's good you learn the hard way ...

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Rizzputin(m): 4:30pm On Aug 21
There's nothing wrong with her. But there's a lot wrong with you

Anyways, it's surprising how nobody on this thread has explained why the girl is responding this way. Guys, let's do better

Now, for your question... what is wrong with her? Absolutely nothing. You are the problem

I've said it before that a girl is the mirror of the man. Her actions, behaviours and words reflect the man she's talking or chatting with.

In your situation, there are only 3 possible reasons why this girl is acting this way


---- First, her emotions have cooled off. A lot of guys are happy when a girl shows them green light when he approaches her. She's into him, laughing at his jokes, complimenting him, etc

Then the guy does a very big mistake... he assumes this green light as a signal for him to over show his interest. So he verbally and non verbally shows interest back to the girl. And with that, the chase is over for her... when you text her it now becomes a game of "I know he likes me... I'll just keep him around and see if I like him back"



---Another problem with a girl acting into you is that, how a girl behaves with you when you're present will be different via text.

A girl can act all flustered and interested when you're present because she can feel your energy and vibe

But when she goes back home and the emotions cool off... she then realizes she doesn't really know you that well... and that moment both of you felt you had wasn't real. So, she adjusts and goes back to her base emotions


---- Once you experience both things above, the worst thing you can do is to text her the way you're doing.

It will send her from "I'm still figuring this guy out" to "this guy is a creepy simp"


Ignore any advice here on double texting. I double text and triple text sometimes. It doesn't drop your value in any way. It all boils down to HOW you do it (which is not what you're doing unfortunately


---- The last reason why she's acting this way is she's playing games. I doubt this is your situation though.

From what you described, it's more of the first 2. But a girl can want you to double or triple text her to show your interest if she feels like you're too high value..

It will help satisfy her ego and make her more responsive to you. (I know I know, so many low self esteem girls today but such is life)



● Your Next moves

-- Ignore this girl for like a week or 2. I mean no contact at all. She may or may not reach out

--- Then hit her up with something interesting or funny probably about her. (No hi or hey or what's up. Or any of that nonsense)


---- Then just forget about the whole idea of "she's into me" That is why you're chasing because you felt you had her but now that she's slipping away ... you're starting chasing

But remember, that which we chase tends to run away from us

So just game her like you would do a girl that's just on the fence about you.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:44pm On Aug 21
"I fuvk well," but ordinary interest you cannot elicit. grin

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:50pm On Aug 21
Let me read out your crimes to you (others might see other things you've done wrong and point it out).

- Lols

What the fuçk is "lols?" undecided
Like who says that?

- Called her Fumi (instead of Funmi)

I don't know about others, but that would have pissed me off legit. Of all basic communication rules, this is literally the simplest to follow but you managed to flout it.

- Requesting for a video call

It's giving desperate horñy baskard. When you're not mad. From where to where? Exchanged contacts two days ago, and already want to do video call? When we've not even established any sort of familiarity?

- 'You probably have other guys that like you in your DM'

First of all eeewww. Secondly, eww. Just ew! I don't even know how to describe how you saying this make me feel. It sounds so pickmeish, insecure and utterly reeks of a lack of confidence.

I mean, yeah, factually, someone you like definitely have other people who also likes them, but you do not have to say it to their face. So they can like you back out of pity? What is that? If you think you do not have any chance with me, you definitely do not and will not have any chance with me. So just...clear!

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by jorion(m): 4:54pm On Aug 21
1Sharon:
Omg. You're one of those double texters. It's making you look desperate. She's clearly ignoring you, so just move on. She probably did like you, but your desperate typing put her off. How annoying you are.

This is why I keep encouraging men to not be gentle with women. Treat women the way you treat your job.

IF IT IS NOT WORKING OUT, DON'T FIX IT. MOVE ON

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by jorion(m): 4:57pm On Aug 21
Duchexx:


So you brought our chats here..you this foolish boy. Simp😡

Laugh wan kill me o. Hahahahahahahahahaha
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:00pm On Aug 21
Infact, here is LIKELY where you fell out of grace.

She literally sent "hii." That was enthusiastic (real or fake) enough.


But if I greeted you like that, and the next thing you did is to call me on video, mo ma gbe e shepe ni.

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Regex: 5:01pm On Aug 21
pansophist:
Once in a while I'll come across post online that says men don't chase women anymore, then I'll come to Nairaland and see post written by men who can be comparable to a goat. Lol

😂 😂 😂 easy brother...😂 😂 😂
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by jorion(m): 5:02pm On Aug 21
Magnoliaa:
Let me read out your crimes to you (others might see other things you've done wrong and point it out).

- Lols

What the fuçk is "lols?" undecided
Like who says that?

- Called her Fumi

I don't know about others, but that would have pissed me off legit. Of all basic communication rules, this is literally the simplest to follow but you managed to flout it.

- Requesting for a video call

It's giving desperate horñy baskard. When you're not mad. From where to where? Exchanged contacts two days ago, and already want to do video call? When we've not even established any sort of familiarity?

STFU, who the hell made you the girl's lawyer. TAKE YOUR BS FEMINISM SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Kevineleven(m): 5:04pm On Aug 21
Bro you dey disgrace the brotherhood o.
Delete her number Asap

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Re: What Is Wrong With This Girl? by Regex: 5:07pm On Aug 21
Magnoliaa:
Infact, here is LIKELY where you fell out of grace.

She literally sent "hii." That was enthusiastic (real or fake) enough.


But if I greeted you like that, and the next thing you did is to call me on video, mo ma gbe e shepe ni.

😂 😂 😂 make una calm down deh show this guy shege...😂 😂 😂

Actually your previous post on this is absolutely spot on. Op take note.

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