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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Aforich: 9:53pm On Aug 29
Whichever way you act, it's your house oga, don't allow anyone to be using you in your house, it's obvious she's not interested in you, send her packing abeg.... No time
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by imustsaymymindo: 10:14pm On Aug 29
Afodot0022:

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Lol. Advice that you won't listen to. This was my comment on your last thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/8171215/should-girlfriend-cohabite-me#131278093
Lol. Only the first point which is getting to know her feels important to me.
My guess is you would finally find out the reason her friend chased her out.


I guess now you have found out. grin

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Pat081: 10:24pm On Aug 29
[b]My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with[/b] Do you know why she was kick out from her friend place? It may be because of her laziness or she want to be boss in her friend house and that one can not take that from her . Give her order this what you want in your house or she leave
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by sherylbaky(f): 10:31pm On Aug 29
davillian:

Buy calabash, buy red clothes, buy powder buy live chicken buy charcoal .....
At midnight wear the red cloth, tie on your head tie on your arm put the charcoal inside lite it put the feathers inside so it would bring smoke start talking rubbish until she wakes up and see you but don't say anything to her before u wake up in the morning she don run grin
šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 10:44pm On Aug 29
davillian:

Buy calabash, buy red clothes, buy powder buy live chicken buy charcoal .....
At midnight wear the red cloth, tie on your head tie on your arm put the charcoal inside lite it put the feathers inside so it would bring smoke start talking rubbish until she wakes up and see you but don't say anything to her before u wake up in the morning she don run grin


Lols....do you know if she is Queen of the coast?

Na that night he will know about Spirituality...lols
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 10:53pm On Aug 29
Well, there is one thing clear about marriage, it is never like relationship where the lady comes and goes .....no no no....

O.P I know you are tired because each time you wake up , you see her , at first you loved it, you could enter her as you like but there is a stage you will reach even in marriage, sex becomes boring...

I think this is the stage you are now, and you have started finding faults from her...
If she fails to wash your cloth, take them to the dry cleaners....

Don't force Chores on a lady, a happy well brought up lady will do chores as if her life depends on it, because she passed through such lifestyle...

Is obvious you now truly know your gal friend and she now knows you too well now....this is the stage in marriage that defines marriage , but your own point of view is that , this is not marriage for you, but have you checked her own point of view

There is no point advising you on how to keep her because you don't even have plans of marrying her in the next 5years...

The reason why she is not contributing to your life is because she knows she is not part of your life , she must have asked you what's the plan for the relationship, and you must have told her no head way....

What do you expect her to start doing?

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by horia: 11:35pm On Aug 29
Duchexx:

Tueh!
You begged that woman to stay with you! You disvirgined her! And now youā€™re fed up! You were the problem in your previous marriage!
You didnā€™t know ā€œ To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both marriedā€ when you were begging her to stay with you o. Shameless and wicked man

Hey guys, I think the girlfriend has a nairaland account
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Bobbynobobby: 2:01am On Aug 30
ProfOkai:
I read most of the comments and I must commend the good minds being poured out here.
To add mine, I think you are very weak as a person. Harsh? That's what I intended it be. You are very very weak. How can a strong lady of that sort... Yes she is strong and not a liability... How can this sort of a lady manipulate you this securely.? Oga, be a man. Tell her to pack out. She will be fine and you will be alright.
By the way, stop sleeping around with other women. Either go back to your first love or hide your guy down there forever. Stop getting God angry.

Prof lemme collect emails. You will forward this your last submission to all of us guys. Those words are gold

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 2:04am On Aug 30
Duchexx:

Tueh!
You begged that woman to stay with you! You disvirgined her! And now youā€™re fed up! You were the problem in your previous marriage!
You didnā€™t know ā€œ To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both marriedā€ when you were begging her to stay with you o. Shameless and wicked man


HERE IS THE SAID ASHAWO GIRLFRIEND
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Bobbynobobby: 2:30am On Aug 30
fineberry:
This story remind me of what someone told me recently. He said a friend of his ( a guy) came to complain in tears about girl that has been cohabiting with him for more than a section now( bcus we're in school) the guys was crying to his elder sister that he was tired of the girl (fiance), because he was the one in charge of all expenses in the house, pay bill, even give her money to meet her need......the funny part is that, this girl was still claiming virgin, that over a year now that she has been staying in his house he has not allow him to touch her come to talk of sex..... When my guy told me....Omo I weak oo....the thing now is, this guy in question have tried to evict her out but to know avail . Shit dey happen ooo

Please which school are they having yearly 'sections' instead of sessions. We need to know so we can avoid wasting money on our wards' fees
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Havesomesense(m): 2:59am On Aug 30
Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

I recently kicked out a girl like that in my life, whenever she comes to my house she watch me do the house chores without assisting and sheā€™s selfish.

I just dropped her in her house and Iā€™m never bringing her to my house again.
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by blahc007: 5:38am On Aug 30
Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Stop funding the house bro...
Eat out if you can.....like, as u de return from work, branch some wia, buy food chop.

In the morning, leave without dropping money for food nor cooking.....if you must cook, cook noodles that will beleful only you.

After one week, she go start to de touch her savings small smal...

Keep denying her other good things ....don't touch her for sex (Cos na there all of una de weak)

Sparingly communicate with her....

No fight am ...no quarrel with her.....
When hunger bend em neck 2wise, na she go Japa by herself.

I know say u no go like this my style......na that sex part mek all of una de behave like kids

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Hauzy2020: 5:43am On Aug 30
Just be careful though, some girls are cunning and manipulative,won't be surprise if it was all planned from the beginning,her frnd kicking her out n all. GOOD LUCK
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Teymanhenry(f): 6:19am On Aug 30
She earn well and still live in your house lol. Making her leave is easy, don't buy a single food stuff in the house. You are dating a gold digger and I am sure u know it . Ensure you load your stomach before you come back from work. She'll leave ASAP

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by DonroxyII: 6:58am On Aug 30
AllBlack:
You say you have been married before but you are here telling us how you are still wrapped up in childish situations and inability to make decisions like a man.

run & hide your face in deep shame.
grin
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Tzar(m): 6:59am On Aug 30
You be mumu man! Are you afraid of her?
Stop being a SIMP and grow some manly balls! Give her your demands on what you want her to do, or give her a deadline to leave!
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by breathless(m): 10:31am On Aug 30
Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

There's no greater revelation you can get than this to confirm she's not for you. How can a red flag be more red than this?
You must be decisive and insist she moves out to get her own place and not give in to any form of emotional blackmail or manipulation except you're ready for another future divorce (which may be worse).
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by sunnitus: 11:30am On Aug 30
You are the major problem here bro, and with this kind of mentality of urs, u can never get married or stay with a woman. You seriously need to work on urself, cos ur reasoning and thinking about women is of the I880s.

Your expectation for a spouse is too much bro, u want to enslave someone's child all in the name of marriage, no wonder u divorced ur wife.
Will ur gender change from male to female if do the chores? Work on yourself bro, identify your errors cos you have them plenty, solve them and have a heart to heart talk with ur girlfriend, define your relationship with her and don't waste her time.

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by eddykaka(m): 12:04pm On Aug 30
Confirmedzombie:
Bro arrange pot with fetishism things inside.

Keep it somewhere in your room. One night wake up, tie a red clothe, and white clothes, bring out the pot, start saying unnecessary things.

I bet you she will run and never return to your house
grin grin e get some girls whr go folo u join the initiation,, d play grin grin
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 12:39pm On Aug 30
seanery:



HERE IS THE SAID ASHAWO GIRLFRIEND

Donā€™t go and keep your foolish wandering eyes on your mother. Donā€™t come back here when she goes missing again o. Fool at 40
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 6:22pm On Aug 30
Duchexx:


Donā€™t go and keep your foolish wandering eyes on your mother. Donā€™t come back here when she goes missing again o. Fool at 40

WEREY OBIRRIN
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by fineberry(m): 6:44pm On Aug 30
Bobbynobobby:


Please which school are they having yearly 'sections' instead of sessions. We need to know so we can avoid wasting money on our wards' fees
Lolzzz ohk
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 8:25pm On Aug 30
seanery:


WEREY OBIRRIN

E pain amšŸ¤£ foolish fool.
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 5:25am On Aug 31
Duchexx:


E pain amšŸ¤£ foolish fool.

Ur papa

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 12:52pm On Aug 31
seanery:


Ur papa
No go find your stray mamaā€¦idiotšŸ¤£
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 1:03pm On Aug 31
Duchexx:

No go find your stray mamaā€¦idiotšŸ¤£

OLOSHI, u mean ur ashawo mother.
Like ashawo mother like daughter

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 1:17pm On Aug 31
seanery:


OLOSHI, u mean my ashawo mother.
Like ashawo mother like son

Your mama wey dey stray like dogšŸ˜…šŸ¤£ She confided in me..she told me the reason she went missing is because she birthed a paedophile and a waste of labour pains. Na me and her dey do the ashewo business anytime she goes missingšŸ˜…šŸ¤£ that your mama wey no wan retirešŸ„°šŸ˜…
My regards to her jarešŸŒø
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 2:46pm On Aug 31
Duchexx:


Your mama wey dey stray like dogšŸ˜…šŸ¤£ She confided in me..she told me the reason she went missing is because she birthed a paedophile and a waste of labour pains. Na me and her dey do the ashewo business anytime she goes missingšŸ˜…šŸ¤£ that your mama wey no wan retirešŸ„°šŸ˜…
My regards to her jarešŸŒø

Werey re oooo

Ma ress ur case here.

Nature will deal with ur father

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 6:55pm On Aug 31
seanery:


Werey re oooo

Ma ress ur case here.

Nature will deal with ur father
E dey pain amšŸ¤£šŸ˜… Same way nature has death with your poverty stricken sef. See as your house dey..common paint you no fit buy. Na to dey argue with woman you sabi. Woman wrapper. Na because of people like you them legalize abortion
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by placeofallure(f): 7:38pm On Aug 31
Afodot0022:
This won't work cos my rent is sorted out till the end of 2025. I can't wait till then to kick her out



Simple thing. Let another lady constantly visit you, whether arranged or real, and unapologetically so. She won't be comfortable anymore. That's Leave o'clock!
Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by seanery: 4:25am On Sep 01
Duchexx:

E dey pain amšŸ¤£šŸ˜… Same way nature has death with your poverty stricken sef. See as your house dey..common paint you no fit buy. Na to dey argue with woman you sabi. Woman wrapper. Na because of people like you them legalize abortion


For ur father mind now, u think ur mother don talk swnse

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Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by Duchexx: 8:23am On Sep 01
seanery:



Formy mumu father mind now, u think my mother don talk swnse

I know say him mumu našŸ¤£

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