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Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by mmadu4: 10:10pm On Sep 21, 2024
does anyone know what it means?
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Afonja44: 10:12pm On Sep 21, 2024
It is a gay term which means you must have hung out with Seun Osewa recently.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by mmadu4: 10:14pm On Sep 21, 2024
Afonja44:
It is a gay term which means you must have hung out with Seun Osewa recently.
wow really thanks bro never knew thats what it meant

wait wait , SUEN of nairaland is gay?
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by TinkTwice(m): 10:17pm On Sep 21, 2024
Haa.. Nothing musa no go see for gate

Smh

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by ItisWell22(f): 10:32pm On Sep 21, 2024
Seems like in no distant time with the current pace, “gayism” will be so common and probably seen and accepted as a norm.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by danvon(m): 10:33pm On Sep 21, 2024
Top is the plug (Verydarkman), bottom is the socket (Bobrisky)
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by danvon(m): 10:37pm On Sep 21, 2024
ItisWell22:
Seems like in no distant time with the current pace, “gayism” will be so common and probably seen and accepted as a norm.

Becoming a norm doesn't mean it would become legal...

The police would not waste resources investigating the death or robbery of a gay man (which happens a lot), same way they don't care about girls who get killed through hookup, though hookup is normal these days.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Jamesmatic(m): 2:21am On Sep 22, 2024
It's a gay term to know the different roles they play. Like the Top is also called active that's the man fucking and doing the whole move. While the bottom also called passive is like the babe receiving. I have studied little about LGBTQ mostly Gay and sadly they are everywhere in the world and a lot of people are coming out as gay. These Gay people have a high sex drive and they are highly loyal to each other and this is the part that pisses me off. Gay loyalty is different from normal straight people. You can offer a girl in a serious relationship a big amount and some can be tempted to go Bleep that dick secretly but that can never happen in a gay relationship instead they will tell their partner about it and maybe if he likes the gay man they can go for a party and right after the sex they will dump him. My observation about this gay thing is they carry different types of terrible diseases you can imagine HIV etc and they also die lonely at old age. When they are old they always have this regret about it. Being gay also denies them a wife kids and family but most in the West adopt kids they raise as their own and they never allow this kid they raise to be Gay. They make sure they get married and have a normal life.


Some gays are cut and uncut. The cut and uncut means circumcised and uncircumcised. Some gay people like it cut and some uncut. The headquarters of Gay in Europe is Germany followed by the Netherlands and France. In these countries, you can find thousands of them and lately, they now have boys' bars and girls' bars in Europe. The only country that has a low number of gays in Europe is Poland and Sweden. These two countries have a large group of Homophobes, especially Poland. Sadly gay people are here to stay because the Western government has relaxed its laws to accommodate these people.

Recently I was having an argument with a friend about gay people based on my observation I argued with him that society contributes to creating Gay people and they disagreed with me and I gave him an example that there are some people who in society have low self-esteem or are not classy and they sometimes they don't get enough attention, for instance, there is a girl was behave like a grandma because she’s not good looking or not sexy and boys are not coming her way Nobody toast or ask her out. With time it will be eating her up because no man wants her because she's ugly or not attractive and a lesbian can notice this sign in this particular ugly girl and befriend her and start showing her love and care and with time she will feel comfortable with her and before you know she's a full-blown girl to a lesbian and that's how it goes both ways and this is my little observation about the causes of same-sex in the society.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DaddyCoool(f): 2:39am On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:
Its a gay term to know the different roles they play. Like the Top is also called active that's the man fucking and doing the whole move. While the bottom also called passive is like the babe receiving. I have studied little about LGBTQ mostly Gay and sadly they are everywhere in the world and a lot of people are coming out as gay. These Gay people have a high sex drive and they are highly loyal to each other and this is the part that pisses me off. Gay loyalty is different from normal straight people. You can offer a girl in a serious relationship a big amount and some can be tempted to go Bleep that dick secretly but that can never happen in a gay relationship instead they will tell their partner about it and maybe if he likes the gay man they can go for party and right after the sex they will dump him. My observation about this gay thing is they carry different types of terrible diseases you can imagine HIV etc and they also die lonely at old age. When they are old they always have this regret about it. Being gay also denies them a wife kids and family but most in the West adopt kids they raise as their own and they never allow this kid they raise to be Gay. They make sure they get married and have a normal life.

You must have repressed homosexuality to be this interested in gay affairs

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Jamesmatic(m): 3:05am On Sep 22, 2024
DaddyCoool:


You must have repressed homosexuality to be this interested in gay affairs


No way am a straight man I just like to do research and know stuff. Knowledge is power, my friend.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DaddyCoool(f): 5:37am On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:



No way am a straight man I just like to do research and know stuff. Knowledge is power, my friend.

So of all the millions of things to know in this world (that you can't even finish in a 1000 lifetimes), the one you choose to know is your fellow man's nyash? OK o

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Jamesmatic(m): 6:18am On Sep 22, 2024
DaddyCoool:


So of all the millions of things to know in this world (that you can't even finish in a 1000 lifetimes), the one you choose to know is your fellow man's nyash? OK o

Lol
As you read am finish talk say you no learn one thing.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DaddyCoool(f): 6:26am On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:


Lol
As you read am finish talk say you no learn one thing.

Of course, but I won't go looking for it. Just as I won't go researching minutae of lesbian lifestyle. There are too many other knowledge that are far more profitable to me and my lifestyle

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Jamesmatic(m): 10:47am On Sep 22, 2024
DaddyCoool:


Of course, but I won't go looking for it. Just as I won't go researching minutae of lesbian lifestyle. There are too many other knowledge that are far more profitable to me and my lifestyle


I clearly understand how you feel about it but this same sex is happening rampant even in Nigeria here they are everywhere and a lot of people know nothing about this people. Example like Our man here Bob you no sabi say e na one of them too. But many Nigerians think it's just cruise but that's not true. My prayer na one day make our govt no go enact am say e go be normal thing. Brother you go run I swear

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DaddyCoool(f): 2:06pm On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:



I clearly understand how you feel about it but this same sex is happening rampant even in Nigeria here they are everywhere and a lot of people know nothing about this people. Example like Our man here Bob you no sabi say e na one of them too. But many Nigerians think it's just cruise but that's not true. My prayer na one day make our govt no go enact am say e go be normal thing. Brother you go run I swear

I don't think it's as rampant as you think AT ALL. Not in Nigeria or Africa. In the West, on the other hand, people are basically encouraged to come out as gay. Such that people who are going through a confused stage or just curious like you, mistakenly come out as gay! Even then they are never near 10% of their society.
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by LordIsaac(m): 3:52pm On Sep 22, 2024
It's only Buhari and APC that can answer that, not guys!
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by AfeezShomorin(m): 4:04pm On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:
It's a gay term to know the different roles they play. Like the Top is also called active that's the man fucking and doing the whole move. While the bottom also called passive is like the babe receiving. I have studied little about LGBTQ mostly Gay and sadly they are everywhere in the world and a lot of people are coming out as gay. These Gay people have a high sex drive and they are highly loyal to each other and this is the part that pisses me off. Gay loyalty is different from normal straight people. You can offer a girl in a serious relationship a big amount and some can be tempted to go Bleep that dick secretly but that can never happen in a gay relationship instead they will tell their partner about it and maybe if he likes the gay man they can go for a party and right after the sex they will dump him. My observation about this gay thing is they carry different types of terrible diseases you can imagine HIV etc and they also die lonely at old age. When they are old they always have this regret about it. Being gay also denies them a wife kids and family but most in the West adopt kids they raise as their own and they never allow this kid they raise to be Gay. They make sure they get married and have a normal life.


Some gays are cut and uncut. The cut and uncut means circumcised and uncircumcised. Some gay people like it cut and some uncut. The headquarters of Gay in Europe is Germany followed by the Netherlands and France. In these countries, you can find thousands of them and lately, they now have boys' bars and girls' bars in Europe. The only country that has a low number of gays in Europe is Poland and Sweden. These two countries have a large group of Homophobes, especially Poland. Sadly gay people are here to stay because the Western government has relaxed its laws to accommodate these people.

Recently I was having an argument with a friend about gay people based on my observation I argued with him that society contributes to creating Gay people and they disagreed with me and I gave him an example that there are some people who in society have low self-esteem or are not classy and they sometimes they don't get enough attention, for instance, there is a girl was behave like a grandma because she’s not good looking or not sexy and boys are not coming her way Nobody toast or ask her out. With time it will be eating her up because no man wants her because she's ugly or not attractive and a lesbian can notice this sign in this particular ugly girl and befriend her and start showing her love and care and with time she will feel comfortable with her and before you know she's a full-blown girl to a lesbian and that's how it goes both ways and this is my little observation about the causes of same-sex in the society.

Are you doing PhD in this topic?

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DaddyCoool(f): 10:47pm On Sep 22, 2024
Jamesmatic:



I clearly understand how you feel about it but this same sex is happening rampant even in Nigeria here they are everywhere and a lot of people know nothing about this people. Example like Our man here Bob you no sabi say e na one of them too. But many Nigerians think it's just cruise but that's not true. My prayer na one day make our govt no go enact am say e go be normal thing. Brother you go run I swear

Actually Bob is not gay. Check this out:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXDzg6Ymj_Y?si=C2c3WykIkcJM7t0R

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by correctguy101(m): 5:41am On Sep 23, 2024
Jamesmatic:



No way am a straight man I just like to do research and know stuff. Knowledge is power, my friend.


Knowledge is not power... Power is power... wink

Morning

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DeepSight(m): 2:44pm On Sep 23, 2024
correctguy101:



Knowledge is not power... Power is power... wink

Morning

. . . . Cersei Lannister to Ned Stark . . . . !

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DeepSight(m): 2:47pm On Sep 23, 2024
mmadu4:
does anyone know what it means?

Jamesmatic:
It's a gay term to know the different roles they play. Like the Top is also called active that's the man fucking and doing the whole move. While the bottom also called passive is like the babe receiving. I have studied little about LGBTQ mostly Gay and sadly they are everywhere in the world and a lot of people are coming out as gay. These Gay people have a high sex drive and they are highly loyal to each other and this is the part that pisses me off. Gay loyalty is different from normal straight people. You can offer a girl in a serious relationship a big amount and some can be tempted to go Bleep that dick secretly but that can never happen in a gay relationship instead they will tell their partner about it and maybe if he likes the gay man they can go for a party and right after the sex they will dump him. My observation about this gay thing is they carry different types of terrible diseases you can imagine HIV etc and they also die lonely at old age. When they are old they always have this regret about it. Being gay also denies them a wife kids and family but most in the West adopt kids they raise as their own and they never allow this kid they raise to be Gay. They make sure they get married and have a normal life.


Some gays are cut and uncut. The cut and uncut means circumcised and uncircumcised. Some gay people like it cut and some uncut. The headquarters of Gay in Europe is Germany followed by the Netherlands and France. In these countries, you can find thousands of them and lately, they now have boys' bars and girls' bars in Europe. The only country that has a low number of gays in Europe is Poland and Sweden. These two countries have a large group of Homophobes, especially Poland. Sadly gay people are here to stay because the Western government has relaxed its laws to accommodate these people.

Recently I was having an argument with a friend about gay people based on my observation I argued with him that society contributes to creating Gay people and they disagreed with me and I gave him an example that there are some people who in society have low self-esteem or are not classy and they sometimes they don't get enough attention, for instance, there is a girl was behave like a grandma because she’s not good looking or not sexy and boys are not coming her way Nobody toast or ask her out. With time it will be eating her up because no man wants her because she's ugly or not attractive and a lesbian can notice this sign in this particular ugly girl and befriend her and start showing her love and care and with time she will feel comfortable with her and before you know she's a full-blown girl to a lesbian and that's how it goes both ways and this is my little observation about the causes of same-sex in the society.

The terms can refer to a Dominant and Submissive in a BDSM/ Power/ Control Relationship.
The Top is the Dominant and the Bottom is the submissive.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Nazgul: 3:29pm On Sep 23, 2024
DeepSight:


. . . . Cersei Lannister to Ned Stark . . . . !
She said it to little finger (Lord Baelish) not Ned Stark. I enjoyed that series so much.

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by DeepSight(m): 3:39pm On Sep 23, 2024
Nazgul:

She said it to little finger (Lord Baelisg) not Ned Stark. I enjoyed that series so much.

Yes! Thats right!

The BEST series EVER in history!
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Dexlomo: 6:44pm On Sep 23, 2024
AfeezShomorin:


Are you doing PhD in this topic?

You want to do a PhD in it?
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Psych412(f): 6:56pm On Sep 23, 2024
Look at their comments....gays everywhere ☹️☹️

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by BareFacedLies(m): 8:35pm On Sep 23, 2024
It refers to faggóts, the top is the fucker while the bottom is the fuckee.

If you doubt me ask some of the faggóts we have on Nairaland eg Flamemignon1, Spagi, Anny69 etc

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Flamemignon1(m): 6:56am On Sep 24, 2024
Jamesmatic:
It's a gay term to know the different roles they play. Like the Top is also called active that's the man fucking and doing the whole move. While the bottom also called passive is like the babe receiving. I have studied little about LGBTQ mostly Gay and sadly they are everywhere in the world and a lot of people are coming out as gay. These Gay people have a high sex drive and they are highly loyal to each other and this is the part that pisses me off. Gay loyalty is different from normal straight people. You can offer a girl in a serious relationship a big amount and some can be tempted to go Bleep that dick secretly but that can never happen in a gay relationship instead they will tell their partner about it and maybe if he likes the gay man they can go for a party and right after the sex they will dump him. My observation about this gay thing is they carry different types of terrible diseases you can imagine HIV etc and they also die lonely at old age. When they are old they always have this regret about it. Being gay also denies them a wife kids and family but most in the West adopt kids they raise as their own and they never allow this kid they raise to be Gay. They make sure they get married and have a normal life.


Some gays are cut and uncut. The cut and uncut means circumcised and uncircumcised. Some gay people like it cut and some uncut. The headquarters of Gay in Europe is Germany followed by the Netherlands and France. In these countries, you can find thousands of them and lately, they now have boys' bars and girls' bars in Europe. The only country that has a low number of gays in Europe is Poland and Sweden. These two countries have a large group of Homophobes, especially Poland. Sadly gay people are here to stay because the Western government has relaxed its laws to accommodate these people.

Recently I was having an argument with a friend about gay people based on my observation I argued with him that society contributes to creating Gay people and they disagreed with me and I gave him an example that there are some people who in society have low self-esteem or are not classy and they sometimes they don't get enough attention, for instance, there is a girl was behave like a grandma because she’s not good looking or not sexy and boys are not coming her way Nobody toast or ask her out. With time it will be eating her up because no man wants her because she's ugly or not attractive and a lesbian can notice this sign in this particular ugly girl and befriend her and start showing her love and care and with time she will feel comfortable with her and before you know she's a full-blown girl to a lesbian and that's how it goes both ways and this is my little observation about the causes of same-sex in the society.
There's a whole lotta misinformation in this so I'm coming to answer them but I admire you for researching on something most people tend to ignore fueling ignorance and hate

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Flamemignon1(m): 7:06am On Sep 24, 2024
DaddyCoool:


I don't think it's as rampant as you think AT ALL. Not in Nigeria or Africa. In the West, on the other hand, people are basically encouraged to come out as gay. Such that people who are going through a confused stage or just curious like you, mistakenly come out as gay! Even then they are never near 10% of their society.
Nope, curiosity is different from identifying with a particular sexual orientation. A lot of gay people slept with the opposite gender just because they were curious to see if they liked it and they realized it wasn't for them, they still became gay and identified as such so Jamesmatic isn't gay just because he tried to research on the subject

Also, have you heard the phrase "no knowledge is wasted"? it's lack of education and ignorance on subjects about people that are different from you that continues to fuel hate. A long time ago, it was normal to slaughter twins in certain areas of Nigeria but education on the subject changed things

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by AfeezShomorin(m): 8:09am On Sep 24, 2024
Dexlomo:


You want to do a PhD in it?

Olorun ma je!

I have no interest whatsoever in the topic cos I find those guys disgusting!
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by Spagi(m): 8:46am On Sep 24, 2024
BareFacedLies:
It refers to faggóts, the top is the fucker while the bottom is the fuckee.

If you doubt me ask some of the faggóts we have on Nairaland eg Flamemignon1, Spagi, Anny69 etc
u are stupid

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Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by BareFacedLies(m): 9:13am On Sep 24, 2024
Spagi:
u are stupid

E pain am grin

Are you not a faggót?

You must be a 'bottom' wey dey collect your fellow man dick for nyash.

Let me know the size of diapers you wear so I can buy some and send to you grin
Re: Guys What Is The Meaning Of Top Or Bottom. by BareFacedLies(m): 9:26am On Sep 24, 2024
Flamemignon1:

Nope, curiosity is different from identifying with a particular sexual orientation. A lot of gay people slept with the opposite gender just because they were curious to see if they liked it and they realized it wasn't for them, they still became gay and identified as such so Jamesmatic isn't gay just because he tried to research on the subject

Also, have you heard the phrase "no knowledge is wasted"? it's lack of education and ignorance on subjects about people that are different from you that continues to fuel hate. A long time ago, it was normal to slaughter twins in certain areas of Nigeria but education on the subject changed things

Awon P. Diddy crew, I'm sure you have up to 5,000 bottles of baby oil and lube in your own apartment grin

Keep fooling yourself - no amount of education will ever make it normal and okay for a man to be fucking a fellow man through the asshole or wherever!!!

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