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Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by SKILLZ64(m): 1:05pm On Oct 07
Family issues after the death of my Calabar wife

Met at Lagos State NYSC Orientation Camp, Lagos, Nigeria.

After three months of courtship, she called me one morning to tell me that she was pregnant.

I asked her what her intention was. She said that because I didn’t have a job yet, she needed to go for an abortion.

I encouraged her to keep the pregnancy, telling her that I would love to meet both her mom and dad.

They both agreed that we would meet on a particular Sunday, which eventually happened.

I met her mom and dad.

Her dad became angry and furious with me for not paying her bride price. I promised that everything would be done as soon as possible and that I had a job.

A few months before the delivery, I got a job at one of the leading chartered banks in Nigeria, where I worked as one of their top managers.

On the delivery date, she passed away due to complications during the operation. After informing her parents, trouble started.

I was told I must go to the village with the corpse for a proper burial, not knowing they had an entirely different agenda.🥺🥺

All the expenses were paid by me.

On getting to the village, I was accused of using their daughter for rituals. 🥺🥺

It was a terrible experience for me because suddenly, both parents refused to accept her corpse and told my aunt that I needed to take the corpse to the village square myself for a night ritual.

🥺👁️😭😭

I was surrounded by elders, and they forced me to make love to the corpse if I claimed to have nothing to do with their daughter's death, which I refused.

Several things were done to me, including being offered Calabar water to bathe with and drink, which I rejected with all my strength.

My sister came to check on me and found me tied up with a rope.

I was overwhelmed with tears because there was no one to rescue me. After several struggles, one of my wife's friends in the village helped me escape, and I fled to Lagos. Since then, I have received many calls saying that if I didn’t do what they asked, something bad would happen to me within seven days.

Can somebody please advise me?🥺🙏🏻
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Mercylike: 2:04pm On Oct 07
Fake story...

Ignore them, it's all bluff if truly you didn't have a hand in Ur wife's death

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Factcheck0001: 2:37pm On Oct 07
SKILLZ64:
Family issues after the death of my Calabar wife

Met at Lagos State NYSC Orientation Camp, Lagos, Nigeria.

After three months of courtship, she called me one morning to tell me that she was pregnant.

I asked her what her intention was. She said that because I didn’t have a job yet, she needed to go for an abortion.

I encouraged her to keep the pregnancy, telling her that I would love to meet both her mom and dad.

They both agreed that we would meet on a particular Sunday, which eventually happened.

I met her mom and dad.

Her dad became angry and furious with me for not paying her bride price. I promised that everything would be done as soon as possible and that I had a job.

A few months before the delivery, I got a job at one of the leading chartered banks in Nigeria, where I worked as one of their top managers.

On the delivery date, she passed away due to complications during the operation. After informing her parents, trouble started.

I was told I must go to the village with the corpse for a proper burial, not knowing they had an entirely different agenda.🥺🥺

All the expenses were paid by me.

On getting to the village, I was accused of using their daughter for rituals. 🥺🥺

It was a terrible experience for me because suddenly, both parents refused to accept her corpse and told my aunt that I needed to take the corpse to the village square myself for a night ritual.

🥺👁️😭😭

I was surrounded by elders, and they forced me to make love to the corpse if I claimed to have nothing to do with their daughter's death, which I refused.

Several things were done to me, including being offered Calabar water to bathe with and drink, which I rejected with all my strength.

My sister came to check on me and found me tied up with a rope.

I was overwhelmed with tears because there was no one to rescue me. After several struggles, one of my wife's friends in the village helped me escape, and I fled to Lagos. Since then, I have received many calls saying that if I didn’t do what they asked, something bad would happen to me within seven days.

Can somebody please advise me?🥺🙏🏻

before I advise u, tell me d name of d movie first

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by spinna: 2:42pm On Oct 07
Mercylike:
Fake story...

Ignore them, it's all bluff if truly you didn't have a hand in Ur wife's death
Na una dey chop jolof rice still add stew on top

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Pootle: 4:38pm On Oct 07
spinna:

Na una dey chop jolof rice still add stew on top

i do add stew if available what does that hav to do with the fake story
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by We4all: 5:15pm On Oct 07
Lol...I laughed when I read the part that you were tied up. Didn't you go with any friend or family member to defend you? Before they tied you up, did they drug you?

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by ATEAMS: 7:28pm On Oct 07
Pity story
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Mom007(f): 8:20pm On Oct 07
You need to first fall on your knees and repent, asking God for mercy for your fornication wirh someone that was not your wife then fast and pray the whole 7 days , asking God for mercy and to save you from any arrows of death until those 7days are up and even beyond or else, you will experience first hand the power of village people!

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by sisisioge: 8:29pm On Oct 07
Oh dear! New graduate working as top manager in a chartered bank. You guys need to learn how to liken your fib stories to reality fa. I tire to waste time finishing the story. Goodluck.

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Nebes: 8:51pm On Oct 07
This story might sound somehow but I know someone that had a similar experience in Akwaibom. You better marry them properly before they die or face the trauma of their culture if they die while in a serious relationship with you.
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Farrason: 10:04pm On Oct 07
SKILLZ64:
Family issues after the death of my Calabar wife

Met at Lagos State NYSC Orientation Camp, Lagos, Nigeria.

After three months of courtship, she called me one morning to tell me that she was pregnant.

I asked her what her intention was. She said that because I didn’t have a job yet, she needed to go for an abortion.

I encouraged her to keep the pregnancy, telling her that I would love to meet both her mom and dad.

They both agreed that we would meet on a particular Sunday, which eventually happened.

I met her mom and dad.

Her dad became angry and furious with me for not paying her bride price. I promised that everything would be done as soon as possible and that I had a job.

A few months before the delivery, I got a job at one of the leading chartered banks in Nigeria, where I worked as one of their top managers.

On the delivery date, she passed away due to complications during the operation. After informing her parents, trouble started.

I was told I must go to the village with the corpse for a proper burial, not knowing they had an entirely different agenda.🥺🥺

All the expenses were paid by me.

On getting to the village, I was accused of using their daughter for rituals. 🥺🥺

It was a terrible experience for me because suddenly, both parents refused to accept her corpse and told my aunt that I needed to take the corpse to the village square myself for a night ritual.

🥺👁️😭😭

I was surrounded by elders, and they forced me to make love to the corpse if I claimed to have nothing to do with their daughter's death, which I refused.

Several things were done to me, including being offered Calabar water to bathe with and drink, which I rejected with all my strength.

My sister came to check on me and found me tied up with a rope.

I was overwhelmed with tears because there was no one to rescue me. After several struggles, one of my wife's friends in the village helped me escape, and I fled to Lagos. Since then, I have received many calls saying that if I didn’t do what they asked, something bad would happen to me within seven days.

Can somebody please advise me?🥺🙏🏻


U funny sha... U made it out alive and still dey ask for advise. Don't worry, make I give them your address.
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by flokii: 10:27pm On Oct 07
Ignore them. If possible get a laeyer and serve them lawsuit for voilating your fundamental human rights in the village.
Like why would they tie you with rope like a goat awaiting slaughter?.. wetin dey worry Calabar people sef?
Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by westlius(m): 10:39pm On Oct 07
I laffed when I saw from being a fresher in Nysc to be a manager in d bank under 9 month, its funny

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Re: Calabar Family Issues After The Death Of My Calabar Wife by Agentsalt: 10:47pm On Oct 08
Oga you no sabi lie...... angry

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