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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:14pm On Nov 23 |
fawaz050: Nope, if you check the lists, its basically consumables, and if the fuccker can not afford to get people entertained during his marriage, he can as well be gay. I see no reason for poor people to get married. Marriage is not a walk in the park. Cost money to raise a family. So its best for the poor to be gay. This is a factual suggestion not an insult. Poverty of families is the reason we have so many prostitutes. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:15pm On Nov 23 |
AlphaStyles: GO AND CHECK ALL THIS MUMU THREAD, IT IS USUALLY YORUBA MEN. IN THOSE PARTS DONT THEY GET MARRIED EVERYDAY? OR MARRIAGE DON STOP BECAUSE OF BRIDE PRICE? BRIDE PRICE IS WHERE WE SHOW OFF TO OUR INLAW, THEY GAIN CONFIDENCE IN A=OUR ABULITY TO LOOK AFTER THEIR DAUGHTER AND GRANDCHILDREN. THEY KNOW WE WORK HARD AND EARN A WAGE SUFFICIENT FOR THE TASK. MARRIAGE IS NOT FREE, IT IS NOT FOR THE UNEMPLYED OR BROKE TO CREATE NUSISANCE IN SOCIETY THAT WILL BE ON THE STREET BEGGING. IT IS FOR COMPETENT ESTABLISHED MEN 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by otherway: 5:15pm On Nov 23 |
It is either he doesn't love the lady or he is a broke ass fella. 3. 5M is not too much. But on the other side, only a virgin bride or a bride with very decent past deserves huge bride price in naija context. Before anybody quotes me, biko I'm not igbo. I'm yoruba and according to tradition, we don't collect huge bride price but I still believe 3.5 Million is not too much if the guy get money and most especially if the lady is worth it. Nah poverty cause am. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ednut1(m): 5:15pm On Nov 23 |
He was prepared to sponsor her education in uk which costs over 40m naira but cant pay 3.5m? If you love her just carry am go court and promise to come back for the list. Then run π 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Father4all: 5:15pm On Nov 23 |
The worst is, she isn't even a virgin 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Karleb(m): 5:15pm On Nov 23 |
I don't blame the bride's family. This economy is not easy. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by oluwaseyi0: 5:16pm On Nov 23 |
TheBillyonaire: The is just bride list item not the wedding event proper, at this rate the full wedding will cost him nothing less than 20m 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ceejay80s(m): 5:18pm On Nov 23 |
Sonnobax15:God aeg abi na God forbid |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:18pm On Nov 23 |
ednut1: WHO WILL GIVE HER TO U? U THINK THIS IS YOUR IYABO? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by gbengene1234(m): 5:18pm On Nov 23 |
They wrote at the bottom that it's negotiable. This doesn't call for instant breakup from someone who claims to have loved the daughter and want marriage. Well, if you ask me. The list is okay and I believe if bargained, it can be reduced to #1.7 - 2m at most. It's now left to your woman to persuade her family or she finds another suitor. Why are you even bothering yourself to cross tribal lines to marry when you can just find one of our sweet yoruba lady and impregnate her. Na the family go use their hand pack her load come your house. You will later be asked to pay dowry which would even be returned back to you in some years time. Some no dey bother to pay self. People use like to dey put themselves for wahala sha 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:18pm On Nov 23 |
lapintoz: That is the fact. If he is complaining of 3.5m, how much does think wedding costs? No woman deserves to meet such unfortunate man. They are looking for girls to sleep with at a cost of bread. He should be gay. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by oluwaseyi0: 5:18pm On Nov 23 |
Stolen: Did your father pay bride price twice? 500k to bride father and another 300k to bride mother? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ozo13(m): 5:19pm On Nov 23 |
The negotiable part got me laughing π€£. I think this stuffs are culture dependent.with 1M last year, I don finish my marriage. |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:19pm On Nov 23 |
oluwaseyi0: FOLAKE IS STILL THERE MARRYING FROM OTHER TRIBE IS AN EXCEPTION NOT THE NORM. U ARE STIL A FOREIGNER IN THOSE PARTS. U EITHER REPSECT THEIR CULTURE AND PERFORM THE MARRIAGE RITES AS THEY DO IT OR YOU STAY YOUR ASS IN YORUBLAND WITH ABIKE. IT IS VERY SIMPLE, IF YOU GO TO MARRY FULANI IN ADDITION TO BRIDE PRICE THEM GO USE KOBOKO TEAR YOUR BACK. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by EeyanMayweather(m): 5:19pm On Nov 23 |
Seems the guy already made up his mind to bail ππ |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ednut1(m): 5:20pm On Nov 23 |
Stolen:if she see visa to uk for ground you think she wonβt go I have seen it happen in real life many times. Most of them dey abroad now. So for your mind one use village elder you see maybe once in 3 years go stop u π 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by uuzba(m): 5:20pm On Nov 23 |
TheBillyonaire:So you are selling the girl? What if the family has a son? Will they sell him off too? Or suddenly, between the 2 children, boy and girl, their parents will love the girl and hate the boy? Explain your statement. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:21pm On Nov 23 |
oluwaseyi0: What is the parents business with wedding? The list clearly shows most of the items are consumables and he can go and buy those things by himself and he will realize that those drinks will not be enough for the guests. The wedding is his decision, the parents are not making money off this. I think the only reason anyone should give out their daughter is if she will be in position to assist them at old age. cos raising a daughter and training them to Uni, just for someone to take her away and complain of bride price is an insult. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 5:21pm On Nov 23 |
Lolππ€£ππ€£. That price is very much negotiable. Most of those items have cheaper substitutes 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:22pm On Nov 23 |
ednut1: THAT IS A DISRESPECT TO A CULTURE FROM WHERE YOU WENT TO MARRY. AND U WILL PAY DEARLY FOR IT, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER. MARRIAGE IS A FAIMILY NOT AN INDIVIDUAL. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by brownbib(m): 5:22pm On Nov 23 |
Poverty alleviation schemes everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Geonigga(m): 5:23pm On Nov 23 |
It might shock you that the said bride might even be a hook up girl in disguise 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Free2Fly: 5:23pm On Nov 23 |
Kinzo0917: Don't say rubbish about what you don't know 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:23pm On Nov 23 |
Bride price are high when the bride is in her early 20βs. |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by uuzba(m): 5:24pm On Nov 23 |
ednut1:At this rate, let Nigerian guys forget Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are expensive and useless. Do your runs, leave the country and marry outside. Cameroon, Niger, Benin Republic, Ghana. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Ekrenji: 5:24pm On Nov 23 |
TheBillyonaire:How are children the kids of men only and not their kids (both the man and the woman) When it comes to enjoying benefits of the children, you wonβt say that the children belong to only the man but when it comes to things like this you will say women give birth to children for men! 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:25pm On Nov 23 |
uuzba: Marriage is sells at a loss. Lets stop deceiving ourselves Bride Price = Cost Price of Bride Name Change = Change of Title, just like you change title on properties. Taking her away from family means, buyer takes product home. We are not charging accurate labor price point because we are against slave trade on humans. If you want to be like westerners which is better, we should not give or accept bride price, but as long as all the tribes in this country collectively agree to give and take 'bride price' it is sales at a discounted rate. That is a fact. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by EeyanMayweather(m): 5:26pm On Nov 23 |
BodePolScience:This is the reason why the guy is angry . The dude can probably afford it . Dude has weighed his options and decided itβs not worth it . I would too if I were in his shoes |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by IamHonourable1: 5:26pm On Nov 23 |
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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by APOPTOSIS: 5:27pm On Nov 23 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae:Unto cheap GirL abiiiiππ |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Free2Fly: 5:27pm On Nov 23 |
AntiChristian: Of course, there's no female head slammer there that you can marry, and the 'book of terror' forbids you from marrying "a woman of the book". So, it's quite understandable. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by APOPTOSIS: 5:28pm On Nov 23 |
The Question should be How do Bricklayers, Gravediggers and Palmwine Tappers in those communities get to marry 2 wives each? |
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