With the economic situation alot of people cannot get married. Stop putting pressure on people

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Abeg told dem jare. Watin woman dey do from her 20s come enter 35 years. The place go don block o.
Jokes apart, there are lots of complications due to women getting pregnant and bearing children late in age. It gets increasingly complicated after 40s. From genetic diseases to pregnancy complications.
The best child bearing age for women is late 20s to early 30s

Padipadi:

Avoid poverty first before thinking of age!
It's senselèss to marry in penury. That's what most people worldwide do. Marrying with little resources and rasing kids in hardship. If you don't have multiple birth, poor families gave no reason to have 3, 5, 6, 7 kids. Suffer dey sweet una ni?

Don’t mind him. Poor people usually console themselves with marriage and children. Most rich men and women I have seen are either divorced or not married.

35 is too early for a man.

Tallesty1:
I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.

I'm a guy, and you just described what happened to me during my early years. Today I'm crying

kingbee90:

It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.

Jobojobo werey boy

It depends on who is giving the advice. Let us be guided.

Who will marry a 35year old pussy?

Maybe Simps sha

Don't despise the day of little beginning. Wisdom is profitable to direct...be good in your character..be kind in all your doings..but most importantly the choice you make determines the outcome of where you find your self. In all put God first and all shall be well.

Too late cos all ur boobs must have gotten flat alongside ur pussy...so venture into single mother hood and let a man marry fresh virgin with standing boobs nipple. Enough of serving men with evening newspaper........

Marriage is overrated...a prison without 4 walls.

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Mumu, how old is Yul and Judy before they gave birth last year

Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely

you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.

Thanks for keeping the hope alive..
Pls help write this to my mom...

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Bushman mentality

ellizy:
Thanks for keeping the hope alive..
Pls help write this to my mom...

wetin she do? is she putting pressures on you?

Factcheck0001:
i get your point quite alright

But it's better a lady gets married early these days cos many now experience early menopause

Their menopause starts in their 30's

Am I sure I don't know this person

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Na lie abeg. Inam a nurse who dey tell you crap 😆

Wetin you come dey find with a side chick when your wife has the best pussy. Nawa o for you o..olojukokoro

Akalia:
you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.

Akalia:
you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.

You are still inexperienced

Merry100:


Most women aged 35 and older have healthy pregnancies and give birth to healthy children; however, the risks associated with childbearing do increase significantly for women aged 40 and above. Fortunately, advancements in technology have enabled women to take proactive steps to ensure healthy pregnancies or to preserve their eggs for future use. This approach is a better option than unplanned pregnancies.

It is ideal to wait until you are capable of caring for children before having them. The welfare of children should always be a priority. In fact, the government needs to take steps to address the issue of irresponsible parenting, as this could even help reduce the crime rate in the country. Many children from low-income families face malnutrition; some live on the streets, and some are even introduced to crime at an early age as a means of survival. In sane societies, children have the right to a safe and healthy upbringing.

When it comes to marriage, no one should pretend to know it all. One thing is very clear though - it's better to be unmarried than marry a person that will make life a living hell.

The reference to technology is good. Similar to solar energy, many reproductive technologies are available but too expensive for the average person. Especially in Nigeria where over 97% of the population can't afford a solar system, reproductive cryogenics or even a car for goodness sake. It's an impractical solution for almost ALL Nigerians resident in Nigeria. Even those in richer countries would struggle to pay for it today.

One of the biggest surprises most people find out in the USA is that pregnancy at age 33 and above is considered HIGH RISK. When it comes to childbirth, it's only when you have a bad outcome that OTHERS start confiding their own experiences. Doctors...when they're in their comfort zone with friends....will confide that the best time for pregnancy is late teens (let's say 18 for legal reasons) to 26. If you ask this same question to them as a patient or in an official capacity, they will say 18 is too young. So anyone that WANTS to have children needs to plan accordingly. Late or mid-life parenthood is most worthwhile if the parent is RICH, the negatives are still there but there's money to help.

And have in mind the reality stated below -

Tallesty1:
I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.

Very good comment. Thanks.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

For men, yes. For the other gender that betrayed the strongest man that ever liveth and seduced the wisest king and made him turn away from God, the answer is no.

35 is not too late. 37 is not too late. 40 is not too late. 45 sef is not too late. Ladies, don't listen to broke men telling you it's too late. I know two women in Nigeria with whose husbands cheat like dogs and don't provide. One has 4 kids, the other has 5. Neither of them have peace in their marriage. Peace of mind is more important than marrying wrong. If you're single and childfree woman in your 30s, you're in a better position than many people out there. Be prayerful, be happy, God will make a way.

pseudaria:


Am I sure I don't know this person

oya now

From where?

Or she can as well remain single for life or marry a fellow woman. It's not mandatory to marry.

With the way the world is going, anything 30 and above is a dangerous age for women to get married, this is not because of age alone but because the marital pool becomes filthy and the best candidates are looking to pick up under 30 women. Let's now add the fact that after 30, a woman's eggs continue to decrease drastically in quantity and quality as confirmed by IVF specialists all over the world.

So as a guy, why would you want to marry a woman over 35 unless you yourself is second hand market with some type of defect or you've been married before?

For the woman, unless you've opened your mind to the possibility of being a life long single woman, it is better to learn the art of multitasking while still young. Who told you that you can't chase money and a man at the same time? Do not fall for the trap of women who wasted their youth being nonchalant and then trying to console themselves that it is okay not to be married at 35 as long as money dey......NA LIE!

50 is not too late for marriage. Do you know how young and attractive the 50s are today at all? Time moves faster in this generation; today na new year, tomorrow na another new year and you go just dey the same way wey you dey 5 years ago you still dey like that.If you no waka you no go see anything

opinion though

The thread topic needs to be 'gendered', properly addressed to women.

All I see is somebody(OP) trying to console themselves

They say misery loves company

If you like as a lady nor use your sense. Allow them convince you to take wrong steps. Na you go cry "had-i-known" later.

yusufu16:


Marriage is not all about children. You can marry early and not have kids. I have seen many people spend over 10 years before getting their first child.

There are many things in this life that you don’t have control of. Just live your life and be happy and expect the best. Don’t force what you cannot change.

Don't mind the myopic guy.

DAramis:

wetin she do? is she putting pressures on you?

Omo like say she never see children before..
Ans me knw dey like all this things get much better in marriage..
I can aggord to feed a family conveniently but there's more to marriage that the little I have at hand presently