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35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 12:32pm On Nov 23

I advise you to strive for your own financial independence as a woman. Even if you plan to marry a wealthy man, you may still face several disadvantages, as a man can be wealthy yet uncaring and stingy.

Here are a few steps to take:

1. Avoid all forms of distractions during your youth; success should be your only goal. In fact, don't start dating until you are twenty-four or twenty-five, unless you achieve success before then.

2. Either remain celibate or use very effective contraceptives to avoid pregnancy. No matter what you do, try as much as possible to prevent unplanned pregnancies.

3. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you; wait until you are established and successful enough to get married.

Here are a few disadvantages of rushing into marriage as a woman:

1. While you should be comfortably managing your responsibilities, you will end up viewing them as burdens.

2. Your children will not receive the best care.

3. Your husband might perceive you as a burden.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 12:40pm On Nov 23

DINK

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Lonestar124: 2:09pm On Nov 23

35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Ps: the truth is bitter, chew it!!!

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ThaThinka: 2:59pm On Nov 23

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

So, what if the person hadn't been lucky to find someone suitable at a younger age? I know at least a couple of such.

And another thing: God has the final say! We've heard of middle-aged women giving birth to healthy children, even back in those days.

Everyone don't always get what they want at their desired time. That's life and God knows best.

Well, the story might be different for people who kept marriage on hold when presented with perfect opportunities sha.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Tallesty1(m): 3:07pm On Nov 23

ThaThinka:

So, what if the person hadn't been lucky to find someone suitable at a younger age? I know at least a couple of such.

And another thing: God has the final say! We've heard of middle-aged women giving birth to healthy children, even back in those days.

Everyone don't always get what they want at their desired time. That's life and God knows best.

Well, the story might be different for people who kept marriage on hold when presented with perfect opportunities sha.

I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by AishaDant(f): 3:11pm On Nov 23

OP, thank you for this post. 👍

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Super33999: 3:13pm On Nov 23

If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 4:05pm On Nov 23

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Which forefathers are you referring to? Are you talking about the ones who referred to people with sickle cell anemia as "Abiku"? We have advanced significantly beyond our forefathers, and our understanding has evolved.

Most women aged 35 and older have healthy pregnancies and give birth to healthy children; however, the risks associated with childbearing do increase significantly for women aged 40 and above. Fortunately, advancements in technology have enabled women to take proactive steps to ensure healthy pregnancies or to preserve their eggs for future use. This approach is a better option than unplanned pregnancies.

It is ideal to wait until you are capable of caring for children before having them. The welfare of children should always be a priority. In fact, the government needs to take steps to address the issue of irresponsible parenting, as this could even help reduce the crime rate in the country. Many children from low-income families face malnutrition; some live on the streets, and some are even introduced to crime at an early age as a means of survival. In sane societies, children have the right to a safe and healthy upbringing.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Samantha125(f): 5:31pm On Nov 23

I know two women who naturally had their last born children while in their 50s and the children are healthy.

So having children over the age of 40 might be risky, but it's still possible.

Or the woman can decide to have her eggs frozen until she's found the right man and then have a surrogate carry the children for her... We are far more wiser than our forefathers with the kind of technology we have today.

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by kingbee90: 6:15pm On Nov 23

Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely

It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Super33999: 6:18pm On Nov 23

kingbee90:

It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.

I got good looks and I honestly have been with all sorts of women... Those younger and those much older than me... Some of us are that lucky grin

Woe betide me to settle down with any female above 27.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by advanceDNA: 7:48pm On Nov 23

.women don start to dey advise their fellow women to be celibate and make their own money??

I never thought this day would come on nairaland....

Nlfpmod come and see something

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by PerfectStranger(m): 8:12pm On Nov 23

Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by AngelicDamsel(f): 9:40pm On Nov 23

Advice don too plenty nowadays

Everybody wants everybody to be like them to feel better. Meanwhile,

Iamblessed85:

Wow. You know this too?

I’ve always said every unsolicited advice does not come from a place of care of concern. It’s a wicked and manipulative act meant to:

1. Get people to be like you so that you can justify your own choices and feel like you did the right thing.

2. Make people feel like you are ahead of them especially if the advice is meant to get people to do what you’ve done.

3. Protect your own worldview and choices by projecting it on others.

If that person takes your advice and becomes better than you, jealousy would kick in, meaning you were never truly interested in their progress.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ThaThinka: 9:57pm On Nov 23

Tallesty1:
I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.

You're right. But I still believe there are some who were unlucky. For example, those who spent many years with men whom they thought cared but who really didn't.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by princeade86(m): 10:07pm On Nov 23

Ur choice

Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Melagros(m): 10:09pm On Nov 23

COMRADES, even 40 is never late for marriage, when you are fully prepared then you can go for it

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Factcheck0001: 10:09pm On Nov 23

ThaThinka:

So, what if the person hadn't been lucky to find someone suitable at a younger age? I know at least a couple of such.

And another thing: God has the final say! We've heard of middle-aged women giving birth to healthy children, even back in those days.

Everyone don't always get what they want at their desired time. That's life and God knows best.

Well, the story might be different for people who kept marriage on hold when presented with perfect opportunities sha.

i get your point quite alright

But it's better a lady gets married early these days cos many now experience early menopause

Their menopause starts in their 30's

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by omooba969(m): 10:09pm On Nov 23

Yes ooo!

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by oluseyiforjesus(m): 10:09pm On Nov 23

Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Padipadi: 10:10pm On Nov 23

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Avoid poverty first before thinking of age!
Gather financial security to a comfortable and realistic stage.
It's senselèss to marry in penury. That's what most people worldwide do. Marrying with little resources and rasing kids in hardship. If you don't have multiple birth, poor families have no reason to have 3, 5, 6, 7 kids. Suffer dey sweet una ni?
No award in who sabi born pass naa?

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Sonnobax15(m): 10:10pm On Nov 23

Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Hemanwel(m): 10:10pm On Nov 23

OP, 35 years isn't too old to marry o; but I'm sure you wouldn't want to imagine the mileage a 35-year-old pussy has gone. So, na you wan kor carry that kind 'bad market' put for house??

At least, if you wan chow kponmo, chow the one wey get levo.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by PulaPower: 10:10pm On Nov 23

But why even getting married?

Men don’t need it..

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Douglad: 10:11pm On Nov 23

Oboy Marry at 15 or 55 if e hungry u as far say you no born bastards wey go loiter for street cos of hunger wey go grow up become arm robbers, murderers and terrorists

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by owiko(m): 10:13pm On Nov 23

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Basiljoe: 10:13pm On Nov 23

The WALL: "Increasingly "career women" desiring to finally start a family at age 35 find that men in their age range (33-38) are interested in the 22 year olds who wouldn’t give them the time of day when they didn’t have the status that they’ve just discovered they now have." RM

“By the age of 27 women’s SMV decline has begun in earnest.” - Rational Male

“By age 36 the average man has reached his own relative SMV apex. It’s at this phase that his sexual / social / professional appeal has reached maturity.” - Rational Male

"However, it is important for a Man to bear in mind that his SMV (Sexual market value) will eventually exceed that of any woman if he continues to improve himself and grows personally, physically and financially into his SMV peak years." - Rational Male

“This represents men’s slow build SMV as they become more valuable by metrics of physical prowess, social gravity, status, maturity, affluence, influence, and hopefully dominance.” - Rational Male

“Since a man’s SMV is rooted in his personal accomplishments, his SMV degradation has much more potential for preservation. Women’s SMV burns hot and short, but men’s burns slow and long.” - Rational Male

“She must be able to keep him ignorant of his SMV potential long enough to optimize her hypergamy.” - Rational Male

“In men’s case, his imperative is to awaken to his SMV (or his potential of it) before he has made life-altering decisions based on a lack understanding his potential.” - Rational Male

Last but not the least:
"As with all Red Pill truths, the awareness of where one fits into the scheme of the SMP, and accepting the sometimes cruel realities of it can be a bucket of cold reality for men (and women)." - RM

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by yusufu16: 10:13pm On Nov 23

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

Marriage is not all about children. You can marry early and not have kids. I have seen many people spend over 10 years before getting their first child.

There are many things in this life that you don’t have control of. Just live your life and be happy and expect the best. Don’t force what you cannot change.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by PheelzAlmighty: 10:13pm On Nov 23

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by OPICANTO2223: 10:15pm On Nov 23

35 without a child is too late. 35 with a child is a goal. So many divorced or bereaved husbands are seriously scratching for women to marry and won't like going through the process of wedding again

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