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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 5:57pm On Nov 24
lendahand:
not true
Make research online you'd know
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Hotspurs: 6:00pm On Nov 24
Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely
how can sex be the primary reason
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 6:02pm On Nov 24
Franzinni:
Men do want single mothers ... For fun.

Simps is what you are misconstruing for men ... There is a difference.

Men don't want damaged women only simps do.
only poor men talk about simp and all that. You're a dead broke yahoo man grin
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 6:03pm On Nov 24
wirinet:

Abeg in which country are all 35 year old men billionaires in dollars? In fact how many billionaires in dollars are there in the entire globe? How many millionaires even?
What is the strength of the Nigerian economy thar will be producing billionaires and millionaires in dollars? What are we selling or producing - yahoo yahoo?
in which country 35 years old ladies should have grandchildren
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 6:04pm On Nov 24
princeabdul:
use dollars to wipe your tears
go make money abi yahoo no pay you again grin
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 6:05pm On Nov 24
NewDelhi:

The way you carry this matter for head so. Its like you have a sister who is 35 and unmarried.
my only sister is married long ago. Na you wey broke dey talk about women i pity
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Hotspurs: 6:05pm On Nov 24
Factcheck0001:
i get your point quite alright

But it's better a lady gets married early these days cos many now experience early menopause

Their menopause starts in their 30's
but whats the reason for the early menopause
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by wirinet(m): 6:27pm On Nov 24
Hotspurs:
but whats the reason for the early menopause
Stress of modern life and diet full of sugar, additives and harmful preservatives.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 6:39pm On Nov 24
Yemike:
Your own forefathers refer to sicke cell as abiku. Abiku is different entirely from sickle cell. Perhaps you want to type olokunrun.
I am so tired; I can't school you right now, try to do your own research.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 6:55pm On Nov 24
Villa12:
my cousin sister got married at 37 to a 40 years old man doing fine for himself. Only on social media men don't want single mothers, 35+ single girls, divorced women, widow etc. It is a different thing in real life

Lmaoooo....now I see why you are so ticked off....

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Loveenthed: 7:22pm On Nov 24
The standard bar have been raised to 40 Years exclusively for men.

As a man, If you are from a struggling background, Strive and make sure you are financially stable before you venture into Marriage.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:25pm On Nov 24
Akalia:
you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.

πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
This old man don scatter table...
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Loveenthed: 7:28pm On Nov 24
Akalia:
you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.

Different VehiclesπŸ˜‚

Different MileagesπŸ˜‚
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by adedayoa2(f): 7:37pm On Nov 24
princeabdul:
cry more please
why should I cry for your ignorance, to think you're even flaunting it. Better learn
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 8:03pm On Nov 24
Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely
35, sugar mummy?

Many people like you do not fully understand what relationships entail and are being misled by the media. If you conduct proper research, you will discover that many men, including those of high status, are still marrying women in their 30s.

Most men prioritize qualities such as maturity, physical appearance, intelligence, compatibility, and social connections - which can encompass sexual performance - over age.

Beauty, youthful appearance, and sexual appeal are not confined by age; they can be found in women of all age groups.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by NewDelhi(m): 8:11pm On Nov 24
Villa12:
my only sister is married long ago. Na you wey broke dey talk about women i pity
See who dey call person broke cry.

Insulting another man's innocent kids when you earn 40k monthly as salary...They suppose tie you with rope and throw you inside Atlantic ocean

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Yemike(m): 8:13pm On Nov 24
Merry100:

I am so tired; I can't school you right now, try to do your own research.
When you shower and eat ask the ancestors around you they'll explain better hmm?
A woman that's her kid is always going back on the 8th day is a result of sicke cell? Saheed osupa don finish word for his song, olaju ti ba gbogbo nkan je walahi.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Franzinni: 8:38pm On Nov 24
Villa12:
only poor men talk about simp and all that. You're a dead broke yahoo man grin
never did yahoo even though I know what to do ... So you failed with that assumption, secondly calling me broke, is a very girly thing to do, men don't do that especially when you don't know me and your entire family has never contributed a dime to my existence... You are not in the caliber of people that can say things like that to me ... I am not dangote but I am very comfortable with my existence and I doubt you can say the same about yours. Now it is simps, the captain save a hoes, the stuck in childhood type of male human beings such as yourself that are the judASSES of manhood and funny enough women only tolerate your kind and use you till a man comes along. So if you need to insult me dot use material things find something that really matters.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by kingbee90: 10:30pm On Nov 24
MrSly:

Marriage is not about pussy.
I think you should tell this to the kid who created this thread and in his writeup, he clearly says that marriage is all about pussy. Go read up!
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Konquest: 11:30pm On Nov 24
Samantha125:
Wait, are you a fertility specialist or you're just curious about the whole surrogacy thing? If you don't mind me asking.
Samantha, how's it going? I'm NOT but I've got a deep knowledge of the goings on in that fertility and surrogacy ecosystem for years. My biological mother was in the medical field and I read her medical books when I was much younger. I also have a couple of relatives who are medical specialists as well. So, these sequence of events triggered my curiosity to learn more about trends in the medical space.

Ciao.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Super33999: 5:45am On Nov 25
Merry100:

35, sugar mummy?

Many people like you do not fully understand what relationships entail and are being misled by the media. If you conduct proper research, you will discover that many men, including those of high status, are still marrying women in their 30s.

Most men prioritize qualities such as maturity, physical appearance, intelligence, compatibility, and social connections - which can encompass sexual performance - over age.

Beauty, youthful appearance, and sexual appeal are not confined by age; they can be found in women of all age groups.

Hope you've consoled yourself. I hope you use your time well
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 6:55am On Nov 25
Franzinni:
never did yahoo even though I know what to do ... So you failed with that assumption, secondly calling me broke, is a very girly thing to do, men don't do that especially when you don't know me and your entire family has never contributed a dime to my existence... You are not in the caliber of people that can say things like that to me ... I am not dangote but I am very comfortable with my existence and I doubt you can say the same about yours. Now it is simps, the captain save a hoes, the stuck in childhood type of male human beings such as yourself that are the judASSES of manhood and funny enough women only tolerate your kind and use you till a man comes along. So if you need to insult me dot use material things find something that really matters.
only poor men uses simp in his statement. No one is the cause of your poverty. If you like shout simp from now till forever, men wey get money still dey spend on women and marriage dey happen every Saturday. Na poverty dey do you and your fellow poor alpha grin
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Franzinni: 7:03am On Nov 25
Villa12:
only poor men uses simp in his statement. No one is the cause of your poverty. If you like shout simp from now till forever, men wey get money still dey spend on women and marriage dey happen every Saturday. Na poverty dey do you and your fellow poor alpha grin
You can decorate a gorilla all you want ... It is still a gorilla.

Women don't like simps anyway let baltazar be a good reffrence... Mr rich SIMP.

You can spend all you want for women it doesn't bother me, because, it's your money and your life, it doesn't change the fact that you are a simp. Haha poverty he says... The only thing simps use as defense haha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Poverty ? Hahahaha. With time Sha ... Maturity comes with time.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Solcampbell: 7:24am On Nov 25
Gerrard59:

An interesting observation you have made there. This is the kind of study I would put my money into: the study into the supposed divergence between Northern Nigerian women and their counterparts in the south during late childbearing. Or phrased as: "Are there more childbirth deformities as a result of late childbearing in the south than in the north? If yes, why?"

As for birth rates, yes, the birth rate is higher in the north than in the south. I recalled when I stated so a few months ago but was rebuffed. lol.

Link (free-to-read): https://archive.md/3UMVL


Good morning.

Ofcourse there are birth defects Boss. But it's very rare. The most I've seen are that of polio, which is not exactly a birth defect. Still births are far more common.

Perhaps when it comes to birth defects other factors might come to play aside age of the women.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Solcampbell: 8:05am On Nov 25
lendahand:
those northern women, what's their secret for smooth child bearing??

Good morning
I believe their lifestyle could be a major contributing factor. Majority of the northerners still strongly maintain traditional and religious values. I'd say about 90 percent of northern women wait until marriage to lose thier virginity.

Even when they get married, northeners still frown at birth control pills and methods. We all know that.

Generally speaking, It has been suggested that hormonal contraceptives, abortion pills could interfere with a woman's fertility in the future.

You see, it's not just about the eggs released every month, there's also an intricate web of reproductive system and every part play a role in fertility and birth.

Also, the regular food people eat might influence their overall health and immunity. The core and improverished north consume fresh and locally source food which are still nutrient-dense. This is way better than junk food and sugary snacks.

Honestly, I've never met or heard of a hausa woman with fibroids. But that doesn't mean they're non-existent.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 8:34am On Nov 25
Super33999:


Hope you've consoled yourself. I hope you use your time well
Sabi, why you dey cry? Shey my wristwatch dey on top your head, abi how the way I use my time go affect you? No be me go marry you now.

No deceive yourself, I no need console, I no even dey follow you cry before. Na you sabi wetin you lose.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Villa12(m): 8:54am On Nov 25
Franzinni:
You can decorate a gorilla all you want ... It is still a gorilla.

Women don't like simps anyway let baltazar be a good reffrence... Mr rich SIMP.

You can spend all you want for women it doesn't bother me, because, it's your money and your life, it doesn't change the fact that you are a simp. Haha poverty he says... The only thing simps use as defense haha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Poverty ? Hahahaha. With time Sha ... Maturity comes with time.
Nobody is the cause of your poverty. Marriage still holds every Saturday across the 36 state of Nigeria and FCT. Guys still spend on their babes. Channel your energy to something productive.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100: 9:50am On Nov 25
incogni2o:


Problem with you guys is that you lack good Home management skills.

It's normal for a Man to be frugal with spending money in the house cos that's one of the ways to achieve a sustainable spending at home.

Wjy not rather cultivate habits and skills that the Man would appreciate in you as a wife who can cope in any financial situation, You prefer to be an independent woman who isn't virtuous enough to take direction from the husband about money management

The fact is that waiting till 35 doesn't make you enjoy your home any better.

It might just increase your conceited attitude as a person.

The Man is the Head and should always be in the position to direct the home.
Ladies, you better avoid guys like this. Don't marry them in the name of "I want to marry a Christian brother". I no even blame this guy, na Nigerian pastors dey build narcissistic human beings like him.

Pastors should just consider focusing more on topics such as faith, righteousness, and other areas in which they have deep knowledge, rather than on marriage, because they have not yet fully grasped the true dynamics of marriage, they are merely laying down principles that are not rooted in Scripture.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 10:22am On Nov 25
Solcampbell:

Good morning.

Ofcourse there are birth defects Boss. But it's very rare. The most I've seen are that of polio, which is not exactly a birth defect. Still births are far more common.
Perhaps when it comes to birth defects other factors might come to play aside age of the women.
That is what the study aims to know. Thanks anyway for the observation. I have noted it and hope to find out the reason(s).
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Franzinni: 11:06am On Nov 25
Villa12:
Nobody is the cause of your poverty. Marriage still holds every Saturday across the 36 state of Nigeria and FCT. Guys still spend on their babes. Channel your energy to something productive.
yeah you keep bringing silly excuses ... I didn't tell you that guys are not getting married ... I don't think you are processing your thought properly ... If you get married but you are a simp before you marry ... You are still a simp ... At first you said ... I am broke, then you said I am in poverty , then now you are saying guys are getting married haha you see your thoughts pattern πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ a proper simp. If you marry with your money how does it affect me ? Haha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you go learn
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 11:34am On Nov 25
Solcampbell:


Good morning
I believe their lifestyle could be a major contributing factor. Majority of the northerners still strongly maintain traditional and religious values. I'd say about 90 percent of northern women wait until marriage to lose thier virginity. Even when they get married, northeners still frown at birth control pills and methods. We all know that. Generally speaking, It has been suggested that hormonal contraceptives, abortion pills could interfere with a woman's fertility in the future. You see, it's not just about the eggs released every month, there's also an intricate web of reproductive system and every part play a role in fertility and birth. Also, the regular food people eat might influence their overall health and immunity. The core and improverished north consume fresh and locally source food which are still nutrient-dense. This is way better than junk food and sugary snacks.
Honestly, I've never met or heard of a hausa woman with fibroids. But that doesn't mean they're non-existent.
Food was the first thing that came to my mind after I saw your initial post.

Na time sha and soon the article would be published.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by DarkJeddi(m): 11:52am On Nov 25
Samantha125:
Some younger women still have miscarriages, die during labour or even give birth to deformed babies due to complications during pregnancy.

A relative of mine died while in labour and she was only 22 years old and a friend of mine who got married at the age of 20 was only able to have one child since her marriage... She'd keep having miscarriages whenever they try for another child and she's now in her late 20s... Even with the first child, she had complications during her pregnancy.

You preferring younger women doesn't mean women in their 30s and 40s still can't have healthy children.
Like I said,the exception doesn't mean the rule is untrue..

That some young women have deformed children doesn't mean the general rule doesn't still apply..

That some young women are having miscarriages and are unable to get pregnant,still doesn't nullify the general facts..

Your best eggs are the first to ovulate,the more you wait to start a family the more you are left with low quality and potentially defective eggs and the more difficult it is to get pregnant..

And yes, being younger leaves you at a better advantage to survive complications of pregnancy..

These are scientifically and clinically proven facts..

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