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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Lacash: 2:10pm On Dec 10, 2024
Fahvvy:
The werey is looking for someone to challenge her, as if those people have their time or even know of her existence grin...

Women if you know you cannot submit, then don't marry the man, cause SUBMISSION TO YOUR HUSBAND IS AN UNCONDITIONAL REQUIREMENT undecided...
Maybe she should call the customer care number for a lengthy talk or contact the Guinness Book of records for a new Thorn challenge ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by tiswell(m): 2:12pm On Dec 10, 2024
immortalcrown:
Hype someone else.
Thou art sava.gery cool

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by sonofsteven: 2:17pm On Dec 10, 2024
Anny69:
Correction: Men do not deserve submission.

Then why marry if you can't do that?

If he doesn't love you, why marry him

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by criuze(m): 2:18pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
I once tried to be a good submissive woman to my man and he said I'm boring... I'd even kneel down when giving him something to eat.

That's a reverse psychology

Submission literally mean yielding to desires

And if he enjoys you barking at him, then you do that

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Gboom: 2:18pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
It's like you men don't know what you want... What is your definition of submission?
Madam, submission has diversities, and it varies from marriages to marriages. For instance, if you are the type that when your husband is trying to correct you on your bad attitude and you are disregarding him, you are not submissive, or your husband rejected reckless financial demands and you begin to show attitude instead of reasoning with his decision, you are not submissive or your husband does not like your type of friends and you are bent not to leave them, you are not submissive or you are the type that engages your husband on an unnecessary arguments, you are not submissive or you are the type that lambast your husband anyhow publicly, you are not submissive.
The topmost of this is denying your husband the conjugal rights, some women only give in to sex, when they want it but when the man demands for it and this is cause of adultery in many marriages. Any woman that is behaving like this is not submissive

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Karleb(m): 2:18pm On Dec 10, 2024
I don't even care about the topic, but Enche's wife should shut up.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by NOETHNICITY(m): 2:25pm On Dec 10, 2024
They married you while you have already since been disvirgined by โ€˜only God knows whomโ€™. And you still want all the love in the world. Nonsense

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Lifemanage: 2:29pm On Dec 10, 2024
maziude:


This is very shallow.

Comparing a job relationship to marriage is the highest form of irresponsibility.
Deeply thought. It's the genesis of almost all divorces. When a partner feels equal to the other, One dies off.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by femi4: 2:31pm On Dec 10, 2024
Merry100:
Not all men deserve submission.
Not all women deserve to be love

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by spencekat(m): 2:36pm On Dec 10, 2024
Truvelisback:
Submission is a must. If you aren't ready for that, don't get marry.
Well said.

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by AfDapone: 2:37pm On Dec 10, 2024
Anny69:
Correction: Men do not deserve submission.

Then never accept the marriage proposal.

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by WHITELIGHTER: 2:39pm On Dec 10, 2024
Not all women deserve love, provision and protection.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by RexTramadol1: 2:40pm On Dec 10, 2024
Merry, are you in your matrimonial home?
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Stevenbright(m): 2:40pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
I once tried to be a good submissive woman to my man and he said I'm boring... I'd even kneel down when giving him something to eat.

You are right! Although this applies to some relationships not all and not a gender base issue too!

Just be yourself around your spouse and you will surely get such comments: You are boring, you are not fun to be with, you presence dulls me, you are not romantic, I don't like your vibes, .....

That is why it is good to act out in crazy manners towards them and put them on the edge most of the times and laugh at them in your closet later on.

It is one of the reasons why some ladies prefer men that treats them badly...
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by spencekat(m): 2:41pm On Dec 10, 2024
Chibuzoc:
Na woman wey submit, man suppose love

๐Ÿ‘
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Samantha125(f): 2:44pm On Dec 10, 2024
I was hyping him like he's the king of UK... But he told me to stop.
Lifemanage:

Submission is an attitude. Hyping the boss
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Samantha125(f): 2:47pm On Dec 10, 2024
I'm sure your brothers would beg to differ.
criuze:


That's a reverse psychology

Submission literally mean yielding to desires

And if he enjoys you barking at him, then you do that
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Samantha125(f): 2:52pm On Dec 10, 2024
So basically what you're saying is that couples shouldn't have differences in their marriage and the wife should just agree to everything her husband says without asking questions or having an opinion?
Gboom:

Madam, submission has diversities, and it varies from marriages to marriages. For instance, if you are the type that when your husband is trying to correct you on your bad attitude and you are disregarding him, you are not submissive, or your husband rejected reckless financial demands and you begin to show attitude instead of reasoning with his decision, you are not submissive or your husband does not like your type of friends and you are bent not to leave them, you are not submissive or you are the type that engages your husband on an unnecessary arguments, you are not submissive or you are the type that lambast your husband anyhow publicly, you are not submissive.
The topmost of this is denying your husband the conjugal rights, some women only give in to sex, when they want it but when the man demands for it and this is cause of adultery in many marriages. Any woman that is behaving like this is not submissive

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Samantha125(f): 2:58pm On Dec 10, 2024
I don't need to act crazy when I'm around my man to be fun... I'm just myself... Already I knew that he's not the traditional type and I was just testing him to see his reaction.

And I'd never prefer a man who treats me badly because my father never treated my mother badly.
Stevenbright:


You are right! Although this applies to some relationships not all and not a gender base issue too!

Just be yourself around your spouse and you will surely get such comments: You are boring, you are not fun to be with, you presence dulls me, you are not romantic, I don't like your vibes, .....

That is why it is good to act out in crazy manners towards them and put them on the edge most of the times and laugh at them in your closet later on.

It is one of the reasons why some ladies prefer men that treats them badly...

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by TheFinesseKid: 3:00pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
I once tried to be a good submissive woman to my man and he said I'm boring... I'd even kneel down when giving him something to eat.
stop exaggerating.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by 1Sharon(f): 3:03pm On Dec 10, 2024
BoldBrainz:


So you left the subject matter to focus on the yammering of the reading public? Smh.

No be your fellow men dey yammer?
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by 1Sharon(f): 3:04pm On Dec 10, 2024
advanceDNA:


U even gave reason for her?? Lol..

... It's not even a religious or biblical law.. this is modern times...a lot of husbands and wives dont care about these stuffs anymore.....

Divorce is a possibility in every marriage[b]...why on earth will one person be changing name ..[/b].

Keep lying to yourself. I'm sure your wife bears your surname.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by AutoChick4U(f): 3:06pm On Dec 10, 2024
Omoawoke:
Not all women deserve marriage
not all men deserve a woman
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:07pm On Dec 10, 2024
Do not marry a man you cannot submit to. It is non-negotiable.

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Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Silentgroper(m): 3:08pm On Dec 10, 2024
AutoChick4U:
not all men deserve a woman
what is the impostance of a woman to a man's life barr sexual pleasure
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by AutoChick4U(f): 3:08pm On Dec 10, 2024
Truvelisback:
Submission is a must. If you aren't ready for that, don't get marry.
Providing is a must too. Any man who can't sufficiently provide should not marry.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by AutoChick4U(f): 3:09pm On Dec 10, 2024
Silentgroper:
what is the impostance of a woman to a man's life barr sexual pleasure
Go ask God
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Psoul(m): 3:11pm On Dec 10, 2024
Merry100:
Not all men deserve submission.

That quinmary or whatever she calls her little self is not wise at all and may not be happy in marriage unless she will marry a sidon dey look kind of man.

You are waiting for a man to show genuine love before u becomes submissive to him.
What is the same man starts waiting for you to be submissive before he shows the love.
Don't ever try bn in a relationship with the man u can not be submissive to and a man need not do anything with a woman he is not in love with.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Stevenbright(m): 3:12pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
I don't need to act crazy when I'm around my man to be fun... I'm just myself... Already I knew that he's not the traditional type and I was just testing him to see his reaction.

And I'd never prefer a man who treats me badly because my father never treated my mother badly.

Good.

Although I wasn't telling you to follow my suggestion but just stating my general observation and how it can be mitigated.
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Gboom: 3:12pm On Dec 10, 2024
Samantha125:
So basically what you're saying is that couples shouldn't have differences in their marriage and the wife should just agree to everything her husband says without asking questions or having an opinion?
In as much husband and wife has individual traits, there is no way you can rule out differences, but harmony can be achieved by 'goat and sheep' theory.
Majority of submissive women influence their husband decision some many times with little or no resistance from the men. If are you the type that is authoritative in your opinion, the man may not give in or pretend to accept in the interest of peace
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by Silentgroper(m): 3:16pm On Dec 10, 2024
AutoChick4U:
Go ask God


So should you...
Re: Not All Men Deserve Submission by djon78(m): 3:19pm On Dec 10, 2024
Omoawoke:


No one is forcing you to marry madam.
Stay single until you find the person that will give you genuine love the way you fantasize it


The koko be say most of modern women don't really submit

Infact many of them carry secret resentment and animosity for Men

Especially those that there fathers treated there mothers wrongfully or those there married friends are experiencing bad handling by there husband's

It's a very big challenge facing marriages this day

The way I am seeing things
Men must brace themselves up because they label every potential husband a suspect
So nobody is safe

The only guarantee now is if a man ends up with a woman that hasn't been polluted by these ideologies

All Man should be very careful and cautious
Because we are in strange and alarming times now

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