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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Chimbinyelum24: 4:30pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
we used condom,and there was no complications during the sex about the condom.

How long did you bang her with the condom
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Barcalee: 5:12pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
we used condom,and there was no complications during the sex about the condom.

Then she's trying to put you on the spot some other bro might be doing her without your knowledge. If all you have said is the truth don't shift grounds tell her you have nothing to do with her pregnancy
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Starz825(m): 6:07pm On Jan 17
Umuinyioku:
Hmmm

Are you a Doctor?

Nah..I doubt I have to be a doctor to understand it.

I took my time to study it ..and experimented

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Starz825(m): 6:18pm On Jan 17
victorVIC1:


There is vital information that is missing in OP's post. When was the last time he had unprotected sex with her? Why is he silent about their previous sexual activities before her menstruation?

Don't bother yourself bro


The pregnancy is not for OP...

She did a pregnancy test before her trip...

Which means 1 thing - she was never pregnant before and after their protected sex that took place on 2nd January 2025...

That pregnancy test before her trip would have revealed her status if she was pregnant for OP...

It is good she did that test before trip....if she didn't...then this your question will be valid...
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by BABANGBALI: 6:32pm On Jan 17
Baba ibeji(twins), congrats o
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Raynald: 6:33pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
she did a blood pregnancy test on 27th December which came out negative, after the test she also saw her period, that put to a stop any possibility of her being pregnant..

Her menstrual period started on the 28th December and finished on the 2nd January which happens to be the day we had the last test before she travelled,and also it was a protected sex too.
Then the only way i can say more if you know your gf cycle,if its a short one like 21-24 days then its possible she got pregnant during that period but not with you if you so sure you used condom.The child may end up being a girl,female sperm tend to last like 5 days
Did you verify the earlier pregnancy test with your eyes or she just told you

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Umuinyioku: 7:25pm On Jan 17
Starz825:


Nah..I doubt I have to be a doctor to understand it.

I took my time to study it ..and experimented
Ok ooo... my brother.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by vine4god: 7:30pm On Jan 17
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Your banny went to play an away match and she conceded an own goal, claiming you are the goal scorer cheesy

Omoh,fear who no fear Nigerian bannies, whether home or away cheesy. They are all bunches of scallywags angry
is this your answer to op's question?
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by delishpot: 7:39pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

Wait and do DNA. What other advice do you want to hear?
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by delishpot: 7:40pm On Jan 17
Starz825:



The pregnancy is not yours

Simple...

..she bleeped someone else over there...trust women at your own loss...

My reasons:

1. You made use of condom..I want to believe you used CD cos of her remnants discharge that still shows when she's rounding up her period session

2. Sex immediately after period is less likely to result in pregnancy. Let alone the last day of period

The best time to have sex without condom are 1-3 days before her period...and 1-3 days after her period but beware of ladies with 23 days cycle....they can menstruate twice in a month sef... meaning they often ovulates...

There is 23, 27, 30, 31 Day cycle ..if stressed..some can be 32 sef...this one might not even see it in a whole month sef..and then see it immediately the next month comes in on 1st...

Ovulation period counts 10-16 days to menstruation

Your wife's ovulation period will be 1st -7th of the month.....if her menstruation will come up between 11th -17th of same month


There is a lot to understand about women.... guy.... women can not do without us...tbh...

Women who you see hate men...are women who

1 have had bad experience with men
2. Who has been educated badly abt men
3. Or who's just literally confused and may be too proud to submit.


Na Men complete woMEN....if not she for be WO..... grin




Talking B's with full chest.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Cousin9999: 8:01pm On Jan 17
Condoms are 85% effective at preventing pregnancy.

Just do a paternity test anyway.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Starz825(m): 8:10pm On Jan 17
delishpot:


Talking B's with full chest.

Say yours or learn bro
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by bahaushe1: 8:42pm On Jan 17
She is not likely to be pregnant, talk less of it being yours.

If her last period ended on 2nd of January and her cycle is 28 day and regular, then her ovulation should be around 16th of January.

Then, how could a lady, who is suppose to ovulate around 16th January, be tested positive for pregnancy on 14th January?

Unless she has ultra short cycle. And even at that, it is unusual to detect pregnancy within days of conception.

I strongly believe she is not pregnant, if the facts you provided are correct.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Rechargeam247(f): 9:03pm On Jan 17
Congrats baba iberin.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by nams77: 9:31pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
we used condom,and there was no complications during the sex about the condom.
Just tell her no problem.
That you will do DNA test when the baby is delivered, sit back and drink zobo and wait for the update which is, she lost the pregnancy cool

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by femi4: 10:49pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!
She can get pregnant even when menstruating....no absolute "free" period with women
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by victorVIC1(m): 11:22pm On Jan 17
Starz825:


Don't bother yourself bro


The pregnancy is not for OP...

She did a pregnancy test before her trip...

Which means 1 thing - she was never pregnant before and after their protected sex that took place on 2nd January 2025...

That pregnancy test before her trip would have revealed her status if she was pregnant for OP...

It is good she did that test before trip....if she didn't...then this your question will be valid...

You can't conclude. it typically takes about 3 weeks before there's enough hCG in the urine to produce a positive pregnancy test. OP does not need to assume any responsibility till the baby is born and DNA carried out.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by victorVIC1(m): 11:27pm On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
she did a blood pregnancy test on 27th December which came out negative, after the test she also saw her period, that put to a stop any possibility of her being pregnant..

Her menstrual period started on the 28th December and finished on the 2nd January which happens to be the day we had the last test before she travelled,and also it was a protected sex too.

As a fellow man, the advice I have for you is kindly do a DNA test upon delivery. This will set the record straight.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by EnterpriseMan(m): 3:17am On Jan 18
Someone tell him please grin grin grin grin. I once had a girl I was dating for 48hrs come to me and tell me she was pregnant and I told her ok, when the baby comes, holla me lets go do a DNA test, and I never saw or heard from her again till this day embarassed embarassed She knows you can't request a DNA test so she wants to award a goal conceded away to you. Use your brain.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by dopedealer(m): 3:22am On Jan 18
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!


THIS GIRL DE LIE .
I AM 1MILLION % SURE YOU'RE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT PREG.

First you said 2 days before she travelled you had a protected sex ..

Then that day happens to be the last day she is seeing her Menstruation . Ask any doctor in the world 4 days after menstruation you can have sex with any lady unprotected and she will never get pregnant. ( It's called safe period ) ..

NOW You have 2 defence !
You used a protection just after her menses and even if you did not used she couldn't have been pregnant bcus she was in her safe period .

No gree oh

Bring up this facts to her.

Lastly , she even did a pregnancy test before leaving.

Guy give us update after the bursting plz

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Psoul(m): 7:01am On Jan 18
Brimstone77:
she's about to travel, she's the one that needed a farewell sex though 🫠🫠🫠..

Besides her period had stopped before we sex.

Farewell sex that can lead to farewell to your life or healthy life.
Una dey get mind oo.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by buzorcharles(m): 7:17am On Jan 18
DNA the foetus
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by duduade(m): 7:33am On Jan 18
Dickson178:
DNA test na something of 1k? The way you guys talk as if it's that easy! Something that's about 350k per baby!

Yes I know it's that expensive...

But if OP want to see this through make e tell the babe
If na babe wey fear God, when he tell am say he go do DNA, she go disappear... She fit come back two weeks later saying she don lose the pregnancy and live her life as a single mother as she know say the baby belongs to another man

All these things na psychology!!!!!


All these
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by skywalker240(m): 8:11am On Jan 18
1Sharon:
Some tests can give a false positive. Some pregnancy tests are more accurate than others
Rest

The pregnancy doesn't belong to the poster
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by imagrg(m): 9:08am On Jan 18
Another paternity fraud looming!
You never know with women!
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by basadenet: 10:08am On Jan 18
Na lie except the condom was punctured before use.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by BabaIbo: 1:31pm On Jan 18
Brimstone77:
yeah it was the last day of her period, and we even used protection.


She dey wyne you or una two dey ign orant of her circle.

Normally, fertility period is about 11 days after her period starts and ovulation day is 14 days after the period starts and these are days she is likely to get pregnant, other days which are five days away from the ovulation day are considered her safe days, if you kn back her from now till tomorrow, she no go get belle because there is no egg for your sperm to fertilized which is the pregnancy you are talking about.

Sperm lives in a woman's body for about 5 days and the egg which she produces for the sperm to fertilize that leads to pregnancy don't even last more than 24 hours.

Looking at the date of your act with her in comparison to her possible fertile days or ovulation day, I don't think you own the pregnancy or maybe she preserved the sperm in the condom and used it for her own selfish reason close to or on her fertile/ovulation day or she play friendly or away match which resulted in that pregnancy on days considered to be her fertile days or ovulation day or both of you don't know how to calculate her flows or circle, maybe it was your previous knackikg that resulted in that pregnancy.
Yes, some people experience their next flow/period after getting pregnant, I said next i.e the flow/period following the day/moment the fertilization happens, it may not just be stable like the normal one.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by BabaIbo: 1:38pm On Jan 18
victorVIC1:


You can't conclude. it typically takes about 3 weeks before there's enough hCG in the urine to produce a positive pregnancy test. OP does not need to assume any responsibility till the baby is born and DNA carried out.

Exactly, the moment OP and his babe did the home pregnancy test is too near for the pregnancy test strip to detect enough component i.e the main component in the urine needed to give a valid result.
You can only be sure or get a convincing result at that stage had it been you did it in a hospital or clinic or lab.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by BabaIbo: 1:39pm On Jan 18
femi4:
She can get pregnant even when menstruating....no absolute "free" period with women

Are you joking or something else?
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by RONRIS: 1:43pm On Jan 18
It happened to me . my husband used condom and it resulted to pregnancy
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 1:59pm On Jan 18
BabaIbo:


She dey wyne you or una two dey ign orant of her circle.

Normally, fertility period is about 11 days after her period starts and ovulation day is 14 days after the period starts and these are days she is likely to get pregnant, other days which are five days away from the ovulation day are considered her safe days, if you kn back her from now till tomorrow, she no go get belle because there is no egg for your sperm to fertilized which is the pregnancy you are talking about.

Sperm lives in a woman's body for about 5 days and the egg which she produces for the sperm to fertilize that leads to pregnancy don't even last more than 24 hours.

Looking at the date of your act with her in comparison to her possible fertile days or ovulation day, I don't think you own the pregnancy or maybe she preserved the sperm in the condom and used it for her own selfish reason close to or on her fertile/ovulation day or she play friendly or away match which resulted in that pregnancy on days considered to be her fertile days or ovulation day or both of you don't know how to calculate her flows or circle, maybe it was your previous knackikg that resulted in that pregnancy.
Yes, some people experience their next flow/period after getting pregnant, I said next i.e the flow/period following the day/moment the fertilization happens, it may not just be stable like the normal one.
ok bro.

Thanks for your insight.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by delishpot: 3:44pm On Jan 19
Starz825:


Say yours or learn bro


Nothing to learn from the BS you just typed.

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