Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

EmmyOD:

Do you stay in Enugu ?

AfahaAbia:


How much is that? I want to do it for my Mother

MarveworldG:


Location please?

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

gigabyte13:
You still dey carry love for head with all these brouhaha wey dey Nigeria.
Be like you no get better workload
You still dey monitor her on her social media pages Abi.....
Find love again in another woman and moved on , stop monitoring her on her social media and through her friends.
Face your life.

efemena5050:
Let me help u out cuz hv been in ur shoes .....see it's a normal thing to think about ur ex ....infact the mind will make it look like u cause all the error in relationships......


Now the solution is this ...go back to her and beg her tell her u want her back obviously she will reject u and say no ....don't relent go back again do things u never did when u were dating she will reject u this time continue this recipe for 1 month each time she reject u .....ur brain unconsciously erase her from ur psychic and formulate her negative sides to u......when u do this over time her constant lay off of u will make u get tired and u will find out she was not worth it.........


Don't listen to anybody telling u to date another person in her place .....the new girl will remind u of ur ex......also don't try to bottle up the feeling cuz u will be seeing her even inside ur plate of food......our brain keep visuals of people tht were good to us later on ...

bigpicture001:


Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

bigpicture001:


Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits

imagrg:
She had a spare tyre, so she changed the previous one when it got burst and moved on immediately without looking back. But here you are, in a dilemma because you didn't keep a spare!

My candid advice is that you move on too. She's not yours!

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

Carndidlaydid:


Same old lame story

Women are always in a relationship for the benefits

Some old bs

akaahs:
This one no dey pay house rent or buy food swear. U no get problem r⅞

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

Mariangeles:


Men like you can NEVER get the blessings that come with having a woman.

sunsweet33:
Start doing simple meditations in the morning to clear your nervous system of painful emotions.

Kwinesther:
Not true, the love of a woman ( especially a naive, unexposed and innocent one) is genuine, pure, real and unhidden. It usually looks like women moved on easily because, those period you people were having repeated issues/quarrels, especially when she kept on emphasising on what you do that she hates but no changes or your on and off break ups and make ups, she was already detached emotionally. If the man is observant enough, he will notice the changes in her behaviour, which most usually ignores, during that period she has moved on already ,though she's still available in the relationship physically, you discuss, go out etc. Now when the cat is finally let loose and the break up is announced, the guy is heart broken and just trying to move on, but it is the opposite for the other gender. She was already long gone. Women are truly emotional beings.

AfahaAbia:


My mother is in Portharcourt

6ixT8:


How is this so called meditation rightly done. What are the core of it. I just don't seems to get it despite numerous research.

sunsweet33:


They all include sitting down with the closed in the morning while thinking [b]some specific [/b]reyesepeated thoughts…after a while you will notice your system will start to clear the trauma. In the morning when you are coming out of sleep , your mind is more receptive to information.

the most common in Nigeria is Christian/ Catholic / Islamic (thikr) mediation … then there are other modern mindfulness techniques from Eckhart Tolle, Dr. Joe Dispenza and co (you can check them out on YouTube).

There is another called transcendental Meditation that is highly effective but a bit costly to learn… I think somebody wrote about it on Nairaland here.

6ixT8:


Thanks for the feedback.

At the bolded, does this mean, that specific thought is what will hey cleared?

sunsweet33:


No it means that you’ll be purposely repeating something in your mind. Some words or phrases like “I am blessed” or “I am happy” or “God has great plans for me”

Then depending on which type of meditation you are practising, you’ll eventually see some change in your thinking pattern. Maybe better concentration, or less stress..

The body, mind, spirit and soul are all connected, so you’re using your brain to hack into those other ones and clear the negativity that must have been built up from past experiences.

6ixT8:


Thanks man. Uttering of this phrase is what I've being missing I guess.

So basically. The reason of rosary/tasbhi📿 is the act of meditation right?

sunsweet33:


Yes, all those things are different forms of meditation that carry similar psychological benefits by breaking into the subconscious.

Then there are online resources that help you to consider yourself. For example, you are not what you think but merely a container for what you think.

The thoughts you were having as a small baby are different from those that you’ll be having 10 years from now, yet your mind still remains to contain them.

So, when you have a negative thought, you can separate yourself from it, knowing that it will soon pass on its own without dragging you down into unnecessary pains and sorrows.

6ixT8:





Thanks.