Something like hypergamy at its finest

1Sharon:


They only rate them because they see them as an escape route. It doesn't make them good people. You know that.

That doesn’t invalidate what the poster said:

The best men for them na those ones wey dey back home

Because if you were to choose between abroad men that don’t have your time and naija men that will gladly marry you, the choice is obvious.

Drella:


That doesn’t invalidate what the poster said:


Because if you were to choose between abroad men that don’t have your time and naija men that will gladly marry you, the choice is obvious.

So because they have their time(for their own nefarious reasons) that makes them the best men? Is that a good man?

seetomorrow:



Accept her now, Bleep her online (video calls) and then call her sister and say to her you don't have anything to do with women in Nigeria... period.
It has to be 2:1 against her's

can someone be bleeped online?

1Sharon:


So because they have their time(for their own nefarious reasons) that makes them the best men? Is that a good man?

Between an abroad-based woman who brings a man from Nigeria AND an abroad-based man who brings a woman from Nigeria, who among the home-based persons have the highest tendency to fall out of love and take 50% of their partners worth after divorce?

You be mumu, why you no tell her wetin she tell you.

Drella:


Between an abroad-based woman who brings a man from Nigeria AND an abroad-based man who brings a woman from Nigeria, who among the home-based persons have the highest tendency to fall out of love and take 50% of their partners worth after divorce?

There is no statistics on this, I'd say it's a tie between them. As much as you all want to cast bringing wives from Nigeria, you conveniently forget men leave as soon as they get their papers. Or you want to pretend you haven't heard stories from that side?

Nobody wants what you're selling oga.

It's better for those single women abroad to remain single than bring any trouble from Nigeria.

Maria96:
Few years ago when i was processing my permanent residency visa to Canada. A friend introduced me to a lady in USA who was looking for husband. We got talking and told me point blank that she doesn’t date men that are still based in Nigeria despite being in the process. I told her cool and moved on.

Three years later she reached out to me on instagram concerning her sister who applied for student visa to Canada. As i was in Canada she wanted me to help the sister tackle the visa rejection . I gave her advice based on what i know.

She recently reached out to me to ask if i was single and wanted to link her sister to me to marry. Mind you the sister still dey Nigeria o. In my mind i was like you reject men based in Nigeria but want me to marry your sister in same country. Nawa. She is currently unmarried but has two kids now

Give her the same reply,you don't date women in Nigeria

1Sharon:


There is no statistics on this, I'd say it's a tie between them. As much as you all want to cast bringing wives from Nigeria, you conveniently forget men leave as soon as they get their papers. Or you want to pretend you haven't heard stories from that side?

Nobody wants what you're selling oga.

It's better for those single women abroad to remain single than bring any trouble from Nigeria.

In the absence of stats, you look around you.
The average woman GAINS 50% of the man’s worth with a possible monthly child support after divorce.

It’s a win-win for women; you gain papers,alimony, wealth you never worked for, and monthly payments in which not everything will be spent on the kids.

We hear stories and see videos of how women turn monsters immediately their Nigerian husbands bring them over. I have never heard it the other way round.

Drella:



In the absence of stats, you look around you.
The average woman GAINS 50% of the man’s worth with a possible monthly child support after divorce.

It’s a win-win for women; you gain papers,alimony, wealth you never worked for, and monthly payments in which not everything will be spent on the kids.

We hear stories and see videos of how women turn monsters immediately their Nigerian husbands bring them over. I have never heard it the other way round.

Oh interesting. So because you've never heard about it, it doesn't exist?

How you go hear am, when you chose to consume what suits your agenda?

Once again, nobody wants what you're selling.

Mouth like 50%.

1Sharon:


Lol. You dey sell yourself.

Stfu... I'm a guy. Ain't selling nothing.
Go get yourself a man.

When are you going back to Nigeria to get yourself a woman as well?

ghettochild:

Stfu... I'm a guy. Ain't selling nothing.
Go get yourself a man.

ghettochild:

Stfu... I'm a guy. Ain't selling nothing.
Go get yourself a man.

You dey promote yourself for papers. Werey wan japa.

He has already japad to South Africa...

I'm sure he's even looking for an SA lady to marry for papers.

1Sharon:


You dey promote yourself for papers. Werey wan japa.

1Sharon:


Oh interesting. So because you've never heard about it, it doesn't exist?

How you go hear am, when you chose to consume what suits your agenda?

Once again, nobody wants what you're selling.

Mouth like 50%.

I’m not saying it doesn’t exist. It is not just common.

We only hear such cases with naija men who marry extra fat and/or old women which is always obviously for papers.

Samantha125:
He has already japad to South Africa...

I'm sure he's even looking for an SA lady to marry for papers.

Must be nice

Drella:


I’m not saying it doesn’t exist. It is not just common.

We only hear such cases with naija men who marry extra fat and/or old women which is always obviously for papers.

Only YOU hear such cases with fat white women. Who is we?

1Sharon:


Only YOU hear such cases with fat white women. Who is we?

We can’t keep dragging this. But you know I’m right.

Drella:

We can’t keep dragging this. But you know I’m right.

Lol.

Maria96:
Few years ago when i was processing my permanent residency visa to Canada. A friend introduced me to a lady in USA who was looking for husband. We got talking and told me point blank that she doesn’t date men that are still based in Nigeria despite being in the process. I told her cool and moved on.

Three years later she reached out to me on instagram concerning her sister who applied for student visa to Canada. As i was in Canada she wanted me to help the sister tackle the visa rejection . I gave her advice based on what i know.

She recently reached out to me to ask if i was single and wanted to link her sister to me to marry. Mind you the sister still dey Nigeria o. In my mind i was like you reject men based in Nigeria but want me to marry your sister in same country. Nawa. She is currently unmarried but has two kids now

No mind them. People ask you to do for them what they’re unable to do for themselves

1Sharon:


Lol.

Seems I recognise your username when we engaged in similar conversation some 2 years ago.

Are you based in UK? If yes, you are definitely the one then.

tobore4u:
can someone be bleeped online?

Let her go naked while on video call, then if you like you record it and send to her sister over there.
Are you under age ?

Drella:


Seems I recognise your username when we engaged in similar conversation some 2 years ago.

Are you based in UK? If yes, you are definitely the one then.

@1Sharon is a Brit of Nigerian ancestry.
I once had a correspondence with her when she was complaining about how blackmen in the UK were only chasing white women and ignoring the black ones.I then told her if blackmen in the UK do not want black women,then the black women in the UK (especially the ones of Nigerian descent) should travel to Ngr.The blackmen over there will want them.She gave me a wishy-washy response and i kept quiet.
The real issue is abroad based Ngrian women simply do not want home-based Ngrian men because they believe they are beneath them.Its hypergamy at its finest form like someone posted above.

haybhi1:
Honestly. He ought to have told her this straight but he was scared of her because she's a lady. I bet he wouldn't hold off if she was a man.

Men who see ladies as very weak gender always gets played, Women don't hold back when they want to unleash whatever they want to men but will expect men not to reciprocate in same manner.

haybhi1:
Honestly. He ought to have told her this straight but he was scared of her because she's a lady. I bet he wouldn't hold off if she was a man.

Men who see ladies as very weak gender always gets played, Women don't hold back when they want to unleash whatever they want to men but will expect men not to reciprocate in same manner...

1Sharon:


Oh interesting. So because you've never heard about it, it doesn't exist?

How you go hear am, when you chose to consume what suits your agenda?

Once again, nobody wants what you're selling.

Mouth like 50%.

Women are prone to come out to cry louder than men, if it happens the world will hear ain't yiu a woman anymore or you don't know how you lot behave again?

1Sharon:


Oh interesting. So because you've never heard about it, it doesn't exist?

How you go hear am, when you chose to consume what suits your agenda?

Once again, nobody wants what you're selling.

Mouth like 50%.

Women are prone to come out to cry louder than men, if it happens the world will hear ain't yiu a woman anymore or you don't know how you lot behave again?.

idahme:



Men who see ladies as very weak gender always gets played, Women don't hold back when they want to unleash whatever they want to men but will expect men not to reciprocate in same manner...

Women are completely ruthless.
That is a quality i LOVE about them.Na men dey always dey considerate with them.Women no send your papa
If you be short man wey just approach a new lady for street,she go just tell you straight up :"I dont like short men"
Fvck your feelings

Ojagun:



@1Sharon is a Brit of Nigerian ancestry.
I once had a correspondence with her when she was complaining about how blackmen in the UK were only chasing white women and ignoring the black ones.I then told her if blackmen in the UK do not want black women,then the black women in the UK (especially the ones of Nigerian descent) should travel to Ngr.The blackmen over there will want them.She gave me a wishy-washy response and i kept quiet.
The real issue is abroad based Ngrian women simply do not want home-based Ngrian men because they believe they are beneath them.Its hypergamy at its finest form like someone posted above.

I thought as much. She’s more Brit than Nigerian, hence her skewed perspective about home-based men.

Asides from believing home-based men are beneath them, they also feel the men are motivated to marry them for papers alone, as raised by Sharon.
She has refused to agree to the fact that it’s mostly Nigeria-based women that marry our diaspora men for papers, act up, and dump the men that brought them.

Any Nigerian lady abroad that is serious about marrying should pick from Nigeria. Not only will the men be forever appreciative, there’s a lower probability that he will mess up as it’s a woman’s world over there.

seetomorrow:


Let her go naked while on video call, then if you like you record it and send to her sister over there.
Are you under age ?

For Pete sake not having physical contact shouldn't be considered as sex.

idahme:



Women are prone to come out to cry louder than men, if it happens the world will hear ain't yiu a woman anymore or you don't know how you lot behave again?.

You mean women are more prone to speaking out? Whereas the men bottle things up all in the name of being a man?

Ojagun:



@1Sharon is a Brit of Nigerian ancestry.
I once had a correspondence with her when she was complaining about how blackmen in the UK were only chasing white women and ignoring the black ones.I then told her if blackmen in the UK do not want black women,then the black women in the UK (especially the ones of Nigerian descent) should travel to Ngr.The blackmen over there will want them.She gave me a wishy-washy response and i kept quiet.
The real issue is abroad based Ngrian women simply do not want home-based Ngrian men because they believe they are beneath them.Its hypergamy at its finest form like someone posted above.

No where did I complain that black men were chasing white men and ignoring black women. I brought up statistics showing how relations between WW & BM TRULY ARE. And all you could do was get defensive and say I'm bashing BM. By that logic, the data is bashing you.

You didn't want to address the facts, the only thing you could do was deflect and say "go to Nigeria and marry" mtcheewww