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Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by DeeScan: 10:24pm On Apr 15
Okhuadams:
My pretty Samantha nairaland can't help her let her go to the SA embassy here in Nigeria


Pretty




You don't even know what she looks like...


😕😕😕
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Haydens: 10:27pm On Apr 15
Na for Nigeria sad afrika men gbola dey hard and their women toto dey wet. If Trump play with them small na piss all of them go dey piss.

Every question that was asked to her was all evaded, that shows bitterness and xenophobic mindset. Na seun I blame for allowing them Bathog abi Bathongs in this forum.

Bathog, warthog na the same hog end am more reason they behave and act like pigs.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kewekubosineh: 10:28pm On Apr 15
bigiyaro:
Having a Nigerian father makes her full fledge Nigerian, I don't understand this your "south African girl" thing.
Dowry was not paid. So, traditionally she's a South African.

Supposed dowry was paid, she becomes a Nigerian by inheritance or birth.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kewekubosineh: 10:30pm On Apr 15
bigiyaro:
Having a Nigerian father makes her full fledge Nigerian, I don't understand this your "south African girl" thing.
Dowry was not paid by the father. So, traditionally she's a South African.

Supposed dowry was paid, she becomes a Nigerian by inheritance or birth. Because we have patrilineal system of inheritance.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kewekubosineh: 10:32pm On Apr 15
glolomoh:


Before you embark on your ethnocentric and sarcastic expedition, kindly prove to us that the narratives is true by providing the following information:

1. What is the name of her father and step mother ?
2. Where is her location in Nigeria? We need her to support her answer with videos showing this location.
3. How is she being dehumanised in nigeria?
4. Is the allegation of physical abuse or rape coming from her or it is your own spice to the soup ?

If you are unable to revert with these feedback within reasonable period, stay goofed.

We are Nigerians, xenophobia is not in our DNA
Good response 👏
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by seppuku: 10:34pm On Apr 15
Kewekubosineh:
Dowry was not paid. So, traditionally she's a South African.

Supposed dowry was paid, she becomes a Nigerian by inheritance or birth.

Rubbish yarn, so if you impregnate japanese no marry am you pikin no be Naija?
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by IMPARTIAL: 11:03pm On Apr 15
She may have made up a lot of the allegations just for South Africans to come to her aid.

She cannot generalize that Nigeria is a bad place when even her South African ladies love Nigerians. Her father is to blame and not Nigeria as a whole

Make the girl take time oo.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by csamii: 11:25pm On Apr 15
Because of small inflation na wetin make her dey cry. Make she wait make Tinubu add more pressure sef.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Jamie248: 11:34pm On Apr 15
bigiyaro:
Having a Nigerian father makes her full fledge Nigerian, I don't understand this your "south African girl" thing.

She identifies as South African
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by jmichael259(m): 11:54pm On Apr 15
Samantha125:
Her mother was not married to her father and she still calls by her mother's surname...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
There's no such rubbish in Nigeria. A man's child is a man's child with full rights and respect in the man's household.
Allegedly, he also took her to Nigeria without her maternal family's knowledge. A parent doesn't need consent from any external party to travel to their own home with their own kid.

She must have grown and decided to join the japa band wagon to go and taste SA Or M
maybe recent events like the Chidinma saga might have rekindled in her that she's part SA and now thinks this trend is the right way to achieve getting there through media sympathy. Her dumb ssa
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:28am On Apr 16
KingCold:
She actually looks West African

Definitely not Nigerian
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Father4all: 12:36am On Apr 16
Sometime is wrong somewhere. The story is not complete
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by galantjoe(m): 2:12am On Apr 16
Mariangeles:
I won't say that she's lying, but they should investigate to make sure all that she said was the truth.
She must be a retired hole

After whiling away 15 good years to street now she regains her senses and wish to reunite with her maternal family
Wonders shall never end
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Originalsly: 3:15am On Apr 16
Hmmm ....that girl be speaking from her soul. No doubt ... she's hurting ... traumatized. Getting back to her family is one thing ...a matter of time ...but shaking off the trauma? ... I hope she can manage it .

We've seen here reports of women being cruel to young girls they're supposed to care for .... so it isn't a surprise they will really cruel this one dumped on them. Guess her father is not a real man ...real men are verrrry protective of their daughters .... it's in the DNA.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Shegebanza: 3:45am On Apr 16
You are home. Nigeria is home 🏡
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Berankis: 3:56am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Unfortunately, I'm not here to prove anything to anyone.

If you want answers, go and ask her because I'm not her... Xenophobia is not in your DNA indeed...🤣🤣🤣

And how can I make up something that she said herself? It's obvious you didn't watch the video.
This one is a content creator...
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by favour32(m): 4:10am On Apr 16
Nigerians are known to embrace other nationality with passion.
Xenophobic shenanigans?


No way!
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Jimmy231: 4:55am On Apr 16
Mariangeles:
I won't say that she's lying, but they should investigate to make sure all that she said was the truth.
keep shot
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by YoungestPapa: 6:17am On Apr 16
I think for whatever reason, she's formulating this story.

Its an emotional story. She's normal for most of the time and then switches to crying too sudden. it indicates induced emotional appeal to evoke sympathy and empathy.

Our eyes don't lie. She blinks too often to be truthful.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by BluntCrazeMan: 6:49am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV


That gaslighting statement in your last paragraph is so unnecessary.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by themanderon: 6:50am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Her mother was not married to her father and she still calls by her mother's surname...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Allegedly, he also took her to Nigeria without her maternal family's knowledge.

Now if she decides to contest for miss South Africa you South Africans would reject her and say she is not a full fledged South African. She is only a South African now because she is called a Thandeka.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by KingCold: 7:48am On Apr 16
favour32:
Nigerians are known to embrace other nationality with passion.
Xenophobic shenanigans?



No way!
Yet you do not embrace yourselves with all the tribalism going on over there. ironic isn't it? eager to please outsiders but can't tolerate each other
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by KingCold: 7:50am On Apr 16
IMPARTIAL:
She may have made up a lot of the allegations just for South Africans to come to her aid.

She cannot generalize that Nigeria is a bad place when even her South African ladies love Nigerians. Her father is to blame and not Nigeria as a whole

Make the girl take time oo.
You say she mustn't "generalize" that Nigeria's a bad place and yet in the same sentence you generalize and say South African ladies "love Nigerians" which is actually not true at all
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by KingCold: 7:52am On Apr 16
hatchy:
Sad Africans again?

These big headed Homo Sapiens who refused to evolve. Primitive Zulu people.
A Nigerian of all people calling South Africans "big-headed"..lol.. okay..
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Thewesterner(m): 8:27am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Where did I say I know🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
What's the meaning of "apparently"?

Dictionary meaning of "apparently"

"as far as one knows or can see"

You just saw a post somewhere... Boom you post without due diligence.
Who's more apparently foolish?
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Thewesterner(m): 8:32am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV
"Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria"... Says a South African?
Can you please publish your investigations report alongside the your apparent post?
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Exceed15: 9:04am On Apr 16
Fineman2:
How do you know she's been physically abused and raped?

Good question. We are not all fools to be carried away by exaggeration.Yes, she was Left behind.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Exceed15: 9:06am On Apr 16
Haba nah! Why una dey add salt n paper. Fine she's left back in Nigeria and wants to go back to SA simple.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by hatchy: 11:14am On Apr 16
KingCold:
A Nigerian of all people calling South Africans "big-headed"..lol.. okay..
Just imagine this one, so you want to compare your lazy, big headed, unproductive, HIV infected, primitive and entitled SAD Africans to Nigerians?

You will not make heaven.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by KingCold: 11:21am On Apr 16
hatchy:
Just imagine this one, so you want to compare your lazy, big headed, unproductive, HIV infected, primitive and entitled SAD Africans to Nigerians?

You will not make heaven.
LOL, lazy and "unproductive" and yet we're the ones sitting with Africa's biggest GDP right? How do those goods produce themselves?

"HIV infected" and yet your Nigeria has the highest prevalence of babies born with HIV on this planet..


"primitive" yet you're the ones who are leaders in open defecation and backward macabre ritual killings..


You're right with one thing though.. You cannot compare your shithole with SA.. we are light years ahead of you
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Freezyhot(f): 11:24am On Apr 16
Samantha125:
There's a girl by the name of Thandeka Xaba who's been trending and crying for SA to help her locate her maternal family in SA... According to her, her Nigerian father took her to Nigeria after her mother's death and abandoned her with his wife there, he then returned back to SA... She's been subjected to one hardship after the other.

Apparently she's been physically abused and raped in Nigeria while her paternal family rejected her due to her mother's nationality... Her mother was not married to her father, hence she still calls by her mother's surname... Fortunately for her, her maternal family saw the video and reached out to her... She again alleged that SA women keep dying mysteriously in Nigeria and doesn't want to be next.

I thought you Nigerian men always take pride in looking after your children, now what is this?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7J192FzlTDo?si=DZbaCI5GvHVUWvsV

What do you mean by "we are looking for her mum?" Isn't the mum dead?! Her case should be reported to NAPTIP, they will handle it properly.
Re: A South African Girl Abandoned By Her Nigerian Father In Nigeria. by Kewekubosineh: 12:03pm On Apr 16
seppuku:


Rubbish yarn, so if you impregnate japanese no marry am you pikin no be Naija?
Yes. Not your pikin because you didn't pay Bride Price.

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