nnamod: I have been married for over 6 years to a foreigner and we have a lovely child together. However, whenever I am in close proximity to a Nigerian girl I find myself drawn to them. It happened last when I was at a Nigerian Independence party, A very good friend showed up with his girlfriend and their Nigerian friends and siblings. I was overwhelmed with the urge to kiss one of the girls who happened to spend quite some time with me. I am not into the front and backyard assets. Is something wrong with me? or is it a pitfall of inter racial marriage?
Thank you

P.s

I would prefer respectful, civil and mature responces. I believ in God but please lets keep this as normal as possible. Thank you.

nnamod: As usual some "know it all" being judgemental. I studied abroad for more than 6 years and have been working over 2 years before I met my wife. Try asking before you cast blindly.
@kambo Thanks. Its just something I noticed and lately it troubled me. cheers

nnamod: I have been married for over 6 years to a foreigner and we have a lovely child together. However, whenever I am in close proximity to a Nigerian girl I find myself drawn to them. It happened last when I was at a Nigerian Independence party, A very good friend showed up with his girlfriend and their Nigerian friends and siblings. I was overwhelmed with the urge to kiss one of the girls who happened to spend quite some time with me. I am not into the front and backyard assets. Is something wrong with me? or is it a pitfall of inter racial marriage?
Thank you

P.s

I would prefer respectful, civil and mature responces. I believ in God but please lets keep this as normal as possible. Thank you.

nyere84: #smiles# wat can i say??

Naija babes..!!! We rock.!!!

Despite, wat the likes of 190, Red benson, Pleep, and oda NL guys tinks.

OP - Do you wanna die young, try getting tangled in a love nest with a nigerian girl and see the result

drnoel:

Bro, its the same problem we all face, by we all I meant most of us. Its not only you, most of my brothers that married caucasians complain the same thing. Especially when we go to parties and their wives stand out like sour thumbs. Its one thing my brother envy me about. I insisted on marrying my girlfriend who is Nigerian, so don't happen to have that problem. See, its left for you to work on your woman so that she fits in and doesn't stand too out but then we all know no matter how much u work on her she still gono stand out but that shouldn't be ur worry. Be content with what u got cos u went into it with ur eyes open.

I know one other case of an Igbo guy that so worked on his Polish/American wife that she could actually speak Igbo (with an owerri dialect), o boi respect. But then she was doing one masters like that on west african studies and was compelled to learn one native language so she chose her husbands (igbo/owerri). The flavour was nice cos the party I met them, the lady had lots of Nigerians flocking around her (plus those that wanted to snatch her from her husband).

Anyway to cut a long storey short. U got to work on ur wife.

met a german lady too with her husband who prepared draw soup and semo vita at the party back at leverkusen germany
while rapping some thick Yoruba admist everything!
I was impressed

@OP I feel you man.
That's why I decided not to date foreigners no matter how many of them want my babies....cuz I know at the end of the day it's a Nigerian girl I want to settle with.
Nothing beats our sistas for real. Wahala et al

well i think or feel the OP is just attracted to some DARK MEAT
Probably he should question and ask himself "those who are in a relationship with these DARK MEAT"
Why do they always wanna probably bail for their lives from these dark ladies they are attached it,
clearly sometin must be wrong!


black woman too get wahala abeg

190:




well i think or feel the OP is just attracted to some DARK MEAT
Probably he should question and ask himself "those who are in a relationship with these DARK MEAT"
Why do they always wanna probably bail for their lives from these dark ladies they are attached it,
clearly sometin must be wrong!


black woman too get wahala abeg

nnamod: @boobyman, my marriage has been fine, this is an attraction that's just come up lately.
@mrs Chima. I will be polite to you this time . You neither know what country I live , the years and countries I studied nor their immigration laws. Your first question was as assumtive as it is a question and you followed it up with your "thoughtless" (pardon my lack of vocabulary) dismissive sentiments.
Be reasonable , I don't think you are that naive,you are better than that.

2buff: @OP I feel you man.
That's why I decided not to date foreigners no matter how many of them want my babies....cuz I know at the end of the day it's a Nigerian girl I want to settle with.
Nothing beats our sistas for real. Wahala et al

....But the lovely lady you now have is a unique beauty too.
Remember you are her confidant. Her life partner. The one she forsook all others to be with.
Whenever you feel that way about another woman... maintain that state, but refract it instead to loving and kissing your wife. (I didn't say fight it. you go lose)
Don't entertain those ideas towards another woman again biko.

Mrs.Chima:


Then stop chasing a non-Nigerian chick. Simple as that.

2buff:

What's your beef today?

nyere84: #smiles# wat can i say??

Naija babes..!!! We rock.!!!

Despite, wat the likes of 190, Red benson, Pleep, and oda NL guys tinks.

Mrs.Chima:


Down scammer down. You worked hard for that papers boo boo

No need to get mad cos I know the truth.

What the F.... are u saying woman

What truth do u know

Pls go to the kitchen and cook for Mr Chima .

*A Naija wife will be in the kitchen cooking for her boo, while a chinko - - - - - - *

190:




well i think or feel the OP is just attracted to some DARK MEAT
Probably he should question and ask himself "those who are in a relationship with these DARK MEAT"
Why do they always wanna probably bail for their lives from these dark ladies they are attached it,
clearly sometin must be wrong!


black woman too get wahala abeg

sexkillz: I presume Candygosh is WHITE MEAT. . . Ehnwen.

Rooneyboy:

What the F.... are u saying woman

What truth do u know

Pls go to the kitchen and cook for Mr Chima .

*A Naija wife will be in the kitchen cooking for her boo, while a chinko - - - - - - *