my girlfriend said shes afraid to kiss...
the border of us kissing is only on the cheek and forehead..
she said she doesnt want to kiss on the lips coz shes afraid..
what shud i do? should i give her more time?

why is she afraid? well give her more time..she will come along

well i dont know..
she said that shes afraid..
she said its okay to kiss on the cheek but not on her lips..
i said ill wait..
but she said wat if the time never comes..
wat if she never let me kiss her..
duh..

hey dude.......... u got mouth disease or maybe u have big lips so she might be afraid you would swallow her up, how do u c that? huh?

T_T
naw i got sexy lips alrite..

@ thelastdon,

puh-lease who r u to stop me from commmenting ?


@ keele,

u'll have to give her some time ok? take it easy with her and dont push ok? Goodluck

thx.. T_T
really helped me alot..

@ kelee
do u think ur mouth stinks?
ur girlfriend will tell u better 'kiddin'
well i think its normal for someone that has never kissed b4. i used to say i'd never kiss cos its nasty but the first time i kissed, though i was afraid-i didnt have to show it cos i'm the man, i felt like i was flying. 4 real.
i dont blame ur girlfriend cos its kinda scary 4 a novice.

so give her some time ok.

ol boy.E be like say youe mouth dey boom.E get one dentist for my side wey i fit introduce you to.LOL
I think she dont just want to kiss you in particular.Leave her with me and she'll get addicted to kissing . LOL

Don't worry. It will happen soon enough. And don't go listening to those who say that she doesn't love you because she won't kiss you.

boy...the truth can be maybe the girl is infected and she doesnt want to transmitte the disease or sickness to you.... _{thats my real opinion}

thelastdon:

boy...the truth can be maybe the girl is infected and she doesnt want to transmitte the disease or sickness to you.... _{thats my real opinion}

But really, why would she be afraid to kiss you?...I don't think that's normal at all...that's just sad and weird

well give her a liitle space like 2 wek after then tell again and hear from her.

yea.. i guess im rushing things..
well we dated like for more than 1 month already..
i asked for a kiss on new years eve.. but she turned me down.. T_T
she said shes afraid.. dunno why..
but after that she gave me a kiss on the cheek tho..
well i think i shud give her more time ya..

Will the mouth-to-mouth kiss make you richer?

This is not an issue of mouth smelling, otherwise she'ld avoid u totally.

Truth be told. This girl is scared of ur love. She sees kissing as an oath that she be urs. She still needs time to grow in love with you. From what is happening, she's not totally in love. she still want to watch u for a while and prolly make her decision whether to stay or not.

If a girl is in love, she'll kill u with kisses. U dont need to ask her.

You had to bring S E X into this...didn't you? sex is not everything you know

this could be because she is not a good kisser.. its normal for gurls to be afraid.. i guess.

Afraid...he's not going to swallow her

pls don't forget she is african and she might be from a strong african heritage where its looked upon as an abomination to kiss unlike our white women. pls, take it easy on her she would kiss you someday when she's ready or you can just give her a surprise kiss when you fight and just tease her that that was the solution to you guys argument.

take it easy on her she would kiss you someday when she's ready or you can just give her a surprise kiss when you fight and just tease her that that was the solution to you guys argument.

Na Kiss hard to get like this , my broder e go take looooong before una go even talk about doing other stuffs

ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
the replies here are killing moi!!!

waooooooooooooooooooooooo if she is really in love with you
u're suppose to kiss her with out her permission i guess love
works with feeling abi ur mouth dey wooozzzzz?

hey dude, if she can't kiss ur lips can she should at least kiss some other parts

if she can't do that, may it is time i took u shopping...

maybe people get pregnant from kissing where she came from! ask her!
seriously, you need to talk to her about that since you guys already dated for a month! ask her if she ever kissed before! if the answer is yes, then she need some time to get to know you and your dentist before she kiss you! (joking) maybe she need some time! good luck!

Maybe his lips are too large and would suck the air all out of her!

Same thing happened to me because i was shy but all of a sudden,i just kissed d guy unexpectedly.My guy,pls how old is d girl? Her stage of maturity matters.

The kiss dey de use am collect money 4 bank?, abi IMF de use am give loan?

My guy, this kin kiss we don de make waves, b/4 una go graduate to another level maybe u go sacrifice ram or goat, b/4 una go come reach the main thing u go don develope grey hair wey get white toppings, b/4 una go come add the oral flavor u go don fry urself give am make she chop u with cheese b/4 she go come go pilgrimage

Ah, infact my man, i gbadun ur longsuffering. Ebi like say na u they make the quality 4. U fit change ur name to longsuffering or suffer long.

Hunnie, she might be afraid because it could be that she hasnt had a first kiss yet. See, it's kind of normal (not really)... for a girl to be afraid of her first kiss. All u need to do, is make sure your mouth smell nice (use mint and ish)... and then kiss her cheeks, go to her ear, and then look into her eyes.. using your hand to hold her face to be in front of your face, and tell her to look into your eyes.. kiss her forehead again, and then go for the lips... using your other hand to hold her body close to urs. I tell u she'll forget that she's afraid of kissing.

Dont just go in front of her, and bring your mouth to her mouth, or even ask her :can i kiss u now? I know u might want to ask for permission, but on the realz tho.. when u feel the moment is right.. just look into her eyes, tell her u love her.. kiss her forehead like u normally DON'T.. go for her ear (is it just me... or does is there really power in the ear) ..*my body is shivvering*. Anyways like i was saying, Just kiss her when u've gotten her to be in the mood. Good luck hun, and u also got to make sure.. your breath don't stink. Don't kiss her after eating pickle and onions.

BUT if your girl is head over heels about you not kissing her.. Just leave her alone and MAKE GOOD USE OF THE PART U ARE ALLOWED TO KISS. SHebi its' just lips u can't kiss. Go for the ear, neck, forhead, cheeks, neck again, ear again...

Plus... don't be sloppy when kissing her ear.. just bite em a lil, kiss em.. I swear to my black ass. When she see the wonderful job you're doing with those part, she wouldn't be able to wait any longer for u to kiss her lips and not just her lips... (also for u to do some magic with her tongue).

prince_onx:

ask her if she ever kissed before!

well this is her 1st kiss i guess.. considering im her first date too..

nana:

please how old is d girl? Her stage of maturity matters.

she is 21 this year.. ><

arghh this is killing me.. y cant i kiss her lips.. T_T
well its not like kissing her lips will make me richer but.. still i wanna know if she loves me deep enuf..
well cant blame it.. we are asians after all.. Kissing wud be too much for her i guess..