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Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Nobody: 10:06am On Apr 04, 2013 |
enemmo: No......No.......No...and how many have u considered? Lateron they deconsidered u. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Okijajuju1(m): 10:08am On Apr 04, 2013 |
enemmo: No......No.......No... If only you knew how guys really think!! I have a friend whose specialty is women who play hard to get!! He looks at them like a project. I know other guys who have been involved in relationships where s`ex was not a big deal and they ended up marrying the girls. Some of you say the men would call you cheap!! lol! You can only be called cheap if you placed a price on your vag!na. Its sex for crying out loud. If he brags to others that he f`ucked you, tell them that you also f`ucked him. #PERIOD!! Its all about a person sha!! A girl is not cheap because she sleeps with a man, she is only cheap when she uses her p`ussy as a tool to catch a man. 7 Likes |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by crackhaus: 10:08am On Apr 04, 2013 |
It just depends on how you feel in that moment cos if the guy is that kind of guy who gets you hawt all up in there, then I'm sorry but your choice of not doing it on the first date is gone with the wind. In other words, go with your guts...different for everyone |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by SIRKOL(m): 10:10am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Yes I support it!! As long as it is protected!!wether by continents. Or town d most important fin is vat there is a separation 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by IyfeNamikaze(m): 10:13am On Apr 04, 2013 |
SIR KOL!:thats all |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by nawtishawti: 10:15am On Apr 04, 2013 |
freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there any yep......... Meeee buh buh make sure u are either DANGOTE family or ADENUGA SON. freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there any yep......... Meeee buh buh make sure u are either DANGOTE family or ADENUGA SON. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by profchika: 10:17am On Apr 04, 2013 |
freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there anyu sure u actually need sumone. Go out to d streets. Flenty of dem. Huh |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by freecocoa(f): 10:19am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Its about you and want you want. 5ex doesn't guarantee anything, you could give it up on the first day and end up getting the ring, you can wait months or even years and still get dumped. Although for me its not just 5ex as some people see it to be, so I'd rather wait a while to atleast know certain things about who you want to sleep with(though people pretend but still), inshort there are no guarantees in life so na God go help us. 2 Likes |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by profchika: 10:19am On Apr 04, 2013 |
kay9:yeske. Trust issues. De wont be able to trust u if d relationship graduates. K |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by profchika: 10:22am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Ms_Pweshy: As the spirit leadsno be small fin. As d spirit leads indeed 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Okijajuju1(m): 10:22am On Apr 04, 2013 |
SIR KOL!: So make I enter 18 hours flight dey go China!! For over 10 years now!! Bros abeg! But we are still friends! Its like asking a guy if he cant give a girl money on the first day!! To me, yes I can!! |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Okijajuju1(m): 10:24am On Apr 04, 2013 |
freecocoa: Its about you and want you want. Thats why I love you!! #FACT!! Even some wey marry as Virgins still get dumped after marriage and kicked out into the streets!! There is more to life than just se`x. 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Boss13: 10:28am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Popowaa: U can do it if u want but some ill mannered men will use it against u when the relationship moves to a diff level and it can can be some trust issues too. Feminine insecurity. The world is changing and men are loving confident women and not insecured ones. I was with a lady yesternite - very hawt and sexy and she is so confident. She smokes too (something naija men will term as being wayward) and when she pull up her cigarette, the guys at the table struggle to lit it up for her. I termed that as being classy cos she knows what and how to do it. Plus she is a professional and earning good pay. Ladies be empowered no man would talk trash about sleeping with you on the first day and call you a LovePeddler. Matter of fact you are doing him a favour by sleeping with him and also enjoying yourself. Tired of the insecurities I see with Nigerian women. So old school. 2 Likes |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Boss13: 10:31am On Apr 04, 2013 |
freecocoa: Its about you and want you want. I guess our ladies na trade sex as a means of getting hooked up to marriage (smh). If you like join the police and become a detective so that you can know everything in man. If you love sex enjoy it and don't be sentimental about it. 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by jhydebaba(m): 10:32am On Apr 04, 2013 |
why are some ladies still bragging about playing hard to get which is out of vogue Abeg, fvck ur head off joor, first or last date. S3X iS CHEAP If one leg closes another will surely open |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by jeffizy(m): 10:35am On Apr 04, 2013 |
enemmo: No......No.......No...In that case, you need to really know the guy before going to his apartment. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Okijajuju1(m): 10:35am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Boss13: #GBAM!!!! The girl with whom I had sex on the first night actually initiated it sef!! I was still busy dulling and she just said 'Hey, I'm feeling tired, I'm off to the room'. Only for me to enter and she was changing in front of me like I had known her for years. We had mad s'ex that night and had a blissful relationship for about 3 years. Sex was never an issue between us, not even when we were quarreling. When a girl has nothing more than her p`ussy to offer, thats when she feels cheap whenever she has sex with a Man (wether on a first date or not). The one that irks me the most is when girls break-up with a guy, they start regretting ever sleeping with him!! Like wtf!!? |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by enemmo(f): 10:45am On Apr 04, 2013 |
c++_crazy: Sorry Dude. It has always worked for me. Anyways that's all past tense. Am very married now,and I never had issues with the opposite sex. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by claremont(m): 10:50am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Sex (safe sex) is meant to be enjoyed between 2 consenting adults. I don't see any reason why people place so much importance on a purely biological attribute that defines us as living beings. I would argue that there are much more important things that can make/break a relationship rather than sex on the first date. In addition, I would also argue that people who consider sex as a 'holy grail' do so simply because sex is all they have to offer to their prospective partner, they are seriously lacking personality-wise. Hence, what they lack in personality, they try to make up for it by telling everyone who cares to listen that they are stingy when it comes to sex. 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by enemmo(f): 10:51am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Okija_juju: You probably feel this way because you are male. Sex is very different from a female perspective. It's not just physical for most Ladies, They are probably giving you part of their "being". Just like if we go on a first date and I start telling you about my whole life history. Have to at least trust the he That's how i see it Bro 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by freecocoa(f): 10:52am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Boss13:If you understand english you'd realize that I never said I or ladies trade 5ex for the ring. I talked on a personal level when I said I'd rather wait, do you even know what I'd love to know about whoever it is I want to sleep with? Abeg carry your judgmental self shift. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Boss13: 10:52am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Okija_juju: God bless you and your household |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by MMM2(m): 10:55am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Plutarch: Sorry am not fake,am not a hypocrite & I don't talk 2 much. Am GOD son / money & d bad guy |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 04, 2013 |
TrixOfficial: Can you have sex with your boyfriend on the first date or on the first day of going to his houseit is never planned for. These things just happen. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by iyatrustee(f): 10:57am On Apr 04, 2013 |
first of all, Go down low! 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Boss13: 11:00am On Apr 04, 2013 |
freecocoa: If you understand english you'd realize that I never said I or ladies trade 5ex for the ring. Then my comment was directly at you. You can wait for all you care, it doesn't remove the fear and insecurities you still feel. The guilty conscience that haunts you when you do it and you pray he calls you back. The dependence you feel in your heart longing for a man. The amateur detective skills you utilize to fish out if he is for real. Gal emancipate yourself from the emotional sentiment attached to s.ex. A man doesn't attach emotions to the stuff in between your legs. |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by Booty4me: 11:06am On Apr 04, 2013 |
M M M: I prefer sex on d 1st date Incase you want to know who liked your post i did 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by freecocoa(f): 11:09am On Apr 04, 2013 |
Boss13:This here is why I still maintain that you are a judgmental dunce(excuse me on that) but you are talking as if you know me on a personal level, just why would you assume that I won't sleep with him on the first date for fear of him not calling back? What do you know about my 5exual orientation? Do you know if I don't even want him to call back and that's why I won't sleep with him? Do you know if the thing between my leg can accommodate his rod? Do you know if we like the same things as regards 5ex? Just what do you know to make you conclude its all about the fear of losing him? Again my friend, don't always assume you know what the next person is thinking, it might just be 5ex for you but for the next person its not. 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by IyfeNamikaze(m): 11:10am On Apr 04, 2013 |
enemmo:Beautiful girl, can you honestly tell us who is giving who during sex and after? Its your misconception that women are the ones who give part of their beings during sex. Its a big fat bursty lie. Now lemme tell you, during sex, the man gives his energy, sperm and kpekus(prick) while the woman opens are legs to recieve all the things a man has to offer. And even after sex,the woman will open her palms to recieve transport fare. E no easy for us oo! To be a man is not a day's job 1 Like |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by bbulldog(m): 11:15am On Apr 04, 2013 |
It depends on choice, but dat tin dey sweet like mard!!!! |
Re: Intimacy On The First Date: Do You Support It? by kekilika: 11:17am On Apr 04, 2013 |
jhydebaba: why are some ladies still bragging about playing hard to get which is out of vogue Abeg, fvck ur head off joor, first or last date.ring the alarm!!! Am of the opinion, ladies shuldnt n must nt give up on the first. But for d guy it alwys feel great n hasten up other processes |
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