i went to the clinic today i met a man who thought
i look good and healthy for someone who is hiv+and we got talking
and i found out he too is hiv possitive is been 2wks since he was told. he was able to open up to me he told me everything even the things i dint expect him to tell a stranger and how he thought he got the virus
his problem right now is he has infected his wife and doesn't know how to tell her. he said he moved out of their bed room to sleep with the children because he can't face her that she has been 100% faithful to him.
i am hiv+ and i have never infected anyone so i don't know how to break such a painful news to someone
please your sincer advice is needed.

Until the wife is tested there is no way to say categorically if she has it or not.

I think the man has to find a way to get all the members of the family tested first and if any of them is now confirmed, then he has to get his Pastors and other counsellors together and break the news gently to them including his own situation.

The only good news is that if he thinks that his wife has not been unfaithful to him then they can both take solace in the facts that it is something that is meant to be maybe from his own stupidity. It is a lifetime lesson for him and all the other men and women out there.

hmmmm

Have safe sex. HIV is real

My God!!!

vigasimple:
Until the wife is tested there is no way to say categorically if she has it or not.

I think the man has to find a way to get all the members of the family tested first and if any of them is now confirmed, then he has to get his Pastors and other counsellors together and break the news gently to them including his own situation.

The only good news is that if he thinks that his wife has not been unfaithful to him then they can both take solace in the facts that it is something that is meant to be maybe from his own stupidity. It is a lifetime lesson for him and all the other men and women out there.

Nigerians and this little people syndrome.

Is it that you lots dont have a brain to communicate with that a man will need to gather a pastor to have a conversation with his wife ?

A Pastor who probably is doing worse things, what exactly is the requirement to become a Nigerian Pastor that you people consider them as impeccable ?

A man does not need a Pastor to have a conversation with his wife, this is how you men loose all the respect in your homes when you do not demonstrate leadership and authority over your own family.

nairagenone:

Nigerians and this little people syndrome.

Is it that you lots dont have a brain to communicate with that a man will need to gather a pastor to have a conversation with his wife ?

A Pastor who probably is doing worse things, what exactly is the requirement to become a Nigerian Pastor that you people consider them as impeccable ?

A man does not need a Pastor to have a conversation with his wife, this is how you men loose all the respect in your homes when you do not demonstrate leadership and authority over your own family.

My thoughts exactly.

The way Nigerians foolishly worship their so called pastors.

I keep saying it that over 95% of pastors in Nigeria are fake and only in it for the money and free women that comes with it. Nonsense.