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I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by luxoire(f): 1:52pm On Jan 30, 2006 |
Just got out of a really good relationship that turned sour/hurtful..it was dragging on since last summer, but i finally decided to move on, now im with this guy...though it seems too soon, im in it for all the right reasons, the guy is everything i want in a guy plus he pampers me and spoils me, and im into him.But it seems his past has come back to haunt him..he's extremely good looking, and has never really cared much for any of his chick's feelings..so he used to be a bit of a stern/heartbreaker..only now, ppl keep running to me and telling me all sort of stories about his past, i know he's really down for me and wants something serious, but i cant help thinking or wondering/doubting whether im just another player on his chess-borad, or how long b4 he starts hopping around on me (if ever)..this is killing me, i've talked to him and he's reassured me time without number, i am reall stern on him & i almost left him at one point, but hes cried a few times and pleaded & i reconsidered, just cos its all been talk from other girls. all his family & friends know about me (though we've only been together about a month) but sometimes/everytime we spend a good weekend together, something/some girl just comes out of his past and sends me mails and msgs about his ways...some of these girls he had nothing with, that is the reaosn for their hurt...i dont know if i'm being too paranoid, or my past is affecting my future...we have agreed to take things real slow, but u know african women and their poisonous, tongues of gossip, they wont let me rest, its one story after the other..am i being too harsh on him? and passing judgment too soon (cos he has not done anything to make me suspiscious), am falling prey to these negative comments around me when i really shouldn't be? |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by smartsoft(m): 4:46am On Jan 31, 2006 |
Hey sweetie, You don't need to burder men, it out of Jealousy see people don't like to see something good around us, seeing them get them mad.. What you need to confirm from your guy is the truth, if he has things to do with them, and if he says know.. Well put all those people under your hand-pit and move on okay.. But learn to take things slowly and don't be harsh on him too. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by disney(f): 5:12am On Jan 31, 2006 |
Sup luxoire, Have you heard this song before titled " never mind them, that people will always keep talking" so don't mind the girls, they are just jealous because the guy loves you but girlfriend, you have to be on your guard because, this girls can do anything to spoil your own relationship with the guy. Also, you need to avoid listening to gossip from people about your man, hello everyone has a past , you had a past before you met your man and moved on, so likewise, he had a past, past is past and you guys are together because you are looking forward to something better in the future. So forget about the losers that are jealous and want u to dump the guy and you be surprise that the very moment you break up with the guy, the so called african gbegorun girls will be the one chasing your man. So just play calm and enjoy your man and surprise the so called jealous babes by inviting them to ur wedding when it happens. You go show them that you be real naija babe ok. u came and u conquered the guy's heart for you only and no-one else. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by hotangel2(f): 5:37am On Jan 31, 2006 |
Them girls are just hating that the guy that hurt them is now really in love. They are trying to make you hate him so he wont be happy or something like that. Dont listen to those girls. As long as your man aint done nothing to make u suspicious you are good to go. Then again, leave your left eye open oo. Shine am well well!. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Hotstepper(f): 5:46am On Jan 31, 2006 |
awww@ disney..i know dat song " neva mind, da mouth dat sayz bad things will say the good thing, don't listen 2 dem den dat they will talk and talk demselves into trouble"..itz sounds beta in IGBO..well disney said it all..itz all jealousy cuz he dumped dem..itz alwayz like dat..observe da dude well and follow ur heart ![]() |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by smartsoft(m): 5:51am On Jan 31, 2006 |
Word |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by luxoire(f): 4:14pm On Jan 31, 2006 |
thx to all of u for all ur support and kind words, i guess u all have a point, quite frankly hes been nothing but loving to me, and i guess i will just 'follow my heart' and let ppl keep talkin...thx for all the advice [b]ANYMORE SUPPORT IS WELCOME..thx ppl |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by snazzydawn(f): 5:16am On Dec 02, 2006 |
Much as I would say that they are jealous, I have one piece of advice for you, expect anything from him. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:15pm On Dec 06, 2006 |
@SNAZZYDAWN HABA! ![]() FORGET THEM AND STICK WITH HIM! |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Bolarge(m): 9:53am On Dec 07, 2006 |
snazzydawn:I'm with snazzydawn on this one. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by kkutecolo(f): 10:06am On Dec 07, 2006 |
Bolarge: me too all the way, expect him to do and undo. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by toyboy1(m): 3:03pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
Choose today whom ye want to follow - ur boyfriend or strangers!!!!!! |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Busta(f): 5:14pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
snazzydawn:word! the answer lies deep inside u. u gotta search for it. All the best! |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Eurphoria(f): 5:24pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
Much as I would say that they are jealous, I have one piece of advice for you, expect anything from him not a truer word spoken girl, well said. Lux, your story is similar to what i went through once and it turned out the people telling he was a player were very very right. Not saying leave him, just be careful. Enjoy the relationship and i pray he is the one and that he has truly turned the corner with you. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by eslynera(f): 1:26pm On Dec 09, 2006 |
@Topic, maybe it's true about your guy. But you also gotta be smart enough to understand the situation. sometimes it might be rumours, but u also got to think of the negative side so u won't end up gettin hurt. try investigation, if it's a waste of time then trash him, for he might as well be a waste of time, good L. ![]() |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by amodu(m): 1:36pm On Dec 09, 2006 |
I will advice you to ignore them, they are enemy of progress. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by fellow(m): 1:44pm On Dec 09, 2006 |
This is not a matter of boyfriend or strangers. I think the guy didn't help himself with his past and now its haunting him and wants to end his serious relationship but then the hardest thing to drop is an habit especially a bad one. But i would want you to be careful and try understand what really went wrong with your guy and some of the girls he dated that has been disturbing you. He might not have said the whole truth about them, You could also cajole those girls to tell you why they feel you should leave him. Its all for your interest ![]() Good Luck |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by eslynera(f): 1:55pm On Dec 09, 2006 |
nobody in this fxxing world says the damn truth about themselvz, nObOdY!!!! ![]() |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by LordReed(m): 1:54pm On Feb 18, 2008 |
Do a lil investigating urself n satisfy urself he is/not cheating on u n tell dem haters to go 2 bl@$es! |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by creamdream: 2:10pm On Feb 18, 2008 |
Pity.just a pity |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Nobody: 2:36pm On Feb 18, 2008 |
once a dog, always a dog. i will grant that some of them truly change, but most dont. i had this neighbour during service who was insatiable for anything with nkiruka and azuka. even after i'd met his 'fiancee' he was still making passes @ me. the annoying thing is he's a decent human when he isn't trying to reap where he didn't sow. and in the midst of all this, he had a girl who had gotten preggie for him. undeniably the baby was his. his stupid girlfriend refused to believe that her ass of a boyfriend hunted the girl down and got her preggie. she insisted that the girl seduced him, who had confessed to the girl's neighbours (asst girlfriend lived much farther) that his interest was genuine and he wanted marriage. only for madam to show up and for him to deny ever proposing. i still regret that boys didnt give him the beating of his life (they nearly did, but no one wants nysc carry over, abi?) girl, be very careful. the stupid girlfriend refused to believe all the guy had said about her not being his choice anymore, as well as warnings that the guy had been after 80% of the females in his LG. i'm pretty sure that even if he does get married to the idiot, he will continue his philandering ways after he's gotten over the thrill of being married. this post is too long. just shine ur eyes. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by v24m(f): 10:21am On Feb 19, 2008 |
A leopard they say never changes its spots, he might hv changed now for your sake, but his past attitude will crop up one day, u guys hv only been dating for wht a month belive me dear thats piece of cake for a retired player thats if he his retired. nd those other girls are not only aiming at but d guy as well cos of wht he did to them in d past. thats why one has to be careful wht one does in the past so that it doesnt come bk to haunt them. his past is haunting him it has noting to do wth u dear. all d best. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Nobody: 11:14am On Feb 19, 2008 |
Once a playa, always a playa. You'd be a fool to expect any preferential treatment unless ur tits are made of gold. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Bblak(f): 11:59am On Feb 19, 2008 |
Ignore the rumour mongers dearie but try and investigate on who he really is.GdluckMost philanderers appear so real in d beginning ![]() |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by sagitarius(m): 9:43pm On Feb 19, 2008 |
just close ur ears to these gossips,they bring down a lot of relationships, |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by annboga(f): 4:40pm On Feb 20, 2008 |
sweetheart,don't bother urself over nothing, aiight just keep up with all ur doings n pls ignore them all n stick (super glue) to ur guy, aiight |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Busta(f): 4:51pm On Feb 20, 2008 |
Topic is too old! |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Youngpo413: 11:14am On Dec 11, 2015 |
luxoire:You are correct,its your past that affecting your future,what goes around comes around,karma is a b!tch,its now payback time,you will surely have a taste of your own medicine...I hope he will Bleep and dump you sooner or later...b!tch. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Youngpo413: 11:17am On Dec 11, 2015 |
disney:you b!tches will never learn,no wonder you all are called fishbrains...wedding invitation ke,foolish things. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Youngpo413: 11:36am On Dec 11, 2015 |
Eurphoria:you ladies will not cease to amaze me with your foolishness...it served you right is an understatement. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by Youngpo413: 12:36pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
Busta:yeah,just like your busts. |
Re: I Get Messages From Other Girls That My Man Is A Player by misspicy(f): 12:46pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
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